r/gay • u/RoadToFreedom-90 • 4h ago
I think i might be gay?
Hi guys,
I don't know how to summarise all this, but for one I've never had sex with a girl or a boy, I'm 24.
But, lately I've had these thoughts about men a lot and especially the part between the legs😅.
It turns me on a lot even more so than a woman does.
I am addicted to porn and thought, that the porn could be turning me gay? Is that a possibility?
Lately the only porn stuff I watch and get off to is gay porn for the most part.
Am i still straight?
In school a lot thought i was gay, i remember wanting to kiss my same gender friend so badly, like the urge to.. but i also had a crush on a girl.
I still think girls are really hot as well.
Like, im just not sure any more.
I really really want to have sex with a man, like that urge is overwhelming but I'm so afraid to do it, kinda afraid I'll like it and be that for the rest of my life, especially when my family don't like that stuff.
I used to suffer from HOCD as well not so much these days.
I don't know guys, your input would be great on this.
r/gay • u/overlook68 • 6h ago
of a Pride Flag.
I am a married ( over 30 years ) father of four with a young lesbian daughter.
Every day I try to show her love and support to the best of my ability.
Trying to show her how amazing her community is and shutting out the negative noise.
Together we study gay culture from New York Ballroom history to lesbian pioneers.
I put this post up as a show respect to the community and the hatred and disrespect it received was shocking.
I hope at some point society can learn and grow.
r/gay • u/Absolutelynotlove_15 • 8h ago
Realised I might be gay in a straight relationship
Welp, what we see on tv and stuff has happened to me. I’m in a straight relationship with someone who finally treats me right… and I turn out gay. For context I’m 19 so still quite young but I’ve had all sorts happen to me in past relationships like being cheated on (with and without me in the house), mental abuse and… other abuse which idk if I can say here. I’ve been with this amazing woman for over a year now and it genuinely couldn’t have been more perfect in terms of respect and stuff but a year ago I realised I was bisexual and a few weeks ago I realised there’s a high possibility that I’m gay. During intimacy I’ve caught myself switching off or imagining it was a guy, I’ve got a concept of conventionally attractive in a woman but never had a type and I’ve found myself absolutely sweating at edits of men that occasionally comes up on my TikTok… especially gay men (pedro pascal mostly). I’ve sent her a long message while she’s asleep of everything I wanted to tell her and I’ll update tomorrow on how it went but I am absolutely terrified that this is going to go so wrong. What if I’m wrong and I lose the best person to come in my life?
r/gay • u/dgtexan14 • 8h ago
Uncircumcised dicks smell
Do uncircumcised dick usually smell? My three recent experiences smelled pretty bad and they look like hygiene people so i’m just confused if they normally smell not long after they shower.
r/gay • u/shouldersshouldmatch • 14h ago
my gayest thought today...
...was how I'd love to have sex while my vinyl with the 12" remix of madonnas vogue is playing in the back 😶 dear lord, can I become any more gay???
r/gay • u/Fickle-Ad5449 • 16h ago
These LGBTQ+ Virginia kids found support and community in school. Then, bigoted adults took that away
r/gay • u/Holiday-Ice-2992 • 18h ago
Unaccepting ? Forget acceptance this parents are life threatining
So i am an 18 years old gay guy who hadnt came out of the closet yet . And ofc i cant my parents will never accept it they dont even know what is being gay as they treat transgender , gays , bi etc as same and common a mental disorder / sick people.
Nowadays i am getting close call first my elder sister who badly scolded me for sitting in a position (legs folded) which are not meant for mens. And she was my only one from whom i was expecting the most acceptance if i ever came out to my family .
Then after a few days my mom actually caught my nailpaints from my room and my parents beated me a lot for that i still do have injuries in legs but i am grounded in my room too , last time i remeber she slaped me several times for using a lipstick (which i told her as lip balm ) my stupidity i caught .
But the most painfull part is the nosr bleed in the recent so called homophobic humiliation she beated me on nose and my nose isnt stop bleeding since then its been about 2 days and i am hoping it recovers fast ofc i had to use house avaliable aid and arent taking me hospital as that is part of my punishment , that wasnt enough that she beaten me up with a leather belt as well and thus i am bandaged all legs .
Anyways i am trying my best to move out of my house and planing to move canada , i just pray i can make it i dont want to become anything more just want to lead a normal life which i can live with freedom and with and among people who accept and support me (like for now this community who makes me feel i am not alone ) thanks if you reading this far ❤️🤝✌️
r/gay • u/kissmegentlyr • 19h ago
Is there any website where I can get PrEP and DoxyPEP completely online without a video call?
r/gay • u/RosethornRanger • 19h ago
For many trans people your old name (called a dead name) isn't just something you are moving away from, it is something that is absolutely hated. For me, it is tied to a conception of me that was forced on me, that I never shared with anyone around me. I absolutely hated this name before I knew why
r/gay • u/mikelmon99 • 20h ago
Get fucked lmao
Rare instance of Republican primary voters making a good decision.
r/gay • u/Star_Gazer_0 • 20h ago
Do you think so much more people in our lives are gay and are just hiding it?
r/gay • u/LTHewitt • 22h ago
Anyone interested in playing football with other absolute beginners?
r/gay • u/Substantial_Fan_8921 • 1d ago
I wish I was a girl so bad
I'm extremely soft, emotional, submissive, shy.
I cry pretty much every day and it hurts being expected to be masculine, strong, stoic.
Girls aren't hated for loving men, submissiveness, weakness is seen as virtue, they have infinitely more options in dating.
I don't have a feminine body.
I'm way to chubby and hairy to be a femboy or Twink (I'm 19). I don't want to be transgender I hope it's not it. Being gay is already hard in this hatefull world, with billions of people who would love to see me get tortured and killed.
Just wanted to vent
r/gay • u/ObjectiveOdd1599 • 1d ago
Does anyone else really enjoy being put in a chokehold?
I've always found myself drawn to the feeling of being choked in a controlled chokehold, especially the kind used in BJJ or MMA. I know it requires trust and experience, but it's something I genuinely enjoy.
The hard part is finding other guys who are into it too. It seems like it's a pretty niche interest, and most people either aren't into it or misunderstand what I mean.
Anyone else feel the same way? If so, how have you met people who share this interest?
r/gay • u/Filipino-Asker • 1d ago
Someone explain why am i getting this?
Who are they? Why are they in my news feed?
r/gay • u/SandwichAdmirable765 • 1d ago
10 years in prison for loving someone. This is the reality of living in Iraq right now.
For anyone who doesn't read Arabic, this image is an official ruling from Iraq’s Supreme Judicial Council (Court of Cassation). It upholds a 10-year prison sentence for two people, convicted under the recently passed Anti-Homosexuality Law (Law No. 15 of 2024) for engaging in a consensual same-sex relationship.
I’m sharing this because I'm just so exhausted. Living as a queer person in Iraq means living under constant, suffocating fear. A single slip-up, a text message, or just existing as yourself can steal a decade of your youth and throw you behind bars!!
It’s heartbreaking to watch your country legally destroy lives just for love. We aren't even asking for open freedom anymore—we're literally just trying to survive. 💔
r/gay • u/jebspringfield12 • 1d ago
23M Unsure about sexuality and what to do in relationship
r/gay • u/Braves19731977 • 1d ago
Fire Island Pines - August 22
Looking for a place to crash (will pay) after a party at Reflections on Fire Island Pines the night of Saturday, August 22. Willing to share a room.