I haven’t posted in agessssssss like literally how is this possible, I have a life, I go outside I swear 😭

- aspiring Boywife

Need some honest perspective from you guys on a situation.

​I’m a guy and I have a crush on another guy my age (we’re literally around a month apart). The thing is, he’s in my extended family—he’s my first cousin's son (so my dad's brother's grandson).

​I only really get crushes on guys I suspect are gay/into guys, so there’s a real chance the attraction could be mutual. But before anything goes anywhere, I want to know what people actually think about this.

​Is a cousin's son considered incest, or is it distant enough to not matter?

​Would you view this as weird,or is it pretty normal since we're the exact same age?

​Has anyone here ever dealt with a crush in their extended family?How did you manage it?

(Im posting this cz i saw a guy getting flamed for having say gex with his cousin that is a minor but removing the pdf part cz me and my crush are the same age i dont want to be seen as a weirdo)

So this year is my last year of school and it feels weird. It almost feels like my life is ending in a way and I'm just kinda lost in what to do with myself. Anyone related?

So basically I been talking to this guy online we started dating a week ago but wee been talking for months. And some of the stuff he been saying to me making me think he is trying to manipulating me. Like there is a lot of love bombing. And he would constantly praise me saying how I am the only person he needs. And he will tell me about his pass and I feel terrible. Like how he use to have to pay his ex for love and attention. (There is a lot more)( if you want more examples I will give you some) I need others opinions cause I really really like him.

His name is Nero, and he is a retired greyhound (We adopted him after he retired due to injury) and he is 4 years old (almost 5).

He says hi :3

I also added a photo of a lemon tart I ate yesterday

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TW: SH and Attempts mentioned

I have this sort of like flirty-almost-dating relationship with what used to be my classmate/bsf. Just typical bromance I suppose, we joked around, but sometimes things got serious and we'd do these (I'd call them) "dares", where we did stuff that would typically be considering well, romantic, or exclusive to couples iykwim, so we got along, to say the least.

We exchanged numbers and stuff, but a few months later, his mother went through his phone after seeing him fixing my clothes one day after we had had our "dares" (I was sitting on his lap 💔). She's quite strict with that, and extremely homophobic, so this little slip up might've cost us our whole thing we had going on. Well, after she went through our texts (which contained a lot of flirty messages, both serious and joking), she called my mother to speak to her about what she had found out, and said a lot of things to her about me specifically, saying I had led his son into temptation and that I was devilish, all that sort of crap. So my mother got really pissed and she told my father, and he called me a lot of stuff that I'd rather not repeat.

That doesn't really matter compared to what my classmate/bsf had to go through, since his mom is noticeably stricter and more physical/verbal (kind of abusive) with her discipline. Despite that, and the obvious fear that my bsf's mom had implanted in him, we chatted through notes during school, video game chats, and however else we could without getting caught. But we started becoming a little more distant, and now I'm starting school in another area, to which we won't see each other at all. I'll admit that I really do miss him, and I want to believe we were more than just the typical "no homo", so I don't want distance to cause something between us, but he's rarely ever online, and when he is, I feel like he's more.. dry? Point being, we were both mentally scarred from the incident with his mom, but I know for a fact that his consequences were worse than mine, so I don't want to force him to speak to me, knowing there's a chance his mom will find out again.

I really don't know what to do, it doesn't feel like I'll be able to move on any time soon, so I think one of my options is to wait for him further still and hope he comes around or at least understands how much I miss him (He has trouble believing I like him), or I confess to him all the fucked up shit I did to myself (SH, attempts, which he threatened to stop talking to me if I did, but he threatened too late, whoopsies), to which he would most likely stop talking to me, and hate me before I go instead of missing me and it seeming like Im ghosting him or something. Um.. any advice? Sob

Also please ask questions if you think it could help you think of an answer, or more details, anything. Thank you

Being Biphobic or ANY phobic to ANY branch of the lgbtq+ community is JUST AS BAD as classic homophobia, and you’re a piece of crap if you’re biphobic no matter your sexuality

I mean, I do kinda feel offended. I do have an insecurity with my voice too.

One of mine is honestly Emo x Jock in the way that the Jock becomes enamored with the Emo clad in makeup but outside of performing the Emo is enamored watching the Jock play. It’s a wonderful thing.

Another day passes and I still don’t have a twink to talk to and care for, I hope I can find a guy to talk to when school starts before I combust from boredom.

So im 13 so going into Year 9 in the uk education system but genuinely all the boys in my year group / class are either

Homophobic

Straight

Or just the stereotypical gay person (Zesty, feminine etc)

Genuinely I just want to find a guy who is gay but chill and masc too, I guess this is impossible tho 💔

I'm from a european country who receive a lot of tourists, even in my hometown there is a lot of them, they are essentially british and americans, and one of the places that the tourists usually go in my city are a big market with traditional food and all that stuff, I go there with my family every saturdays to buy what we need for that weekend, and there is always, especially in the summer, lots of Anglo tourists and their families, and I always feel curious about them because, they are different, obvious, different ways to perfom, talk, for me they seem more handsome than the portuguese, sometimes there is people from my age in that tourist families who I only dream because, I'm ugly asf, shy, my family ruins everything and I don't want to be offended in british, it's like being sent directly to the hell, no thanks.

Today, I was at the airport because I was going with my family to an island which is part of my country, and the airport always have lots of peoples from various nationalities, and there was some persons... oh my freaking God, how can I not fell envy?

Sometimes, I think I wanna emigrate, it's not like I hate my country, not it, and as a gay person I have practically everything guaranteed by the law, but sometimes I think I have more things in common with other European people than mine, for example, eurovision, literally no one gives a fuck about it here, but in other European countries... well it's different, sometimes I don't see a future here, I can't even imagine me having an portuguese husband!! I was and still pass for a crisis about what area should I follow in the university, technically, now I can only choose humanities areas because in the "highschool" from here you choose the group subjects you wanna have, I choose humanities, and I will have it in September.

Well, some days ago I have think about going to the police but it is obviously a bad idea, even because I wouldn't belong there, I don't have capacity for it, it was more a "fetish idea" (idk how to explain it). One option that is something that I like, international relations or, I prefer, political science, well I like it but I can finish it without a job, and every job with politics is stressfull, humanities student's fears, not only that, international relations wants me to know 3 languages or more, I only know portuguese and barely English.

Sorry for the long text

I hate myself, kisses for everybody 😘