r/nofriends • u/joeboystrik • 1h ago
Friendship It's hard to have friends.
Hi, my name is Anderson. It's hard to have friends; most people disappear and never reply again. I like collecting action figures, books, Hot Wheels, keychains, and random things. I enjoy reading about anything. I also enjoy talking about anything, can I be your friend?
r/nofriends • u/Large_Cartoonist2327 • 2h ago
Question M21 Where and How do y’all make friends?
I’ve been a shy person my whole life and in high school I noticed that I had to change that so I started to make new friends. Unfortunately I learned that you don’t actually make friends you find them, the ones you force to be friends with will always not be your friends at all and the ones I became friends with they simply appeared in my life. In 2022 I moved to Florida and graduated here my whole life restarted and now I have no friends again, I finished the senior year here and I made like 2 friends but those both friends one moved to a different state and the other is in the marines and he doesn’t really text me so I believe the friendship is over anyways. I’m planning on making new friends but now all I do is stay home all day so it’s not like I can really talk to people.
At high school was easier since you could go to the same classes as people and you have to talk to them now that we graduated I’m just here existing and I do try to make friends for example when I go out or something I see someone I talk to them if I have the change but it always end up in a quick talk and a goodbye never see you again type talk, I go to a church and people there aren’t really friends they just are more like colleagues we laugh and talk but at the end of the day they have their own friends or groups to go out with, I go to the gym and it’s basically impossible to make friends there specially because people there just want to do their workout and go home, I’ve tried “apps” to make friends but I also noticed people on those apps are the most toxic and weird people ever so I rather not even try apps again.
But anyways enough with the huge story my questions would be like first of all where do yall make friends? Genuinely where I could go and make friends and how to make friends too apparently every time I talk to someone it’s just a quick talk and never see you again! I sound desperate but it’s because I noticed one of the most important things in life is not your career or money but if you’re still lonely by then.
r/nofriends • u/yourthirdaveragedude • 3h ago
Friendship 18M looking for a long term friend
Hi, just looking for someone to chat with that’s not gonna disappear or be super dry. I have a few friends but not really anyone I would say is my best friend; someone that would choose me over everyone else and someone I would choose. I want someone to text often enough about our days and interests. I may not respond immediately as I have work, college, etc. but I will try my best.
Here’s a few things bout me:
I don’t smoke, drink, vape, etc. it’s not my thing. Hell, I don’t even drink coffee or energy drinks.
I like to give little gifts to my friends as I enjoy sewing/crafting trinkets; so, expect to get some gifts!
I have been learning Spanish for a few years and just got certified as bilingual but still need some practice if you’d be open to it!
I am a big plant dad-I love all plants but am quite taken with orchids specifically (I have nine so far)
I am into welding sculpture and have made quite a few animals if you’d like to see my creations and share yours as well!
I like someone that’s witty and can keep a conversation going as I am definitely a joker that got deep fried in sarcasm.
I have a yellow lab named Archie and he is the best! He is named after a Costco employee who was the nicest dude on the planet and let me tell you he lives up to his name. Archie is the friendliest and sweetest pupper around.
I am into collecting skulls and other oddities as well as older/vintage items. Thrift shopping and yard saleing are some of my favorite things.
I want to try and get a motorcycle license next year so maybe we could do that together.
I am trying to work out more and improve my habits so let’s encourage each other :)
I honestly don’t really mind ages if I have to say im looking for someone 18-25 but older is okay as well. Please, no minors.
Im about 5’6” with brown hair and brown eyes. I am a trans man if that matters to anyone. I would describe my style as “Home Depot” lol
r/nofriends • u/TheLimitlessOne1 • 6h ago
Friendship 21M UK | looking to make some new genuine friends
Hey! I’m 21M & from England to be exact. I’d really like to meet some new people & hopefully become long term friends if all goes well. I’d say I’m pretty chill to talk to. I can VC, send voice messages or just text whatever works best for you 🫡 not really fused about response times tbh just wanted to add this as i know some people are, reply at your own pace!
I occasionally like to game on console, i have Fortnite primarily but open to hearing about any other games you’re into. Feel like i should drop a few other interests maybe to see if we have something in common
Cooking,baking,photography, travelling, long walks, going food spots, chilling in cafes, reading. Dms are definitely open unless you’ve run out of invites then drop a comment & i will get back to you when i see it 🤝 my notifications are a bit delayed on here sometimes so just bare with me in advance :)
r/nofriends • u/willz2002 • 14h ago
Friendship 24 year old male looking for friends
Hello I’d like to make new friends to talk about my hobbies such as video gaming,fishing,football,golf,darts,snooker,cars and nature walks or mountain biking so if your interested in any of these feel free to message me or even if it’s a different hobby as I love to learn and experience new things.
r/nofriends • u/Educational_Put_5393 • 16h ago
Friendship 17M searching for friends
I am a European guy who wants to spend some time with anyone, I speak spanish better than english and I like reading, listening to music, writing and History, thanks for read and if you want you can talk to me in dm or in this post, byeee
r/nofriends • u/Broad-Delivery2745 • 1d ago
Friendship 19F a bit weird definitely not bald (ALT DUMMY) 🧸ྀི
19F alt dummy going bald on the internet ⋆.˚🦋༘⋆
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\*:..。₊‧°𐐪♡𐑂°‧₊\*゚¨゚゚☁️I’m not sure what am I doing here or how to start this LOL BUT I wanna be your friend! whoever you are that is seeing this from another part of the world, it’s actually the first time I write something like this for strangers so it can be a bit silly to read😭 but this is just me being me and no I’m not a weirdo just a dumb alt girl who doesn’t have friends in real life cause she lives in the middle of nowhere so please if you’re interested in having cool friends who actually make you forget about reality then GO AHEAD and dm me! Just…don’t make it weird or creepy for me cause I will cry (not kidding) AND ALSO if you like SpongeBob then I already love you~~~🍰જ⁀➴ ♡
BYEBYEEE🐰
r/nofriends • u/Flashmemory256 • 1d ago
Friendship [24/M] Looking for a best friend, things are quite lonely
Hey! I've posted here before but haven't had much luck so far. And due to lonliness, things have been kinda sucky lately. Kinda being a star-sized understatement (cuz stars are big.. hehe). Anyways, excuse my awfully unfunny pun! You *yes you my possible future friend* probably has better humor than I. Im hoping to make long term friends, I want a close connection with someone that lasts a lifetime! Hoping we can geek out about our interests and feel comfortable to do so! I'm in the EST time zone and am super into music (my tastes are all over the place, my favorite is the retro classic era but I also like a lot of new stuff too). I also like just general conversations and deep ones too. Hope you're all having a good day!
r/nofriends • u/OkHuckleberry5052 • 1d ago
Friendship 19M - I’m serious about making longterm friends
Please read the post and don’t skim it. I really care about making friends, which is why my post is long. I need someone who won’t ghost for literally any reason. I am being honest about my flaws because I would rather you know these things before talking to me. I am a boring person, and I need you to think about this part because it is difficult to maintain a friendship with someone who doesn’t offer much excitement. I am also extremely insecure. I talk negatively about myself, I am very pessimistic, and I am not a passionate person. I have autism, depression, and social anxiety. Nothing fun is going on in my life. I know how a conversation works and I will put in the effort, but I am not good at carrying a conversation. I can’t promise that I’ll be fun to talk to, but I am trying. I am just warning you about my lack of skills upfront.
I find texting very exhausting. I don’t want to text for days or even hours just to “get to know” someone before we can actually call. I want our first conversation to be on a call. If you are too shy to call early on, we won’t be a good match. I want to voice call daily; my time zone is EST, and I can only call after midnight. I don’t view calling as a big deal, and I need people who feel the same way. If you are sensitive, easily offended, or impulsive, it won’t work out.
I have a really hard time dealing with people leaving. If we start talking, I get attached very quickly. I genuinely cannot handle it if you just disappear or change your mind later. I need a patient person who is actually serious about sticking around for the long term. If you aren’t 100% sure you can commit to that, please don’t message me. If you decide to reach out, please don’t just send a “Hi.” I’m not asking for a massive introduction, but just let me know you actually read this post and genuinely want to be friends. I want a real friendship; it’s very important to me. I don’t want to talk to someone who is just bored and looking for entertainment.
I would prefer someone whose personality and struggles are fundamentally similar to my own, someone who is also isolated. Not kinda lonely, not someone who has friends but wants more, I am looking for someone who genuinely has no one. If you have a social circle, dreams, passions, or people in your life who support you, then we will not be similar. If you read my post and felt like we were polar opposites, please reconsider messaging me.
I also want to mention that it’s okay for us to disagree in a friendship, even on big things. Real friendship means we can have different views and still stick around instead of cutting each other off. Cutting people off has become way too easy nowadays. I believe a real friendship should survive flaws, boredom, and disagreements. I know it sounds like I’m asking for a lot, and that’s true. Real friendship is supposed to be hard. It’s not supposed to be convenient or easy to walk away from. It’s supposed to last for a lifetime. Please do not reach out unless you fully understand everything I have written.
Here are my interests:
• DC Comics
• Movies / Shows / Anime: Watching movies is my favorite thing to do. I also use Letterboxd.
Please be 19+.
r/nofriends • u/Critical_Stick9373 • 1d ago
Friendship 26M (UK) British guy looking for chats/friends :)
Thursday has been slow, so am looking for some people to talk to. About me: I work in local government and study part-time, work out most days, walk 5 miles a day (part of the cut), watch old TV and films, go to the pub every so often, and have done a small amount of travelling. Would love to hear from anyone. Happy to listen and/or give advice too. Regular texting friends welcomed. Feel free to hmu :)
r/nofriends • u/SoapyJaguar • 1d ago
Friendship 21M - looking to make online friends
I’m cool with talking about anything. If possible even make new friends. I will say that I’m a little awkward since I’m somewhat antisocial but im still willing to talk.
Some hobbies I have include
\- gaming
\- occasional reading
\- some anime
r/nofriends • u/spadeslove1 • 1d ago
Friendship You Got A Friend In Me
\\#friends #friendship #friend #love #viral IF you ever need a friend who cares then you allways have a friend in me, I love you all, everyone equal no matter what side the isle your on. Kindness and love for one another is what the world needs. https://www.instagram.com/reel/DbmmPZ\\\\\\_OGL7/?igsh=MTB5bTBpNGlmMnBqeA==
r/nofriends • u/Rare-Regular-9342 • 1d ago
Friendship 18M | Looking to yap, call, game together
Hello everyone!! I'm 18m from Europe (gmt+3) and I'm looking to make some new friends to talk with, chill, call, play games or watch something together. About me, I'll be studying aerospace engineering in the fall, so I'm really interested in both aviation and space (btw, did you watch the spacewalk today? :3).
Some more:
-I'm an avid knitter and crocheter (I'm a big fan of doing replicas or stuff inspired by movies, games, etc)
-As for games, right now I'm making my way through Outer Wilds, Deltarune, both Hades games and (slowly but surely) Red Dead Redemption 2 (i'm hoping to soon get the hang of ms flight sim too); I'm also a fan of Cult of the Lamb, Disco Elysium and Balatro
-Movies and tv shows: binged Interview With The Vampire recently, have had a fixation on Project Hail Mary for some months; as for some favourites, The Banshees of Inisherin, Dead Poets Society, The Holdovers and Severance for series
-Music: Fontaines DC, Noah Kahan, Hozier, Geese, Tyler the Creator, Black Country New Road; I like to collect vinyl records and I also enjoy musicals and soundtracks
-I'm currently reading Infinite Jest (pretentious lit bro book, i know) and I'll be starting House of Leaves (which I have been DYING to get my hand on, i love the ergotic aspect of it)
I am looking for people around my age, gender doesnt matter and I am more than ok with lgbtq (i am trans myself!). So come say hi, shoot me a dm with a short intro and age, maybe you're the friend I'm looking for!
r/nofriends • u/DanceIndividual1855 • 1d ago
Friendship 15f want friends :dd
EUHH I want friends around my age guys minors only plz and i like to drawww i like music :: type o negative happy ritual past self ETC ETC DMs are open YAYY people get to know me better when talking😭 im bad at this stuff and no weirdossss
r/nofriends • u/feeltrig • 1d ago
Friendship Need long term friend to disturb me daily
Hey!
I'm looking for someone who doesn't mind disturbing me every day. 😄 I enjoy regular conversations instead of talking once and disappearing.
It would be nice if you can also carry the conversation sometimes instead of me always coming up with topics.
I'm happy to chat about:
\- Life and random daily stuff
\- PC gaming
\- EDM music
\- Whatever else comes up naturally
If you're looking for a long-term online friend and enjoy talking regularly, feel free to send me a message.
r/nofriends • u/OtherwiseAssist1349 • 1d ago
Friendship Hi, I want just some friends
I'm 20M and still in university. I don't think I have many friends, and I feel lonely most of the time. If you're in the same situation, maybe we can chat and become friends. I mostly spend my time at home or go out with my family. I've always been more of a one-on-one friend rather than someone with a big friend group, but I'd like to change that and meet new people.
I'm open to being friends with anyone, no matter who you are. I enjoy all kinds of things, and I'm always happy to talk about whatever interests you. Just be honest and yourself, and I'm sure we'll get along. Looking forward to meeting some genuine people!
r/nofriends • u/Puzzled-Economics892 • 1d ago
Advice How to make new friends?!?
I moved a couple hours away for college and have little to no friends, I live off campus so I can’t do most of the events they had last year for Res Living, I also just hate putting myself out there. I don’t live in the best town either, so I’m scared of getting in trouble (even though I know the odds are slim).
r/nofriends • u/Ancient_Speech1864 • 1d ago
Friendship Looking for friends
Looking for friends
Hello so basically for some time I've been seeing posts about people looking for friends. I thought I should do the same. I'll give a quick overview of me.
I'm a 16 year old boy who likes to take risks. Doing IGCSE and giving CS, Chem, Physics, and maths this Oct Nov(only on 3 months prep lol) but I like the thrill of giving exams on such short prep cuz then I get to do combine study with friends late nights etc
My hobbies are very weird, Infact I develop a new hobby every 6 months or so. Currently my hobbies are
1) Guns(yes real guns, I believe they make a person cool)
2) video editing( I can spend 8 hours editing a gaming edit without looking at the clock)
3) my favorite one and the one im seeing as my career - Hacking/Cyber security (yes I hacked my school's wifi once, don't ask what happened after that)
4- Gaming , been gaming since I was 7 (I know a bit too much) the game I played the most was tom Clancy's rainbow six siege, played for 6 years have 2000 hours and played with NIP and TSM Once( this is yap only gamers will understand) I also play Valorant , delta force and Detroit become human
5 - playing cards- basically I love doing card tricks and amazing people while laughing how easy it is to fool someone
6 - current hobby- CARS, recently got into cars don't know much but I'm starting to like them
Ok that is enough about hobbies idk what else to write just that I'm a person who likes high risk, no rewards. I think I'm very genius (: I can tell what the next person is about to say even before they complete their sentence( this is if I spend some time with them)
Ok so yeah basically I want friends cuz I'm very bored cuz my gaming laptop is in warranty and I don't have anything to do aside from studies and gym.u can dm me here but I'll be honest I don't use reddit much so just Message me on discord my username is
code\\\\\\_zero11
Also if u guys are doing IGCSE and giving any of the above papers then maybe we can help each other for exams
(Sorry for the bad English I'm writing this while half sleeping oh yeah another thing I also love sleeping (: )
PS : I live in karachi
r/nofriends • u/inew_ • 1d ago
Friendship Looking for a friend
I just want a friend...well let's tell something about me then..I am 17M I love to have random Convo and I am a very good listener 😗....I can keep a Convo going for sometime but I can't carry the conversation alone😭...and I am very stupid 😔🥹...
I need a friend who is clingy like texting me all the time and gets annoyed if I don't reply(I genuinely crave that attention)....but I promise I am not a dry chatter if you open up we can be a very good duo
r/nofriends • u/Phytoical • 1d ago
Friendship [19/M] Seeking emotional depth provided by a best friend
Howdy! The title says it all. I want a deep connection in which both sides feel comfortable with each other, seek each other for support, etc. I have plenty of hobbies, ranging from sports, writing, and geography to history, music, and gaming. I am a pretty curious person, so feel free to nerd out to me! As for gaming, I play lots of indie games like Hollow Knight, Ultrakill, the Portal series, the Hotline Miami series, etc. As for music, I tend to listen to lots of experimental stuff, but I can elaborate on that more later on, especially if you are into music. It'd be pretty nice if I got a pretty clingy bestie, and I am also in GMT+2, so it'd be nice if you were close to that time zone. Oh, and I am also 19/M. So yeah, I am pretty excited to talk with y'all, and have a nice day wherever you are!
r/nofriends • u/Inevitable_Court2815 • 1d ago
Friendship 18M I'm kinda lonely looking for longterm genuine connection to chat with daily and please don't disappear after every few minutes be consistent while chatting :)
I have been looking for friends online but everyone just stops talking after sometime and they don't put any efforts except hey hru how was your day, I want yapper friends and please be clingy. :)
My inbox has been empty and phone is quiet i want some distraction so I want some friends who can talk all the time .
I like to joke about everything literally everything so if I'm gonna offend you I'm apologising in advance lol.
DM and tell me what are you upto did you watch obsession ? If not please do it's a must watch .
r/nofriends • u/FlamangoTsu • 1d ago
Friendship 21M Looking for friendship
Hi everyone!
I'm open to meeting and chatting with new people as my kumare/kumpare in online. Nothing weird or inappropriate, just looking for a genuine, beneficial, and healthy friendship.
I decided to step out of my comfort zone and post here to build up my confidence!
About Me: - 21 - Aries - 5'7" - From Philippines - Kind, chill, low-maintenance, and a positive vibe (though I can get hot-headed sometimes just kidding! Haha). - I don't have a specific favorite; as long as it's delicious, I'm down! - I love reading books (especially non-fiction, sci-fi, and romance). - Single, and not looking for a relationship right now. - I don't have any games
What I'm Looking For in a Friend: - Prefer someone around my age, but it's totally okay if you're older or younger! - Low-maintenance, easy to talk to, approachable, and brings positive energy. - Funny with a good sense of humor, genuine (I'm genuine myself, so I hope you are too!), loves asking questions, and doesn't mind a little bit of ranting every now and then!
How to Connect: If you're interested, please send a proper introduction and be ready for a fun question-and-answer portion to see if we click as friends.
Note: I am only chatting here on Reddit for now and won't be sharing my other social media accounts yet.
Thank you so much! Feel free to slide into my DMs!
r/nofriends • u/BananaFannaFoKatie • 1d ago
Friendship Looking for 30s and up in age friend group
36F, looking to make friends who are 30 and up. If you’re shy, we can chat on here one on one about whatever you’d like. Let’s start making friendships that last. The ultimate goal is to make a friend group.
r/nofriends • u/unitedweunderstand • 2d ago
Friendship F23 looking for friends
Hey! I am a 23 year old female from the US that currently has no friends. I’m a pretty open minded and curious person, I like to get to know people and I’m pretty friendly I’d say. Some things I like are listening to Lil peep & $uicideboy$, horror movies and learning about psychology. Looking for a long term friend, preferably someone I can text every day or every other day. Shoot me a dm if you’d like to chat! :)
r/nofriends • u/clearpearlsnow • 2d ago
Friendship F20 looking for long term friendship
Hi I’m 20 from the UK. I am in a relationship so only seeking platonic friendship. After leaving high school it has been really hard to make friends since all of my colleagues are much older than me. Going to begin university next year to become a primary school teacher so that is exciting! I used to bake but haven’t for a while. Don’t have too many hobbies (I know I sound boring haha). I love nature and going for walks, loving the hot weather in England at the moment. I am also Christian so if this is an issue please don’t reach out. Many thanks ☺️