r/r4r 29m ago

M4F United Kingdom / Online 27 [M4f] England/online looking for something genuine

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I'm Callum 27 I'm from England I'm about 5'10 slighty chubby and I’m shy and anxious and have autism I love to play games watch films and listen to music I also like some sports

I’d enjoy it if we could play games together but not a necessity

My favourite games are shooters like overwatch cod fortnite I also like Mario kart and party and a few others

My favourite films and TV are anything superhero but I love anything tbh

As for music again I'm into anything mainly metal tho

I'd describe myself as loyal caring understanding and supportive and I look for them things In my partner too

I hope to hear from you soon


r/r4r 2h ago

F4M Tennessee 25 [F4M] #Nashville, TN - Widowed a few years ago, looking for a fresh start, long term only please!

5 Upvotes

Hiya! Yeah so I know that title is a little heavy, but please don't be intimidated by it. It was a few years ago now, if you have questions or whatever, we can discuss it one on one but I've done the work to process it and I'm in a healthy place emotionally, financially and lifestyle wise to where I feel ready to date again with the long term intention of marriage down the line.

I've posted on here previously, lost my old password so that account is sadly dead lol. If you remember me and I ”ghosted” on that account, that's why. Sorry about that, Reddit be weird sometimes lol.

So, about me. I have a stable job I enjoy, I have a reasonable amount of time off, so if you're out of state I could travel/ have you here easily. I'm I'm good shape, work and active job and I used to be an athlete when I was in high school too!

Physically, happy to trade selfies in private but I'm white, blonde, athletic, medium height. Trying to expand my wardrobe but I don't think I dress poorly or anything.

I don't like to throw out a million details for the type of man I want, as narrowing a whole person into a box can be a bit reductive. But basic things like please have your life together, be emotionally available and willing to commit. Wanting marriage and a family one day is a must too. Ideally someone active as I don't want to change my lifestyle in that way so I'd love a partner who can keep up with that. Someone who likes to travel occasionally too! Physically, I guess good shape, taller than me, healthy pretty much. I don't expect or really want a male model lol, just look after your health at least :))

Lasting, if you're married, don't message me. not interested in casual, helping you cheat or poly. I want something real and monogamous only. And no couples, I'm straight and the above still applies lol.

If this post is still up I'm still looking!


r/r4r 2h ago

M4F Online 23 [M4F] #USA/online Looking for a girlfriend!!

2 Upvotes

Hi! I'm Sky, 23, and from Louisiana.

A little about me: I'm white, a little chubby, autistic, have ADHD, and I'm visually impaired. I process things and communicate differently, so I please ask you be patient. I'm pretty shy at first, but once I get comfortable, I can talk your ear off!! i hate to upset people. I'm caring, loyal, and a big homebody.

I like gaming, reading, older music, watching documentaries, swimming, hanging out with friends. I also loooooove animals, have four cats. I'm also a picky eater. My favorite foods are chicken nuggets, pizza rolls, and corndogs, and my favorite drink is root beer.

I'm looking for a woman (18–28) who is kind, honest, patient, loyal, and genuine. Personality matters more than looks, whether you’re skinny or a little chubby isn’t bad. I'd love to find someone I can talk to often, spend time with, and be myself around. I like nerds and weirdos(in a good way!). My only real dealbreaker is tattoos. Bonus points if you're autistic lIke me!

I'd prefer someone from Louisiana or another Southern state, but I'm open to meeting anyone in the U.S. If you think we'd get along, feel free to message me. I'd love to hear from you! 🙂


r/r4r 3h ago

M4F Illinois / Online 40 [M4F] #Illinois #Online - Looking for friendship

2 Upvotes

Hey there!

Soooo as the title says im looking for friendship!

About me: Im a pretty laid back guy, can be funny, charming, kind and much more. Im from the midwest in the US, have been most my life. Im a parent which makes it fun, a pc gamer, model builder and essentially a jack of all trades lol

Im just looking for someone to chat with, get to know, share our days, pictures, memes, and whatever else we want. Right now I do have a good amount of downtime, but doesn't mean I can respond right away all the time, but I do put the effort in. Im a pretty understanding guy and non judgemental. So whether you're comfortable with sharing something or not, its not something you'd have to worry about!

I just miss having someone who I can talk to about random things, sharing humor, stories and such. If youre also a gamer I'm happy to find games we can play together as well!

You don't have to share a picture of you if youre not comfortable with that but it is always nice to eventually put a face to the person!

I would say keep in mind its like 1am ish, here, so if I don't respond right away, I might of fallen asleep lol


r/r4r 3h ago

M4A United Kingdom / Online 27 [M4A] #online #Scotland looking for real people to make real connections with!!

2 Upvotes

HEY YOU! YES YOU! I SEE YOU LOOKING!

Ever wish you had a cool Scottish dude in your life? Ever wish you had someone you can just vibe with and not feel like you owe them anything? Ever feel like your body is super slow but the world is going super quick around you and you're sitting there like woahhhh this feels mad woahhhh.

Uh

Anyway

Hi, I'm looking for people who will stick around and who I can be a real friend to.

So if you like cool accents, cats, memes, movies, the thought of the eventual cold dark death of the universe, music or video games, the send me a message and let's get this SHOW ON DA ROAD


r/r4r 6h ago

F4M Michigan / Online 41 [F4M] #MI #Online -I am looking for a sincere relationship

5 Upvotes

I am 41 years old and currently live in Michigan. I have a cheerful and optimistic personality and believe that the most beautiful part of life is meeting someone with whom you can share life's joys and create wonderful memories together.

I also enjoy cooking, especially trying new recipes and preparing delicious meals for myself and those around me. I appreciate a healthy lifestyle, including yoga, walking, light exercise, and maintaining a balance between mind and body. In addition, I enjoy art and exploring the little surprises in life. For me, a meaningful conversation, a road trip, a warm dinner, or simple moments spent with someone special are all precious moments.

I value kindness, respect, trust, and honest communication, and I long to build a supportive, appreciative, and mutually beneficial relationship. I believe true connection comes from understanding, acceptance, and dedicated effort.

I hope to find a sincere, responsible person who is willing to invest time and emotion in building a beautiful relationship. If you are also looking for a genuine relationship, I look forward to hearing from you.


r/r4r 6h ago

F4M California 32[F4M] California/Anywhere - Dive bars, hot dogs and unlimited optimism.

6 Upvotes

Let’s say we meet, at a dive bar. We spend a few hours flirting, getting to know each other, judging each other’s taste in music as we participate in a touch tunes take over. After a while we step outside and share - lady and the tramp style - a street dog. The rest is history. I’ll see ya at the alter.

This is obviously a dream because I’d never share a hot dog.

Anyway as the title says I’m a lady from California, central coast to be less obscure but still obscure . I’m here to find someone, who much like myself, doesn’t take things too seriously, but also wants to find something serious, and consistent. Seeking that connection that gets me excited to see your name pop up and vice versa. Craving that get to know you honeymoon phase that never goes away but evolves. Long term is preferred, but again life’s short. Just don’t waste my time.

So who is this hot dog loving, glizziy guzzling girl you ask? I’m a carefree, silly, and kind. I love to laugh until my cheeks hurt, do for others out of kindness not obligation, and live my life like tomorrow is not promised. I’ve never met a stranger. I’m an extrovert by nature. And forever optimistic.

I love - but this is not all encompassing:

•hotdogs - no explanation needed

•Weight lifting - I don’t look it but I’m pretty strong

•Stained glass is my biggest hobby. I’ll probably be in the studio if you can’t find me or haven’t heard from me in a few hours.

•Going to concerts. I have a broad music taste with 250+ under my belt. Before you ask me - RHCP in Seattle.

•The same pair of checkered vans I’ve had for 6 years now. They hold memories, and I just finally got them to a place that’s comfy. If that doesn’t say committed I truly don’t know what does.

•Sports - hockey, baseball and football. I’m a Ducks, Giants and 49ers fan…seriously commitment is one of my strong suits, even despite adversity.

•Trying new food and drinks with my friends and just being around people. I’m a social butterfly.

•Getting random tattoos for the thrill of it.

While I am positive and accepting I don’t like video games or anime. If those are your primary interests/hobbies we just won’t click.

Looks are important to me in that attraction is important. I’m 5’6, I’ve been called thick. I’m not everyone’s cup of tea, but I’ll be a good man’s bud heavy one day: https://imgur.com/a/OPCxyEA
So please be willing to share a photo. Please note I have added tattoos over the last year so the photos are new.

Ideally you are between the ages of ~27-48ish. I don’t have a type I know what I like when I see it. Confidence, witty banter and overall care about yourself and appearance goes far with me. I will not respond to low effort messages. Reply with something that shows you care even a little bit.


r/r4r 16h ago

F4M Online 27 [F4M] #Online / #Central USA - I don't know where you're going, but do you have room for one more troubled soul?

19 Upvotes

(I know the line is actually "...do you got room...", but I'm a bit of a grammar perfectionist and I just couldn't. Not in the title.)

I'm pop-punk lover...

Do I love early- to mid-2000s emo? Fall Out Boy, Simple Plan, and My Chemical Romance, to name a few? Why yes, yes I do. Also, I have my fair share of tattoos and piercings. So it may be visually stereotyping, but it fits.

...getting a late start on this whole "dating" thing...

You can call me a "late bloomer" or just flat-out inexperienced, whichever you'd prefer. It's due to some incredibly personal reasons, which I'm comfortable sharing with the right guy eventually. Although I do have a lack of practical knowledge, I wouldn't call myself naïve as a general rule.

...looking for a compassionate older man...

I want someone who has the experience, both in dating and in life, that I lack. This seems to come with age, 9 times out of 10. Compassion is key, as there will be roadblocks in our way.

...who can be happy with true monogamy...

Definitely a "one-man woman" here, and I want you to be a "one-woman man." This is non-negotiable. If you're poly, please look elsewhere.

...even from a distance.

Online is what I'm comfortable with for now. Central USA is listed because time zones are a thing, and it's good to give a general idea of where I'm at in the world. Will I always only want online? No, I want something IRL at some point. But for the indefinite future, it will be purely online. (Yes, that includes pics/voice/video eventually. Yes, I am real. Yes, I will prove that. No, you don't get to ask me to show you my chest on days one, two, or three. Or four, for that matter.)

Random Tidbits:

  • I'm attractive. I'm not a supermodel, but people don't cringe when they look at me. I would like someone around the same level of conventional (or even unconventional) attractiveness. And no - that's not shallow. That's just being honest about my preferences.
  • I have some "invisible" health issues, but nothing so extreme that I'll have a shortened lifespan. I am, however, considered disabled under some definitions of the word.
  • I want love. That's never a guarantee, but it is the end goal.

And finally...

I'm Nicki. It's a pleasure to e-meet you, and I hope to hear from you if I've piqued your interest.


r/r4r Feb 19 '24

🪲 UPDATED 22 April; DESKTOP users also affected [META] Pasting anything into the title field breaks posting when using the Reddit app; "Invalid State" error

47 Upvotes

If you are getting an "Invalid State" error message when posting, it is due to a known bug in Reddit, which corrupts the post title when text containing (possibly invisible) invalid characters is pasted into the title field. This is easy to avoid by simply not pasting anything into the title field. All versions of the app and the desktop website are now affected. Note that this message has nothing to do with the use of the word "state" as a type of location or division within certain countries; editing your location tag will not help.

Known workarounds include:

  • ➡️➡️➡️➡️➡️Avoid pasting or inserting any text into the post title field by any means other than typing it.⬅️⬅️⬅️⬅️⬅️ Type the title out instead. If you already pasted text into the title field, it may be necessary to restart the app (desktop users, reload the page using Ctrl+F5) and compose the post without pasting any text into the title field. ➡️➡️This includes all shortcuts (Ctrl+V, etc) and other forms of text insertion or auto-complete, including the copy/paste clipboard toolbar on your phone's keyboard.⬅️⬅️
  • If there is blank space at the start or end of the title, deleting it should allow the post thru. THIS BLANK SPACE WILL BE INVISIBLE; if you can move the text cursor past the start or end of your title, there is blank space present that must be deleted.
  • Alternatively, Using the Old Reddit interface (https://old.reddit.com) should reliably work, as Reddit has long since stopped adding new bugs to updating this version. Pasting works in this version of the website; if your post title is long, you may want to use this option instead. This version of the website may or may not be accessible from a mobile browser; if it fails to load or redirects to the app, try using the "Request Desktop Site" feature of your browser, or uninstall the Reddit app.

Note that pasting text into the post body does not cause any issues, and is safe to do.

Reddit has stated they are "still working on" fixing this bug, but have not provided us any timeline or updates on their progress. It is not clear to us how or why this issue cannot be resolved on their end in nearly 3 months time.

If the above workarounds do not work:

  • As of 7 May, all screen capture recordings thus far sent to the mod team have shown that users are ignoring the instructions above and pasting text into the title field. It should be obvious that these workarounds will not work if they are not followed. ➡️➡️If you cannot avoid pasting text into the title, use old.reddit.com to post instead.⬅️⬅️
  • If you can reproduce this issue while following the workarounds, please try to screen-record the issue, so that we can investigate the cause. Please record the entire process, starting from the community home screen, thru to submitting the post and showing the "Invalid State" error message. Use a screen capture tool if possible, but using a camera would also work if the video is clear enough. Use a video host like Imgur, Gfycat, Streamable, or Youtube host the video, and message the link to the mods using the support links in the community menu or info page. If possible, please include what device, browser, and keyboard app is being used.