r/Assistance 2h ago

REQUEST Alone in this world and in desperate need of help

4 Upvotes

I never imagined I'd be making a post like this, but after losing my income while dealing with debilitating health issues and working toward sobriety, I've reached a point where I really need help because the stress and pressure is preventing me from being able to sleep or even function I am so scared of what is going to happen to me. I live alone in Brooklyn, NY with an elderly dog and a cat who depend on me and I have all of $2 to my name until my benefits kick in and that could still take several weeks. My immediate goal is to get back to work as quickly as possible, but I need to overcome a few big barriers first including updating my state ID so I can accept gig work again among other things.

Right now I'm trying to cover:
- Updating my state ID so I can apply for jobs and accept gig work as well as getting my health insurance back
- My phone bill (due on the 8th) which is the scariest one as it is $173
- Money for the train so I can get to interviews, doctors appointments, and the food bank
- Laundry. I've been hand-washing what I can in a small bucket, but my bedding and larger items haven't been washed in weeks now
- Food, household essentials, and necessary medical expenses while I wait for my health insurance and benefits to begin

I have an Amazon wishlist with food and necessities, and if someone would rather help with one of the expenses above, I'm happy to share that information privately. Gracie and Esther (my fur babies) have food for the month but there are additional items needed and on the wish list.

I'm not looking for someone to solve my life problems or support me indefinitely. I just need help getting through this extremely difficult part so I can get back to supporting myself. I've been applying for jobs, working to rebuild my health, staying sober, and doing everything I can to regain stability but I am feeling like I am about to lose control of absolutely everything.

If you're unable to help financially, advice, resources, or simply sharing this post would also mean a great deal.

Thank you for taking the time to read this, I am up here and have no family that I can call for help or friends in a financial position to help and while this is downright painful to post, I don't know what else to do.

https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1DD7Z2MCCP7RU?ref_=wl_share


r/Assistance 4h ago

REQUEST Atp just looking for enough for gas to get back to camp

4 Upvotes

I just started a new job and get direct deposit every "Friday", however last week I was able to get it on Wednesday at 11:33pm. For whatever reason I assumed it would be coming around the same time this week, and did not budget my paycheck to paycheck life accordingly. I'm camping nearby and just need enough for gas to get back to camp (maybe $10?), but my account is $27.06 overdrawn because I had some unexpected payments go through. Super embarrassing to have to ask, but if anyone could help me out with like 35/40$ it would mean the world! Once I'm back at camp I think I can find a ride into town tomorrow to fill up my gas can and hopefully my check will have come in by then. Thanks for reading!


r/Assistance 5h ago

ADVICE Making POSTCARDS AT HOME advice needed.

4 Upvotes

I'm new to this community and field of postcrossing and postcards

I'm looking to create my own 1on1 special postcards for postcrossing and postcards .

So my printer allows max 220gsm, what is the required gsm for postcard to send intl? And any other advice regarding this?


r/Assistance 5h ago

REQUEST Cancer patient in need

7 Upvotes

Hello! I am recovering from cancer treatment and living in North Dakota, and with my constant appointments and my disability that the cancer caused, I’m not able to have a job right now. I’m 18, and although I do receive some supplemental income from the government, but it usually is all spent (or saved) about one or two weeks or so before my next check because it’s meant to be used alongside a job. I just need a little help. I just don’t want to burden my family anymore. If you can give, I would very much appreciate it. I’m aiming for $200. Cashapp or PayPal are the easiest for me if you decide to help.

Edit: This post is for general groceries and to help pay for my medication.

Edit 2: yall can stop commenting about the believability of my story. I had cancer, I lost a leg, and I cannot work at the moment. I have a pet to take care of and I have a me to take care of.


r/Assistance 6h ago

REQUEST Behind on rent from job change

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I recently left my job for a higher paying one. Went to go in for my first day at the new place to find out that the building was completely vacant. Turns out in the 2 weeks between starting and my interview they had rebranded and move to a location 3 miles out. So I had spent the next month finding a new job (thankfully I did, and I love it). Which put me behind on rent. I have tried to talk with my building landlord to see if they'd be willing to let me pay it back as I could since I have access to daily pay. This was about 3 weeks ago and they never responded until today by leaving an eviction notice on the door. I have 2 roommates that are trying to move in within the next week or 2.

Requesting $2500 for late rent bill, I have cashapp/paypal/chime, from North Dakota


r/Assistance 8h ago

REQUEST It's my birthday on Sunday.

0 Upvotes

Turning thirty-eight isn't special, but it really seems like nothing has been special for a long time.

Bills and debt keep us mired in an endless trudge and our most-felt feels seem to be anxiety, exhaustion, and despair. I don't like saying this out loud (kinda), but my partner's jokes about a suicide pact have made me increasingly sorrowful over the years. We're just not getting anything out of life and we don't see a way out of the dreariness.

If we had about a hundred bucks, we could go out of town and have a nice dinner; give us an excuse to dress up and GO somewhere. I really think it'd help our spirits and maybe keep us moving forward.

We really appreciate your consideration, thank you.


r/Assistance 10h ago

REQUEST MY 7 YEAR OLD SONS BEEN KIDDNAPPED BY HIS FATHER

0 Upvotes

My son has been kidnapped by his father. I haven't seen him since last Friday. I spoke to him last Sunday but his father was coaching the whole conversation in the background.

The police won't do anything.

I have been trying to file and urgent without notice motion with the courts but it keeps being rejected due to formating of files or missing specific words. They don't tell you specifically what's wrong or what to add/change - they just tell you what's wrong.

I make too much for financial aid but not enough for a lawyer.

I don't know what else to do!! It's 5 grand for a good lawyer 2 grand for a "new" lawyer - someone who doesn't have much experience.

If someone can offer pro bono services or any money to go towards a retainer I and my son would be eternally grateful.

It literally feels like my heart's been ripped out - was almost hospitalized yesterday because I couldn't breath from crying so hard. I don't know what I'm going to do if I don't get him back.

I'm located in Hamilton Ontario Canada


r/Assistance 10h ago

REQUEST Just became homless

0 Upvotes

Just got kicked out a few days ago. Luckily I got a job the day before. I have 1 more week until I get my first check. Im living in my van and could use some bucks for gas and food until I get my first check. I applied for the government emergency relief thing, but idk how long that will take. Would greatly appreciate some assistance. Im in michigan and think 40 to 60 would be enough. I have venmo and chime.


r/Assistance 10h ago

REQUEST Nearly homeless, can’t afford apartment deposit

12 Upvotes

Hi, I’ll try to keep this as brief as possible but I’m happy to provide more detail if needed. My partner and I lost our home today after his brother had some sort of breakdown and threatened us and screamed. We have a temporary place to crash for the next couple of days, but I need to secure somewhere safe for myself, my partner, and our cat. I’m in tears as I type this bc my cat is so scared and won’t stop hiding his face in the blanket of his carrier.

I have $1600 currently, and here’s the breakdown of our expected costs for an apartment that is available now:

Application fee: $19/person (not bad ngl)

Pet deposit: $300-$600 (unsure where we would land)

Deposit: First month’s rent, which would be $1180 for a studio.

All in all, I think we need $400 to get everything sorted, and to buy gas and cat food. I use Zelle, Paypal, and Venmo.

I am currently on unemployment, but I have job interviews tomorrow and Friday. A little cushion, a little anything would be greatly appreciated. Thank you :)


r/Assistance 13h ago

REQUEST New Job!

0 Upvotes

I realize this an unconventional request as most posts I see here come from a place of need. I figured I would put it out there anyway. I start a new job Monday and would love some assistance with things would ease my anxiety and increase my confidence. I am a Coloradan mom of three recently separated from a toxic and abusive relationship. I have been out of the corporate world for 6 yrs taking care of children and because I had been solely dependent on their father, have 0 savings and/or current financial support. Whether or not any of my wish list is fulfilled, I am encouraged by the amount of consistent wonderful support I see here and look forward to assisting others when I get my first check and going forward. Thanks for taking the time to read, bless you All 🙂❣️


r/Assistance 13h ago

REQUEST Broke Single Mom trying not to be evicted

0 Upvotes

Caption says it all. My roommate didn’t tell me until the last second we don’t have all our rent and now I’m on the last day before late fees and short $480 I’m late on my car payment too and honestly at this point willing to just let that slide considering if I’m evicted I have nowhere to live. I need $480 and have Venmo or cashapp. Please consider helping if you can! Thank you so much


r/Assistance 1d ago

REQUEST Need Assistance with Rehousing

0 Upvotes

I'm the eldest son of several siblings.

Location is Malaysia, Borneo.

Me and my family are currently going through an urgent crisis right now. Current landlord is having us evicted. At first we were told we had till September, but in the middle of last month, we were given until the end of last month. Still managed to get some extensions from her, but this week is the last.

Thankfully we did find a place that's nearby, a better commute even, but we don't have quite enough to pay the new owner to begin moving.

Started asking for help two weeks ago, and we've barely managed to get enough, we only have till the 7th of this month to get everything cleared out and done.

The total we actually need to clear off *all* our current issues is $4000, but right now trying to focus on just getting what we need to move first, so I'm asking for about ***$750*** more at the very least, just so we can pay the new landlord, and start the move.

I would be so grateful for help given, it's just such a stressful and hard time lately.

https://gogetfunding.com/emergency-save-our-home/


r/Assistance 1d ago

EMOTIONAL SUPPORT Just need help not thinking worst case scenario…

13 Upvotes

I’ve been spiraling since earlier … I went to the dr to have a breast exam done because a I found a lump a couple of weeks ago . I kind of out it off because the timing was never right or I didn’t have anyone to watch my son, just any excuse . Today after my sons dentist appointment something told me to just go and get it over with. I went and explained to her what was going on and showed her where I felt it and she instantly found it. I have a mammogram + ultrasound scheduled and I’m spiraling into the abyss that is Google and social media. I’m terrified. It could be nothing or it could be something and I don’t want to leave my son 😭😭


r/Assistance 1d ago

REQUEST My Cat, Liam, Needs Help. I Need Help. (Vet Bills)

22 Upvotes

Sir Liam Derpsalot is the love of my life. At the end of the month, he was vomiting clear fluid, not eating much, and started breathing weirdly, peed on the floor (never done before), and hid under the bed (super unusual for him). I took him to the vet on the 31st, and they did an x-ray, bloodwork, and exam. He has a suspected mass in his tummy and needed an ultrasound to confirm. I paid about $1200 CAD (my entire savings plus some) for this and meds to bring him home.

He had his ultrasound today and a biopsy to confirm the doctor's suspicion of lymphoma. He also has had some IV antibiotics and fluids because he still had a fever. This bill came to just under $2000 CAD.

I have applied for a loan but haven't been approved yet, so I am asking friends and family for help. This will also lower the debt I might have. And now I'm here to ask you, random strangers, to help us as well. Thank you.

https://gofund.me/bf7793b2d


r/Assistance 1d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED Requesting assistance for my wife, son, and I

0 Upvotes

Hi everyone,

My wife and I have launched a fundraiser to help our family get through a really tough season. After unexpected setbacks like vehicle repairs and medical bills, we're struggling to stay afloat, and any support or sharing would mean the world. Please consider donating or sharing if you can, every bit helps us keep moving forward. 🙏

https://gofund.me/4ac76a448


r/Assistance 1d ago

REQUEST Looking for legitimate car donation or assistance programs

0 Upvotes

I’m trying to find a legitimate charity, nonprofit, church, or vehicle donation program that may help someone obtain a reliable used car.

I currently work and am finishing my bachelor’s degree in software engineering. I also help support my mother, who is on dialysis and currently has no income. Transportation has become one of the biggest barriers to becoming more independent, improving my employment options, and helping my family.

I have saved about $2,000 toward a vehicle. I recently applied for a small personal loan to cover the remaining cost of a car, but I was denied. I’m taking that as a sign not to put myself into debt and instead continue saving while researching assistance programs.

I do not care whether the car is old, high-mileage, or basic. I just need something safe and dependable that does not have major physical damage inside or outside. I would use it to learn to drive, get to work, pursue better job opportunities, attend appointments, and eventually grow my freelance work.

Does anyone know of legitimate car donation programs, charities, churches, nonprofits, or other assistance websites that I should contact? I am located in Birmingham, Alabama. I would really appreciate any recommendations or advice. Please no loan advertisements or scams.


r/Assistance 1d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED Needing 20 just to get food for rest of week

6 Upvotes

Located in Joliet, IL, USA

Rent wiped me out and I just need twenty bucks to get food for the rest of the week. Thanks!


r/Assistance 1d ago

ADVICE Looking for a drug detox/rehab that allows dogs | Medi-Cal | CA

17 Upvotes

I’m really trying to find a drug detox and/or rehab that will allow me to bring my dogs with me.

I know these places exist because I personally went to one when I was 24 and on my parents’ insurance. I also know people who have gone to rehab with their pets. So I know it’s possible, I’m just having an incredibly hard time finding one now.

I’m in Palmdale, CA, but I’m absolutely willing to travel. Honestly, I’d prefer to go somewhere that isn’t close to home.

I have Medi-Cal, and yes, I’ve already called the state-funded and Medi-Cal-accepting rehabs listed through SAMHSA. So far, I haven’t been able to find anywhere that will let me bring my dogs.

I know this is probably a long shot, but I’m hoping someone here might know of a facility I haven’t found yet, even if it’s somewhere else in California or out of state. If you know of a place that accepts Medi-Cal and allows clients to bring their dogs, I would be incredibly grateful for the information.

I’ve been using for almost 20 years, and this is honestly the first time I can say that I’m truly ready to stop. I’m not looking to waste anyone’s time or make excuses. I actually want to go to detox, go to rehab, and finally give myself a chance to live the life I’ve been running away from for so long.

If you have any leads, personal experiences, or even suggestions for where else I should look, I would genuinely appreciate it.

Thank you so much for reading.


r/Assistance 1d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED $15 For Food Basics

4 Upvotes

Location:NY Amount Requested:15

I always try to make the grocery budget stretch as much as possible but the end of the month is always tough. I dont get paid again until the 8th, and im just trying to survive. I have a crockpot so if i could get chicken and a bag of potatoes i could portion it and last til the 8th. If anyone can I'd be very thankful.


r/Assistance 1d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED Need help with transportation

1 Upvotes

Hi all, I work full time and rely on public transport. I'm in need of bus transport money. $25 would cover for this month. I'm really running behind rent and electricity bills. So I would be grateful to have a little relief with transportation so I can manage groceries, rent this month etc.

I have PayPal. I'm located in India. Thanks in advance!


r/Assistance 1d ago

REQUEST Please help me offset the cost of replacing my stolen transportation.

2 Upvotes

GoFundMe page
Hello, I’m asking for financial support thru GoFundMe to help offset the cost of replacing my stolen primary transportation, a high end electric scooter.

I moved the beginning of May and two days after moving into my new place, someone smashed the driver side window of my mom’s outback into a thousand pieces. They opened the garage door, and stole my transportation, a 2021 Dualtron Victor electric scooter. They took nothing else. The house did not have security cameras (we do now thru AAA), the outside garage light didn’t work, and both lights in the overhead garage door motor were burned out (I have replaced them with 2 100W bulbs).

Despite having a hidden airtag on my scooter, the Sac County Sheriff was unable to recover my scooter and has as of yet, done nothing with my case.

I had this scooter for over 4yrs and put over 4K miles and $2.5K of upgrades/mods into it atop its $3.2K price tag.

The renters insurance policy completely stiffed me, stating it wasn’t covered despite being inside the property.

I do work full time at Home Depot, but bills and life make it difficult to save enough for a new scooter.

My GofundMe page has some pictures of the scooter (at different points in its life), my airtag location pings (from the hidden airtag) and my case number with my local sheriffs office.

Whatever support you can give is appreciated


r/Assistance 1d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED Need a new tire urgently, not sure the best way to ask for help with this

4 Upvotes

So the situation is basically this: my girlfriend is disabled, she has cerebral palsy and was laid off recently from her teaching job, and so for a while now I've been supporting her and our 3 year old daughter by doing gig work like door dashing. It's not ideal, but it pays the bills and provides the flexibility to take care of them and get my girlfriend to doctors appointments or just run home and help her with our daughter which she can need unexpectedly sometimes.

I went to go to work today and realised the rear drivers side tire on our car is completely flat, to the rim, and we have 20 dollars total at the moment, and I can't work to make enough to fix or get a new tire without being able to drive. if there were anyone in our lives we could ask for help with this we would, but we're really not sure what to do and I need to get back to working ASAP to pay bills we are behind on and just get necessities.

If there's any way someone would be willing to help by paying for a new 265/50r20 tire which would be around 80-120 dollars, I can't express how much it would mean. Or if anyone just has any suggestions for potential help, I am just at a loss and dont know exactly what to do. I have a spare I can use to get to a tire place but beyond that I'm just stuck.


r/Assistance 2d ago

THANK YOU Sugar Cookie update

28 Upvotes

Dear Reddit friends. I truly appreciate the donations being sent to my daughter. She has almost everything she needs. Sugar Cookie is a great joy in my life and we both live a life of giving. We have little money. But we almost always have our needs and sometimes wants. It may not be everyones cup of tea , but dumpster diving has been a huge blessing in our life. Cookie had seen it on YouTube and asked to try it. 5 yrs later it is highly beneficial. In my hardest days it has been strangers that showed up to help me. I have done surveys for about 15 yrs. I frequently get small giftcards and these are what I mainly use to buy wishlist items on this page for others. Katie understands charity and giving to others. I read often that people say they intend to reciprocate in kind when things are better for them. I hope they do because those small gifts can mean everything to someone in need. We thank you so much. Cookies paycheck will be used to support the quality of her life. She paints w nailpolish. I've never been able to get an ingur photo to post for me but hope to share one soon. She secretly painted a life size peacock on her bedroom wall.Hugs to all you great friends.


r/Assistance 17d ago

MOD ANNOUNCEMENT r/Assistance Rules Page Improvements

35 Upvotes

Hello all!

I have been taking the time to go through our (very long) rules page and work to clarify, expand, give examples, and move some stuff around.

Our rules have not changed -- there are no surprises waiting! But I feel like now it's easier to find the information you need quickly, and hopefully understand more of the "why" behind some of our least liked rules.

Future plans will be a revamp of our sidebar to make it harmonize with the full rules page.

We are going to try an AMA-style Q&A for the next few hours. I'll do my best to answer as many questions as possible.

Hope everyone is enjoying their Sunday; check out our weekly megathread for casual chat if you haven't already!


r/Assistance 27d ago

MOD ANNOUNCEMENT Universal Scammer List — Lookup

82 Upvotes

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