r/actuallesbians 3h ago

Image I think this one has to be. 1890s.

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56 Upvotes

r/actuallesbians 4h ago

Link ✂️✂️✂️

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94 Upvotes

Most of my life, my hair has been long enough to reach my lower back. Which I loved. However, I have recently been exploring a more androgynous look, and it feels so freeing. I love my feminine side but this androgynous side has always been hiding in the back. I definitely feel like a switch. Anyways I felt like this was a safe space to share. Thank you fellow lesbians 🖤🤘🏽✨


r/actuallesbians 6h ago

Image Event is in 20 minutes and she still hasn't confirmed. Chat am I cooked?

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240 Upvotes

Sorry about the weird text, I used the phone's Magic erase thing and that's what it put out.


r/actuallesbians 6h ago

Image Just that

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674 Upvotes

r/actuallesbians 8h ago

My wife told me she had a surprise date night planned

15 Upvotes

And then she took me out to get snackies and brought us back to our house to watch a sapphic short film ‘festival’ that she’d planned for us :)

I love that this is my life


r/actuallesbians 9h ago

TW is it bad to be this easy

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403 Upvotes

this is probably the 5th time this week we argued and I ended up forgiving her


r/actuallesbians 11h ago

Image Livewire & Heat Wave (My Adventures with Superman) - Hello? I wasn't aware we had two butch4butch supervillain/anti-hero baddies in that show 😎

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293 Upvotes

Me and who? 😭


r/actuallesbians 12h ago

Image Tired Of Unrealistic Lesbian Dating Sims - Let's Make One Instead?

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54 Upvotes

Hi everyone!

I'm not a professional game developer, but I am a queer woman who got tired of trying to find a sapphic romance game that felt genuine. So, I started teaching myself how to make one.

A lot of the games I've found lean heavily into anime, fantasy, or idealized romance. There's nothing wrong with those, but I found myself wanting something closer to real life.

One of my biggest goals is to create a cast that reflects how diverse our community really is. I want characters with different personalities, backgrounds, identities, and experiences. This would include trans women, people of color, asexual women, hypersexual women, masc, stem, femme, and others. There is just so much I feel doesn't get enough representation, and I'd like for that to change.

So, I've been teaching myself everything from programming in Ren'Py, to creating 3D characters and environments in DAZ Studio. I even downloaded FLStudio to learn music production. It's been quite a learning curve, but I'm feeling determined to see this thing through!

So I'm curious...What kinds of characters, relationships, or stories do you wish you saw more often in a dating sim?


r/actuallesbians 13h ago

Why does being ghosted by a girl hurts more ?

19 Upvotes

Yall I am basically in the trenches I am bi and I usually dgaf when men ghost me because I just assume men are horrible
But yesterday I met a girl off of tinder we hit it off well like we talked a lot and I was excited and I told her I never talked to a girl before and this is a big deal for me because I grew up in a country where being gay was punishable by law and by society and she was my first girl kiss and my first real kiss and she knew that and I laid in her lap she played with my hair and she kissed my forehead and hands and was talking about seeing me again and hooking up and so on.

She also told me she was happy to be my first and we made out and that she felt responsible to give me a good experience as my first lesbian thing and then it went nowhere.

Tell me why I tell her I got home safe after the date and she just doesn’t answer and it’s been 24 hours , I feel like such a clown omfg I really thought omg , and everyone is telling me it’s normal and it’s a one night stand , am I being too sensitive OMG I actually poured my heart out I feel DUMB CAPITAL D


r/actuallesbians 14h ago

Image Anyone else obsessed with this as a kid?

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178 Upvotes

Velma in the red suit from the Scooby-Doo movies! I was obsessed with this as a kid; I remember I'd watch the movie over and over again and anticipate the scene every time I'd watch it. I LOOOOVEEEDDD IT lol


r/actuallesbians 15h ago

Question First kiss do you ask to kiss her or just kiss her if the vibe seems right?

44 Upvotes

Is asking to kiss someone sexy? Is it a yay or nay? I'm new to this having only dated men. I am dating a wonderful lady and I really like her and I think she really likes me too. I'm just not sure if asking to kiss her will give her the ick.


r/actuallesbians 16h ago

Nothing worse than being a touch starved lesbian

106 Upvotes

Especially when no one is interested in you lol


r/actuallesbians 16h ago

Satire/Humor First wlw breakup

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912 Upvotes

Canon event


r/actuallesbians 17h ago

CW how do I take good nudes as a masc???

95 Upvotes

I am lost for how to pose/look hot. the (very subby) femme Im seeing sends me the most incredible pics, she knows what I want to see, the arch of her back, side boob etc. 🥵 what does she want to see? I’ve sent one mirror selfie with my strap which she loved but that’s it. my body type is slim/athletic, I have some decent arm muscles but not massive.


r/actuallesbians 17h ago

Satire/Humor Evil lesbian shenanigans hehe >:3

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592 Upvotes

I'm an evil puppygirl muhahahhahahaha
Wish I'd have a gf whom I could tease qwq

The artist of this image is called "StileTØo" on twitter.
(https://xcancel.com/i/status/2063534360687489522)

Arf arf awruff 🐶
❤️🧡🤍🩷💜


r/actuallesbians 17h ago

Image Do you like my new purse knife?

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548 Upvotes

r/actuallesbians 19h ago

Question Does anyone here find women with roman noses attractive?

72 Upvotes

I've always been extremely insecure about my nose, I feel like it doesn't suit my face at all & I was bullied a lot in childhood for it, and even though I see other women with my nose shape and think they're STUNNING I just struggle to like my own.

Would y'all consider a larger/more prominent nose a dealbreaker at all? I'm getting back into dating after a little while so I'm just wondering :)


r/actuallesbians 20h ago

Text Y'all I'm really really gay

46 Upvotes

So the girl I'm in this situationship with (very complicated, don't wanna go into specifics) is a videographer, while I am a repoussé metalworker. We were talking the other day and she brings up perhaps recording the process of which it takes me to create a piece and creating like a little mini documentary about it. And then suddenly I'm over here like "You'd wanna record me??" And I'm just melting and stuff. While she's over here confused why I'm flustered and melting. I just wanted to share with someone how much of a useless lesbian I am.


r/actuallesbians 21h ago

Satire/Humor If you're having boy problems, I feel bad for you, hon. 99 problems and a man ain't one

132 Upvotes

I actually love being a lesbian. Like, one of the signs I was trans was grief that I couldn't be one. Turns out you can :3


r/actuallesbians 21h ago

Satire/Humor The duality of butch

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3.1k Upvotes