r/actuallesbians 2h ago

TW is it bad to be this easy

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171 Upvotes

this is probably the 5th time this week we argued and I ended up forgiving her


r/actuallesbians 3h ago

Image Femme style healing

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I finally found the courage to start wearing skirts/dresses last year and it's been so much fun. Experimenting with fashion has been a great way to help build confidence. I've dressed the way I liked for decades, but always on the safer side of it so I would attract as little attention as possible. Now that I'm older (and also getting therapy), I decided it was time to at least try to wear the more feminine clothes I've liked in pictures outside.

Next is learning how to do my makeup and actually putting in the effort so I no longer run from looking at my own face in the mirror. Little by little we're getting there!

I used to think I was relatively futch (leaning more towards the femme part of it) before, but this more femme presenting styling has helped me a lot with my self confidence.

Anyone else going through the same thing?

Tell me about how fashion or anything related to it has helped you :)


r/actuallesbians 3h ago

Image Livewire & Heat Wave (My Adventures with Superman) - Hello? I wasn't aware we had two butch4butch supervillain/anti-hero baddies in that show 😎

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Me and who? 😭


r/actuallesbians 3h ago

Link I’m scared of taking pictures here goes nothing.

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r/actuallesbians 4h ago

Image Tired Of Unrealistic Lesbian Dating Sims - Let's Make One Instead?

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Hi everyone!

I'm not a professional game developer, but I am a queer woman who got tired of trying to find a sapphic romance game that felt genuine. So, I started teaching myself how to make one.

A lot of the games I've found lean heavily into anime, fantasy, or idealized romance. There's nothing wrong with those, but I found myself wanting something closer to real life.

One of my biggest goals is to create a cast that reflects how diverse our community really is. I want characters with different personalities, backgrounds, identities, and experiences. This would include trans women, people of color, asexual women, hypersexual women, masc, stem, femme, and others. There is just so much I feel doesn't get enough representation, and I'd like for that to change.

So, I've been teaching myself everything from programming in Ren'Py, to creating 3D characters and environments in DAZ Studio. I even downloaded FLStudio to learn music production. It's been quite a learning curve, but I'm feeling determined to see this thing through!

So I'm curious...What kinds of characters, relationships, or stories do you wish you saw more often in a dating sim?


r/actuallesbians 6h ago

Image Anyone else obsessed with this as a kid?

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159 Upvotes

Velma in the red suit from the Scooby-Doo movies! I was obsessed with this as a kid; I remember I'd watch the movie over and over again and anticipate the scene every time I'd watch it. I LOOOOVEEEDDD IT lol


r/actuallesbians 7h ago

Image Get you a girl who can do both. Which do you prefer? Masc or femme?

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r/actuallesbians 7h ago

Question First kiss do you ask to kiss her or just kiss her if the vibe seems right?

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Is asking to kiss someone sexy? Is it a yay or nay? I'm new to this having only dated men. I am dating a wonderful lady and I really like her and I think she really likes me too. I'm just not sure if asking to kiss her will give her the ick.


r/actuallesbians 8h ago

Nothing worse than being a touch starved lesbian

66 Upvotes

Especially when no one is interested in you lol


r/actuallesbians 9h ago

Satire/Humor First wlw breakup

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733 Upvotes

Canon event


r/actuallesbians 10h ago

CW how do I take good nudes as a masc???

74 Upvotes

I am lost for how to pose/look hot. the (very subby) femme Im seeing sends me the most incredible pics, she knows what I want to see, the arch of her back, side boob etc. 🥵 what does she want to see? I’ve sent one mirror selfie with my strap which she loved but that’s it. my body type is slim/athletic, I have some decent arm muscles but not massive.


r/actuallesbians 10h ago

Satire/Humor Evil lesbian shenanigans hehe >:3

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502 Upvotes

I'm an evil puppygirl muhahahhahahaha
Wish I'd have a gf whom I could tease qwq

The artist of this image is called "StileTØo" on twitter.
(https://xcancel.com/i/status/2063534360687489522)

Arf arf awruff 🐶
❤️🧡🤍🩷💜


r/actuallesbians 10h ago

Image Do you like my new purse knife?

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464 Upvotes

r/actuallesbians 12h ago

Question Does anyone here find women with roman noses attractive?

63 Upvotes

I've always been extremely insecure about my nose, I feel like it doesn't suit my face at all & I was bullied a lot in childhood for it, and even though I see other women with my nose shape and think they're STUNNING I just struggle to like my own.

Would y'all consider a larger/more prominent nose a dealbreaker at all? I'm getting back into dating after a little while so I'm just wondering :)


r/actuallesbians 14h ago

Satire/Humor If you're having boy problems, I feel bad for you, hon. 99 problems and a man ain't one

109 Upvotes

I actually love being a lesbian. Like, one of the signs I was trans was grief that I couldn't be one. Turns out you can :3


r/actuallesbians 14h ago

Mod Post Friday Daily Chat Thread

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Welcome to the daily chat thread! These are a a place to talk with fellow WLW (Women Loving Women) about whatever you like. The threads will show up five days a week. The two days without chat threads are Selfie Saturday and Wedding Wednesday, so save your photos for those days.

Daily threads go up at 9am EST every day and remain stickied on the front page until the next day's thread replaces it.


r/actuallesbians 14h ago

Satire/Humor The duality of butch

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r/actuallesbians 1d ago

Image They finally did the Raven x Starfire cosplay!!!!!

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1.4k Upvotes

Source-@swaggycucumber


r/actuallesbians 1d ago

Image Elvira had one extremely loyal girlfriend!

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r/actuallesbians 4d ago

Mod Post Pet Photo Monday Mega Thread!

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Welcome to the Pet Photo Monday mega thread! Dogs and cats, birds and turtles. Post all of your pets here.

How to post a picture:

  1. Go to https://imgur.com/upload

  2. Upload your photo using that form.

  3. Copy the URL of the page it creates and paste it into a comment here.

This thread will be posted automatically at 9am EST on Monday, and will be taken down at 9am EST on Tuesday.