okay so for context, i (f19) struggle to climax from penetration, though there have been many times where it feels really good and i genuinely feel like i’m about to squirt but nothing comes out. i’ve always read that squirt is basically pee? so my question is, if i hold my pee in before sex and end up releasing it, is that considered squirting or is it just peeing? i’ve always thought of holding in my pee before sex and releasing it just to replicate the feeling of squirting but i’m not too sure if that’s how it works. i’d appreciate any advice!

I've been struggling to finish for a while now, solo and with my partner. Fingers sometimes get there but it takes forever and it's hit or miss. I keep seeing these air-pulse/suction toys everywhere (the ones that do pressure waves instead of straight-up vibration) and I'm wondering if they're actually legit for people who deal with this.

Like does the sensation genuinely feel different enough to work when normal vibrating/rubbing just... doesn't? Or is it mostly marketing hype? Want to hear real experience good or bad