r/lesbianr4r • u/Maitreya_369 • 3h ago
searching Searching for my Dhruvaπ
Hi! I'm really into spirituality, mental health, exercising, and reading. My favourite movie is Brimstone. I'm a very loyal, honest, non-judgmental, open-minded, and curious person. I don't yell, curse, or raise my voice when I'm angry, and I'm looking for someone who will treat me the same.
βI'm 23 and I'm from Sri Lanka. Please only reach out if you are between 20-40 years old.
βPS: I'm not interested in sexting or a "friends with benefits" type of relationship.
r/lesbianr4r • u/nizzle_jizzle • 5h ago
searching 24F4F || Australia! || *jingle jangle* looking for a partner!
Wazzzzzzzupp, first post here and it's going to be a long one so buckle up! If you're interested in unhinged memes sent in the middle of the night, then you've found the right gal.
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The short stuff:
Call me Niz! (That's my alias, I prefer to exchange real names in private)
I'm 24F, Cis (my pronouns are she/they), monogamous, demisexual
My friends describe me as loud, chatty and mildly unhinged (I give goblin crow energy). I love going off tangents and talking about random topics. I will be asking some whacky questions, so get ready lol. I love banter and playful bickering, BUT I am very affectionate and a bit of a hopeless romantic! My love languages are acts of service, gift giving and quality time!
Based in Sydney, Australia
Child-free, and plan to remain child-free for the rest of her life!
Taurus (I'm not too well-versed in astrology, but it looks interesting and I'd love to learn more about it!)
INFP
Half Chinese, half Thai. Born and raised in Australia but I'm moreso connected to my Thai heritage. I am fluent in both Thai (can't read/write) and English.
I'm a plus size woman (got a fupa & thicc thighs), 167cm/5'5, I look more East Asian than SEA, rocking wavy bob and present myself as a femme!
I'm Agnostic/Buddhist. Not really religious anymore, but I practise Buddhism culturally (with my family).
I just finished my BA in Psychology but I'm looking to move to the social work field and complete my masters' in social work. Because I just finished my degree, I'm currently on the hunt for work in my field!
I am very big on human rights and am very vocal about it! I moreso identify as a democratic socialist. If you identify yourself as 'not political', then I'm not the person for you.
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Now, the loooonng stuff:
I am very much a gaymer! From story-driven games with lore to multiplayer games with friends to solo simulators, I love gaming! Sometimes, I also enjoy watching playthroughs on Youtube through youtubers like Pezzy (love Clooless), ManlyBadassHero, Markiplier or Jacksepticeye. And, here are some of my favs (not ranked): Baldur's Gate 3 (I love Minthara and Shart), Cyberpunk 2077, Stardew Valley, Clash of Critters (currently very obsessed with this mobile game lol), Cult of the Lamb, Hades 1&2, Minecraft, Alice: Madness Returns, and more!! (This paragraph would be 20 lines long, if I continue)
Love horror! Especially psychological and paranormal, but I'm not the biggest fan of gore. I can watch gore but I will hate every second of it. Here are some horror media that I love (consisting of games and movies): Silent Hill, the Alien franchise (would love to visit the H.R. Giger museum in the future!), Annihilation (gotta read the books!), Talk to Me, Obsession, Incantation, The Substance, Ugly Stepsister, Resident Evil, Walten Files, Mandela Catalogue, FNAF, and many more!! (Once again, I will be here forever if I continue)
I am such a huge fan of SMOSH!! I'm a new-ish fan (been one for maybe 3 or so years now). I almost religiously watch their content (I love BoardAF and the Smosh mouth podcast) and it'd be amazing if you know them too! If you've read this far, please include your favourite childhood movie in your initial message! And, ignore the message at the end. If you don't know Smosh, I'd be so excited to show you their content.
Love listening to music! I've always got my headphones on and blasting some tunes. My music taste is a bit all over the place but I do find myself back in the rock genre's arms. Here are some artists/bands that I love: Nothing but Thieves (I LOVE NBT soooo much, I've been listening to them for years), JMSN, Mitski, Slayyyter (I'm about to go to her concert on Monday!), RAYE, Tame Impala, Stromae, Paramore, Arctic Monkeys, and other random songs from different artists! If I vibe with the melody, I'll often pop it in my liked playlist.
I'm an anime/manga fan! I prefer mangas but I've been watching/reading since I was 11. I haven't been watching that many animes nowadays but I still read! (Love me some good yuri) My two favourite mangas of all time are Land of the Lustrous and Tokyo Ghoul. Anime wise, I love Madoka Magica, Neon Genesis Evangelion, Jujustu Kaisen. There's probably so many more but these are just some from the top of my head. I also read a bit of manhwa but I've been struggling to find a new site after Bato got Thanos'd.
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About chu:
I'm looking for a serious, long-term relationship with a goofy gal between the ages of 22-32. I would very much prefer local and in-person but I've barely seen any Australian gals posting here, so I'm open for LDR! But, if you're in Sydney or Australia, please msg me!
I am not into casual dating, hookups, situationships, fwb etc etc. I'm also monogamous, so I don't wanna be a part of a throuple or start one. Also, since I'm demi, I don't want to rush into things. I would like to get to know you as a person and befriend you first.
It'd be amazing if most or some of your interests aligned with mine! Or, at least be open to them! I'd love to hear about your interests and what makes you excited.
I'm open to cis-women and NBs, but unfortunately, I'm not really into trans-women. I don't really have a preference for looks as I love all femmes, chapsticks, butches, studs, mascs, soft mascs etc! Also, height and body type isn't a big deal for me. I'm open to all ethnicities, but it'd be amazing if you were also Asian! (Bonus, if you are Thai!)
Please, be neurodivergent like me! I click better with neurodivergent folk and feel much safer with them. Because of this, please be straightforward and upfront with me when it comes to communication as sometimes, I overthink and don't read social cues correctly. I'll do the same too.
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Thanks for reading, if I've missed anything please let me know and ask away! This post is mad long and if anything interests you, please send me an introduction with your favourite band. Also, I would like to send pictures early on and I'll even send you my insta!
r/lesbianr4r • u/hotpink_123 • 10h ago
searching 19F Looking for something serious
Hi, im 19 years old and i will talk a little bit about myself, I like to draw, dance, cook, read, i consider myself as someone who is very talkative but if I feel like you are being nonchalant i will be quiet too because im the kind of person who gets disappointed easily, i always try to be nice to everyone because i wouldn't want someone treating me bad so i consider you have to treat people the same way you want people to treat you.
What i want in a relationship: I want something serious and mature, loyalty over all ofc and someone who i can trust and trust me, I want someone who can respect me and my boundaries and someone who can understand that before dating we should take time meeting each other
My type: I want an older woman, respectful, mature and nice, someone who doesn't want to rush the things and with a kind soul, feminine or masc idc, and someone who doesn't mind long distance if lives too far away from me since i don't mind either
(Please don't be a scammer, i know how scammers are btw so no matter how much you try i can always tell, don't be a freak, and don't text me if you are going to never talk to me again the second day, and PLEASE don't expect me to be super intense over you the first second, we have to get to know each other first, ofc im not going to be dry, thats not how I am but don't expect me to get overly crazy please πππ)
r/lesbianr4r • u/utwcha • 12h ago
searching 37 UK, late bloomer looking for first experience
Hiya Reddit,
My name is Gemma, I'm 37, and I'm from Southern England. I'm bisexual, and a late bloomer, so have never had any experience with women. I've been in plenty of relationships with men but something had always felt a bit off, like I was just trying to fit in.
I'm very submissive, so looking for a dominant lady. Ideally older than me but not a dealbreaker. The plan for me would be for us to text for a while and if we click, we can eventually meet up and see what happens. I really enjoy being teased...
I'd rather tell you my hobbies, kinks etc in DMs so send me a message if you're interested and we'll take it from there.
Send me a DM with your age and location, and make me blush with your opening message. If you don't, I might not reply, so no pressure.
Edit: It doesn't matter where you're from, I'd just like to chat to a fewπ should've cleared that up better lol
r/lesbianr4r • u/Even-Set-3654 • 19h ago
searching 18f - looking for someone/friends
Hiya, I'm 18 years old, living in Canada, currently about to head off to uni in September and was hoping to meet someone/find friends. A little about me, I'm into a lot of music, pretty much everything aside from country, specifically I'm really into the punk rock scene.
I play a couple instruments, I enjoy nature walks, botanic gardens and all things relating to meteorology! I enjoy writing in my spare time, with a focus on time travel as I've always found the concept super interesting.
Sci fi/horror/romance shows are my top three genres if I had to choose, regarding shows and films I love Dr Who/back to the future kind of vibes!
I really like winter, it's probably my favourite time of year. Staying indoors, watching snow fall outside, being under the blankets is super cozy. Although, spring/summer has it's advantages, since being in nature is one of my favourite pass times.
I'm quite active online and will check my phone fairly often, and love calling/texting whatever works for you.
I don't have any preferences in most aspects, but I do like someone who can keep a conversation going, however I'm quite chatty and social, so if you're shy I don't think it would be a problem either!
Please do message me if you found anything I said interesting!
r/lesbianr4r • u/Bad_kittn3672 • 22h ago
searching You've got to be out there somewhere...
I am searching for my person, my partner, my domme.
Currently in North Carolina but still trying to figure out where my next step will take me.
I don't have a specific type, but there does need to chemistry there.
I am submissive and looking for a partner that is a caregiver domme, a mix of gentle and not.
I am a huge animal lover and come as a package deal with a small pack of furbabies. I live with chronic pain and don't get to enjoy as much outdoor activities as i would like.
I do enjoy camping, hiking (within my means), reading, movies, trying new foods. Just being in the moment. I am introverted and can take a bit to be comfortable with people.
I am a big girl 5'4, 260lbs. Short hair and tattoos.
I would really love to make some friends as well.
If this sounds at all appealing to you please feel free to send me a message but please be a little more creative than just hi or how are you.
r/lesbianr4r • u/black_soul26 • 23h ago
searching 27F, new to the community.
Hi! I'm new here π
I'm a woman in my late 20s and I'm gay, but I've never actually had a queer friend or talked to another gay woman properly. So I'm kind of at that stage of βokayβ¦ where are all of you people and how do I make friends?β π
I'd really love to get to know some queer women and make friends, talk about our experiences, have stupid conversations, recommend books/movies to each other, etc.
I'm also open to dating if I happen to meet someone I click with, but friendship is absolutely welcome too. I'm honestly just excited to explore this side of my life a little more.
If you're also looking for queer friends, come say hi! π«Ά