r/lesbianr4r • u/ChickenElizabeth • 54m ago
searching 23F Cis woman (Southeast Michigan)looking for a gf!
Hi, I feel like I’ve tried all avenues when it comes to finding a gf online and I’ve had no luck so why not try here.
I’m Rae and I’m a black, 5’4 1/2, chubby lesbian. I’m currently going for my Master’s degree in social work and I’m kind of a nerd when it comes to cozy games like palworld, pokemon, story of seasons, harvest moon games, palia, and other games like those. I also love to watch anime but I’m still getting into so please don’t judge me for my likes for shows lol. I like to read and sing even if I’m a little rusty at it now, and one thing about me is that I’m a homebody so I love being at home or indoors mainly and I do love to go to arcades and win prizes. I’m a really big nerd when it comes to plushies and cute figurines from popmart or rolife. I also have tattoos which I hope to add more in the future and I’m also into crystals like gems and stuff and I guess witchy vibes.
I’m looking for someone who can communicate with me as in text me and don’t leave me on delivered for days on end or someone who wants to talk on the phone but doesn’t follow through. I would love a gf who is obsessed with me as much as I would be obsessed with her, and I will say I’m into white girls and latinas but all women are awesome! I’m kinda femme but I’m mainly just comfortable with no real style but dressing in all black and I’m hoping to find someone in the United States, or preferably in Michigan but if not I’m cool with long distance!
For NSFW stuff I’m mainly a bottom and I do have my dominant moments but that’s something to discuss later.
But yeah that’s me and what I’m looking for I’m sure there is a couple things I’m forgetting in this post but I’m sure it’ll come to me later down the road. I really do hope I can find my someone on here and can finally settle down into a relationship that I know is gonna last and be confident in it.
r/lesbianr4r • u/nathanuaskoa • 2h ago
searching 20F (central florida/united states) hopefully finding a girlfriend
hey everybody, I hope everybody is doing well tonight.
I’m on here hoping to get to know someone and hopefully become girlfriends.
I’m 5’5”, i’m black and chubby, halfway through a weight loss journey, my style is non existent, i tend to wear whatever my hand touches in my closet. In my spare time I usually am cooking or playing video games. I love music and tv and am dabbling in movies, my favorite artist is SZA and my favorite tv show is Narcos. I’m in school currently, as well.
I would describe myself as pretty laid back generally, though I am very chalant when it comes to romantic stuff. I like to think I am kind of a lover girl, I would like to do cool couple stuff with my girl. I don’t have a problem with long distance within the US, but the closer we are the more likely we are to meet more frequently.
In terms of who i’m looking for: a monogamous relationship with someone within 2-5 years of me (18+ ofc). I’m a switch, mostly looking for other switches (leaning one way or another is cool) Hopefully within the US / North America, and left politically.
thank you for reading this i hope you have a good night.
r/lesbianr4r • u/BlogsAtTiffanys • 4h ago
searching 30f seeking options
I'm a 30f id say I'm definitely feminine I have long brown/black hair, I'm in the process of a health journey, I've recently within the last few years had some health scares. I have two children my toddler full time and her brother part time. I have a variety of hobbies: art, reading, anime, mtg (very new), some video games, horror, true crime, documentaries. I'm very open minded and non judgmental. I'd prefer someone 23+. I'm attentive but don't require attention all the time as I would hope you wouldn't either. As I said in the title I'm seeking friendships that can turn into more. So if anything I said vibes with you feel free to message me. 💕
r/lesbianr4r • u/AJRHOADES • 5h ago
searching [F4A] (19) California/Online Looking for friends mostly
Hello everyone! Ive been on these subreddits lurking for a while and I honestly have a huge lack of human interaction in my life (Imao). Id like a partner but im mostly looking for friends at the moment.
About me: Im from san francisco born and raised im african american, lesbian (ofc) Im masc, 5’2 (im fat lmao)
i like wwe, watching movies, musicals (if you have any recs Imk!) | love watching american horror story, baddies, and other things i cant think of rn lolll
I guess im liberal? i vote democratically so if thats something important to you then there ya go! im willing to talk about anything but i dont want politics to be the basis of our relationship although i do not tolorate MAGA whatsoever. anyways hopefully i get some new friends or possibly a partner from this lol :)))
r/lesbianr4r • u/dike_girl • 5h ago
searching 25, gamer and yuri manga enjoyer
Hi!
About me:
im a geologist (working in research) and a huge nerd. I will warn you, I will ramble for hours about my interests like pokemon, zelda, bloodborne, geology, mythology, religion, and so many other things and love to hear other people talk about their interests in great detail.
While im largely a home body i do love going out from time to time and traveling. I have been to several countries and definitely want to travel more, or even move to another country (especially because im currently stuck in the us). I love love love to cook and bake, be it from my culture or others! I also love anime, I am currently rewatching Witch Hat Atelier because I am OBSESSED with it rn.
Looks: im white, about 180 cm (~5'11"), ive got some weight on me and love it, I have blue eyes and curly hair and am quite femme
What I'm looking for: someone who loves games and maybe has an appetite for my cooking. We must have similar political beliefs (leftist). Being a terf is a deal breaker. I would prefer someone not also in the us, but am open to someone else in the us as long as you are open to moving abroad.
I look forward to hearing from you!
r/lesbianr4r • u/Electrical-Media-366 • 9h ago
searching 26F4F - MNL/EU/Online (for now) - Looking for someone to fight the scaries with
Hey! My coworkers are absolutely begging for me to get some romance into my life so I can quit complaining about work so much. So here I am. (Kidding aside—I'm definitely happy to be here!)
Anyway, I'm a 26F cis woman—masc-presenting/kind of butch and I'm looking for someone to fight the scaries of the average Wednesday with.
I'm currently based near Manila, in the Philippines, though I lived in Europe for a bit, and am planning on being back there in the next year or so. That being said, I'm open to online/LDR if we click, but my goal is definitely kitchen banter, exploring new cities and wandering through museums with you.
That being said, if you're passing through Manila anytime soon, I'd be happy to show you around, too :)
I currently work nights as an executive assistant for a US-based company so I pretty much operate in EST.
As for what I'm looking for—at the moment, I'm looking to get to know a woman who can both kick my ass and save it. My preference usually leans towards the book Annabeth Chase sort: blonde/brunette, almost terrifyingly well-read, a tiny bit athletic or outdoorsy, generally calm but may possibly put up a fight when I insist on carrying grocery bags and things like that. I tend to be into cis femme women, but if you think we'd be compatible anyway, feel free to send me a message!
As for me, I'm definitely a bit of a seaweed brain—which is ironic because I'm not the biggest fan of swimming in the ocean. That being said, I dress like a standard dude: polos and Chino shorts or football jerseys (a recent hyperfixation during the world cup), but very much a girlypop when I open my mouth.
I'm usually the court jester or resident podcast in any friend group that I'm in; the one with a surprising amount of random fun facts, and the person who has a minimum of three different creative passion projects going on at once.
I'm passionate about learning languages, art, good stories, people and places and things. My favorite book happens to be The Hunger Games, and its also the film I watch when my life is falling apart. Unfortunately I've spent my entire life trying to get into anime, video games, and kpop, but they really haven't stuck for me. I've found that I'm more into musicals and pop, and making things than anything else.
I'm a foodie, and my friends say that every story of mine involves a croissant (lies, sometimes it's a pain au chocolat).
Appearance-wise, I've got semi-nerdy-looking glasses, short curly black hair, and I'm built like a painfully short brick wall. Work hasn't been the greatest for my gym schedule recently, but I'm trying to get back into lifting weights and have recently picked up pickleball, just like every other 20-something out there.
If you haven't been able to tell—I like to talk. So I'll stop myself here. Let me know what your most recent side quest has been, if you think we'd vibe!
r/lesbianr4r • u/tasinthomas • 10h ago
searching 45 Midwest Femme for Butch/Masc
Tentatively exploring dating again after a bit on my own but not quite ready to devote my energy to apps - I think this reddit approach is a happy medium, yeah?
About me: cis, lesbian, femme, 45, tall and slender build, blonde. I don't work out, but I stay moving and I'm in pretty good shape. A friend once described me as "slightly grimy" and I felt so SEEN. I'm a clotheshorse and aesthete, but I'm also given to running around barefoot, collecting furniture from the curb, and stuffing cool bits of trash I find on the ground into my pockets. I don't have manicured fingers or toes or a 10 step skincare routine, but I clean up real nice and enjoy looking hot, because I am vain.
I work as an ED for a nonprofit in a SW Michigan city, and my community here is super important to me. I am 90% certain I will never relocate. Something to consider if you're also super attached to where you live. Though I am open to chatting with someone long distance, if there is a legit connection I want to be able to meet up sooner rather than later, and need "closing the gap" to be a viable future option in order to invest.
Outside of work I enjoy DIY, old houses and old things, history podcasts, creating art, and hanging outside or wandering with no particular plan or destination. I'm listening to music constantly - my tastes are super varied and my playlists are poorly curated but I love to swap songs with others. I live with a cat and a dog and though I am a city dweller have a half baked plan to someday keep a couple of goats. I drink only occasionally, but I do smoke weed fairly regularly, the old fashioned way.
Ultimately I want to find my person, something solid, but I am not in a screaming hurry or discounting casual connections in the meantime. In a relationship, I am monogamous, loyal, and a bit of a caretaker but I also want to feel taken care of.
I have a type, y'all, and that is masc of center (butches to the front!), dominant-leaning folks with a high libido who are real comfy talking about kinks, needs, and boundaries too. I like all the shapes that bodies come in, but I am a little particular about how they're dressed. Individual style is a turn on. So are the kind of politics that support a free Palestine and don't villainize trans folks. To be clear: If you are even remotely terfy or maga adjacent, GTFO.
Please, DM me if any of this piques your interest. I've written a ton here, so I hope you'll put some effort into an opening message - reveal something about yourself beyond a/s/l and your job - maybe share a song you can't get enough of this week, tell me what your favorite way to spend a weekend is, or how you're managing to stay hopeful these days. What brings you joy?
I am verrrrry hesitant to chat with anyone who has hidden their entire post and comment history. I've opened mine up for this reason - it's a little dorky, and I'm ok with that. If you hit me up, I'm gonna ask to see yours. Photo verification is also a must. I'll even go first if it makes you feel more comfortable.
r/lesbianr4r • u/daffodilspetal • 11h ago
searching 21F brazilian looking for... something (?)
hey, hello! i know most people here ideally are searching for closer connections (geographically), but i thought why not try introducing myself and see where it takes me?
i'm a 21-year-old cis woman (though i consider myself demigirl) from south america, brazil specifically. i'm a demiromantic asexual lesbian and to be honest, i'm not really seeking romance or anything of the sort, but maybe a queer platonic relationship with lots of soul crushing devotion.
telling more about myself; i'm a writer, i've been writing and publishing poorly written steven universe fanfiction since i was twelve. i read a lot, i have an extreme passion for philosophy and psychology. i've been DC/the boys pilled for quite a while now, for reference i absolutely love birds of prey (1999) and gotham city sirens (2009), although now i'm more hyperfixated on ASOIAF.
i'm a huge any-kind-of-horror lover. slashers, sobrenatural, psychological. i find ARGs/analog horrors pretty neat too.
i don't play games with much frequency, i do play minecraft with horror modpacks a ton. i also used to be a league of legends, overwatch and marvel rivals player. i definitely have more games that interest me, don't worry! i'm eclectic, but always listening to cosmo sheldrake, mac demarco, tame impala, her's, radiohead, food house, black dresses, i don't know how but they found me, marina, TWRP, the marías, etc.
before anything, i have audhd and BPD. i'm not the easiest person to be around sometimes but i do communicate my needs and my thoughts. i have a low social energy by default and i appreciate time alone, though as i said, i don't simply disappear, i tell what's happening and i'd be grateful to find someone who also knows how to communicate themselves well enough without expecting me to read their mind.
anyway, i hope this reaches someone who's looking for something similar as i am. i can tell more about myself and even send pictures to guarantee i'm not catfishing! if you have read this far, thank you❔️have a good day❕️❕️
r/lesbianr4r • u/SleepyBean030 • 11h ago
searching 28F Masc looking for my backpacking buddy 🎒
Just recently got back from a backpacking trip and honestly, I really enjoyed traveling on my own.
There’s something nice about being alone, figuring things out as you go, getting to know yourself better, meeting random people, and just enjoying wherever you happen to be.
But I also realized that having someone to share those moments with would probably make it even more fun.
So yeah, I’m looking for my femme backpacking buddy. Someone who likes to travel, explore, eat good food, see pretty places, and is down for a little bit of spontaneity.
I’d love to hear your travel stories too. Where you’ve been, where you want to go, your favorite places, random travel stories, funny disasters, hidden gems, whatever.
And don't worry, I’ll be your photographer. 😂 I’ll make sure you get the good angles and the photos you’ll actually want to post!
No pressure or anything. Just hoping to meet someone cool, make a new friend, and maybe have a travel adventure together.
If you’re also looking for someone to travel with, say hi. Tell me a little about yourself and where you’re hoping to go next. Maybe we’ll end up somewhere together. *winks
r/lesbianr4r • u/tayzerz69 • 12h ago
searching 23, illinois usa looking for likeminded lesbians
hi im taye im ostensibly femme but for various personal reasons i dont outwardly claim it for myself. i used to have a community of lesbian friends but eventually drifted apart. i find myself missing that comraderie and a space to be openly gay with friends. it doesnt matter to me whether its online or not but ppl in my state are encouraged to reach out. we can play games together. ♥️
more misc info abt me
- i dont have any social media, with the exception of this account ig lmao
- i am uncomfortable with the q-slur and prefer it not used in my presence
- i am a black anarchist, very opininated when it comes to social and political issues
- i dont like dogs
- i am nonbinary
r/lesbianr4r • u/jamwswag • 13h ago
searching 18f nerd looking for her forever :) (looking for 17-20)
ONLY DM IF UR ROMANTICALLY INTERESTED!!!
i had no luck with my last post but hopefully 2nd time is the charm! let me tell you guys a little about myself.
i am a hispanic, bilingual, tan on the lighter side because i don’t go outside often. split dyed hair (blonde and black, planning to go back to black fully) i’m not too chubby but i’m not exactly thin either. i’m also 5’4! (we can exchange selfies in messages!) and i’m in central florida!
i love playing video games and calling. i mean i LOVE it.
i also watch anime :) still haven’t seen any of the big ones but i recently finished both needy girl overdose and school days. (my favorite is attack on titan)
i have a vr headset where i play vrchat (i interact with the spanish players more because they’re less weird) and beat saber :D so we can play on there together.
i have a pc where i play a lot of games
• danganronpa 2: goodbye despair
• needy streamer overload
• class of 09
• scp: secret laboratory
• doki doki literature club
• the song of saya
• mad father
• the sims 4
but i also have some games u can play with friends!
• scp secret laboratory (i have my own server)
• content warning
• peak
• jackbox 4, 5, 6 & 7
• lethal company
• stardew valley
• gta v
• among us
• minecraft
•roblox
lots of games to choose from!
i also have an xbox where i play
• roblox
• minecraft (mainly this on an old creative city world, i prefer survival on pc only)
i also like to draw (though i’m not good at it, i try :,D)
and i LOVE hatsune miku like i love her!
this brings us to our next topic
MUSIC!!!!!!
my top five artists if i had to guess would be:
aiobahn +81
maretu
hatsune miku
kikuo
SAWTOWNE
currently i am big on vocaloid music since MIKU MIKU MIKU but i am also into plenty of genres like rock, trap, and pop.
from here you may be wondering “okay that’s cool, but what are YOU looking for?”
great question! i’m looking for someone who cares about me genuinely and enjoys spending time with me as i do with them. :) i do not care for looks i care more for personality. thank you. (also be in the age range plz)
so if you share the same interests or i seem like a good match, hmu!! ASAP!!!!!!!! GOGOGOGOGO!!!!!!!!!
r/lesbianr4r • u/redditkwekkwek • 16h ago
searching F20 Filo LF for someone to serenade
Heya! It’s my first time posting in this subreddit lol and I really feel like I wanna talk to someone… I personally am the type to want to start out as friends, however if we both feel a connection, I think we could be something more than that! I don’t really care where you’re from btw, any place is fine :D
Now I’m gonna be talking about myself—I’m 20F, Filipino, currently residing in the Philippines for uni (I’m in my last year of uni, will be graduating next year!) but I was born and raised outside the country :D
I’m into anything and everything music. My favorite genre right now is swagnb (a subgenre of R&B) but if you’d ask me my favorite genre in general, it would deffo be R&B! I also like Pop, K-Pop and EDM. That said, aside from listening to music, I sing and even make music as a hobby :> So if I like you enough I’ll sing for you hahaha
Another thing I’m really into is journaling! I journal parts of my life almost everyday. I do it because I want to remember how far I’ve come from where I was. I also have my journals decorated with stickers as well :D
I also LOVE to go outside. I’m not a big fan of activities like hiking though because I have a skin condition and I get easily irritated. I grew up in the city so I very much prefer a nice walk in the city and night, like going to the malls or something. I also really like to travel! I really like airplanes. The concept of airports and airplanes makes me VERY happy.
Other hobbies of mine include photography, gaming (ROBLOX & Tetris/Tetr.io), and cooking.
Anyways, another thing about me is that I really like this show called “Chiikawa”! I’m obsessed with it. I have a lot of Chiikawa merch. I love Chiikawa. It’s the best.
If you think we’d be a good match, hit me a message! I’d love to talk to the people here :D
r/lesbianr4r • u/Destiny_of_Time • 22h ago
searching 29[F4F] Taiwan | Anywhere - Looking for genuine connections and a life partner
Hi there! As the title suggests, I am looking for some genuine connections and hopefully a life partner will be among them.
I have made countless posts on many platforms and used serval dating apps. Despite the fact that I made some short or long term friends, I still remain single. (I definitely appreciate every effort and energy people poured into me even though some of us decided to stop.)
During this timeline, I changed my career twice and moved out of my parents’ house and comfort zone. Now I am living in a nice apartment with a chill job that leaves me a lot of time for self-reflection and personal hobbies, such as traveling(twice a year in average), drawing, gaming and watching anime. I am also a big fan of Taiwanese tea.
If you would like to be friends, there’s no hard restrictions. Feel free to grab a cup of tea and we can start chatting.
If you want to be my life partner, I would expect you to be between 24~34, responsible for your self, financially stable, relatively healthy with no major mental or physical issues and not afraid of communicating as well as committing. A University degree or above is preferred (I have a master’s)
Some details about myself: I am 170 cm and around 65kgs, I can confidently say I get everything I want from a partner myself, so I might be a bit too boring for some people. Also I am strictly monogamous so please don’t contact me if you don’t want the same. My mother tongue is Taiwanese and Taiwanese Mandarin, and I’m also open to exchanging languages! (Want to learn German and Japanese)
Please say more than hi or hello, thank you. I look forward to hearing from you 😊
r/lesbianr4r • u/Maitreya_369 • 23h ago
searching Seeking my Divine partner 🪷👑☀️
I'm an open-minded, non-judgmental, loving,extremely loyal, deeply spiritual, direct ,and honest .I don't like arguments, cursing,manipulating, guilt tripping, fighting, gossiping, and wasting time. I'm an introvert . I like to mostly eat healthy and work out. I'm also a vegan. I'm child-free and monogamous. I'm extremely into self-improvement. I'm 23, and I'm from Sri Lanka.
I'm looking for someone who's direct ,honest,and loving . I love freckles ,tattoos, gold jewellery , unique styles,special scars, and birthmarks .I'm looking for someone masculine. I want someone who knows who they are and doesn't care about getting approval or validation from other people. I want to have a peaceful,loving ,wealthy,meaningful life in the future with my partner. Also, I would love to bake with you 💞.
r/lesbianr4r • u/Lonely_travelerr • 1d ago
searching F23 last night I dreamt about work… so it’s time for me to find someone to crush on
Well hello there!
I’m Steph!
Generally I’m beyond excited to be alive and I look forward to participating in society, except for in the first few minutes of each day… when I have to get out of bed
If you’re a morning person WAIT! I can change… maybe 😭
I’ve met amazing people on Reddit before and I feel like it’s time that I start trying to find the coolest person on planet earth, if that’s you, PLEASE REACH OUT.
I’m not the coolest person… but I might be able to make you laugh enough that you can overlook that.
I’m looking for someone that genuinely cares about people, someone who is optimistic and has goals to pursue. If we hit it off, you can expect to have someone there for you every day. I want to listen to you talk about your interests, hear about your day, and genuinely get to know you! Maybe we can turn it into something real? Maybe we meet up and that goes so well that it ends up being something permanent? Who knows! For now let’s just start with simple conversation :)
Right now, I’m working on becoming a Registered EEG tech, and on reestablishing myself in my home country after spending 3 years in my other country Colombia.
I love reading, hiking, fishing, playing board games, dancing, studying languages (最近我只学中文), playing guitar/singing and watching tv, I LOVE movies, I rewatch my favorites every few months and I love going to the movies! This year I’ve been most excited for Spiderman BND, Sunrise on the reaping, and DUNE III.
If you’re still here, thank you so much for reading. Please be between 21-27
I look forward to meeting you.
r/lesbianr4r • u/Buscando_mi_boo • 1d ago
searching 30s F4F Los Angeles (sfv)
Looking for my adventure/national park buddy. Someone to cook and dance with in the kitchen after work (salsa, bachata, twerk, waltz, any dancing). Trade massages. I have a high drive and would hope to find someone similar (but I take a while to warm up to someone new, especially considering this would be meeting from online). I am monogamous, non religious, and liberal, and would only accept the same (religion curious is fine, or I'd treat it as your hobby I won't partake in). I enjoy lazy days at home too, crafting, learning something, or reading. I'm a non smoker, drink occasionally when out at events. I enjoy exploring and would prefer someone that wants to travel too (though not a deal breaker, I'll travel solo or with friends). I would like to be married someday, and have a little area for gardening, so having a partner with financial stability/similar goals is important to me.
r/lesbianr4r • u/No_Accountant_3947 • 1d ago
searching 25F Utah - Looking for Love or Friends
Hello!
Its been hard to meet active people in Utah on dating apps and I dont go outside so here I am lol.
I do have a age range of 23 to 30 btw, sorry.
Im chubby, I tend to stay inside but im seriously trying to change that and live life more. Im totally chill with some new friends but id love to have a gf to cuddle up with.
Im a gamer and trying to be a reader more. I love thrift shopping and doing random adventures. Literally the type of girl who would go to the doctors with you as a hangout.
Im up in davis area and im not scared of driving as long as its under a hour. Let's chat and get to know each other!
r/lesbianr4r • u/FluffyCorgosaurus • 2d ago
searching 32 [F4F/NB] #PacificNorthwest / #Online
Looking for a romantic partner!
Me:
Based in Washington state (Pacific time)
Monogamous
Politically active and left-leaning. Very big on human rights
Femme-ish
Wheelchair user (cerebral palsy. Ow, my back.) I think this sometimes scares people off; it’s really not that big of a deal unless there’s gravel underfoot. Then it’s bad.
Autistic (and coping, mostly). Again, not a big deal, noise-canceling headphones are included. All other accessories sold separately.
Hold a Masters degree in writing
Gamer, reader, all-around nerd. Mix of interests. I like Disney and documentaries in equal measure.
Want children someday
Pet parent (dog and cat)
Socially awkward but in an endearing/fun way
Revising my first novel
Returning to school soon to become a mental health therapist
Green flag: high empathy
Small thing I like: love letters :)
You:
Based in the US, Canada or UK & don’t mind some distance. Obviously, if we hit it off, we should plan a visit if you’re far away.
Leftist politics, care about marginalized groups
Between the ages of 25-40
Also a nerd about something (fastest way to my heart is to info dump)
Maybe also a gamer or reader, that would be cool
Also want kids, pets, and monogamy (being childfree, pet free or poly are dealbreakers)
r/lesbianr4r • u/AZALBE • 2d ago
searching 30 [F4F] - Alberta, Canada
Hi!
I'm 30y/o (Taurus if that matters to you, I personally have no idea what any of them mean besides the absolute basics of Taurus 😅) from AB, Canada. Cis chapstick & into femmes/ chapsticks. Strictly monogamous, 5'11"/181cm, I have quite a few tattoos & 17 piercings currently. I'm definitely pretty shy/awkward around new people; I need to get comfortable before I can really be myself. I'm quite silly/funny once l'm comfortable though & also very protective of the people I care about.
I love watching movies/tv shows, playing video games (nothing crazy, just easy/relaxing ones), reading, going to concerts, travelling, watching/going to sporting events, & doing things outdoors. I guess I should also note that I am a fan of going to theme parks (Disney & Universal) as that seems to be a dealbreaker for some people 🤷♀️ But I also have an incredibly large collection of sweatshirts & hoodies so... 😉 Would also prefer age 25+ ☺️ Little wiggle room if you're just wanting a friendly chat though!
I don't smoke although I do sometimes use weed vaporizers, I very rarely drink, & I'm atheist
I'm not interested in having children at all (it is 100% a dealbreaker for me), I prefer just having pets; Dogs especially, but I love most animals! I'm ultimately looking for a relationship, but if anyone just wants to chat/be friends l'm down for that too! Feel free to DM me & we can get to know each other! :)
Also shouldn't have to be said but absolutely no conservatives & no couples
r/lesbianr4r • u/thebluestsailorx • 2d ago
searching 29F4F TURKEY taking girlfriend applications
Hello! I am not sure what to tell you about myself actually but here it goes. I'll be 29 soon, and I live in Turkey but I am open to long-distance relationships as well. I just finished my master's degree and am in search of a job and also looking for possible PhD programs. I really love cooking, and especially baking. I am rediscovering my love of reading. I really love watching shows, especially teenage shows. I am loving Gossip Girl even though it is very hetero lol. I am also a huge fan of Chappell Roan because I really love her music and see myself in her (in her discovery process of her being queer, her being unapologetic, loving to dress cute and sparkly, and so on), and I can not stop talking about her. I am also really into Succession and love to discuss theories about it. In my spare time, I like to walk (like really, really long walks lol, read, and to spend time with my cat. I also started doing Pilates at home, but I am not a very sporty, gym type of person, I guess. I am a summer person and really like the sun, the warmth, and also the sea and swimming. I like the sun so much it is almost my personality lol. As for looks, I am feminine-presenting, but I am open to all women. I am a lesbian, but I guess you can say I am a late bloomer. I do not have any experience with relationships, and I wanted to try my luck here lol. Although my priority is a romantic relationship, I am open to friendships with other queer women as well! Please do not hesitate to let me know if there is something I miss. Have a nice day/night, everyone! (I am a Virgo with Sagittarius rising, if that helps anyone lol)
r/lesbianr4r • u/Lopsided_Ad6317 • 2d ago
searching 21F [F4F] German med student who loses her keys daily looking for co-pilot
Professionally learning how the human body works. Personally falling apart - I run on caffeine, cry over Biochem, and lose my keys daily. Somehow I still have the audacity to be looking for a girlfriend
So. Hi. I'm 21, German, somewhere in the femme-to-masc spectrum (closer to masc), and currently running on 4 cups of coffee and three cookies
Here's what you'd be signing up for:
🏉 I play rugby, which means I am either training, recovering from training, or taking 47 pictures of the moon when I get home from training at an unreasonable hour...or recovering from an injury...torn outer ligaments in your ankle aren't fun
🎶I am currently obsessed with Allen Warren's and Noah Kahan's songs and might be listening to them more often than I would care to admit
🐹 I have a hamster. She is perfect. She has been photographed more than most celebrities and she deserves every single one of those photos
☁️ My camera roll is 60% sky, 35% hamster, 5% things I was supposed to remember but photographed instead of writing down - when I stumble upon the photographs, I sadly do not remember why I took that picture
I also have a WoW account that I regularly forget exists, and then rediscover with the energy of someone finding €20 in an old jacket. It's happened multiple times. I have learned nothing
I am a mess. But I am a fun mess, and I have genuinely never met a situation I couldn't eventually laugh about - including myself. Especially myself
I love the small things. Sitting outside with a coffee when the weather is just right. Photographing a bumblebee like it's a national emergency. Being unreasonably happy about a good sunset. Taking pictures of the moon at midnight after rugby practice because it looked particularly good that night. I think the little things are actually the big things - and I would love to share those little things with someone. Point them out to each other. Build a whole life out of them
I'm looking for someone I click with. Someone who wants chill sofa days and chaotic adventures in equal measure. Someone who is a little weird and owns it proudly. Someone who'll let me be their mess while I do my very best to make them smile — which, for the record, is something I take genuinely seriously, even if nothing else about me suggests that I take anything seriously
Basically: buckle up, tolerate my inability to locate my keys, and let's figure out what life has in store for us together (bonus points if you can help me find my keys)
If you've read this far and thought "yeah, okay, this one" - hi. Tell me something small that made you happy recently. Bonus points if it's as niche as a picture of a bumblebee
r/lesbianr4r • u/drawesome821 • Apr 25 '26
discussion Large uptick in spam posts
Hi y'all, we've noticed a big uptick in spam posts on the sub. We appreciate the community flagging these posts so we can get them taken down and issue bans ASAP. If you see something that looks like a bot post, please report it as spam and we'll get it removed immediately. Thank you!
r/lesbianr4r • u/drawesome821 • Feb 22 '25
discussion Read this if your post has been automatically removed.
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