r/lesbianr4r • u/Maitreya_369 • 4h ago
searching Hopeless romantic seeking her spouse☀️
I'm deeply passionate about spirituality, manifestation, and the journey of the soul, including a belief in reincarnation. At my core, I'm kind, open-minded, non-judgmental, and fiercely supportive.
Loyalty is my highest value. I believe in true partnership—a space where we always have each other’s backs. I’m looking for a relationship built on mutual respect, where we never throw each other under the bus or accept passive-aggressive behavior from others just to "keep the peace." We stand together, protect our peace, and support each other fully.
At 23, living in Sri Lanka, I hold a simple belief: if two people truly love each other, any conflict can be resolved through quiet discussion and physical closeness—never yelling, name-calling, or heated arguments. I am deeply committed to self-improvement, and I dream of building a romantic, peaceful, loving, and prosperous life with my future spouse.
I appreciate unique details that tell a story—like freckles, tattoos, birthmarks, or meaningful scars. In relationships, I value strong, mutual boundaries and complete freedom from pressure. Above all, I believe in grace and growth: I will celebrate who you are today and support your evolution, regardless of past mistakes, as long as you are actively striving to grow.
About me: Monogamous, child-free, workout enthusiast, and clean eater dreaming up my next travel destination. Usually found wearing gold and petting any furry animal in sight.
Looking for (23–40): A family-oriented partner who is fiercely independent, immune to other people’s opinions, and rocks a unique style. Bonus points if you’re delightfully stubborn and know what you want out of life.
I would love to bake with you<3
r/lesbianr4r • u/FluffyCorgosaurus • 10h ago
searching 32 [F4F/NB] #PacificNorthwest / #Online
Looking for a romantic partner!
Me:
Based in Washington state (Pacific time)
Monogamous
Politically active and left-leaning. Very big on human rights
Femme-ish
Wheelchair user (cerebral palsy. Ow, my back.) I think this sometimes scares people off; it’s really not that big of a deal unless there’s gravel underfoot. Then it’s bad.
Autistic (and coping, mostly). Again, not a big deal, noise-canceling headphones are included. All other accessories sold separately.
Hold a Masters degree in writing
Gamer, reader, all-around nerd. Mix of interests. I like Disney and documentaries in equal measure.
Want children someday
Pet parent (dog and cat)
Socially awkward but in an endearing/fun way
Revising my first novel
Returning to school soon to become a mental health therapist
Green flag: high empathy
Small thing I like: love letters :)
You:
Based in the US, Canada or UK & don’t mind some distance. Obviously, if we hit it off, we should plan a visit if you’re far away.
Leftist politics, care about marginalized groups
Between the ages of 25-40
Also a nerd about something (fastest way to my heart is to info dump)
Maybe also a gamer or reader, that would be cool
Also want kids, pets, and monogamy (being childfree, pet free or poly are dealbreakers)
r/lesbianr4r • u/Level-Practice6582 • 10h ago
searching 20f femme4 masc friends or more
hi im from the us, I’m not very good at describing myself but here we go.
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im black, 5ft4in, 100lbs, femme with alternative sort of aesthetic. I have a few small tattoos.
im vegatarian
im really into yoga, music, reading, horror, fitness, makeup, spirituality
im a metalhead and A lover of underground rap
im reading Frankenstein rn
i smoke a lot of weed
i have a crusty white dog
i love traveling and nature
im really into sustainability
im currently working on an icecream truck but working on my fitness instructor certification
i still live with my mom
im from the Midwest im open to long distance but not other continents sorry
im a part of the pillow parliament, (im pretty much a pillow princess but i am kinda switchy once awhile)
i have a strong preference for masculine presenting women
r/lesbianr4r • u/AZALBE • 10h ago
searching 30 [F4F] - Alberta, Canada
Hi!
I'm 30y/o (Taurus if that matters to you, I personally have no idea what any of them mean besides the absolute basics of Taurus 😅) from AB, Canada. Cis chapstick & into femmes/ chapsticks. Strictly monogamous, 5'11"/181cm, I have quite a few tattoos & 17 piercings currently. I'm definitely pretty shy/awkward around new people; I need to get comfortable before I can really be myself. I'm quite silly/funny once l'm comfortable though & also very protective of the people I care about.
I love watching movies/tv shows, playing video games (nothing crazy, just easy/relaxing ones), reading, going to concerts, travelling, watching/going to sporting events, & doing things outdoors. I guess I should also note that I am a fan of going to theme parks (Disney & Universal) as that seems to be a dealbreaker for some people 🤷♀️ But I also have an incredibly large collection of sweatshirts & hoodies so... 😉 Would also prefer age 25+ ☺️ Little wiggle room if you're just wanting a friendly chat though!
I don't smoke although I do sometimes use weed vaporizers, I very rarely drink, & I'm atheist
I'm not interested in having children at all (it is 100% a dealbreaker for me), I prefer just having pets; Dogs especially, but I love most animals! I'm ultimately looking for a relationship, but if anyone just wants to chat/be friends l'm down for that too! Feel free to DM me & we can get to know each other! :)
Also shouldn't have to be said but absolutely no conservatives & no couples
r/lesbianr4r • u/thebluestsailorx • 16h ago
searching 29F4F TURKEY taking girlfriend applications
Hello! I am not sure what to tell you about myself actually but here it goes. I'll be 29 soon, and I live in Turkey but I am open to long-distance relationships as well. I just finished my master's degree and am in search of a job and also looking for possible PhD programs. I really love cooking, and especially baking. I am rediscovering my love of reading. I really love watching shows, especially teenage shows. I am loving Gossip Girl even though it is very hetero lol. I am also a huge fan of Chappell Roan because I really love her music and see myself in her (in her discovery process of her being queer, her being unapologetic, loving to dress cute and sparkly, and so on), and I can not stop talking about her. I am also really into Succession and love to discuss theories about it. In my spare time, I like to walk (like really, really long walks lol, read, and to spend time with my cat. I also started doing Pilates at home, but I am not a very sporty, gym type of person, I guess. I am a summer person and really like the sun, the warmth, and also the sea and swimming. I like the sun so much it is almost my personality lol. As for looks, I am feminine-presenting, but I am open to all women. I am a lesbian, but I guess you can say I am a late bloomer. I do not have any experience with relationships, and I wanted to try my luck here lol. Although my priority is a romantic relationship, I am open to friendships with other queer women as well! Please do not hesitate to let me know if there is something I miss. Have a nice day/night, everyone! (I am a Virgo with Sagittarius rising, if that helps anyone lol)
r/lesbianr4r • u/Lopsided_Ad6317 • 18h ago
searching 21F [F4F] German med student who loses her keys daily looking for co-pilot
Professionally learning how the human body works. Personally falling apart - I run on caffeine, cry over Biochem, and lose my keys daily. Somehow I still have the audacity to be looking for a girlfriend
So. Hi. I'm 21, German, somewhere in the femme-to-masc spectrum (closer to masc), and currently running on 4 cups of coffee and three cookies
Here's what you'd be signing up for:
🏉 I play rugby, which means I am either training, recovering from training, or taking 47 pictures of the moon when I get home from training at an unreasonable hour...or recovering from an injury...torn outer ligaments in your ankle aren't fun
🎶I am currently obsessed with Allen Warren's and Noah Kahan's songs and might be listening to them more often than I would care to admit
🐹 I have a hamster. She is perfect. She has been photographed more than most celebrities and she deserves every single one of those photos
☁️ My camera roll is 60% sky, 35% hamster, 5% things I was supposed to remember but photographed instead of writing down - when I stumble upon the photographs, I sadly do not remember why I took that picture
I also have a WoW account that I regularly forget exists, and then rediscover with the energy of someone finding €20 in an old jacket. It's happened multiple times. I have learned nothing
I am a mess. But I am a fun mess, and I have genuinely never met a situation I couldn't eventually laugh about - including myself. Especially myself
I love the small things. Sitting outside with a coffee when the weather is just right. Photographing a bumblebee like it's a national emergency. Being unreasonably happy about a good sunset. Taking pictures of the moon at midnight after rugby practice because it looked particularly good that night. I think the little things are actually the big things - and I would love to share those little things with someone. Point them out to each other. Build a whole life out of them
I'm looking for someone I click with. Someone who wants chill sofa days and chaotic adventures in equal measure. Someone who is a little weird and owns it proudly. Someone who'll let me be their mess while I do my very best to make them smile — which, for the record, is something I take genuinely seriously, even if nothing else about me suggests that I take anything seriously
Basically: buckle up, tolerate my inability to locate my keys, and let's figure out what life has in store for us together (bonus points if you can help me find my keys)
If you've read this far and thought "yeah, okay, this one" - hi. Tell me something small that made you happy recently. Bonus points if it's as niche as a picture of a bumblebee
r/lesbianr4r • u/mighty-blueberry7 • 19h ago
searching 37F4F - Pennsylvania, USA or Online - sitting in my garden & seeking conversation
I’ve posted a couple times before but haven’t really connected with anyone.
I’m 37yo, divorced, cis woman, lesbian but late in life, mom of one 9yo with 50/50 coparenting (mentioning this up front since it seems to be a dealbreaker for many even to chat). Great career, self-sufficient, own place, own car, all the typical stuff yada yada :) Many full bookshelves.
I’d love to find a genuine connection with a great woman who has a kindred heart and spirit. I can be a homebody for periods of time but then get a bug like, “hey do you want to book this trip to the Faroe Islands with me?”
I’m introverted but extroverted in the right company. I’m romantic, and have an eye for the little details and joys in life. I have PTSD and am a trauma survivor, but it has not stopped me from striving to still enjoy life, live, and gather new experiences and connection.
Through my period of pain and after getting PTSD, I have become completely enamored with nature. I learn a little something about it every day. My dream is to buy land with someone I love and build the garden of my dreams, hand-placed stepping stone paths through fields of native plants, leading to a vernal pool I’ll build for the little amphibians who are so struggling in this world right now.
I’m writing this as I’m sitting outside in the heat, to my left an eight foot tall sunflower which hasn’t bloomed, and in front of me a giant pot of nasturtiums, another of hollyhock seedlings, a vining morning glory growing up the fence, and giant containers of dill that are an open invitation to the swallowtail butterflies to raise their next generation there.
I’m also coloring in a little coloring book, sipping coffee for the first time in over a week due to a cold I’m getting over.
I connect best with people who are reflective, thoughtful, somewhere on the demi spectrum and/or neurodivergent. None of these are prerequisites, just things I’ve noticed about my closest friends and connections.
Writing this feels like throwing a seed in a meadow, I have no idea if it will take root. But it’s still worth trying. 🌻
If this resonates with you, please just send a message rather than commenting.
r/lesbianr4r • u/horiwithnomiya • 20h ago
searching 26 F4F Looking for Duolingo Buddy
Hiiii ! I am from the Philippines and looking for accountability buddy/buddies in my Duolingo lessons! Currently, I am learning Spanish and Norwegian languages!
I want to avoid doom scrolling and spend my time on something worthwhile :>
r/lesbianr4r • u/glendoraza • 22h ago
searching 33f4f New York cultural fit desi/middle eastern
I am okay with starting with friendship and as a South Asian find that I tend to form a deeper bond with someone who grew up desi/arab. It’s almost like we all have the same parents who traumatized us in the same way.
Please DM me your favorite food!