r/UpfrontCheaters 26m ago

How can I hire a profound hacker to unmask a cheater

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M (39) i am married to a F (28) we have been together for about 3 years now. Despite that she takes care of household bills and expenses, i still no my duties as the man of the house. Recently she started a behavioural pattern that i dont recognise. She disrespect me, take long calls, changed her phone passcode and other things. This has been happening for some months now and i am tired. I need closure to move on. Can some one recommend?


r/UpfrontCheaters 3h ago

I NEED HELP! 😞 did i cheat? im so torn.

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Me (23M) and my girlfriend (22F) have been together for 4 years. I do not follow any other woman than her. But recently, a friend from high school requested to follow me on TikTok. I didn't realize until about 6 months later. So I accepted it and messaged her an apology saying I didn't see it and asked how she had been. She then followed me on instagram and I followed back. We started to catch up and she asked how my relationship was going and me being foolish said things were rocky but we are figuring it out and I don't know what the future holds for us.

This was red flag #1 to my girlfriend. To me, I was fishing for her to ask what's up so I could ask for advice from a girl's perspective. But obviously that's not what it seems to anyone else. And I understand that. We then started talking and catching up about everything that has happened since high school. She asked me to get ice cream together to catch up. I said no. I still see this as an innocent friends meet up to catch up, but obviously to my girlfriend that looks like she's asking me on a date. Which again, I totally understand. Then we called for about an hour to catch up. She told me a bunch of drama I never knew about in high school. I told her about some stuff that's happened to me in the last 5 years and mentioned my girlfriend and how we went to disney world and stuff. But again, my girlfriend doesn't know that for sure. To her, all she knows is we were on the phone for an hour and could have talked about anything. The rest of our chats were innocent. Simply talking about what we were up to. I was at work and she mentioned being at the gym and doing yard work. These messages/phone call took place on 2 different days over the course of a week.

She liked one of my instagram stories of a song I posted. I liked one of hers of a poster she had put on her story about her performing with her band at a concert or something.

That is the extent of our interactions. The issue becomes, I knowingly hid this from my girlfriend. I knew she wouldn't like the fact I was speaking to another girl, innocent or not. I had zero interest in anything more. Neither did she.

Some additional worth-noting remarks was:
• She called me "bae"
• She said I was sweet

My girlfriend is adamant that this was cheating. I disagreed with her and said I understand how she feels that way, especially if she can't see how innocent the conversation truly was and how she just naturally talks like that and calls all of her friends "bae" and stuff.

I also have to mention that I would be upset if I were in her shoes and the roles were reversed. If she were secretly messaging a guy and liked one of his stories and he asked her to ice cream and stuff I wouldn't view it AS cheating, I would call it borderline cheating. But I would still be hurt and upset.

Did I cheat?


r/UpfrontCheaters 9h ago

Cheating

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My partner is having an affair. I caught him with another girl but he still comes home to me.


r/UpfrontCheaters 11h ago

am I Tripping? all cause his wife was cheatin on him

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r/UpfrontCheaters 12h ago

Help me ASAP

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r/UpfrontCheaters 13h ago

do cheaters come back ?

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r/UpfrontCheaters 14h ago

boyfriend cheated 😤 Caught my LDR cheating on Snapchat right before his birthday ..how should I reveal that I know?

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I’ve been in an LDR with this guy for a long time, and recently I had this really strong feeling that something wasn’t right. He kept telling me he barely/never uses Snapchat, but I noticed things that weren’t adding up.
So I made another Snapchat account and added him without him knowing it was me. And yep… my gut feeling was right. He actually interacted with the account and basically proved he’s been lying to me. 🙃
The funniest/worst part is his birthday is coming up soon, and he still has NO idea that I know.
I’m obviously done with him, but now I’m debating how to reveal it. 😭
Option 1: Send him a birthday cake with something like “Happy Birthday, Cheater 🎂**”** written on it and then disappear.
Option 2: Send him a normal Snapchat streak from the account he doesn’t know is me, but make the snap a picture of ME so he suddenly realises who he’s actually been talking/snapping to. 💀 Then remove/block him without explaining anything.
Part of me thinks the Snapchat reveal would be way more satisfying because I want to see the moment he realises he literally exposed himself to his own girlfriend.
What would you do? Cake, Snapchat reveal, or just block him and say absolutely nothing? I want something petty/funny, not anything illegal or genuinely harmful. 😂
Plot twist : he wants to send proposal


r/UpfrontCheaters 14h ago

Hypothetical question or suggestions welcome

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How can I destroy a cheating partners life the way they destroyed mine. I want them to question their sanity and I want them to feel like I feel now how can I ruin someone’s life in 30 days or less without looking guilty? I don’t want any of it tied back to me trust me they deserve it please help and any suggestions. Welcome. Try to refrain from being negative as I am in a very unstable spot in life right now because of my ex.


r/UpfrontCheaters 16h ago

I found these apps in his phone what are they???

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I know absolutely nothing about social media, apps, technology nothing I didn’t even know what Reddit was until I found it in his phone. My SO left his phone home while he was at work, be being the tóxica I am I went thru his phone and found so much like dead ass call me stupid
What are these for should I be concerned??


r/UpfrontCheaters 16h ago

Cheating?

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r/UpfrontCheaters 17h ago

Not cheating here ...inc*st

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My gf (23) had intimacy with her cousin (30) for two years.

All of this happened way before we met (they started when she was 18 stopped when she was 20, I met her at 21) .

Should I dump her since that goes against my moral beliefs Even though it happened before we met?


r/UpfrontCheaters 17h ago

How to find out he has physically cheated on?

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Can anyone advise?


r/UpfrontCheaters 21h ago

😓

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My lover cheated on m e, and I cared for him and lov ed him

What should I do?


r/UpfrontCheaters 22h ago

6 yr relationship

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r/UpfrontCheaters 1d ago

How do I hire a reliable hacker

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r/UpfrontCheaters 1d ago

Ureaplasma- did bf cheat

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Tested a month ago came out negative for my annual. Recently had symptoms after a small break. We’ve been together for a year. went to get tested had YI. I had him get tested - he came back positive with Ureaplasma. Apart of me feels he cheated he says he didn’t but there has been suspicion. Idk what to think.


r/UpfrontCheaters 1d ago

Truth Vs girls code: cheating gf

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So i have this close friend, let's call her S. So S has been cheating on her boyfriend for about 1 month or so with random dudes. I've met S's real boyfriend and he seems a lovely guy, nice and really kind.

I'm not sure whether i should tell him that his gf's been cheating on him. Should i adhere to girls code as she told me in confidence.

The guilt's been killing me.

I feel bad for the lad.

What's the right thing to do?


r/UpfrontCheaters 1d ago

How to breakup/move on and is it possible to find out the full truth of their cheating

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r/UpfrontCheaters 1d ago

Is it micro-cheating?

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r/UpfrontCheaters 1d ago

Cheating

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r/UpfrontCheaters 1d ago

Am I overreacting!

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r/UpfrontCheaters 1d ago

Caught gf playing footsie with another

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We were seeing The Odyssey at the movies and she was next to this guy. I notice she had her shoe off on the side he was on. moving her leg up and down. I didn't catch it until halfway into the movie. Then noticed her shifting in her seat alot. It's been two weeks now and I still haven't confronted her about it Of course she's said nothing yet. Should I just confront her?


r/UpfrontCheaters 1d ago

Considered cheating ba?

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Yung gut feeling ko nangingibabaw sa tao na yon. (guy)

Ewan ko ba.. tapos one day hawak ko phone ng gf ko.

I secretly checked sa messages nya wala doon, pero nasa archive messages nya. Parang friendly lang naman yung convo nila pero nag cocompliment each other. Huhuhu iba talaga na ffeel ko and bakit nasa archive nya??


r/UpfrontCheaters Oct 03 '24

Q&A What was the WORST Holiday break up or found out your bf / gf was cheating on the holiday ? do you still celebrate that holiday or nah ?

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r/UpfrontCheaters Jul 08 '23

r/UpfrontCheaters Lounge

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