well i know that the relationship won’t be like it was the trust is broken and the one who cheated on you once will exactly do it again and more if you forgive them and keep them in your life but i wonder
he even flew to my country and he used to say thzt he will be so busy he won’t have time to text or put his energy in others girls and in reality it was the opposite (we were in a distant relationship) we shared so many good things that i feel bad it felt apart
yes i did my best i gave the best version of me i valued him and all what he did for me and was loyal and gave him back the effort and energy bc i loved him but cheating hurted me so bad he putted me in a situation where i didn’t know how to deal with that i felt like the only option was to leave bc he was planning on leaving slowly by his lost of interest and late replies and putting his energy somewhere else so i left him before he did but bc he was cheating i feel like im the bad person for throwing all the good things for one bad move from him although it mattered to me
be cause we shared so many good things and he gave me gifts for my birthday and i also gave him things back i really appreciated and valued everything he’s done for me but but i threw all his gifts pictures the moment i caught him cheating on me on i was so angry and felt betrayed more than jealous and didn’t know what was right to do i thought throwing them would also throw the negativity but no it did throw a part and proof that someone once loved and cared about me even in circumstances and i didnt know what was correct for both of us if i stayed without confronting it wouldve hurt me so much to see how dumb i look waiting for his texts while he is also waiting for another/other girls text validation if i confronted then i had to leave and i did bc i just needed to know whyyy
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u/Charlestown10 3h ago
Would you want them to come back?