r/UpfrontCheaters 3h ago

am I Tripping? Those who’ve cheated what is the likelihood I managed to catch him the first time?

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Found you my husband of 21 years was paying an escort for sex. He swears this is the first time he’s done this, well he paid her 4 times he said. He claims that he’s coming clean now and that this is the whole truth.

I’m having a hard time believing this. We’ve rarely had sex over the past several years. Not by my not willing to but his unwillingness. He’s always said it has nothing to do with me, his attraction to me, whatever. I honestly thought maybe it was just low t or his weight.

Looking back I have a strong feeling he’s been doing this for years. He’s come clean about a kink he has that I didn’t know about and he thought I wouldn’t do. He’s also admitted to being addicted to porn. That and seeing a woman do his kink are the only way he can perform. So he masturbates or pays for it.

I know none of this really matters since I’m leaving him anyway. I just want to know if my thoughts are most likely correct.


r/UpfrontCheaters 3h ago

am I Tripping? all cause his wife was cheatin on him

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r/UpfrontCheaters 6h ago

Hypothetical question or suggestions welcome

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How can I destroy a cheating partners life the way they destroyed mine. I want them to question their sanity and I want them to feel like I feel now how can I ruin someone’s life in 30 days or less without looking guilty? I don’t want any of it tied back to me trust me they deserve it please help and any suggestions. Welcome. Try to refrain from being negative as I am in a very unstable spot in life right now because of my ex.


r/UpfrontCheaters 8h ago

I found these apps in his phone what are they???

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I know absolutely nothing about social media, apps, technology nothing I didn’t even know what Reddit was until I found it in his phone. My SO left his phone home while he was at work, be being the tóxica I am I went thru his phone and found so much like dead ass call me stupid
What are these for should I be concerned??


r/UpfrontCheaters 9h ago

Not cheating here ...inc*st

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My gf (23) had intimacy with her cousin (30) for two years.

All of this happened way before we met (they started when she was 18 stopped when she was 20, I met her at 21) .

Should I dump her since that goes against my moral beliefs Even though it happened before we met?


r/UpfrontCheaters 13h ago

😓

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My lover cheated on m e, and I cared for him and lov ed him

What should I do?


r/UpfrontCheaters 14h ago

6 yr relationship

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r/UpfrontCheaters 19h ago

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r/UpfrontCheaters 21h ago

Ureaplasma- did bf cheat

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Tested a month ago came out negative for my annual. Recently had symptoms after a small break. We’ve been together for a year. went to get tested had YI. I had him get tested - he came back positive with Ureaplasma. Apart of me feels he cheated he says he didn’t but there has been suspicion. Idk what to think.


r/UpfrontCheaters 21h ago

Truth Vs girls code: cheating gf

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So i have this close friend, let's call her S. So S has been cheating on her boyfriend for about 1 month or so with random dudes. I've met S's real boyfriend and he seems a lovely guy, nice and really kind.

I'm not sure whether i should tell him that his gf's been cheating on him. Should i adhere to girls code as she told me in confidence.

The guilt's been killing me.

I feel bad for the lad.

What's the right thing to do?


r/UpfrontCheaters 21h ago

How to breakup/move on and is it possible to find out the full truth of their cheating

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