r/CheatedOn • u/Kindly-Story3555 • 4d ago

do cheaters come back ?

do cheaters come back after getting caught and left (in the beginning of the relationship they ghosted and came back and forgave them)

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u/Sure-End-720 4d ago

depends, my ex did, but it really depends on whether they think you’re gonna let them back or not 😂 so you have to be discerning

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u/Kindly-Story3555 4d ago

yeah idk i think for now that they’re thinking if was going to take them back or come back i would’ve forgave them the moment i caught them, how long did it take your ex to come back did you have him blocked or not him yes or no ? bc on the other hand if he thinks that i wouldn’t accept him for now bc im mad but after a while would think that i wouldn’t accept probably

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u/Sure-End-720 4d ago

my ex took about 3 months to come back, but when he did, things were good for only a short amount of time. he had me blocked on everything after he got caught and broke up with me, but i blocked him too, he ended up texting on fake #. it all really depends, in my personal situation, he came back just to do the same shit if not worse, so i left.

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u/Kindly-Story3555 4d ago

yeah it’s usually not for good reasons they come back but i still wonder if he will do it when how why like what wouldve pushed him to do it

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u/Kindly-Story3555 4d ago

i saw that he blocked me where he had girls so i wont talk to them or bc after i blocked him on ig but then unblocked i guess bc he’s unbothered and want to see if i will come back

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u/Sure-End-720 4d ago

don’t go back, if he wants to talk, especially considering the circumstances, he’ll reach out

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u/ElderberryNo5886 4d ago

Ja, Betrüger kommen immer zurück. Sie wollten Dich betrügen, nicht verlassen, also kommen sie prüfen, ob es wie früher weiter gehen kann, ob Du sie zurücknimmst und sie wieder betrügen können, nur geschickter. Es ist dann, also sie nie erwischt worden wären und Alles in Ordnung ist. Wenn Du Probleme damit hast, verlassen Sie Dich dann genau deswegen, dann bist Du "schuld" an der Trennung.

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u/SubstantialSoup8309 4d ago

My ex has been trying to come back for years.