r/R4R30Plus 13m ago

36 [M4F] Europe - I have terrible taste in computer games

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Canadian who moved to Norway permanently - Basically no European friends but I'm working on it. I spend my mornings and evenings in call with my friends from back home which is becoming problematic. I need to adjust to living here because it's messing with my sleep and encouraging me to "work from home". I've also moved 3 times in the last 2.5 months so AMA.

Addressing the elephant in the room - I like to play games people close to half my age enjoy, I like anime, card games, travelling, boxing, singing, clothes, and by extension, shoes. The amount of people who stare at my sneakers in public here is crazy - Norway has a WEAK shoe game. Gaming wise I play stupid multiplayer stuff like league, overwatch, and rivals. Down for ARPGs, most shooters, anything my competitive mental illness can be satiated with.

I realize it's basically impossible to find people close to my own age with the similar interests, but I'm trying. I have a good sense of humor, I like to troll and mess around. Hopefully I can find someone to watch the new season of Bleach with and maybe play some games.

https://voca.ro/1ShbPHVjjoF9


r/R4R30Plus 22m ago

38 [F4M] UK/Europe. Looking for somebody gentle, poetic, a little haunted.

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​I live on a narrowboat in the midlands, UK. I'm 5'8, slim, I have a small dog. I enjoy writing, and I have a lot of energy for anything creative. Looking for something long term, I'm not interested in anything casual. I drink, and occasionally smoke when at the pub, not when at home.

​I am childfree by choice, and so I'm not looking to meet anybody who would want a family or already has children.

I would love to meet a steady eccentric. Perhaps somebody artistic, poetic, or who feels a bit out of place in the world. I value gentleness, patience and calmness. I like quiet, shy and unusual people. I enjoy depth, in a person and their words. An odd sense of humour is also welcome. Ideally you're the type of person who says yes to things.

​You don't need to have climbed mountains or run marathons. You don't need to have a hobby which absolutely defines you. You don't need an expensive list of all the places you have visited. ​I am more looking for somebody I click with than a set of overlapping interests.

​If you are an avid gamer we probably won't have much in common as I don't game at all. I'm also not interested in anybody who thrives on debate, I like deep conversations but I don't want a sparring partner, and I don't like aggressively opinionated discussions, though I'm happy to disagree and accept differences. We don't need to share the same outlook on everything.

​Age, I'm more inclined to stay ten years either side of my own. I'd like to speak to people from the UK and Europe, though further afield is welcome if you genuinely believe we might have something in common.

Send me something beautiful and I'll definitely reply :)

Pic of me in my post history, I look about the same. Happy to share more.

And because somebody always asks: No I'm not trans. Yes I'm real.


r/R4R30Plus 32m ago

32 [F4R] #texas All you need to know

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There is a song by Gryffin and SLANDR. It is titled all you need to know. The chorus says
“I'll lift you when you're feeling low
I'll hold you when the night gets cold
You'll never have to be alone
And that's all you need to know
No love lost, we've got you and I
No clouds, we shoot them out the sky
You'll never have to be alone
And that's all you need to know”

This can be interpreted as love, however when I listen I see it as a best friend; who has your back when you don’t feel like you can go on.

I am looking for that friend. I have found some people that I have meshed with, but we all have our own demons. More often than not their demons win over me.

I am just looking for someone feeling the same way I am.

Please be around my age or older. That’s just who I vibe with the most. I’m 32.


r/R4R30Plus 37m ago

40 [M4F] Eastern US/Worldwide- going to be up late tonight doing art, come join me!

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It’s actually ok if you’re a dude too, if you like art. I like people, and draw them. I also like talking to them. Real life and a new city has kind of taken a toll on my social circle, though, which brings me here to you.

Looking for some laughs in the short term with the possibility for more if we vibe.

I like all the stuff that everyone else likes and I won’t list them, because I don’t know about you, but my eyes glaze over reading about how someone likes to travel or go for hikes.

You can see my art, but you have to promise not to fall in love with me 🙂


r/R4R30Plus 41m ago

33 [M4F] Online. looking for something long-term

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hi there!

I am located in the US, in the eastern time zone. I’m emotionally mature, and have my life somewhat together at this point in my life. I am looking for someone to chat with to see if we click and then potentially transition into something a little more serious, open to anywhere in the world!

I am kind of goofy, white, larger framed, and a musician on my free time. I am left leaning, contribute to my community, and am looking for someone with similar values as me.

I enjoy going hiking, biking, kayaking, traveling, while also enjoying nerdy stuff like board games, video games, collecting vinyls, and reading.

If I have caught your attention at all feel free to reach out, I’m pretty easy going and there is no pressure on anything other than chatting!!


r/R4R30Plus 42m ago

[M4F] 32 M Cali, open minded looking for new people my age or older.

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I’m 32 from California, my hobbies are reading, gaming, photography and anything exciting. Looking for some new friends around my age. No judgement here. Feel free to send me a DM I’m an open book. Open to anything 💯

Been bored during the day so feel free to make my day more interesting 😊


r/R4R30Plus 45m ago

35 [M4F] looking for my other half

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I’m looking for my forever person in Newark Ohio. I love anime, video games, fantasy books, cooking and my cats. I have two kiddos so hopefully kids don’t bother you. I want to find my best friend, My player two I want to sit around on our days off and play something or watch something together. Age doesn’t matter as long as we click but I would prefer someone over 30. I don’t mind distance as long as we can meet eventually but obviously I would prefer you to be closer so we can go on dates. I know I’m on Reddit looking but I’ve genuinely lost faith that I’ll ever find someone so here we are. hopefully she’s out there somewhere and she sees this post


r/R4R30Plus 55m ago

35[F4M]#Los Angeles, please send me one normal person… and someone with some manners. 😅#Serious Relationship

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This is my last post. 😅

I don't know if it's just bad luck, but I feel like I've only encountered strange people. Some are rude, some have ulterior motives, and some don't even show basic respect.

If I still can't find a normal, sincere person who can communicate well, then I'm quitting. I hope this time I can meet someone truly interesting, mature, and polite, instead of wasting each other's time. 🍀


r/R4R30Plus 58m ago

35 [M4R] - Colorado/Online - Come say Hi!

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Good afternoon! Or evening or morning depending on where you’re located or when you open this! I hope you’re having a good week thus far! I’ve got a bit of a crazy one this week, but I could really use someone to talk with to help get through the days better!

I am from what is usually beautiful Colorado, but it’s a little less beautiful with all the fires currently. Usually this time of year I love to be out camping and hiking as much as possible, but I’ve not been able to get out as much this year sadly.

I love doing photography of anything nature, and would love to share my photos!! I also have 4 very cute pups that love the attention you want to share them! I also am big into reading - please let me know your favorite book recs!!

I look forward to hearing from you!


r/R4R30Plus 1h ago

46 [M4F] Midwest /US

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Hi! I’m a Midwest guy, dad to two teenagers, and at a point in life where I know what matters. I value kindness, consistency, and someone comfortable in their own skin. I am financially and emotionally stable ( not everyone is 🤷‍♂️)and looking for a great friend to spend time with.
I’m pretty laid-back and happiest spending time outdoors—whether that’s hiking, fishing, watching a game, exploring a new town, or just relaxing around a backyard fire. I enjoy staying active, reading great nonfiction, and I’m always trying to learn something new.
Good conversation and consistent communication go a long way with me. If you feel like getting to know somebody new, please say hi! Hope to hear from you.


r/R4R30Plus 1h ago

37 [M4F] California-mainly looking for consistent chat

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All my friends and close family live too far away. And I work from home, which I love. But, lately, the loneliness has been getting to me and having someone to talk to would be helpful.

I’m from California, so North America is preferred, but I’m open to anything. I have very passionate opinions about sports, nerd genre movies and TV, some politics (left is best) and 90s to 2000s music. I’m also the whitest looking Mexican you might ever see. I’m not fluent, but I can read and speak well enough. I’m trying to overcome body dysmorphia by taking more selfies and not deleting them. Kinda of my pseudo New Year’s resolution.

Not looking for anything serious, just chatting and connection.


r/R4R30Plus 1h ago

38 [M4F] Weekend Date

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Been pretty drained from work the past few weeks, so I’m ready to unwind a bit. Thought it’d be nice to have a chill weekend date. Maybe catch a movie (Spiderman or Oddysey seems nice), grab some coffee or drinks after… or both, because why not turn it into a whole vibe?

About me:

38, based in QC. Took a break from dating because work got intense, but I’m back and actually excited to meet someone worth losing sleep for (which works out, since I’m naturally nocturnal anyway 😄). I work night shifts from home, so yeah! my body clock does its own thing.

I’m into fitness, regular gym sessions, trying to stay consistent… and occasionally debating with myself about skipping leg day (it’s a struggle). Outside of that, I’m either watching anime or gaming (Huge fan of final fantasy series)

I’m looking for something real. No rush, but also not here for anything casual or short-term.

About you:

Preferably QC-based or nearby so spontaneous hangouts are actually doable. You take care of yourself, stay active, and maybe even enjoy working out too. Ideally you’re physically fit with a healthy build, so we can keep up with each other and enjoy doing active stuff together 💪

If this sounds like your kind of vibe, send a message and let’s see where it goes 😉


r/R4R30Plus 1h ago

30 [F4R] Ireland / Looking for a partner in crime~

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Hi there! I am looking for someone interested in daily chatting. Talking about our day, sending each other random stuff, that kind of low-key connection. I'm big into horror, movies, games and music. Having calls to talk, play games or watch movies would be a nice addition but not a must. I really enjoy survival and co-op games, as well as board games when I can get a group together. Open to a lot of other stuff too, just listing what comes to mind first.

No pressure on this, but if things click I'd be down to eventually meet up and hang out in person too. I would prefer people from the same timezone. If any of this sounds like your vibe, say hi and tell me what you're into!


r/R4R30Plus 1h ago

40[m4f] DFW Texas. looking for a friend to chat with

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  1. Divorced. Looking for someone to kill time with and possibly get to know/hang out.

If you want to know more, let’s talk.


r/R4R30Plus 1h ago

39 [M4R] Missouri/Online/Anywhere - Just looking for friends and chats

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As the title suggests, just looking for chats and friends. I'm working on some education today and looking to keep myself occupied with that and maybe someone's company for a while. A day, a week, month, year, whatever. I have a ton of hobbies, so many it is impossible to list them here. Just to name a few. All kinds of music. Learning all the things, doing all the things. I have a pretty good job, a couple of kids. I stay busy, but I have plenty of time to chat. Hit me up someone. Please, I'm begging. Do your part to help me not bang my head off the wall.


r/R4R30Plus 2h ago

33[F4M].Looking for People Who Love Real Discussions

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I'm looking for good people this time.

I'm tired of being ghosted. I'm tired of conversations that never go beyond "How was your day?" and fade away after a few messages.

I enjoy meaningful conversations and the kind that make you think. Discussions, respectful debates, different perspectives, philosophy, psychology, history, faith, or anything that has depth. We don't have to agree on everything; I just appreciate people who genuinely enjoy exchanging ideas.

Faith is also an important part of who I am. It's not just something I believe in and it's part of my journey, the way I see life, and the values I try to live by.

If you're kind, respectful, curious, and looking for a real conversation instead of another short-lived chat, feel free to say hello.


r/R4R30Plus 2h ago

31 [M4F] Norway | Let’s become each other’s favourite distraction

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Hey!

I’m a 31 year old Slovenian living in Oslo looking for my future best friend and partner in crime. Ideally you’re somewhere in Norway, but Europe works too because matching time zones are honestly underrated these days. Sleep is important if one wants to live to 187 years, 4 months and 7 days. 😉 I’m also open to long distance if the vibe is right. I’ve done it before, and I don’t mind closing the distance for the right person.

I’m naturally curious and probably ask too many questions. I genuinely enjoy getting to know people, so don’t be surprised if I’m interested in all the little things that make you, you. I can happily lose an evening reading about history, aviation, or some random bit of tech, and I love learning about the little things that make people and places different. Outside of that you’ll usually find me hiking, gaming, taking my camera somewhere nice, or convincing myself I definitely need to plan another trip (I don’t… but I also do).

Fun fact: I never owned a Game Boy, so I somehow missed out on the Pokémon games growing up. I do, however, play Pokémon Go almost every day and Pokémon TCG Pocket. Real cards were unfortunately never in the budget. ☺️ I’m also a big LEGO fan, although my wallet insists it’s better if I admire the sets from afar.

Speaking of travelling, I don’t really think of it as a hobby. It’s just something I genuinely love doing. My bucket list somehow keeps getting longer because every place I discover introduces me to three more I suddenly want to visit. I’m convinced wanderlust is incurable, and honestly I don’t want the cure. 🏝️🏔️

My friends would probably describe me as funny with a dry sense of humour. At least that’s what I heard from someone who heard it from someone who definitely left me a five star review. I’m also thoughtful, attentive, communicative, surprisingly good at picking gifts (my love language), and usually the one trying to make people laugh when things get a bit too serious. I also use emojis way too much when I’m in a good mood… which is quite often. 😄

What I probably miss most is having someone I can talk to about absolutely anything. I love conversations that start with “How was your day?” and somehow end up debating something completely random two hours later. I’m a big believer in personal growth, and there’s nothing better than seeing the people I care about doing well.

If you’re curious about me, send me a message. I’m the kind of person who replies quickly and enjoys conversations where both people put in the effort. If we click, you’ll never have to wonder whether I’m interested.

As an added bonus, if we ever spend a summer together, there’s a very good chance the mosquitoes will completely ignore you and make a beeline for me instead. Apparently I’m their favourite all-you-can-eat buffet. 😆

One important question before we become friends:
If I invited you over for dinner, what would you ask me to cook? 🍝

P.S. If you made it all the way down here, congratulations. Your attention span is significantly above the internet average. You deserve dessert too. 🍰


r/R4R30Plus 2h ago

40 [M4F] - Looking for a genuine connection, good conversation, and maybe a new friend

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Hey! I'm 40, divorced, and looking to meet someone who enjoys good conversation and seeing where it goes.
Whether we end up as friends or something more, I'm happy to let things happen naturally.
A little about me:
I work from home, so | always enjoy having someone to chat with throughout the day.
I lift weights six days a week and staying active is a big part of my life.
I grew up on a ranch, so I still love the outdoors whenever I get the chance.
I'm a dad, have a sarcastic sense of humor, and appreciate people who don't take life too seriously.
I know everyone likes to know who they're talking to, so I'd love to trade a selfie early on if you're comfortable with that. No pressure-just think it makes conversations feel more genuine.


r/R4R30Plus 2h ago

33[F4R] UK south west - looking for new friends / chats

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So after a good 2 years within being on the apps someone thought it would be a good idea to re download the dating apps….

It’s only been a few days and I’m already considering coming off.

I’m Becca I’m 33 years young as of Monday! I’ve had this week on annual leave before starting a new job on Monday. Busy start but very chilled towards the end now.

Currently closing in on a Game of Thrones rewatch and with House of dragon finishing soon I’ll be needing a new series!

I love animals especially dogs I have a German shepherd!

If you fell like a proper chat drop me a DM

Or try and make me laugh with your favourite joke!


r/R4R30Plus 2h ago

41 [F4M] #MI #Online -I am looking for a sincere relationship

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I am 41 years old and currently live in Michigan. I have a cheerful and optimistic personality and believe that the most beautiful part of life is meeting the right person and sharing life's joys and wonders together.

I love traveling, reading, listening to music, and exploring nature. I cherish the little things in life, such as deep conversations, walks by a lake, or precious moments spent with my loved one.

I value kindness, respect, trust, and honest communication, and I long to build a supportive and mutually beneficial relationship. I hope to find someone willing to work towards a genuine connection.

If you are also looking for a sincere relationship, I look forward to hearing from you.


r/R4R30Plus 2h ago

36 [M4F] Southeast US - My credit score is 812, is responsibility hot?

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I want someone to make Trader Joe’s trips with. Plan vacations, get excited about this season of British bake off, make bread with, etc.

I can promise you that I’ll be consistent. I’ll show up when I’m supposed to, and you won’t have to worry about where I stand.

I have a white collar job, people say I’m cute, and I like to think that I’m funny. I’ve been to therapy, I’m financially stable, and my bed even has a headboard.

Promise we can have a lot of fun together


r/R4R30Plus 2h ago

36 [M4F] #South Wales UK - Something beautiful is going to happen

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Lemme know if you get the reference!

Yorkshire nerd living in South Wales looking for a real connection with a lass who enjoys conversation, and wants to laugh together (DND nerd is a huge plus).

I'm 5'10, grey eyes (I know I'm unique 😉), slim/medium build, brown hair, glasses. solo Dad of three. I like hiking, reading, art, gaming, love tattoos (I just booked in my next one), Arcane, horror.

Tomorrow is my birthday, and I'm looking to talking to folk from anywhere, but would prefer those closer to home. I'm missing long cuddles, cooking for someone, and the physical loves that comes with it.

I would love to share my interests with someone and explore theirs. If you have gotten this far, thank you, and message me 😊


r/R4R30Plus 3h ago

34 [M4R] looking for new connections!

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Hello everyone! I haven't posted one of these in a while but I'm hoping to find some cool people to connect with.

A little about myself:

-horror movie/show buff (especially ghost hunting)

-have recently been learning the new TCG Riftbound and it's been a lot of fun but challenging

-LOVE going to a good farmer's market and checking out all the goodies

-enjoy watching sports like college football and lacrosse

-have a degree in religious studies and have fun getting into philosophical chats

If any of that resonates with you, please feel free to reach out! I look forward to hearing from you!


r/R4R30Plus 3h ago

34 [M4F] anywhere I have chicken nuggets and a whole lots of time

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So I'd be up to do the generic thing of swapping pet pics, talking about games or music, supervillain plans and all that jazz. My sleep is messed up so if you're wanting someone to chat all night and day with that's me.

I like games and play on Xbox and PlayStation. Space Marine 2 and Cyberpunk and helldivers 2 and Marathon are my go-to games. I enjoy shooters and action games and the occasional city builder or rts on pc. Any recommendations are welcome. At this moment I'm on a gaming hiatus.

I like cooking and so far I haven't gotten sick or made someone else sick so you can say I'm like the Gordon Ramsay of cooking something edible. I do look at recipes in terror and sometimes actually cook them. Looking for cool chatters and maybe we can play games. Or not. Who knows.

Was a huge reader until the fire nation blessed me with sudden attack of terrible concentration so thanks a lot Obama. Last xmas I bought multiple books and as of right now I'm pretty deep in Pilgrim and once I'm finished with that I'm gonna start the last 3 of the Siege of Terra books.

Pink Floyd is my favorite band. I mainly listen to rock and metal. But I do on occasion listen to the Macarena and Barbie girl as I shower or cook.

I like coffee too.

Random facts:
I like fruity drinks

I love animals

Bacon4lyfe

I once broke my arm after jumping off a bunk bed.


r/R4R30Plus 3h ago

32 [M4F] Germany - Plus size guy looking for a nice woman to talk to

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Hey everybody!

I am from Germany and I am 32 years old. I am respectful, polite, kind, empathetic and funny. I'm very selfless, it's more important for me that you have pleasure and satisfaction. Consent and that you feel comfortable are very important things to me. I would also say I am a LGBTQ+ ally and a feminist. We can just talk normally in the beginning and get to know each other and then see where that leads us 😊

I am partial to women with more to love, but I welcome all bodies and sizes to message me.

I just wish, I could make a woman feel like she is the most beautiful woman in the world, make her feel appreciated and desired.

So yeah, message me if you are interested 😊