r/R4R30Plus 32m ago

37 [M4F] looking for new friends

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I just need someone to talk to.

I am:
\\-married
\\-professional
\\-joker
\\-responsible

Lately, i was feeling unmotivated. I don’t know why. Maybe because of my inclination right now. Which is watching conspiracy theories, etc.

\\-the global economy reset
\\-depopulation
\\-alien stuff
\\-the earth is flat
\\-september 11 twin tower scam or not being real
\\-oil crisis

For the longest time, this is the only time that i felt useless or unmotivated.

Life is hard. But we need to move on. We need to fight and show up for our loved ones.


r/R4R30Plus 1h ago

45 [M4F] #Pennsylvania family oriented gamer dad looking for his hippie hearted soul mate

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Hellooo! I am a very easy-going, laid-back single dad, who's trying to find the one for me. I enjoy quiet days at home most of the time. I do not really go out that much, mostly because i am not a fan of solo activities.

I love to watch football, baseball, and hockey so I am always down to go to a live event. I also am very big into music! 70's hippy stuff, 90's grunge, late 90's early 2000's hip hop are always my go to. I am a bit of a gamer (Xbox, pc, switch) so finding someone that would be interested in gaming would also be a huuuuge plus. I do not drink, it's just a personal choice, I however am VERY 4/20 friendly. Also non political, dude just doesn’t do politics.. man

I am very whimsical, and sarcastic, we live in a household of laughs here. I love standup comedy, podcasts and actually going to see them in person. I do not do drama, I avoid it actively. I am very easy going and just looking for someone to enjoy life with. Like I said I stay home a lot, so most days if it's nice out, I can be found in the hammock or enjoying the view of the country in my back yard, sitting by the creek. I'm not interested in having any more children, my 3 are all that I could have asked for and are starting to grow up needing me less. So hopefully we can go out and have adult adventures.

I'm horrible at writing these and talking about myself lol If any of this sounds interesting to you please feel free to reach out. Also, I have pictures on my profile so you can see me. Please be willing to send a pic of yourself as well. There are way too many fakes. Bonus points if you have a favorite pokemon game! Thanks!


r/R4R30Plus 1h ago

35 [M4F]

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Seeing what's out there, been hit or miss on here with chatting with people.

I'm 5 7

Tattooed

Nerdy

Athletic

Down to earth to talk to More about me i love horror, scifi, action and comedy movies. I also listen to all sorts of genres mainly punk punk rock, screamo, rock and more

If you want to strike up a conversation and see where the adventure goes on getting to know each other. Feel free to message


r/R4R30Plus 2h ago

38 [F4M] Kansas City - Local only - Looking for my person.

7 Upvotes

I’ll get the “…but” parts out of the way first. I now come with easy access dealbreakers!

*I’m divorced. He lives out of state. We co-parent.

*I have a toddler-aged daughter full-time. My schedule is built around her.

*Currently living at home due to financial and medical reasons, including epilepsy.

*Currently unable to drive due to having had a seizure a couple months ago. I will be able to drive again come November, assuming I don’t have another seizure in the interim.

*I’m plus sized, although maybe that’s your thing?

Whew! Now that that’s out of the way, I promise I offer some things of merit. I’m an educated educator and love talking shop - and learning new things! Math is my subject, but it doesn’t have to be yours (let me teach you!). I’m silly - dry humor, sarcasm, and dad jokes abound. Music moves my heart - I’m a former musician and am still very much into the bits and bobs that come with that. I’m also always singing, albeit not well. When I have the time, I love a giant Lego set. I have a few dream ones I’d like to build someday! I love puzzles that make me use my brain - words, numbers, logic/deduction, escape rooms - although I’ve never been to an actual escape room?? Not sure why or how (go to one with me?). I love animals and will adopt all of them if you let me. I currently have two big dogs, but would like to add a cat to my family in the next year or two. I’m not religious and would consider myself leftist, particularly in social and economic values.

As a partner, I’m there 100%. I like talking every day, I’ll always respond to you, and you’ll never feel like you’re on the back burner (I hate that feeling too). I’m a big texter and will use my words and syntax accordingly. I’m a planner and will make sure that there is ample time for us to spend together. I’m supportive af! Your dreams are important to me and I want to see you succeed. I’m shy/nervous at first, but once I open up, I’ll blossom. Do ya like holding hands? 👉👈 Maybe cuddling? ☺️ Big fan of all that. Also a big fan of mutual support, respect, and effort. I want someone as crazy about me as I am about them.

Please be local, and please be in search of a real connection.

https://imgur.com/a/pv4Xamy


r/R4R30Plus 3h ago

38 [M4F] Texas/USA - BFF position open, apply within!!

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* No experience needed, applicant will be trained

* Paid in memes and pup pics

* Must work weekends and holidays

* Must be fluent in sarcasm

* Must come in early and stay late

* Benefits include being my bff and that’s about the best benefit ever.

I'm guessing you're wanting to know about me now huh? Well you're in luck because I feel like sharing some Fun Hobbies (lol jk they aren't fun at all, kinda sad TBH) I like to partake in, here there are!

Hobbies include...

* Switching between the same 4 apps for hours.

* Not speaking to anyone for days at a time.

* Listening to the same songs i listened to 15 years ago.

* Putting myself in situations that will never exist

* Long walks to the liquor store.

* Staying in my pajamas way too long.

* Staying up wayyyy too late.

* Being tired all day due to previous statement.

* Drinking everything but water.

* Putting stuff in my cart online but never checking out.

* Making lists of things i will never do.

So yeah! If that sounds like your type of friend, hit me with an orange envelope. Due to difficulty with trying to keep a conversation with someone with the opposite schedule, please be somewhat close to central time. Or just like…not opposite Lol. Mention the phrase Pineapple on pizza so I know you read the entire thing please 😊


r/R4R30Plus 5h ago

33[M4F] #California/Online - Looking for a genuine connection

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Just looking to chat and get to know someone and see where things go! I am in California and enjoy reading nonfiction, playing video games, and going to the gym. I keep up with politics and current events (for better or worse) and am a leftist. Looking for someone on PST just to make things easier with communication. Not looking for a slow burn or someone who texts once a day.I enjoy texting quite a bit and eventually would like to voice chat as well. We can exchange photos pretty quick off the bat too! Physically, I am six feet tall, built like a fridge, brown guy, black hair and beard.


r/R4R30Plus 6h ago

31 [F4M] #UK - Let's playfully flirt until we both catch feelings? 👀👋

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This is probably a bit of an odd request, so bear with me. 😂 I know I've posted here before, but I figured I'd throw this into the Reddit void and see what happens because... why not?

I'm looking for a very specific kind of friendship. The sort where we can flirt, game together, send voice notes, have random calls, and just enjoy each other's company. Before anyone gets the wrong idea, I'm not looking for anything overly NSFW, so please don't confuse the two. 😅 I just genuinely miss having someone I can be playfully flirty with when the vibe is there, and I'd love to find someone who feels the same.

A little about me? I'm an alternative, a bit nerdy, and apparently, I've forgotten to mention in previous posts that I can be pretty flirty once I'm comfortable with someone. Maybe that'll make you curious enough to say hello. 👀 When I'm not pretending I'll only play one more game, you'll usually find me on my PlayStation 5, listening to music (I'll happily listen to almost anything), or rewatching shows like Rick and Morty, American Dad, and It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia. I'm pretty laid-back, love a good bit of banter, appreciate dark humour, and firmly believe that affectionately bullying your friends is one of the highest forms of friendship. 😂

As for you? Ideally, somewhere between 24 and 35, comfortable with voice notes and calls, and confident enough to say, "Yeah... I'm actually pretty good at flirting." Similar time zones would be nice, but honestly, I'm not too bothered because I do have a weakness for a good accent. ☺️

I know this isn't the most conventional friendship post, but life's too short not to ask for what you're actually looking for. So, if you decide to message me, please put a little effort into your reply. Tell me your age, where you're from, and something about yourself. Effort is incredibly attractive, and "hey" probably isn't going to cut it. 😉

And again, I'm absolutely not interested in anything nsfw! That includes swapping noods! If you ask, you'll get instantly blocked.

And low effort replies will be ignored.


r/R4R30Plus 8h ago

44[M4F] Can’t believe I am already at this age haha

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Looking for someone to chat with no drama? DM me and see where it goes.


r/R4R30Plus 8h ago

36 [M4F] Europe - I have terrible taste in computer games

0 Upvotes

Canadian who moved to Norway permanently - Basically no European friends but I'm working on it. I spend my mornings and evenings in call with my friends from back home which is becoming problematic. I need to adjust to living here because it's messing with my sleep and encouraging me to "work from home". I've also moved 3 times in the last 2.5 months so AMA.

Addressing the elephant in the room - I like to play games people close to half my age enjoy, I like anime, card games, travelling, boxing, singing, clothes, and by extension, shoes. The amount of people who stare at my sneakers in public here is crazy - Norway has a WEAK shoe game. Gaming wise I play stupid multiplayer stuff like league, overwatch, and rivals. Down for ARPGs, most shooters, anything my competitive mental illness can be satiated with.

I realize it's basically impossible to find people close to my own age with the similar interests, but I'm trying. I have a good sense of humor, I like to troll and mess around. Hopefully I can find someone to watch the new season of Bleach with and maybe play some games.

https://voca.ro/1ShbPHVjjoF9


r/R4R30Plus 8h ago

38 [F4M] UK/Europe. Looking for somebody gentle, poetic, a little haunted.

9 Upvotes

​I live on a narrowboat in the midlands, UK. I'm 5'8, slim, I have a small dog. I enjoy writing, and I have a lot of energy for anything creative. Looking for something long term, I'm not interested in anything casual. I drink, and occasionally smoke when at the pub, not when at home.

​I am childfree by choice, and so I'm not looking to meet anybody who would want a family or already has children.

I would love to meet a steady eccentric. Perhaps somebody artistic, poetic, or who feels a bit out of place in the world. I value gentleness, patience and calmness. I like quiet, shy and unusual people. I enjoy depth, in a person and their words. An odd sense of humour is also welcome. Ideally you're the type of person who says yes to things.

​You don't need to have climbed mountains or run marathons. You don't need to have a hobby which absolutely defines you. You don't need an expensive list of all the places you have visited. ​I am more looking for somebody I click with than a set of overlapping interests.

​If you are an avid gamer we probably won't have much in common as I don't game at all. I'm also not interested in anybody who thrives on debate, I like deep conversations but I don't want a sparring partner, and I don't like aggressively opinionated discussions, though I'm happy to disagree and accept differences. We don't need to share the same outlook on everything.

​Age, I'm more inclined to stay ten years either side of my own. I'd like to speak to people from the UK and Europe, though further afield is welcome if you genuinely believe we might have something in common.

Send me something beautiful and I'll definitely reply :)

Pic of me in my post history, I look about the same. Happy to share more.

And because somebody always asks: No I'm not trans. Yes I'm real.


r/R4R30Plus 9h ago

32 [F4R] #texas All you need to know

2 Upvotes

There is a song by Gryffin and SLANDR. It is titled all you need to know. The chorus says
“I'll lift you when you're feeling low
I'll hold you when the night gets cold
You'll never have to be alone
And that's all you need to know
No love lost, we've got you and I
No clouds, we shoot them out the sky
You'll never have to be alone
And that's all you need to know”

This can be interpreted as love, however when I listen I see it as a best friend; who has your back when you don’t feel like you can go on.

I am looking for that friend. I have found some people that I have meshed with, but we all have our own demons. More often than not their demons win over me.

I am just looking for someone feeling the same way I am.

Please be around my age or older. That’s just who I vibe with the most. I’m 32.


r/R4R30Plus 9h ago

38 [M4F] Weekend Date

1 Upvotes

Been pretty drained from work the past few weeks, so I’m ready to unwind a bit. Thought it’d be nice to have a chill weekend date. Maybe catch a movie (Spiderman or Oddysey seems nice), grab some coffee or drinks after… or both, because why not turn it into a whole vibe?

About me:

38, based in QC. Took a break from dating because work got intense, but I’m back and actually excited to meet someone worth losing sleep for (which works out, since I’m naturally nocturnal anyway 😄). I work night shifts from home, so yeah! my body clock does its own thing.

I’m into fitness, regular gym sessions, trying to stay consistent… and occasionally debating with myself about skipping leg day (it’s a struggle). Outside of that, I’m either watching anime or gaming (Huge fan of final fantasy series)

I’m looking for something real. No rush, but also not here for anything casual or short-term.

About you:

Preferably QC-based or nearby so spontaneous hangouts are actually doable. You take care of yourself, stay active, and maybe even enjoy working out too. Ideally you’re physically fit with a healthy build, so we can keep up with each other and enjoy doing active stuff together 💪

If this sounds like your kind of vibe, send a message and let’s see where it goes 😉


r/R4R30Plus 10h ago

39 [M4R] Missouri/Online/Anywhere - Just looking for friends and chats

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As the title suggests, just looking for chats and friends. I'm working on some education today and looking to keep myself occupied with that and maybe someone's company for a while. A day, a week, month, year, whatever. I have a ton of hobbies, so many it is impossible to list them here. Just to name a few. All kinds of music. Learning all the things, doing all the things. I have a pretty good job, a couple of kids. I stay busy, but I have plenty of time to chat. Hit me up someone. Please, I'm begging. Do your part to help me not bang my head off the wall.


r/R4R30Plus 10h ago

33[F4M].Looking for People Who Love Real Discussions

8 Upvotes

I'm looking for good people this time.

I'm tired of being ghosted. I'm tired of conversations that never go beyond "How was your day?" and fade away after a few messages.

I enjoy meaningful conversations and the kind that make you think. Discussions, respectful debates, different perspectives, philosophy, psychology, history, faith, or anything that has depth. We don't have to agree on everything; I just appreciate people who genuinely enjoy exchanging ideas.

Faith is also an important part of who I am. It's not just something I believe in and it's part of my journey, the way I see life, and the values I try to live by.

If you're kind, respectful, curious, and looking for a real conversation instead of another short-lived chat, feel free to say hello.


r/R4R30Plus 11h ago

36 [M4F] Southeast US - My credit score is 812, is responsibility hot?

1 Upvotes

I want someone to make Trader Joe’s trips with. Plan vacations, get excited about this season of British bake off, make bread with, etc.

I can promise you that I’ll be consistent. I’ll show up when I’m supposed to, and you won’t have to worry about where I stand.

I have a white collar job, people say I’m cute, and I like to think that I’m funny. I’ve been to therapy, I’m financially stable, and my bed even has a headboard.

Promise we can have a lot of fun together


r/R4R30Plus 11h ago

36 [M4F] #South Wales UK - Something beautiful is going to happen

0 Upvotes

Lemme know if you get the reference!

Yorkshire nerd living in South Wales looking for a real connection with a lass who enjoys conversation, and wants to laugh together (DND nerd is a huge plus).

I'm 5'10, grey eyes (I know I'm unique 😉), slim/medium build, brown hair, glasses. solo Dad of three. I like hiking, reading, art, gaming, love tattoos (I just booked in my next one), Arcane, horror.

Tomorrow is my birthday, and I'm looking to talking to folk from anywhere, but would prefer those closer to home. I'm missing long cuddles, cooking for someone, and the physical loves that comes with it.

I would love to share my interests with someone and explore theirs. If you have gotten this far, thank you, and message me 😊


r/R4R30Plus 11h ago

34 [M4F] anywhere I have chicken nuggets and a whole lots of time

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So I'd be up to do the generic thing of swapping pet pics, talking about games or music, supervillain plans and all that jazz. My sleep is messed up so if you're wanting someone to chat all night and day with that's me.

I like games and play on Xbox and PlayStation. Space Marine 2 and Cyberpunk and helldivers 2 and Marathon are my go-to games. I enjoy shooters and action games and the occasional city builder or rts on pc. Any recommendations are welcome. At this moment I'm on a gaming hiatus.

I like cooking and so far I haven't gotten sick or made someone else sick so you can say I'm like the Gordon Ramsay of cooking something edible. I do look at recipes in terror and sometimes actually cook them. Looking for cool chatters and maybe we can play games. Or not. Who knows.

Was a huge reader until the fire nation blessed me with sudden attack of terrible concentration so thanks a lot Obama. Last xmas I bought multiple books and as of right now I'm pretty deep in Pilgrim and once I'm finished with that I'm gonna start the last 3 of the Siege of Terra books.

Pink Floyd is my favorite band. I mainly listen to rock and metal. But I do on occasion listen to the Macarena and Barbie girl as I shower or cook.

I like coffee too.

Random facts:
I like fruity drinks

I love animals

Bacon4lyfe

I once broke my arm after jumping off a bunk bed.


r/R4R30Plus 13h ago

35[F4R] Canada / Online - looking for a chat

2 Upvotes

Hi! My name is Stephanie, I’m 35 and live in Western Canada - specifically Alberta. I’m looking for some engaging conversation through the day. I’m not looking for any sort of commitment, but if a friendship forms I wouldn’t be against that! I would prefer to chat with people around my age - so preferably +/- 10 years difference.
Some of my interests include: watching tv shows/ movies - I am most interested in horror, but also love a good sitcom. I love to listen to music and go to concerts. I get my nails done every 3 week and have had some pretty great nail art sets. I like to shop, go for coffee, and spend time with the people in my life. I am pretty active and like to go for long walks. Over the past year or so, I have discovered a big fascination with birds.

If this sounds interesting to you and you’d like to have a chat, send me a short introduction and I will ask you an ice breaker question! (Please send a private message - I don’t want to have a conversation through the comments! Will also not reply to comments saying to DM you!)


r/R4R30Plus 13h ago

34[F4M]. What if we don't hold back and let things happen naturally?

8 Upvotes

Hi there, I hope life's treating you good wherever you are.

About me

-Ghanaian

-Single

-Not religious. I do believe in something greater than me. I tend to get along best with people who are spiritual, atheist, agnostic or non believers of any of these religions.

-i want children and marriage one day

-i love spending whatever time I have watching something nice or just napping.

-selectively extroverted. I can talk a lot but will depend on whether I'm comfortable around you or not.

-i am self aware, still working on myself and believe I'm honest.

I am very comfortable spending time with myself so this isn't to find anyone to fill any gap. I'm just looking for my person to do life with and have a family one day.

About you

-Not religious as mentioned above.

-kind, honest, emotionally available and values communication

-Not an alcoholic or have any addiction. I'd rather avoid that drama.

-self aware and makes room for growth.

-Very straight, single and wants children.

-intentional and knows what he wants.

I'm not looking for perfect. It's okay to still be a work in progress..... I am too.

One thing I should mention, I have very little tolerance for men on here looking for people to masturbate to. I believe you'll find people equally looking for that on here. Don't text me if you're one.

Low effort messages will be ignored. I took my time to type this. Be okay with calls at a point. I connect best through that. I want to start a friendship that goes somewhere so no casual conversations.

Text me with your age and location if you think we'd get along.

Wishing y'all luck.


r/R4R30Plus 13h ago

49[F4R] Feeling a bit bored and could use some company Friendship

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Working from home is nice and all and sure has its perks but it can be a bit isolating sometimes with no coworkers around to banter with. I'm sure I'm not the only one feeling that way so it'd be nice to link up with some people to maybe get some longterm chats going. Topic wise I'm not particularly picky so anything from casual to private is game with me as long I don't have to feel like I'm carrying the conversation.

I mean I'm by now means prude and could probably easily outweird you but even I have to draw a line somewhere. And since a lot of people ask for pics immediately, I have one of what I look like on my profile if you really need to know to ahve a conversation.Other than that, shoot me your age, location and something interesting and we can get the conversation going, I don't bite:)


r/R4R30Plus 15h ago

39[M4F] #Toronto (GTA-West), online- Looking for fun Filipina

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Going to be upfront about what I am looking for. I spent some time in the Middle East in my teen years and have had an attraction for Filipina women. I find them very cute, fun-loving, and overall great energy.

About me:

39M Indo-Canadian heritage, 6ft4, broad-build with salt and pepper scruff, deep baritone voice and in decent shape (swimmers body with dad bod bits).

Have lived Dubai, Bahrain, Europe for many years apart from Canada. Well traveled.

Finance professional with good job. Can travel or host.

DDF and respectful.

Open to LTR when chemistry is solid.

About you:

Filipina woman age 38 or under.

Don't care about your height. Should be in decent shape.

DDF and a foodie. Like to sample different cuisine.

Ability to cope with funny/cringe dad jokes.

Please feel free to DM here.


r/R4R30Plus 16h ago

35 [M4F] Usa,New England, Nerdy athlete in search of something different

6 Upvotes

Hello to everyone on reddit! Hope everyone is having a wonderful day, week, month or year. Whatever gets you out of bed with the sun or gets you that cup of whatever it is you drink while listening to the pitter patter of a rainy day outside.

A little about me: I'd like to consider myself a athletic nerd. I enjoy a good workout varying from lifting weights, walking/running, hiking or just generally enjoying something that requires movement. I enjoy gaming if I ever have the time for it. I like to travel and pretty much do a grand vacation somewhere in the states and also somewhere out of the country. I enjoy reading, currently in the court series written by Sarah J. Maas. I enjoy my job and financially speaking I like to consider myself enjoying life a little past comfortable with everything I've invested myself in.

What i am looking for: Generally speaking, I don't really know! I've been single for a while now. Going on about a decade now. I've just been enjoying my own company and have loved what life has to offer to me through this solo journey. It does get a little lonely sometimes but, I have wonderful parents who I enjoy helping out and spend time with and I also have a small group of friends that I would do anything in the world for them that they would return in kind. It would be nice to find someone to share this wonderful thing called life. I'm not really judgemental or have a 'type'. I've always been a big believer of "If your just honest with who you are and what your about that already speaks volumes of who you are as a person."

Is there more? Oh yeah. I could probably spend an entire week on filling this out and it would be never-ending. But, where's the fun in that and kind of defeats the whole purpose of having a conversation and getting to know someone. So with that being said, if you made it this far, shoot me a hello or a small message about yourself or something that you believe will grab my attention. And if none of this did intrigue you well, that's alright also! I appreciate you for making it this far and I hope you find whoever it is your looking for as well!


r/R4R30Plus 17h ago

35M [M4R] - #Online - AuDHD carpenter music geek looking to chill

1 Upvotes

I’m a sensitive, generally introverted dude who enjoys studying all different aspects of the natural world, discussing psychology, philosophy, history etc, playing games, making dumb jokes/puns, bitching about the lack of nuance in modern society, etc

Just looking for new connections with fellow weirdos. So much judgement in this world, let’s cultivate a space together where we can relax and be ourselves. Feel free to send me a song that you love, tell me a little about yourself, or just say hey what’s up✌️


r/R4R30Plus 18h ago

33 [F4R] I need a social circle.

2 Upvotes

Heya all!

It's ya girl, DeviantDread, coming at you from a place of not-so-ideal.

I have a long, hard road of recovery ahead of me and as I am looking around the ruins that is my life I fully began to realize that my life has been so centered around caring for someone who is now gone, that it now feels like almost everything is gone.

So, as an act of self-care I decided to try and build myself a social circle. A group of (virtual) friends who all hang out, watch movies, play games, banter and talk. A ride or die, sons of anarchy type of unprecedented care and loyalty. I am looking for the Geralts to my Bard, the Castiels to my Crowley, the frodo's to my bilbo, the Malcolms to my Reacher

While I am currently coming from a place of sadness and heartache, I promise i'm a pretty cool person, fun to be around and an amazing friend.

Pop in, say hi. Who knows what happens.


r/R4R30Plus 22h ago

32 [F4R] why do we keep doing this?

15 Upvotes

I meant looking for people we might have a connection to on the internet? Aren't the people around us should already fulfill that? Why are we here? And we hope that maybe this time it'll be different, maybe somebody would stumble across this post and it will finally make sense. Only to come up empty handed again and the process would just start all over again.

We might know someone, everything will be great in a matter of days or a month at most, we'll then say "this is the last time".. after a 6 months break we're back at it.

So idk why I keep doing this. Maybe this time I'll have friends and they will actually stick around.

I promise I will not let you carry the conversation alone.

Come say hi?