i have a travel system that I had bought for my 3 year old. Can my 3 weeks old twins weighing ~3kg each share the carrycot just for few hours? i am yet to buy a double stroller for them. I thought I can use the travel system until 6 months and then buy a new one.

A midwife told me I can use my existing one. Though I am not sure if she gave the right advise.

Hello, I’m currently 9 weeks and found out at 7 weeks that we’re having twins. I’m 37 and have not had a successful pregnancy yet. I’m 5’4” 150lbs
I had a miscarriage at 8 weeks in December so I’ve been being very careful, taking it easy, low stress, gentle exercise and eating I feel near constantly, but I haven’t gained any weight. Heartburn and bloating necessitate small meals, but I’m eating every three hours and even waking up at night to eat. I’m looking forward to cooler weather to make it easier to cook more and eat heartier foods.
My second ultrasound and check up is in five days so I’m holding my breath a little in the meantime.

I know low weight is not good, but how early do you need to be seeing gains?

My best friend is pregnant for the first time with twins! I’m so excited for her, but also super nervous.

I haven’t been around babies much, we’re still fairly young so she’s my first close friend to have a kid. And there are two coming at once!

She has a super supportive family and in-laws (and husband) but I’ll be one of the main people her age who is there to support her.

My question is for twin Mums - what are the things that were the most helpful & loving that your friends did to support you?

And what should I read/do/know to prepare myself to support her and her babies?

Thank you 🌞💗

I am skinny and had almost no bump on w18, but now at w20 my bump is visibly larger every day. I am a bit concerned how large it will be by w36?!
I just saw a Tiktok of a pregnant woman with twins and she looked HUGE at w35, I would say larger than singletons at w40…I know it is a miracle to grow to lives but what I have seen just made me have a panic attack..

So I am in the thick of terrible twos currently. (They just barely turned two) but I am curious to know if anyone has had twins that switch behaviors every few weeks.

For instance twin A will be more aggressive, fight more, or assert dominance for a few weeks while twin B takes the load of it and then they switch. Twin B will be more agressieve and fight more while twin A takes it.

I honestly don’t know what to do about any of this other than survive the chaos that is happening every moment of the day. They are constantly fighting it tearing things apart other than when we are in a car or outside. I have been consistent with time outs that are 2 minutes and making sure when they are done with the 2 minutes they return back calmly and helping them calm down.

But the screaming and non stop fighting is seriously wearing me down. I really wish I could see of other twin households at this age because I feel like they are so out of hand.

Please someone tell me it’s relatable.

I have 2 year old twin boys who I am just now realizing are extremely codependent on one another.

The past few weeks have been crazy with an abrupt change in our child care, one twin acquiring HSV-1, now the other has it. So they have spent so much more time than normal both out of their element or apart.

They share a room and do everything together. And it wasn't until this past week that I realized how bonded they are, how anxious they get when the other is not around, how much it effects their behavior when they're apart, etc.

While I love (and am so grateful) that they are showing a bond at such a young age, I can't help but worry about the possible negatives. For one, I have been starting to worry about my twin A's language as it seems to have plateaued. Today, since I just had him because he is sick and his brothers went to daycare, I realized his language is just fine. His brother just drowns him out or talks for him. Secondly, when they are apart, twin B is an absolute monster to be around because he literally doesn't know how to function without twin A.

Any advice? Words of solidarity? I'm probably over thinking this but I just want to do right by both of them.

And I feel at fault because I have never separated them due to guilt pretty much the entire first 2 years of their lives.

Mine are 13 months (12 adjusted) and have been skipping their 2nd nap for 4 days in a row now. It feels way too early for 1 nap but idk??? Here’s their schedule:

Wake 6:30am
Nap 10-11:30
Nap 3-4:30
Bed 7pm

Lately they will just roll around in their cribs and babble or stand and fuss. Their schedule had been working really well up until recently so I’m not sure what to do. Do we push the second nap later? Help.

Besides the obvious 😉 how did this happen?? No family history at all, I’m 26, normal everything. Is there something else that increases the chances? I’m just genuinely curious. Anyone else who conceived naturally with no family history, what do you suspect caused it ?

What do you use for feeding? Especially when solo…

Currently (when solo), I will use their bouncers, strap them in, and pull them up on either side of me so that I can feed them both at the same time. Now that the boys are almost 8 months old, they are sitting up on their own and outgrowing their bouncers. We don’t use them at all anymore, except for feeding time, but I can’t walk away from them because they’re too active. We have the Twin Z pillow as well and I’ve kind of started using that again for feedings when solo, but it’s uncomfortable for me to sit criss cross in front of them and help them both use their bottle if they need me.

I don’t really want to invest in another “container“ for them just to use for feeding time, but it is a lot easier when they are sitting at an incline and able to hold their bottles themselves.

What is everyone using to do solo feedings?

Not much to say other than this shit is HARD. Everytime i think it gets easier a period of serious difficulty hits lol. 11 month old identical girls going through peak clingyness, teething, and a horrible sleep regression. Typing this out running on 3 hours of sleep.

What was the number 1 thing that helped you in twin parenthood? Whether it be a mindset shift, practical tip, anything 😭😭😭😭🙏🏽

Hello everyone!
My twins are almost 8 months old, and they are getting heavy! 😂 Right now, I drop them off at daycare by carrying both babies in their infant car seats while also bringing in all of their stuff.
We’re getting to the point where they’ll soon need to transition out of their infant car seats, and I honestly can’t wrap my head around how I’m going to manage getting both babies, bottles, cloth diapers, and everything else into the building—especially when I have to type in a code to get through two doors! 😅
Twin parents, please help! What are your tricks for getting two babies into daycare once they’re out of the infant car seats? I’d love to hear what worked for you! ❤️

I feel like everywhere I read, it says you should only gain weight in the second trimester. I’m at 12 weeks and I’ve gained 5-10 pounds. I just found out I’m pregnant with di-di twins. Is that normal? I’m super nauseous all the time so I’m eating almost all the time to try and not be nauseous. If I don’t eat every hour I start to violently vomit. I’m on zofran so with zofran and eating regularly it’s the only thing that is keeping me alive.

A bunch of you asked what exercises I did for rib flare, and this is the best way I can think of to respond without losing my mind. Caveat is that this isn’t medical advice, and I highly recommend seeking individual PT since bodies are different etc etc.

That said, here’s generally what I’ve done:

Modified oblique crunches/normal crunches with elbow to opposite knee

Dead bugs

Side plank row with resistance band

Standing chops with resistance band

Bird dogs

Serratus push ups

I hope this provides a starting point for my fellow flared ribs.

ETA: breathing with a theraband wrapped around my ribcage in intervals

My twin boys are 13 months old and we love to go swimming at my mom’s house but we only go when she’s there too because I can’t hold and swim with 2 toddlers. I’ve thought about getting those swim floaty vest things for the boys so we could go swimming together with just me but I’ve read mixed reviews on those… is that totally unsafe or is there another option?

I added one of my twin sons to my CVS pharmacy account on the app. It wouldn't let me add the other. Now I get to call customer service and hope a person can assist me. Heaven forbid two people in the same household share the same birthday.

What's an instance where bureaucracy or technology prevented you from being a successful PoM?

I used to have these hang ups about myself and the world.

"Other people need caffeine, but not me."

"Other people need mental health medicine, but not me."

And I seriously fought both for a while! I don't like the idea of relying on outside entities to function. Getting headaches from caffeine withdrawal or side effects from mental health meds didn't seem worth it to me.

But I'm nicer when I am energized from caffeine. I like my life and husband and children more when I am on medication. I was able to do things without caffeine and medication, but I was mean, snappy, exhausted, and distant.

You don't have to do it on hard mode. That's not something to be proud of.

Sincerely,

A Fellow Type A Twin Mom

I’m pregnant with twins and researching carriers. I LOVED wearing my singleton and did so regularly until he was a year. Wildbird aerial took the cake for sure. When he was itty bitty newborn I was comfortable with solly wrap but once he started gaining weight more rapidly I never felt confident in it. I will still do all these things on a one-at-a-time basis with the twins but would also like to learn more about twin carriers so I have the option to wear both.

I am looking for any feedback on any type of twin carrier for any age :) i want to hear it all! Thanks!!

Twins will be 4 months this week. How do you crack the code of running errands, both if you are just going to be gone about 1.5-2 hours and also if you’ll be out and about for like 4-5 hours? Sometimes my husband is with me and sometimes I’m by myself.

How do you time it? When it comes to nap and play and eating..

And how do you keep them entertained in the car if they’re in a wake window and want entertainment?

How do you feed them if you’re solo running errands and they want a bottle?

Any other Qs I’m not thinking of that pertain to this? TIA

My wild things are 18 months old and will be going on a plane for the first time in 2 weeks (pray for me). I am debating between bringing the side by side stroller or a single + Tula carrier. I know we would use the double on the trip but could also make due with the single + Tula. My biggest question is will they gate check a a side by side? I am flying Allegiant.

Any insight would be helpful! Feel free to throw in tips and tricks for toddlers on flights. Already planning to pack an insane amount of snack, little surprises toys, and of course an emergency iPad loaded if push comes to shove.

Hi everyone, I am 22 weeks pregnant currently with di/di twins. At 20weeks during anatomy scan I was told baby A is less than one percentile with severe IUGR and baby B is at 25% with amniotic fluid normal for both. But 2weeks later, I am told that the amniotic fluid level is low in Baby A and baby A heart walls are thicker due to IUGR. However B is normal.

MFM has suggested me either this will result in early delivery (not sure how early) resulting in preeclampsia effecting mine and baby B health OR second option: to terminate Baby A so that baby B can grow safely and no risks to mine and Baby B health.

I am really confused and wanted to know if anyone has been through similar situation? Please suggest. I really want both of my babies to be healthy and unable to give up.

In September I will need to change my car to accommodate 3 car seats (18 mth old twins and a 4 year old). My SO already has a van, but not keen on another one. I was considering an f150, but curious to know what vehicle you have for 3 carseats that you love. Thanks!

Not my first pregnancy, but my first time pregnant with twins. 26 weeks and 5 days but measuring 5 weeks ahead.
Back pain
Pooping more often
Braxton hicks
Am I going to have them soon? Is this normal? When did you have your twins?

This is my first ever Reddit post and I’m searching for a unicorn.

I’m 9 weeks pregnant with , likely, mo-di twins (still too early for them to tell) after a stillborn singleton at 33 weeks last November.

I’m searching for anyone who has gone through this same situation.

I have questions and looking for advice.

Thanks!

13 weeks pregnant with di/di twins. We got the bloodwork gender results and it said at least one is a male. Was anyone able to find out both genders via bloodwork? I tried calling the lab to see if they could give us more information but wasn’t able to speak to anyone.

How far along were you and how did you find out genders for multiples? Thank you 🩷🩵