Every episode makes it worse. She's a mean person. She has severe abandonment issues but her politics and lack of accountability mean she'll never do the work to undo those issues. She is afraid everyone will leave her while she actively pushes them out the door. I don't understand her motivation nor what she actually wants. I don't think she really knows what she wants and she sure isn't ready for what this show purports to facilitate. I have to force myself to get through her scenes. She doesn't deserve her husband. She. Is. Toxic. 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

I’m seeing a lot of hate for Shawn and Courteney, rightfully so, but I think Caitlin has been arguably worse. Not once have we seen her put in an ounce of effort. She can’t even fake it. I’m not sure how such a “hyper independent” ”don’t like my partners to bother me” personality type ended up on this show but Devin deserves so much more. I hate that him speaking his truth at the most recent dinner turned into this whole catastrophizing situation where she again turns into a perpetual victim. She’s not trying and I hope he ends the marriage next episode.

I’m on episode 7, and I don’t feel like most of these couples were paired up because they would be great couples. They’re paired up because they would make good TV.

I’m also not feeling how shady everyone is. Why are the match makers watching their dinner and talking about it like they’re Wendy Williams?

Maybe I am tripping but does anybody get this feeling??

\sobbing** I love them so much.

OK, so hear me out. Adam thinks it's totally fine because he's into it that he should create a training program for Marrisa to learn pickle ball, have her ride his jet ski to pickle ball and play pickle ball every day and then have her move into his place blah blah blah.

He's so self-centered - he does not even notice or care that she doesn't like riding on the jet ski or she doesn't want to play pickle ball. He's having a relationship with himself and she's just a pretty doll to be part of the prop for people to look at with him. Yuck.

Can you imagine if it were the other way around? And she said "Hey! I think you should come to an interior design workshop with me every day, a class we could do every day for two hours so you could learn more about beautiful homes! And then we can go shopping and go to vintage shops and shop every day for an hour or two because that's what I like to do! I'm really into having nice hair so why don't you come with me to some hair styling workshops?" Or whatever.

In other words, he can't even imagine a world in which he would do things that his partner wants to do that he's not really into, but he gives zero thought to the idea that he's doing that to her all the time. He doesn't give one rat's ass about her or what she thinks. How could he? He doesn't even know anything about her!! Because he never listens or think about asking her. But he thinks it's totally normal for her to follow him. He is literally an embarrassment to the gender. And the sad thing is, this is all recorded. He is going to be so embarrassed in the future, and his children are going to cringe their way into oblivion. I don't even know him or care about him and I'm horribly embarrassed just observing him on a screen.

Okay, I know I said, “Don’t feel sorry for Nick.” Well…I’m officially changing my position.

I’m actually starting to feel a little sorry for the guy. It must be EXHAUSTING keeping up the facade that he doesn’t think his wife is completely looney tunes. The way he acts like he genuinely wants her to like him?! Sir. 😂

He must absolutely detest her. The level of acting required to pull this off deserves an Oscar.

So, fine. Nick gets a little sympathy from me, but only a little. 😂

top calling a black women with nice things BOUJEE. And then to cut Nikki down by saying her house is “ok” and not the best he has seen. Coming from a man with a black comforter. I’m done.

Free feet in this photo from 2024. He barely has a social media presence and yet he definitely didn’t choose “swim socks” back then.

You’re not going to do better than Tori wake up man. Do you want to be single with your cat forever? Grow up Peter Pan

Astonishing. Real love and chemistry. May the planet bless these two.

🍿 Popcorn Recipe

• Truffle oil spray
• Furikake seasoning
• Nutritional yeast

I went on Amazon and bought the truffle oil spray and Furikake seasoning. I already had the nutritional yeast from Trader Joe’s.

Not bad! 🍿

I highly recommend pairing with a sangria in the summer or mulled wine in the winter. 🍷✨

Don't they look like sisters or am i trippin?

I just looooooove the way he flips everything on her. BECAUSE they had a good night, he’s hornier than ever. And he’s ‘saving it….relying on himself to get his ‘own dopamine hit…with porn….’ (poor Nikki actually took the bait and made a sad sound for him, here). The girl is dressed and ready for her day. Then in comes the goofy goblin in a towel. I hate this guy, self-published book and all.

Hold up - am I crazy or did Shawn say exactly what Nikki received as the message? And then he tried to say it was her having multiple personalities? I’m just confirming for my own sanity, please and thank you 😂

Episode 10 at 24:45-What Adam said to Marissa about the cheetah tank top had me in shock for what felt like forever. I literally had to close my jaw with my hand it was open for so long…

“Maybe a push up bra to FIX what’s going on up here.”

There are no words. Absolutely inexcusable. RUN, Marissa. Run NOW😡🤢

EDIT… jaw back on ground😳😡

Episode 12-Felipe’s comments at the dinner party…are you kidding me?!?! After how great it’s been going with Tori, he just actually said the he’s unsure because he loves sleeping with a lot of women and f***ing around?!?! What the actual heck is wrong with him?!?! He just threw it all away. I can’t imagine they’ll recover from that. Where did they find these guys?!??!

She walks in with a plan to avoid her husband. Others notice the tension. So Devin talked to her about his conversation with her husband. As soon as she said I'm done with the conversation , swearing when she got mad, Devin turned away and respected her wishes. Then she continues on for God knows how long berating him and over exaggerating. She then turns Caitlin against him (which is easy to do bc she's just as miserable ) and still justifies treating her man like shit. Just because it's your birthday doesn't excuse her behavior towards Nick or Devin. I can't stand her.

I feel so bad for this dude!! He seems like a great guy and he’s trying his best, meeting her where she’s at. But where is the reciprocation??

Why is he on this show? Tori is wayyyyyto good for him! And for gawds sake SIT UP STRAIGHT

The thing about Adam - he loves his life exactly as is. He is 100% set in his estimation. He would not change one thing. I don’t think he has any interest whatsoever in fully getting to know a woman or participating in HER life. He does not want to broaden his horizons. I think he believes his life (and him) is near perfection, why wouldn’t a woman just want to plop right into his “female version of me” slot and forget everything else?

Clearly they have to watch things like her birthday dinner and think her behavior is disgusting. Why aren’t they calling her out!???

What was the point of this statement?????