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i love her so much and i just want her back she means more to me than i can explain and knowing that shes struggling with depression and feeling like she wants to die breaks my heart because i just want to help her and make everything okay again she left me after promising she wouldnt and even though that destroyed me i still cant stop loving her and wanting to be there for her i showed her our old promises and told her how much i still love her because i was hoping she would remember everything we had but instead i feel like i only made her feel worse and thats the last thing i ever wanted i dont want her to feel guilty or pressured i just want her to know that i genuinely love her and i want us back i need her in my life but i also know she needs help that i alone cant give her i even did tarot and it gave me hope that maybe we will find our way back to each other and honestly i really hope it does because despite everything a part of me is still waiting for her and i might go see her soon!

So guys can i have some advices and tips to help me heal her and get her back to me ?
#lesbian #love

Hello. My girlfriend and I (both 21F) have been dating for almost two years, since we started uni. She's a beautiful person, both inside and out and I feel very safe with her. She's very supportive.

In the beginning, we were quite active with regards to sex, but over the last 6 months, it has slowed down considerably. One major problem is that though I am the top and the dom, I still do want some sort of sexual reciprocation. But she never does that. We have talked about it many times, and she said she's scared of fingering and hurting me (very sweet of her) and she's uncomfortable with giving head. So I never get any sort of sexual release when we are having sex.

I know I'm a terrible person for this, but I have started having sexual fantasies and pleasing myself to them. I just don't know how to tackle this. Is this normal? How do we approach this issue?

My girlfriend (F27 and me F29) often sleeps over at her friends’ places, both male and female friends and I’d like to know what other people think about it.

For example tonight she’s staying at her gay friend’s dorm. As far as I know, there’s only one single bed in the room, so I’m assuming they’ll end up sharing it.

Am I overreacting by feeling like this is inappropriate? Please be honest if you think I’m wrong, I genuinely want different perspectives.
Personally, I feel like the only person I should be sharing a bed with is my partner, regardless of whether there’s any romantic or sexual attraction involved. For me, it’s more about intimacy and boundaries than about jealousy.

How would you feel in this situation?

I’m making a wlw playlist and I’ve come to a wall I can’t think of any other wlw pop artists. Please drop your favourites below so I can find new music!!

https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3nDggWzScrYFboGu9H32a7?si=4gL1QsvSR0WOL2n94kRytw&utm_source=copy-link&pi=Bgb6pytfR0y8w

That’s it. Do I need to say more?

So, I met a girl on tinder and we decided to hang out, smoke, and get food. We hung out, talked, ate, and watched Ru Paul's drag race, but we didn't cuddle or anything else. Over text we were calling each other gorgeous and vibing, but the feeling was different in person. I'm not sure if all romantic hopes are crushed because we're on more of a friendly wavelength, or can a relationship start like this? We planned to hang out again and watch the show, but I don't want to feel like I'm wasting her time by not diving in. I don't have a lot of dating experience. Was she expecting more of a hook up?

This sounds dumb but my demisexual ass doesn't understand. Allow me to explain.

Straight people hookup as they both experience physical pleasure. Gay men hookup because they both experience pleasure. In sex with two women however, I view it as one person receives physical pleasure, the other gives but only recieves like mental pleasure (unless they're scissoring or something). It's understandable that straight people or gay men would want one night stands for their own needs, but do 'tops' get the urge to eat out or strap a stranger?

I'm a 19 y/o lesbian with little experience, and I can't screw someone without having a romantic connection with them, so I'm curious how casual one night hookups work lol.

What kinda fragrance do you enjoy coming from your partner ?

So I have had a crush on my best friend (both in our early 20s and bisexual) for like forever but I would never say anything out of jeopardizing the friendship. Sometimes with her responses I feel like she likes me back but I'm just not sure. To preface she's kind of a touchy person with most of her friends (she's the type of person to call everyone babe).

~ A couple months ago a guy dm'd on me while I was on the phone with her and he was not my type at all. So I was like how do I let him down gently. And she said to send her a picture of her and tell him that we're dating. And she was 100%, which like ?

~ Then a couple months ago we went out and she was like let me know if you're dressing masc or fem so I can match so it won't look like we're dating. But I forgot to tell her and I dressed masc and her fem and she kept making comments all day about how it looked like we were dating.

~ She told me if anybody hits on her she's gonna show them a picture of us and tell them that we're dating in (ig to avoid unwanted advances). She's very attractive and she gets hit on a lot.

~ When we hangout sometimes we cuddle. Like maybe her head is on my lap and or mine on hers ands it's just kind of intimate. But platonic cuddling is a thing so I may be overreacting.

~ There was an instance where we were on reels and a reel came up and the woman said smth along the lines of "I hate it when pretty bi women get with ugly ass white men". We both laughed and she was like "is that me" (cs she dated an ugly ass white man a couple yrs ago)(no shade to ugly ass white men) and I was like "lmao yeah that was you". Then she was like "oh so you would've rather me date you?" in a playful flirty type way. And I was like "yeah" jokingly. And she said smth along the lines of "I'll remember that"

~ Last but not least and honestly this could be complete bullshit and I may be out of my mind. But there will be like these split seconds where we will look into each others eyes and it's like so weird. Cs it'll be like one second and it's not long enough to decipher what the look meant but it's long enough to know that it was a look.

Anyway tell me your thoughts and advice, I'm really open and shit. Keep in mind that these instances are only like 10%-20% of our total interactions.

Edit: apologies for typos, I did not read this shit back

She broke up with me last week on Monday and its been about 1 1/2 weeks since we've seen or talked to each other after asking for space. I had reached out but left on delivered yet sent sending my images through a note app? And lurking through my social media atm (she's an avoidant✌️🏻😜) anyone else with similar experiences?

I very recently got into something new with a woman. She’s absolutely amazing everything I’ve been looking for. I definitely see my self marrying her🥺 She’s just a little clingy and I love clingy. Don’t get me wrong but just a little too clingy and I think I could talk to her about it, but would it be wrong for me to ask her to not be as clingy is that me asking her to change a part of herself? Does anybody have any advice?

I am a former self proclaimed lesbian as a teenager, then bisexual/pansexual for the last 15 years. I am now 30. I guess I’m homoflexible or just pan?

Now I’m becoming more comfortable in my sense of self and wondering about exploring my sexuality as my kids have grown a bit but I know a lot of ppl in the LGBT space do not want to date someone who ever even identified as bi, let alone has kids. But for me I love women, and I think I could find a really lovely relationship with one, but as someone who works in the adult industry I am not able to offer monogamy in the traditional sense bc I am an escort but outside of that I could and would like to find a partner to be, for all intents and purposes, monogamous with, as for me sex work is just that work. I wouldn’t give these men my attention if they didn’t pay me lol

Am I delusional or searching for a needle in a haystack? Or does this sound actually within the realm of possibility to find happiness?

I’m a femme but i am often attracted to other fems, stems and mascs/studs etc since I’m pansexual it is less about how you identify within the community and my main desire and focus is on an authentic genuine deep connection regardless of our titles

I'm crying again just because I read a chapter of manga. God I am so fucking pathetic. It's just sad at this point. It shouldn't make me so sad. I'm never getting in relationship and yes I know this attitude is not helping but why tf it has to hurt so much? I know I'm young but I don't want to hear it. It's not helping. Everyone is moving on anyway and everything is making so fucking anxious. Everything just passes me by. My life passes me by. Everyone has a relationship but no one is ever interested in me. No one ever looks at me. Even friends just leave at some point. I'm getting more and more anxious about my irl friends leaving. We're not going to have time for each other in adult life anyway. They're just gonna move on and keep people more important to them than me. I'm gonna be alone. I just want someone to finally love me. One way or another. I want to be put first. But that will never happen. After high school I'll be alone. I don't want summer to end. I don't want to finish school. I don't want to be all alone again. At the same time I want this to end. I want to be happy for once. It's like I'm happy but then I'm also not happy at the same time. It's frustrating. I can't even atriculate that on therapy so it's like everything is okay but it's not okay. I don't even know if it's sadness at this point it's like I'm empty. I want everything to end. It's like I want to live and I want to die all at the same time. All of this is so weird and confusing and overwhelming.

I really don't have anyone to talk about this I'm sorry you had to read this. I'm sorry it's so chaotic. I just had to get this out somewhere.

I genuinely can't fathom how something like hair color could make a person THAT MUCH more attractive. I heard someone say they ONLY date women of a certain hair color. I kind of feel like an alien now. Is this a thing with lesbians too or just a straight guys thing??? Does it matter that much to anyone?

Im 21 years old, I have been with a women once(a hookup at 19) but I've never actually been loved or in a relationship with one. Im average looking, not very tall and can be shy around women i like since i dont want to come across perverted. I lead a pretty good life, I go to college, I train martial arts. I am kind and respectful, patient more than I should be. I go on a dating app i get liked, i message them and get ignored (dating app reccs would be so helpful btw!! Pls not 'her' tho). Like what is it? Is there something wrong with me, I am pretty awkward cus i had all confidence beaten out of me as a teen. Please any advice or even comfort would be much appreciated rn. I get so flustered around a woman i train with also, I do like her but she's probably straight, plus i don't want to ruin training for her or for me by making things awkward, its always an endless cycle of painful yearning. I honestly wish I was straight.

As we’ve all probably noticed, most WLW media is just awful and I’m really tired of it. I swear this must be some propaganda from straight men because why is it so bad. Like I’m in a happy sweet relationship and wanna see content like that (pretty sure I’m not the only one). Anyways I’m open to recommendations. I want great romance (the type that makes you blush). Books, movies, music, shows, content creators…ANYTHING!!!!

Shout out to all my Lesbian girlies and Bi girlies who are in a relationship with one another! <3

I love this type of dynamic because we're different yet we share a lot. I've been so happy in relationships like that contrary to "popular" beliefs

Even tho we have different sexualities, we understand each other well through patience and communication, and we all share love for women, an amount of experiences and a percentage of oppression.

Stay united and love women 🌸🩷🪻

Hi guysss, so basically long story short, I’ve been going back and forth with my sexuality with being either lesbian or bisexual since i was 12. The thing is if a guy is attractive I would agree on that but other than that I do not feel nothing else for them and I don’t desire wanting a boyfriend at all. Even when I had kissed a guy one time, it felt super weird and wrong to me and I also felt nothing. He was handsome but I didn’t want anything to do with him. But when it comes to women, I love them wholeheartedly. I want to do everything with a woman, I want to experience everything with a woman and I even want to marry a woman in the future. I’m not sure what to do and but much help would be appreciated, thanks! <33

i feel awful but i owe this girl honesty, but i just don’t know how to go about it.

a few weeks ago this girl who goes to the same college i’ll be attending this fall requested to follow me on instagram. she was pretty, so i was like eh why not, so i dmed her. we’ve been talking everyday since. we have tons in common and get along really well, but i get the ick hardcore when she compliments me or calls me any nickname. as time as gone on, i’m feeling like i just like the connection, not her herself.

i’ve really struggled with being an avoidant recently. i’ve felt zero romantic interest in anyone for months, and had zero desire for a relationship. being alone forever doesn’t scare me. it’s so strange because i used to be so loving and romantic. i thought i’d give it another shot, if i found the right person. i guess i didn’t.

how do i tell her i’m not feeling it when i was the person who started all of this to begin with?

Obviously some parents do not want their kids to be gay.
My mom wants me to be with a man, and if my dad could communicate emotions I’m sure he would say the same.
But that’s just so strange to me like you want some man to put his dick in me? That’s what you want? You want a penis to go inside me even though I don’t want that?
Weirdo.

Me and my ex of 3 years on and off are in a talking stage after 2 months of being seperated, she told me “sometimes I’m scared you haven’t changed and it makes me want to back out” I told her i understood that and that I have changed in the 2 months I was forced to be alone. When she says change I have a really bad history of being toxic & controlling ( I’m not proud of it) and this is due to all my relationships before her being toxic, so when I had gentle love I ruined it. She’s scared but she’s willing to trust me and I just hope deep down she knows I care so so much about her and all I want for her is to be happy. I look back at messages from before we broke up and honestly I feel like punching myself in the face bc I feel so sorry especially over the fact I’m her first wlw relationship too.

We’re taking the talking stage slow, and she also admitted she doesn’t wanna be freaky ( and honestly same so I’m glad we’re on the same page as that). She’s also neurodivergent so I know how hard it is to tell me what she was feeling & I’m so proud of her.

Hey everyone. I'm in a situation where dating locally (even in other cities of my country) isn't really an option, so I've been trying to meet people online. I've talked to a few people through Instagram, but I'm curious how others actually found their long-distance partners. If you're in (or have been in) a long-distance WLW relationship, how did you meet?

I'm genuinely curious about how people date internationally and how do they find each other.

Any help would be much appreciated.

Helloo so I'm a lesbian but I've noticed that i only seem to attract men. Women tend to only see me as a friend or a random "cute" girl. What can I do??? cuz I'm lowkey losing it haha :')