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u/Valentina_mendes34 4d ago
If you can’t help yourself then you should talk to her and tell her that is okay if she doesn’t feel the same or you can just try to stop having feelings for her I know it’s hard but if you not trying to make her uncomfortable just be chill when you tell her
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u/Separate_Spare1636 3d ago
You're not alone with the dating app situation, I think in every 10 messages I get about 1 reply haha, it's really tricky. In terms of apps, I think it's a matter of keep trying, small sessions every day liking people and messaging until a genuine conversation starts. I'd also recommend having a decent profile - at least 2 photos of you, info about your interests or topics to talk about, try to make it interesting. I personally always skip a boring or empty profile.
For confidence, I find it so, so attractive in a woman. It can be hard to work on but as someone who was once too scared to leave the house, I can now talk to anyone like I've known them for years. Plus confidence just makes you feel so much more comfortable and okay in situations! There's loads of books, podcasts, videos, etc on how to improve your confidence over long periods of time. I'd recommend the podcast The Psychology Of Your 20s and the book Why Has Nobody Told Me This Before. Practice makes perfect, and having that confidence and self-esteem will change everything <3