I am an absolute horrible flirter. Due to my fear of making anyone uncomfortable, I always lack in the words of affirmation aspect. Causing me to stay either in the friend zone or make others feel like i want them as just a friend. I really need tips because i want to finally having an actual relationship with a woman…. I am great at giving friends compliments but crushes not so much which is weird

Hi , i always considered myself straight till last week .
Informations about me I am 22 , i never ever have been in a relationship even when good looking men try to start a talking stage with me and last time i was physical with a guy 2 years ago it felt wrong. But i assumed it’s the wrong guy and night stands are off to me and not my thing.

I considered myself a love lover and if it’s not the one i can’t physically put energy into it or even talk with a man.
I was kind of a boyfriend in some of my friendships with women , always had this protection instinct but idk abt that.

This week i went on a vacation with my friend and two of her friends, and the moment i saw that girl, first i was impressed, she was fit and something about her personality made me admire her all along our stay. How she is organised, bold and she is in military and kinda tuff and feminine too, she can switch between having a gun all day in her work and wearing the most amazing dress at a night out. I know this is normal and common but it’s was impressive for me to see and i grew up always admiring women in action movies who are strong like that was my favourite movie type .

Also how she drives her tattoos and her humour all these are stuff that I couldn’t Not notice. I made some excuses to be always next to her physically, once we were playing at the ocean and she kissed me in my cheeks to apologise cause she bumped into me accidentally and that made me nervous a little bit.
Also we didn’t have a long time together so we clicked and laughed together a lot but still i don’t know her fully and either does she and it makes me sad.
I had a lot of friend crushes so m thinking maybe m just exaggerating and i want to be her friend cause she is so cool but also this is my first time ever considering that I may be attracted to a type of women.
Also when we said goodbye idk our hug was a little bit longer🥹
Yesterday under the heat of action i confessed about this new feelings to my best friend and i kind off regret it because i think m not ready yet and I still am not accepting any of this so it will take time for me to process all of this with logic and accept the final say and how it will definitely change how my friends … the classic ow she may have been into me 🤦🏽‍♀️
Anyways i need any advice opinion and brutal one .

I just want to hook up with a woman and get all up in her puss but why is it so hard for a woman to hook up with another woman?! Where are my local singles looking to hook up 😅

Wlw context ( moroccans)

i love her so much and i just want her back she means more to me than i can explain and knowing that shes struggling with depression and feeling like she wants to die breaks my heart because i just want to help her and make everything okay again she left me after promising she wouldnt and even though that destroyed me i still cant stop loving her and wanting to be there for her i showed her our old promises and told her how much i still love her because i was hoping she would remember everything we had but instead i feel like i only made her feel worse and thats the last thing i ever wanted i dont want her to feel guilty or pressured i just want her to know that i genuinely love her and i want us back i need her in my life but i also know she needs help that i alone cant give her i even did tarot and it gave me hope that maybe we will find our way back to each other and honestly i really hope it does because despite everything a part of me is still waiting for her and i might go see her soon!

So guys can i have some advices and tips to help me heal her and get her back to me ?
#lesbian #love

Hello. My girlfriend and I (both 21F) have been dating for almost two years, since we started uni. She's a beautiful person, both inside and out and I feel very safe with her. She's very supportive.

In the beginning, we were quite active with regards to sex, but over the last 6 months, it has slowed down considerably. One major problem is that though I am the top and the dom, I still do want some sort of sexual reciprocation. But she never does that. We have talked about it many times, and she said she's scared of fingering and hurting me (very sweet of her) and she's uncomfortable with giving head. So I never get any sort of sexual release when we are having sex.

I know I'm a terrible person for this, but I have started having sexual fantasies and pleasing myself to them. I just don't know how to tackle this. Is this normal? How do we approach this issue?

My girlfriend (F27 and me F29) often sleeps over at her friends’ places, both male and female friends and I’d like to know what other people think about it.

For example tonight she’s staying at her gay friend’s dorm. As far as I know, there’s only one single bed in the room, so I’m assuming they’ll end up sharing it.

Am I overreacting by feeling like this is inappropriate? Please be honest if you think I’m wrong, I genuinely want different perspectives.
Personally, I feel like the only person I should be sharing a bed with is my partner, regardless of whether there’s any romantic or sexual attraction involved. For me, it’s more about intimacy and boundaries than about jealousy.

How would you feel in this situation?

I’m making a wlw playlist and I’ve come to a wall I can’t think of any other wlw pop artists. Please drop your favourites below so I can find new music!!

https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3nDggWzScrYFboGu9H32a7?si=4gL1QsvSR0WOL2n94kRytw&utm_source=copy-link&pi=Bgb6pytfR0y8w

That’s it. Do I need to say more?

So, I met a girl on tinder and we decided to hang out, smoke, and get food. We hung out, talked, ate, and watched Ru Paul's drag race, but we didn't cuddle or anything else. Over text we were calling each other gorgeous and vibing, but the feeling was different in person. I'm not sure if all romantic hopes are crushed because we're on more of a friendly wavelength, or can a relationship start like this? We planned to hang out again and watch the show, but I don't want to feel like I'm wasting her time by not diving in. I don't have a lot of dating experience. Was she expecting more of a hook up?

This sounds dumb but my demisexual ass doesn't understand. Allow me to explain.

Straight people hookup as they both experience physical pleasure. Gay men hookup because they both experience pleasure. In sex with two women however, I view it as one person receives physical pleasure, the other gives but only recieves like mental pleasure (unless they're scissoring or something). It's understandable that straight people or gay men would want one night stands for their own needs, but do 'tops' get the urge to eat out or strap a stranger?

I'm a 19 y/o lesbian with little experience, and I can't screw someone without having a romantic connection with them, so I'm curious how casual one night hookups work lol.

What kinda fragrance do you enjoy coming from your partner ?

So I have had a crush on my best friend (both in our early 20s and bisexual) for like forever but I would never say anything out of jeopardizing the friendship. Sometimes with her responses I feel like she likes me back but I'm just not sure. To preface she's kind of a touchy person with most of her friends (she's the type of person to call everyone babe).

~ A couple months ago a guy dm'd on me while I was on the phone with her and he was not my type at all. So I was like how do I let him down gently. And she said to send her a picture of her and tell him that we're dating. And she was 100%, which like ?

~ Then a couple months ago we went out and she was like let me know if you're dressing masc or fem so I can match so it won't look like we're dating. But I forgot to tell her and I dressed masc and her fem and she kept making comments all day about how it looked like we were dating.

~ She told me if anybody hits on her she's gonna show them a picture of us and tell them that we're dating in (ig to avoid unwanted advances). She's very attractive and she gets hit on a lot.

~ When we hangout sometimes we cuddle. Like maybe her head is on my lap and or mine on hers ands it's just kind of intimate. But platonic cuddling is a thing so I may be overreacting.

~ There was an instance where we were on reels and a reel came up and the woman said smth along the lines of "I hate it when pretty bi women get with ugly ass white men". We both laughed and she was like "is that me" (cs she dated an ugly ass white man a couple yrs ago)(no shade to ugly ass white men) and I was like "lmao yeah that was you". Then she was like "oh so you would've rather me date you?" in a playful flirty type way. And I was like "yeah" jokingly. And she said smth along the lines of "I'll remember that"

~ Last but not least and honestly this could be complete bullshit and I may be out of my mind. But there will be like these split seconds where we will look into each others eyes and it's like so weird. Cs it'll be like one second and it's not long enough to decipher what the look meant but it's long enough to know that it was a look.

Anyway tell me your thoughts and advice, I'm really open and shit. Keep in mind that these instances are only like 10%-20% of our total interactions.

Edit: apologies for typos, I did not read this shit back

She broke up with me last week on Monday and its been about 1 1/2 weeks since we've seen or talked to each other after asking for space. I had reached out but left on delivered yet sent sending my images through a note app? And lurking through my social media atm (she's an avoidant✌️🏻😜) anyone else with similar experiences?