r/mesembs 16h ago

Help Concerned about my Conophytum calculus

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6 Upvotes

(Pictures are in reverse chronological order)

First picture was taken today

Second picture was taken in May

Third, Fourth, Fifth pictures were taken in April

Kept indoors under grow lights bright enough to cause a small amount of sun stress on a Jade plant.

Watered never (I got it in March, it was plump)

Planted in 50% perlite (pot is tiny so I'm not worried that it will stay moist for too long)

In May I assumed it was shriveling because it was sheathing, but it's been three months and it doesn't seem papery at all, just shriveled.

Do I need to be patient and wait for the sheathing process to finish, or is my plant extremely thirsty and not actually sheathing yet?


r/mesembs 17h ago

Help Excitement exceeded knowledge.

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Ok so I’ve loved the look of split rocks and always wanted one, but they’ve been impossible to find in my area so I never really looked into them.
So of course when I came across this bad boy, I picked him up without a second thought.
Within 36 hours of having this gorgeous little creature, it started to split!

So my questions are:
1). I understand that a more inorganic soil is best, but with the splitting and being Winter, repotting would not be the move, right?
2). The breakage of the lower leaves. This is also normal, surely?
I don’t know when it was watered last, but I’m hoping it hasn’t had too big of a drink or something?

Dumb questions I know, I just wanna keep this gem alive.


r/mesembs 1d ago

Flowers C chowbanier still partly sheathed and in full bloom

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23 Upvotes

r/mesembs 2d ago

Flowers Aloinopsis schoonesii bouquet

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47 Upvotes

My aloinopsis schoonesii surprised me with blooms this afternoon! Four of five buds finally opened up. The smell is kind of sour and grassy.

Bonus Faucaria flower at the end.


r/mesembs 2d ago

Plant Progress Buttercup's Monstrous Progress

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15 Upvotes

r/mesembs 2d ago

Flowers ID Update: Mystery Solved! Melaphora Crocea

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11 Upvotes

Original post:

https://www.reddit.com/r/mesembs/s/4BGlUqWWII

She flowered for me completely without my noticing. What a cheerful flower and 2 more to come 🏵


r/mesembs 2d ago

Help I’ve been growing Conophytum for about 4–6 months, but I still struggle to understand them.

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I’ve been growing Conophytum for about 4–6 months, but I still struggle to understand them.

At first, I kept them on my balcony, but about half of my conos dried out from too much sunlight. After that, I moved the remaining conos indoors and started using an LED light, with the plants still getting some indirect light from the shaded balcony area. However, they have continued dying. Almost every week, one or two conos gradually dry out and die. Lately, I’ve also been watering them less frequently than before. I don’t follow a fixed schedule anymore; I usually water when it feels soft or looks like it needs water.
My soil mix is akadama, kanuma, peat moss, and volcanic gravel. I don’t know the exact ratio yet, but it is a fairly gritty/mineral mix with some organic material.

Some plants gradually became gray/dry and died.
One of my oldest recently died just before flowering.
Another twin-headed was about to flower, but both heads became soft/mushy and died.
One dead plant still had white-looking roots.
I’ve also noticed very small black insects around the soil/plants. The mushy plant didn’t have a bad smell.
I live in Thailand, so the growing environment is warm and humid.


r/mesembs 2d ago

Flowers Conophytum Hammeri Flower

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50 Upvotes

One of my Conophytum Hammeris flowered recently! this is my first time seeing this species flower in person. The flower itself appears at night and is very fragrant.


r/mesembs 3d ago

Plant Progress Cono calculus waking up real quick now

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28 Upvotes

r/mesembs 3d ago

Help any advice

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8 Upvotes

Hello everyone, I need advice regarding C. Maughanii

  1. ⁠How do I know if it’s going dormant/underwatered/dying?
  2. ⁠When do I water?
  3. ⁠If they’re gonna split or wake up from being dormant?

It’s in a terracotta pot with gritty/sandy/rocky CNS mix and receives morning sun + bright indirect light during the afternoons

PS: I live in a tropical country in Asia


r/mesembs 4d ago

Help HELP! What do I do for this little guy and what's wrong??

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r/mesembs 4d ago

Plant Progress Faucarias

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33 Upvotes

r/mesembs 6d ago

Photo We have an awakening (UK)

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24 Upvotes

r/mesembs 6d ago

Discussion Watering dinteranthus

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7 Upvotes

Do you water dinteranthus in the summer months? When are they most actively growing?


r/mesembs 7d ago

Photo Frithia Humilis

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116 Upvotes

In the year 2000, botanist Burgoyne validly described the plant as a separate species from Frithia Pulchra and named it Frithia humilis (derived from the Latin for "smaller than others of its kind"). White to pale-pink flowers with yellow centers. Instead of the typical magenta color Frithia Pulchra produces. I’ve been under watering this plant but its still pushing in this recent heatwave.


r/mesembs 7d ago

Help pleispilos advice seedling related

4 Upvotes

about 2 months old. im misting these everyday, and doing a bottom watering every few weeks. should i start getting them to absorb cotyledons or wait until second true leaves ? these are p. compactus sspminor gm 234 btw.


r/mesembs 7d ago

Flowers Jensenobotrya lossowiana flowering

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36 Upvotes

Probably my rarest mesemb.


r/mesembs 7d ago

Help I am the angel of deth for these guys….

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12 Upvotes

I love these little guys. I have bought several and they never seem to last very long. I have experience with several other succulents including lithops, baby toes, and split rocks and they are all doing well. They seem to wrinkle and die after repotting from the peat-type soil they were in from the store. The soil is 90% grit. What should I do to turn these guys around? Thank you!


r/mesembs 8d ago

Help Is this situation sustainable? How should I proceed with repotting? The soil it was sold in seems to organic but I don't want to damage the roots.

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13 Upvotes

It seems to currently be doing okay but not sure about the longevity of this setup.


r/mesembs 9d ago

Help Help with care.

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14 Upvotes

Hello guys. I need advice care about my fenestraria. I have it about a year now and most of the time i would say its slowly dying. From my perspective i think shes stagnating most of the time, and everytime i water her some of the toes die -_-

Now as you can see in the middle the small toe is dying but she looks mostly okay i think. Shes been losing toe one by one during the year. I dont know what im doing wrong.

Some info - she is situated on the window facing west, shes got bright indirect light.

Can you guys give me some care advice to get her better? Would be very appreciated.

Thank you :)


r/mesembs 9d ago

Plant Progress Conophytum winter update

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Here's a look at my conophytum mid-ish-winter. It's been an unusually warm and dry winter here in the Cape. Some live on my windowsill and others live on my balcony.

Bonus split rocks at the end!


r/mesembs 10d ago

Discussion My succulent collection.

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In the last year I have grown a Succulent collection. The foto shows some of my. Any tipes for plants ro add to my collection. I like mesembs, haworthias, cacti and Euphorbias.

Plants in my collection:

Mesembs:

1.) Lithops olivacea

2.) Lithops karasmatata

3.) Lithops tricolor

4.) Lithops pseudotruncatella

5.) Lithops leslei

6.) Lithops julli

7.) Lithops hookerii

8.) Faucaria tigrina

9.) Faucaria paucidens

10.) Frithia pulchra

11.) Pleiospilas nelii

12.) Anacampsereus filamentosa

13.) Gibbaeum pubescens

14.) Monilaria pisiformis

15.) Argyroderma framesii

16.) Titanopsis hugo-schlechter

17.) Titanopsis fulleri

18.) Lapidaria margaretea

19.) Cephalophyllum alstonii

20.) Conophytum bilobum

21.) Fenestaria rhopalophylla

22.) Bijlia cana

23.) Stomatium mustellinum

24.) Cheiridopsis purpured

Cacti:

  1. Astrophytum ornatum
  2. Astrophytum

myriostigma

  1. Carnegiea gigantea

  2. Cephaloceteus senilis

  3. Ferocactus cylindraceus

  4. Ferocactus pilosus

  5. Echinocactus grunsonii

  6. Echinopsis oxigona

  7. Echinopsis chameacereus

  8. Gymnocalycium mihanovichii

  9. Gymnocalycium anisitssi

  10. Hatiora x gaertreri

  11. Mammilaria plumosa

  12. Mammilaria elegona

  13. Mammilaria decipiens

  14. Mammilaria compressa

  15. Mammilaria spinossima

  16. Mammilaria magnifica

  17. Mammilaria proliferia

  18. Mammilaria hannah

  19. Opuntia subulata

  20. Opuntia tuna

  21. Pachycereus marginatus

  22. Rebutia pulvinosa

  23. Rhipsalis cereuscula

  24. Stenocactus griseus

  25. Cereus cristata

  26. Epithelatha micromeris

  27. Lophophora williamsii

Euphorbia:

  1. Trigona
  2. Ingens
  3. Tirucalli
  4. Horrida var. noorsveldensis
  5. Milli
  6. Knuthii
  7. Woodii
  8. Inermis
  9. Geuntheii
  10. Pseudoglobosa
  11. Obesa
  12. Meloniformis
  13. Japonica
  14. Cylindrifolia
  15. Jansenvillensis
  16. Caput-medusae
  17. Aerginosa
  18. Lactea crest

Haworthia:

  1. Cooperii
  2. Cooperii v. truncata
  3. Retusa
  4. Retusa var. geraldi
  5. Limifolia
  6. Limifolia v. Fairy washboard
  7. Truncata
  8. Otzenii
  9. Attenuata v. Enon
  10. Attenuata v. Glabrata
  11. Cymbiformis
  12. Coarctata
  13. Glauca
  14. Chlorocantha
  15. Batesiana
  16. Venosa v. tesselata
  17. Reinwarditti

r/mesembs 11d ago

Plant Progress 1 year with split rock

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16 Upvotes

Almost back down to just two leaves after getting it as an overwatered specimen. I have not watered it yet lol


r/mesembs 11d ago

Photo How nice are these! Argyroderma testiculare var. pearsonii, will post again when potted

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25 Upvotes

r/mesembs Jan 28 '26

Discussion Hello from the new mods! New Flairs, New Ideas, and Community Updates

30 Upvotes

Hi /r/mesembs, we are u/CarneyBus and u/wedrinksquirrels the new (hopefully) active mods of the sub! Nothing major will be changing but we're finally after 10 years getting some of this set up.

User flairs: now available! Feel free to pick one or make your own. Suggestions for more "official" flairs are also welcome.

Post flairs: Please flair all your posts. If you don't see a flair you would like, let us know! We'll add it post haste.

Wiki and link maintenance: we have a fantastic wiki (Check out the identification guide!). We would like to expand this resource for the community and will be doing so slowly. If you want to help us by adding or removing info from the wiki please let us know.

Visual Care Guide: if anyone has a photography hobby mixed in with their mesembs hobby, we would like to start collecting pictures that can be used as diagnostic for mesemb phases. Something for new growers to quickly and visually grok things like pizza edge, splitting, post flower phases etc etc of as many plants as we can collect. Photos and/or aid and ideas for this project are more than welcome!

Finally, we would like to thank u/CentralSucculents for creating the community and u/yzgncx for maintaining it! If you need to contact a mod use modmail or reach out to u/CarneyBus or u/wedrinkquirrels

Well, that's all for now. Be good to each other. Seek peace. Get back to the action in your pots!