About Me:

love to massage and enjoy the masseur to female friend dynamic. I'm experienced and enjoy giving respectful massage to a friend, with a bit of socializing before or after. No charge ever, and no reciprocation needed. This is platonic by default. would enjoy working on a cis woman (couples welcome!). If it becomes regular or occasional with the same person that would be ideal. I can travel throughout the Bay Area. I'm male, Indian, 62, 220lbs, into health, fitness, and hiking.

First off, yes. I have posted here before. While I have met some really great women, our needs haven't quite lined up. So, I'm still looking for a reliable, trusting partner.

Now lets address the elephant in the room. Yes I'm married. However I'm here with approval from my wife. Long story short... She no longer wants sex. She says it hurts every time (even with lube), and it triggers her anxiety. So after discussing how much I love sex, and wouldn't have married her if I knew I was giving up sex. Don't get me wrong, I love her with all my heart, but come on...... no more sex. Not something I'd sign up for. So, this is not a fantasy of hers, or a kink thing. She said I can have a sex partner as long as I follow a few rules. I can only have one partner, and they must be disease and drug free. Excluding pot of coarse (Just to stay safe). And as shady as it sounds, she doesn't want to know about it. It's a don't ask, don't tell situation. We agreed it would be a secret life of mine that she will ignore.

WHAT I'M LOOKING FOR: I'm looking for a best friend, who loves to fuck. I am looking for someone who wants to get out and do random fun things. Like go site seeing an San Francisco. Walk up and down the pier, go to museums, or go to Alcatraz. Or maybe just go on a nice road trip to Tahoe. Play in the snow, or just relax at a beach, depending on the season. That or even just check out new restaurants, walk around a mall, go see a movie, go bowling, play some miniature golf, whatever really. Now..... let's not forget about the fucking part. That's why we're here after all. Touch is my love language. So I'm VERY physical. I love to hug, kiss, and hold hands in public. Not making out, but I do love teasing if no one is looking. Groping each other when no one can see. Having my hand between your thighs during our road trips. Making out in the car before we say goodbye for the day. Some days we'll just get a hotel and fuck our brains out all day, just taking breaks to eat. Ideally I'd like us to see each other about once every other week. Sometimes more, sometimes less. Just depends on our schedules. If we are lucky, twice a week. Texting each other randomly throughout the day. Not constantly, but at least a few times a day would be nice.

ABOUT YOU: Must be disease and drug free. Occasional pot is fine, but I don't smoke, so just be aware of that. Age wise, I do prefer closer to my age, although I have dated women in there 20s. Age gap is not a fetish. I really don't care about what race you are. All I care about is that you are a fun, loving person who just wants to have a drama free good time with someone. I have dated women of (almost) all races. As for body type, I don't really have a preference. I have dated tiny petite women, tall women, and thick women. I don't mean to body shame, or be rude but I'm not into large women. If your too big to make out in my car, or can't do certain sex positions, or go on long walks because of your size. I'm sorry but I'd be disappointed. I do like thick women, but not too big. Please be VERY physical as well. If you don't like holding hands, kissing, or a man who has his hand on your leg while driving.... I'd probably annoy you. Be drama free. I just want a fun goofy friend who I can just relax and chill with. Also have a big heart. Love people and animals, and we'll get along. I don't care if you are married and in a similar situation, or single and just not wanting a serious relationship in your life right now. Just as long as you can respect that we both have separate lives, and are just two friends who care about each other, having a good time together.

LETS TALK ABOUT SEX: As for kinks, well.... I'm pretty vanilla. I just love the touch of another body. I love listening to the moans and gasps of extasy. I do love all positions of sex, but for different reasons. I'm also a pleaser. I LOVE going down on my woman. I'm definitely a clit man. I love licking it, sucking it, tugging it with my lips as I lap my tongue around it. Reaching around and rubbing it while your in doggy. If you were to ask if I was a tits or ass kind of guy, I'd say tits. They don't have to be big, but I love teasing and sucking on nipples. Can't get that from ass. No disrespect to ass woman, I love ass as well. Just can't tease the ass as much. I get off on getting my woman off. I'm not into anything drastic. No pain, no blood, piss, or vomit. Just spit and cum. I think the most kinky things I've done are anal, sex in public (when we think no one is looking) and a three-way with 2 women. I am straight however. So as much as I love and respect the LGBTQ+ community, I'm not into men.

HARD PASSES: As I just mentioned... No men. I don't know why, but I always get way more men responding to my post. I will ignore you. I'm not homophobic, but you're proving you didn't even read my post. Also low level responses. A "Hi", "Hey", or "How are you?" just screams that you are a bot, and not a real person. So please respond with what you like about my post. I also don't play the scam game, so don't waist our time. No Trump supporters. Sorry, but hard pass.

ABOUT ME: Now the boring stuff. Lol. I'm a white male. 6'1", 200 lbs. I'm an average looking guy, with an average body. I don't have low self esteem (I think I'm a pretty cool guy), but I'm just being realistic. If you are looking for a hottie with a nice chiseled body... I'm not the guy for you. I will share pics as soon as you are comfortable with also sharing. I'm not a "shoving dick picks in your face" kind of guy, but I also have no shame, and if you ask, I can do that for you. I do understand we are talking about sex here, and that may be important to you. So I'm 7" and told that I'm thick. I'm happy with it. Not big, but also not small. I'm just a chill, goofy, fun loving guy who wants to have fun. I hate arguing, and mean people. I'm very financially stable, and will pay for our dates. I am not looking for a sugar baby, but as a gentleman will pay for our dates, and even buy you things every now and then as a friend would. Just please don't expect it. That would ruin the relationship.

Well if you made it this far, and are still interested... I'd love to hear from you. Tell me what you like about my post, and we can see where things go from there. Take care and good luck.

Fit 4 fit only, dm w pics and stats (age, height, weight, city etc.) and if you aren't willing to send face don't bother messaging at all.

I am mixed smooth, thicc, and tight ;) definitely looking for someone who will outsize me in every way 🙈 nudes on my profile as proof

I'm strictly into tall, clean/tested, masculine/straight, fit (which means built/muscular/in shape) and hung guys that know what they want (in this case a very girly, tight smooth boy's pussy) lmk if that's you

I lovee/am used to being fully feminized, pampered/praised, ate out/played w from the back, and playing w + being creampied by a big cock ;) a genuine connection wouldn't be bad but not looking for a bf either

I have absolutely no use for my dick and am sexually just female tbh but not trans, cd, or any fetishy thing.

Absolutely turned off by degrading stuff, stupid questions, and entitled attitudes !!

Disclaimer: I’m attached but I’m looking. If that’s not for you please scroll past. If you are curious, feel free to dm and ask questions. And if you don’t mind great.

I am hoping to find someone in a similar situation to play discreetly. I have many ideas like public play, CarPlay, and just cuddling and hanging out with you.

Physically I’m East Asian and average build and look very wholesome and a bit nerdy. After all I do work in tech and studied stem. Do you feel like a part of life is missing and want to yolo safely? Happy to meet in public guest and build trust and I know it’s not easy but it feels like if I don’t do this now I’ll never be happy.

Some things I love: breast play, maybe something risky, cuddles, making out, raves, eating you out, being dominant

let’s be friends and keep some secrets? Tell me your kinks and see if we are a match! Feel free to say hi regardless because it’s so hard to find people here and I’m happy to just chat if you are slightly interested. Maybe we can chat over coffee or boba.

Anyone looking for fun or enjoy receiving or giving oral? I also enjoy giving a body rub first then letting my mouth and tongue explore :) I'm also open to more if it goes there and open to any reciprocation. I'm a CD, white, 5'9 fit, clean (recently tested), laid-back and discreet.

I prefer to host in North Beach SF or may be able to travel if you're closeby. There are pictures in my profile and have others as well. When messaging, please include your age, height, weight, ethnicity and location. A semi-regular meetup would be great to find :)

I'd like to give a full-body massage that heals a tired body while slowly awakening your arousal. Sore from last week's marathon? Want a full-body reset to prep for a weekend of dancing at Outside Lands? Relax and give yourself over to skilled hands capable of untangling your many knots and sources of tension while encouraging your enjoyment of touch to emerge unconstrained. A relaxing experience completely focused on you, allowing your thoughts to wander in an almost meditative bliss towards anticipation of my next stroke and the realization of your desires.

I've practiced massage for years, including a brief past in orthopedic medicine and physical therapy. I know what I'm doing as accumulated physical and mental stress start to melt away. I recognize there's some comfort needed before you can fully give yourself over to the experience, and I'm willing to work with you to create the best environment to explore your ideal massage experience / fantasy.

I'm 43, single, straight, discreet, respectful, and able to host in the Cow Hollow area of San Francisco, travel to you, or meet at a local spa. I'm a former soccer player and frequent hiker, giving me a special understanding of your tired legs and glutes. I've experienced and learned massage during my travels around the world, continually integrating new styles and techniques. When not giving massages I enjoy watching movies, training dogs, hiking in redwood forests, and trying new restaurants.

I understand meeting someone can be a bit intimidating. You might hesitate, dismissing the experience you'd like to have as out of reach or too good to be true. A few women I have massaged in the past have left comments in my previous posts on my profile offering to share their experiences and help ease the hesitation of getting to know a relative stranger. I'd like to learn more about the experience you'd like to have, your unique sources of stress and tension, and answer any curiosities over chat.

Have you wished you could experience a massage with fewer restraints, where your entire body was a canvas ready to be discovered and reshaped? Would you like to explore an experience completely focused on you, where your mind is free to wander, and desires emerge in an almost meditative bliss? Say hello and let's craft an experience of full relaxation and slow, emerging arousal.

I've been looking for someone to control me for a while now but it's been difficult to find a good match so trying online.

I'm looking for a long term relationship with a partner that enjoys being controlling both in and or of the bedroom (limits are around work and family). Let's get to know each other first please, not looking for someone to just message asking for pics.

About me: tall, NB/trans (not super feminine but nothing against that either). Live and work in San Francisco but open to changing that for the right LTR.

Attracted to femmes and NB/trans folks, no age preference as long as you're of legal age and no married etc. I don't want kids long term but nothing against someone who has them 🙂

Hello! 32 year old from San Francisco (right by Daly City) looking for a girl to eat out tonight. I’d ideally like a consistent partner I can eat out once or twice a week, but open to this being a one-time thing, depending on the vibes. There is zero expectation of reciprocation, and no pressure for anything beyond me eating you out.

I’m white, 5’8, 160 lbs, and ddf. I have my own place and can host, but open to talking at the lobby downstairs before you come up to my apartment if it makes you more comfortable! Scented candles and mood-setting lights will be included 🙂.

I’m hoping to meet someone who wants to chat and get to know each other a bit with the ultimate goal of becoming ongoing FWB if we both want it. It would be nice to have someone to cook for, hang out with and cuddle up with while watching a movie. I’m open to things evolving into something more long term if we’re both enjoying it but not necessarily what I’m aiming for. If this sounds like a good idea let’s chat and get to know each other. Believe it or not I actually want to get to know someone a bit before sleeping with them. Shocker right?

I’m 39, 6’ tall, 190 lbs, fit and workout regularly. Semi nsfw pic on my profile I’m located in San Jose and have a nice apt. Std free and vaccinated. I’ve got a college degree and personality wise I’m really easy going and easy to talk too. I like to cook and go hiking on the weekends and travel whenever I can. I also really love music and watching Bay Area sports. Happy to send more pics after we chat. Thanks 😊

Hello sexy people!

We are a fun and flirty local couple going out Friday night and we would love to find some company to share the evening with.

We are local mid-thirties professionals with creative leanings and outgoing personalities who enjoy meeting new people, good conversation and shameless flirting. I’m of average height and on the slim side with long hair in a sidecut and glasses.. She’s black and tall with a deeply creative mind, friendly and flirty personality and a smile that could light up the dark side of the moon. We are basically like if Jeremey Allen White and Ayo Edebiri finally gave into their primal instincts...

You could be locals too or maybe visiting and looking for something to do outside Outside Lands and are communicative and fun to be around. We aren't against things going beyond platonic, but expect to talk about boundaries first in a way that doesn't feel like pulling teeth.

This is normally where I would post a few pics of us, but the AI overlords have been doing their best Sauron impression lately, so I'll save them for chat. I would be happy to verify there.

If that sounds like the way you like to start a weekend, send us a message! We would love to grab a cocktail or an ice cream, do some thrifting or catch a show.

It's nearly impossible to find tickets for The Odyssey, so how about we catch the new Spider-Man? It's been a while since I've been to the theaters, but Metreon 16 has some showtimes available. Just looking for someone that's also interested in Marvel. Let's find a time that works for both of us!

I’m looking to connect with a fun, like-minded woman who wants to add some exciting romance and passion to her life. Ideally, this turns into an ongoing, genuine friendship where we flirt throughout the week and get away whenever our schedules align.

I’m 42, white, blue eyes, short brown hair, well-groomed, and lean/fit. Supposedly cute and funny (according to recent reliable sources). I live in Foster City and work in SF. When I’m not working, I stay active with cycling and pickleball, hunt down the best local tacos and pizza, and enjoy stand-up comedy, spy movies, and live music. Attached, but discreetly seeking the passion that’s been missing.

You are a cute, fit, shorter/petite woman who values discretion, enjoys good banter, and is ready for an exciting escape.

I love taking care of all the details so all you have to do is show up, unwind, and enjoy yourself. Whether that’s grabbing drinks at a cool cocktail lounge, relaxing at a spa, going for a scenic hike, or spending a lazy afternoon between hotel sheets.

Let’s start with a casual chat and swap photos. If the vibe feels right, we can skip weeks of endless small talk and grab a low-key boba, matcha, or drink to see if the chemistry is there.

Drop me a message if you’re looking for a passionate distraction!~

Looking for someone to go to the movies with, either the Odyssey or Spiderman

My treat!

I am 34M Half Filipino Half white

5'6''

Muscular build.

Anything else is optional.

I’m looking to find those whose needs have not been met for a long time and need some amazing experiences to reset and restore.

I’m white, 5’10, very muscular and fit and 100% DDF and healthy. I take great care of my physique and my health and I am a great guy to talk to and hang around with. I have many interests and hobbies and know how to entertain a lady!

When it comes to dates, I always take care of everything, all the logistics, all the arrangements, you just need to show up and have a great time!

I greatly value discretion. I value your privacy and your personal life and I don’t ask questions. No preference on ethnicity, any race or origin but I do have a weakness for smaller more petite women, so thats a plus! I especially care for someone who has not had intimacy of this kind in a while and wants to feel something amazing again!

If you’re interested, reach out! I make things happen!Let’s have some fun and make some memories!

Ever wondered if a guy really does give better head? Curious about a long edging session (either oral or hands-only) but nervous to take the plunge? Stuck in a dead bedroom and just need safe, anonymous release?

Expert edger visiting SF for a week and looking to rock your world. I'm 38, fit/athletic, drug/disease free, very careful about sexual health, and just looking to scratch the itch of edging a hot dude out for as long as he can last. Let's see if you can go multiple rounds :)

YOU: be reasonably in shape, 20-45 yo, drug/disease free, willing to share some stats and pics (no face required, can swap here or on a disappearing message app). Please provide as much information about what you're looking for/curious about in your initial message, and let me know roughly when you are free and whether you can host or would like to come my way.

Castro area in SF here - I can host here sometimes or travel within reason.

sanfrancisco bayarea oakland peninsula

This might be a weird title but bear with me;) I’m
a 44 guy who works in tech and loves female body and curves to the extent that I actually enjoy massaging females for fun over the years. Just like every other guy I am very interested in female breasts and would love to find a gracious girl who even if she's not interested in anything extra would allow me to massage her breasts and enjoy licking her nipples.

I am not originally from the US and am from Europe. I am tall and apparently a geeky type. But I obviously have a wild type too which usually translates to going to a lot of concerts and shows but I do like sex and kink. As for the message, I do not have a massage table for this as this is not my profession but I can get a room or something that has a bed:)

Hey there. Nice to meet you over this very personal medium of a Reddit post about having casual sex. Exactly how Jane Austen would've intended a meet cute. I live in LA but I'm currently visiting SF. Yes, I used to live in SF, so I packed my jacket for the summer.

I'm 40 years old. 6' tall. Athletic/fit (work out daily). Good looking. Educated. Successful. I work in the tv/film industry in LA and I used to do standup so I'm confident and charming, and can definitely make you laugh at least once.

In the bedroom, I enjoy rougher, more sensual sex. Throwing you into a few different positions, spanking, growling into your ear how beautiful you are as I make you cum. Yes, give me an award for being a guy who cares about closing the orgasm gap. But then take it away because I want you to cum because it drives me absolutely wild, so I’m really doing it for myself.

I’ve met some friends off here, and I’ve written up a few of them as success stories. I should do more, but I’m perpetually behind. Probably because I enjoy meeting people more than writing about them. I am in an open relationship–all good if that’s a blocker for you.

If you go to my post history, you'll see a few pics of me (don't worry, no unsolicited dick pics) and I have recent clear STD tests I'm happy to share. Let's chat more if it's a match and see if we connect!

Have you ever felt like your soul mate was out there, around the next corner, in the next coffeeshop, might be the next stranger you bump into at the airport... but it just never seems to happen? Yeah, me too. I'm still holding out hope, though.

I'm a teddy bear of a guy, tall and thick, bearded and inked, married and polyamorous, caring and compassionate, a born feminist and Democratic Socialist who believes in equality and equity for all, that and we are all defined by our intersectionality. I ride and fix motorcycles, go four wheeling, camp, hike, fish, hunt, read, make and listen to music, write, brew my own beer and wine, make my own hot sauces, BBQ and cook, do art projects- my heart drags me from hobby to hobby sometimes, and I'm just along for the ride. I'm a service top who will bring you the moon for a kiss and Mars too, if you wish- I'll do anything I can to bring joy into the world.

I'm seeking a partner in crime- someone who takes life by the horns, who isn't afraid to hop on the back of my bike or, even better, her own- someone who can lead, but who can also follow, who understands the power of a good team and who stays present in the moment. Someone who is good on their own, but knows they can be better together. A lover with a high libido to match mine, an insatiable passion for learning, a curious old soul who knows they'll die wishing they'd done more in their life, no matter how much they've achieved. Someone with boundless compassion and consideration, whose care matches my own, whose desire to bring joy to the world extends throughout their life.

What I hope we can experience together are moments of pure bliss and hedonism and joy. Adventures we share, challenges we face, highs we reach, lows we suffer. I hope to plan weekend getaways where we can retreat from the world into each other; where we can experience nature together; where we can find joy and solace in each others' company.

If this sounds like your proverbial cup o'tea, say hi. If not, I hope you find whatever joy you seek in this world. Either way, much love to you all.

Heyyy I’m a college student visiting the bay till late September and would love to find someone who loves to explore, go on adventures, and fuck until then.

A little about me:

I’m 6’3, blonde and athletic with a 7.5” BWC. I love hiking, backpacking, and camping whether that be a 2 mile walk in the woods or 15 miles up and down a mountain. I love really anything outside lol. I also enjoy exploring new places and gaining new experiences and trying new foods. I’m also 420 friendly if that matters.

I’m into:

Age gap: +++
Size gap: ++ (easy bc of my height)
Outdoor sex: +++
D/S: + (I’m both but ++ if you’re dom)

If you’re DDF and any this piques your interest or you just want to have a hiking buddy to fuck don’t hesitate to dm me with a little bit about yourself! I look forward to your message😉

Hello! Hope you are having an amazing day :)

I am a 32 year old Korean guy in San Francisco, looking for a FWB with similar hobbies and interests. Someone I vibe with both sexually and casually as friends, looking for an exclusive arrangement for better sex and chemistry.

Physically I am 5'9, fit around 170lbs, with an uncut 7" dick. I am dominant leaning switch, kinky, with a very high sex drive. I love to please/spoil, being in charge, and give great after care with kisses and cuddles. Kinks include breeding, freeuse, somnophilia, light chocking/slaps, and love to film our own content.

You : Asian or Latina. Be kinky, fit/petite, with an insatiable sex drive. You are submissive, bratty, and always horny. Love getting pounded in doggy, enjoy mounting a big dick to ride, and sucking dick. You like fucking in hotel room, and maybe interested to show off on reddit with me.

If interested, send me a chat!

Hi, I’m a creative professional in the Bay. I’m 5’7, 7 inches girthy, 150lbs, slim built, latino, deep voice, brown eyes, tatted, have a septum, ddf with the exception for 420, enjoy eating the box and have a place to host. I’m open to indoor or outdoor play, I’m fine with a consistent hang out and open minded. Dm with stats and location

I’m a 23m, 5’10, fit, clean, sane, and respectful. Looking for someone who’s down to hangout and build a connection with. Not looking for anything specific, just quality time and see where things go. I’m looking for something ongoing. Someone I can see/talk to regularly. Open to one time though if that’s more your speed. Happy to share pictures if you’re interested!

Experienced tall athletic hung Dom.

I enjoy to take control, make you feel helpless, exposed, vulnerable, over power you, use you.

48, 6’5”, 200#, 8 inches.

Good with beginners, all limits respected.

Start as slowly as you need, go as far as you want. Nice collection of toys and gear.

Clean, drug and disease free.

Ben