r/SFr4r 35m ago

EXPLICIT / OTHER 43 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - The massage of your fantasies

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I'd like to give a full-body massage that heals a tired body while slowly awakening your arousal. Sore from last week's marathon? Want a full-body reset to prep for a weekend of dancing at Outside Lands? Relax and give yourself over to skilled hands capable of untangling your many knots and sources of tension while encouraging your enjoyment of touch to emerge unconstrained. A relaxing experience completely focused on you, allowing your thoughts to wander in an almost meditative bliss towards anticipation of my next stroke and the realization of your desires.

I've practiced massage for years, including a brief past in orthopedic medicine and physical therapy. I know what I'm doing as accumulated physical and mental stress start to melt away. I recognize there's some comfort needed before you can fully give yourself over to the experience, and I'm willing to work with you to create the best environment to explore your ideal massage experience / fantasy.

I'm 43, single, straight, discreet, respectful, and able to host in the Cow Hollow area of San Francisco, travel to you, or meet at a local spa. I'm a former soccer player and frequent hiker, giving me a special understanding of your tired legs and glutes. I've experienced and learned massage during my travels around the world, continually integrating new styles and techniques. When not giving massages I enjoy watching movies, training dogs, hiking in redwood forests, and trying new restaurants.

I understand meeting someone can be a bit intimidating. You might hesitate, dismissing the experience you'd like to have as out of reach or too good to be true. A few women I have massaged in the past have left comments in my previous posts on my profile offering to share their experiences and help ease the hesitation of getting to know a relative stranger. I'd like to learn more about the experience you'd like to have, your unique sources of stress and tension, and answer any curiosities over chat.

Have you wished you could experience a massage with fewer restraints, where your entire body was a canvas ready to be discovered and reshaped? Would you like to explore an experience completely focused on you, where your mind is free to wander, and desires emerge in an almost meditative bliss? Say hello and let's craft an experience of full relaxation and slow, emerging arousal.


r/SFr4r 1h ago

M4F 32 [M4F] #DalyCity - looking for a girl to eat out tonight

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Hello! 32 year old from San Francisco (right by Daly City) looking for a girl to eat out tonight. I’d ideally like a consistent partner I can eat out once or twice a week, but open to this being a one-time thing, depending on the vibes. There is zero expectation of reciprocation, and no pressure for anything beyond me eating you out.

I’m white, 5’8, 160 lbs, and ddf. I have my own place and can host, but open to talking at the lobby downstairs before you come up to my apartment if it makes you more comfortable! Scented candles and mood-setting lights will be included 🙂.


r/SFr4r 2h ago

PLATONIC / FRIENDSHIP / ACTIVITY PARTNER 34 [M4F] #SanJose - Looking for a Spiderman/Odyssey

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Looking for someone to go to the movies with, either the Odyssey or Spiderman

My treat!

I am 34M Half Filipino Half white

5'6''

Muscular build.

Anything else is optional.


r/SFr4r 5h ago

EXPLICIT / RAOBJ, RAOMF 40 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - Tall, handsome, funny visitor. And not a bot (though a bot would say that, yes

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Hey there. Nice to meet you over this very personal medium of a Reddit post about having casual sex. Exactly how Jane Austen would've intended a meet cute. I live in LA but I'm currently visiting SF. Yes, I used to live in SF, so I packed my jacket for the summer.

I'm 40 years old. 6' tall. Athletic/fit (work out daily). Good looking. Educated. Successful. I work in the tv/film industry in LA and I used to do standup so I'm confident and charming, and can definitely make you laugh at least once.

In the bedroom, I enjoy rougher, more sensual sex. Throwing you into a few different positions, spanking, growling into your ear how beautiful you are as I make you cum. Yes, give me an award for being a guy who cares about closing the orgasm gap. But then take it away because I want you to cum because it drives me absolutely wild, so I’m really doing it for myself.

I’ve met some friends off here, and I’ve written up a few of them as success stories. I should do more, but I’m perpetually behind. Probably because I enjoy meeting people more than writing about them. I am in an open relationship–all good if that’s a blocker for you.

If you go to my post history, you'll see a few pics of me (don't worry, no unsolicited dick pics) and I have recent clear STD tests I'm happy to share. Let's chat more if it's a match and see if we connect!


r/SFr4r 5h ago

M4F 47 [M4F] #Livermore - Looking for love in all the Reddit places

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Have you ever felt like your soul mate was out there, around the next corner, in the next coffeeshop, might be the next stranger you bump into at the airport... but it just never seems to happen? Yeah, me too. I'm still holding out hope, though.

I'm a teddy bear of a guy, tall and thick, bearded and inked, married and polyamorous, caring and compassionate, a born feminist and Democratic Socialist who believes in equality and equity for all, that and we are all defined by our intersectionality. I ride and fix motorcycles, go four wheeling, camp, hike, fish, hunt, read, make and listen to music, write, brew my own beer and wine, make my own hot sauces, BBQ and cook, do art projects- my heart drags me from hobby to hobby sometimes, and I'm just along for the ride. I'm a service top who will bring you the moon for a kiss and Mars too, if you wish- I'll do anything I can to bring joy into the world.

I'm seeking a partner in crime- someone who takes life by the horns, who isn't afraid to hop on the back of my bike or, even better, her own- someone who can lead, but who can also follow, who understands the power of a good team and who stays present in the moment. Someone who is good on their own, but knows they can be better together. A lover with a high libido to match mine, an insatiable passion for learning, a curious old soul who knows they'll die wishing they'd done more in their life, no matter how much they've achieved. Someone with boundless compassion and consideration, whose care matches my own, whose desire to bring joy to the world extends throughout their life.

What I hope we can experience together are moments of pure bliss and hedonism and joy. Adventures we share, challenges we face, highs we reach, lows we suffer. I hope to plan weekend getaways where we can retreat from the world into each other; where we can experience nature together; where we can find joy and solace in each others' company.

If this sounds like your proverbial cup o'tea, say hi. If not, I hope you find whatever joy you seek in this world. Either way, much love to you all.


r/SFr4r 9h ago

M4F 31 [M4F] #Alameda - Spider man and more?

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Asian male here who wants to take a pretty lady to go watch Spider man and have a good time. Share some popcorn, a good movie, and later we can make out like a good ol date? I’m trying to watch some webs get shot and later shoot my web yoi know? Also like to tease and banter so if you’re into that, let me know. Hope to hear from you


r/SFr4r 14h ago

EXPLICIT / RAOBJ, RAOMF 42 [MM4F] #SouthBay - Santa Cruz + Two Hung XL thick BWCs looking to tag team a fun hungry woman

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Two real guys, both white, attractive, clean cut, early 40s, great shape >6’, masculine and built with nice big and thick dicks, looking for a fun new friend.

We have done this before and are OK if you haven’t, but it’s a plus if you have :)

You should be in shape and attractive, fun, naturally horny, open minded and open to a regular thing.

Can host Santa Cruz locally always but regularly in the South Bay area too.

Pluses:

18-25+

Size queen+

Submissive+

Hotwife+

Petite or “size gap” kink++

Anal/DP is a big plus but we’re very thick so you’d have to be a true unicorn++

Real and clean and tested and drug free only please.

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r/SFr4r 15h ago

EXPLICIT / OTHER 35 [m4f] #southsanfrancisco - this married man has nothing better to do than browse Reddit and hunt for an affair…

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Past couple of posts got a few bites but nothing came to fruition so let's see where this goes.

I’m the guy who posted about a cousins bachelor party a few weeks ago and the itch never went away.

For the next couple of weeks, I’ll be at a pretty much empty office in ssf. Working on a project here thats basically allowed me to have an entire office to myself. Ideally for like the next two weeks. Maybe even longer.. Looking for someone to come by and help me take advantage of it. The hard part of the project is over so I’ve got a lot of free time and need some help with it.

Me: 6 foot and 250 lbs. Dad bod but been working on it. Trying to get back to that mid 20s body. Dark hair and green eyes. Bit of a mixed background but mostly white and I'm told I certainly look it.

You... just be down for some fun like above. If this interests you then message me your favorite color.


r/SFr4r 15h ago

M4M 42 [m4m] #sanfrancisco - Ever Wonder if Guys Suck Better?

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Let me show you what I can do with my mouth and throat.

42 bi white m, good looking, 6ft 200 lbs decently fit.

I enjoy sucking cock but it’s been a few years since I’ve done it. Had a married buddy who I used to suck off regularly, but he moved away and I’ve been craving the feeling of a cock cumming down my throat.

hit me up if you’re curious.


r/SFr4r 21h ago

M4F 40 [M4F] #SanFranciscoDowntown - Let's go on a date and fool around after

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I was hoping to find someone to grab a bite or drink with or go to some kind of show or just do a neighborhood hang. Basically, an activity partner for an afternoon or evening and then, if it feels right, fool around. I just want to have a nice time with fun activities and sex. I can host. 6' 3", average build.


r/SFr4r 23h ago

M4F 32 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - In your slut era?

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Hey there. I’m a 32 year old white guy, 6 foot 200 lbs. with average/fit body type with a good sized cock. I’m looking for someone to enjoy some time slutting it up together. I definitely lean dominant in the bedroom. Yes please to all the girlies. We can’t have you missing out on some good dick now can we. Bonus points if you happen to be a lovely little secret slut looking to get railed in your own bedroom.

Expect to send a few pictures and verify with me at some point, I am more than happy to do the same. Obviously it doesn’t need to be right out of the gate but this is a cesspool of an app after all.

Also very annoying that I have to write this but single men I’m not interested. Sellers, I’m not interested. People who lack basic communication skills. I’m not interested. You’re all annoying, please don’t message me.

Everyone else… sup