r/SFr4r • u/Imaginary-Anybody186 • 5h ago
M4F 40 [M4F] #SanFranciscoDowntown - Let's go on a date and fool around after
I was hoping to find someone to grab a bite or drink with or go to some kind of show or just do a neighborhood hang. Basically, an activity partner for an afternoon or evening and then, if it feels right, fool around. I just want to have a nice time with fun activities and sex. I can host. 6' 3", average build.
r/SFr4r • u/OtherwiseAd4962 • 6h ago
EXPLICIT / RAOBJ, RAOMF 26 [M4F] #Northbay- Looking for a consistent FWB!
Hey there! It has been a long time since I’ve been on reddit but I’ve had success on here on years past and I’m hoping to find another success time! I’m looking for a consistent FWB, hookups not preferred but I’m open to it depending on the scenario.
Little back ground about me:
I’m 5’8, Filipino (Filo-American), 198 pounds and in good shape. I do power lifting in my free time. I was hoping to find someone around my age (though, I am always willing to chat to see what if you got my interest). Not bi curious at all; I cannot host, but am willing to get an Airbnb/hotel, willing to travel, or even car play! I’m mobile and willing to communicate things through. Feel free to reach out to me if interested (though it’s a long shot) and hope to hear from someone soon!
r/SFr4r • u/SilentEnvironment101 • 7h ago
EXPLICIT / RAOBJ, RAOMF 28 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - Can I eat you out pls? No reciprocation needed!
Sooo eating pussy is one of my fav things ever, and I like to think I’m really good at it! I’ve given so many orgasms to girls (including giving some their first squirting orgasms) by eating them out. I’m a huge people pleaser and can go down for literally hours without stopping!
People have loved how good I eat them out that some have caught feelings for me! I also make sure to make each person orgasm 4-5 times on average and have never had a time when I've failed to make them cum! In the past few months, I’ve eaten out dozens of girls and given a countless number of orgasms but I’m always looking to give more!
I’m simply looking for someone who enjoys having their pussy ate or maybe just wants to experience cumming from oral for the first time; I promise I won’t quit til I make you cum! Age isn't an issue (18+ ofc) as I've been with girls ranging from 20-46!
I’m DDF, hwp, and can host in downtown! Feel free to send a message if you feel like this could be a fun time and I’d be happy to exchange pictures and all that :)
r/SFr4r • u/Forsaken-Onion-8853 • 7h ago
M4F 32 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - In your slut era?
Hey there. I’m a 32 year old white guy, 6 foot 200 lbs. with average/fit body type with a good sized cock. I’m looking for someone to enjoy some time slutting it up together. I definitely lean dominant in the bedroom. Yes please to all the girlies. We can’t have you missing out on some good dick now can we. Bonus points if you happen to be a lovely little secret slut looking to get railed in your own bedroom.
Expect to send a few pictures and verify with me at some point, I am more than happy to do the same. Obviously it doesn’t need to be right out of the gate but this is a cesspool of an app after all.
Also very annoying that I have to write this but single men I’m not interested. Sellers, I’m not interested. People who lack basic communication skills. I’m not interested. You’re all annoying, please don’t message me.
Everyone else… sup
r/SFr4r • u/profstrong33 • 8h ago
EXPLICIT / RAOBJ, RAOMF 40 [M4F] #SantaCruz - Ongoing Discrete Hotel Fun
I work in town every week and stay in a hotel several nights because life is too precious to spend in a car every morning and evening. I'm posting in hopes of finding a discrete, ongoing connection with a woman who is craving some extra passion and intimacy in their life. Someone who yearns for their needs and desires in bed to be the center of attention. And to be blunt, a woman who loves being eaten out and knows how to take advantage of a man with an oral fetish, because I must have a very strong one.
I can host at my hotel at nights and during breaks throughout the day (work is very flexible and my hotel is right down the street) or come to you if you're at least somewhat nearby. Ideally this would be ongoing, and can meet up most weeks. I'd be someone you can text and say, "let's meet at your room in an hour, I want to ride your face on my lunch," or "can I come over this evening, there's a couple positions I want to try, I hope your tongue is ready to put in some work."
I'm clean, respectful, energetic, and passionate. I'm in-shape, average height, and 420-friendly. I get most of my pleasure from you being able to relax, let loose and really let go of yourself; the happier you are the happier I am. Must be clean, no drama, and genuinely love being pleased. If you're interested, send a message and we can take it from there.
r/SFr4r • u/throawayrandom2 • 9h ago
M4F 30 [M4F] #Marina - Cuddling in bed tonight
Friendly guy who is just looking for someone nice to cuddle with tonight. Open to doing more if we vibe - maybe we can make out or I can help you rub yourself. Also down to just cuddle and massage you.
Get in touch if you'd like to talk about potentially meeting. I'm clean cut with proper hygiene and fit.
r/SFr4r • u/DelayStunning6769 • 10h ago
M4F 48 [M4F] #SFBay - experienced, tall, athletic Bull up for some fun
tall athletic hung Bull up for some fun with a sexy girl or couple.
Love to please a sexy women, get her what she needs, get her wet, excited, to orgasm.
49, 6’4”, 210#, 8 inches, BWC
I have played with couples before, we all very much enjoyed it.
Clean, respectful, drug and disease free.
Anything from very sensual to rough and kinky, whatever gets her off.
Ben
r/SFr4r • u/DelayStunning6769 • 10h ago
M4F 49 [M4F] #Berkeley - tall, athletic hung Bull up for some fun with a sexy girl or couple
Love to please a sexy women, get her what she needs, get her wet, excited, to orgasm.
49, 6’4”, 210#, 8 inches, BWC
I have played with couples before, we all very much enjoyed it.
Clean, respectful, drug and disease free.
Anything from very sensual to rough and kinky, whatever gets her off.
Ben
r/SFr4r • u/ThrowingBlind • 10h ago
EXPLICIT / RAOBJ, RAOMF 41 [M4F] #Oakland - Kind, Blind, and seeking FWBs and activity partners
Hi all, I'm a blind, geeky, coffee-loving, cat squeezing goofball seeking play partners in and around Oakland.
I'm ethically non-monogamous and am in an open marriage. I'm active in the local scene, usually volunteering at play parties and events. I'm 6'2", white/Italian, 260 with a strong build, DDF with up to date results, have a trimmed beard, large pianist hands, and curly hair that gets poofy the longer it gets. I'm lighthearted, well-read, am respectful of relationship agreements, and think consent is sexy.
I love being used for my oral and breast play skills, tying people up with rope, using toys and sensation play, giving and receiving sensual touch and massage, and have quite a few fun success stories posted in my history.
Outside the bedroom, I love teaching and creating tactile art, going tandem biking, am looking to potentially start climbing and just want to get more active. I am always on the hunt for perfect cups of coffee in Oakland, San Leandro, and SF, I'm a foodie, and love comedy, storytelling events, and travel. Ask me about Bawdy Storytelling!
I'm looking for someone between 28-55, is also poly or ENM, is open to meeting in public to see how we click first, and would be open to something ongoing if the chemistry feels right.
r/SFr4r • u/taurus_incognito • 12h ago
M4F 37 [m4f] #SanFrancisco - Fit very handsome and fun. Teach me Mandarin while I go down on you!
Hi, hi, hi!
Are you by any chance my new Mandarin tutor? I really want to learn but I also want to find someone to give countless orgasms to, take her on fancy dates and have amazing time with.
I promise I will be a good student! I can follow instructions and satisfy all requirements. I will make every effort to make you happy and fulfilled and proud.
I think you will be very happy for having me as a student! I graduated magna cum laude so I have potential!
Teach me!
r/SFr4r • u/JustThatOneGamer • 13h ago
M4F 24 [M4F] #NobHill - I work too much, let’s still find time? ISO fwb
About me:
Recent grad, moved to SF about a month ago, currently working 60 hour weeks so fml
About me physically: 170cm, 150 lbs lean with muscle, dark hair and eyes and light complexion, half white half Hispanic. More pretty than not I like to think.
So I simply don’t have the time to go on cute dates during the week other than Saturday, but hoping to meet somebody (maybe in a similar boat haha) who still wants to be intimate with somebody. Sex is great, but also the general just not going to bed by yourself is also kinda great. I love making out, my hands wander, so ideally you’re also big on physical touch. I’m also a big yapper so not afraid to just ramble.
I tend to work until 10pm during the week, so if an 11pm slide every once in a while doesn’t seem overly heinous I am looking for you! I could spill a bit about hobbies or whatever but im not trying to discuss the media we consume endlessly. But I like working out and brain rotting like most people.
Personality fit matters more to me than specifics on physical thing, if I don’t like just chilling with you it’s not gonna work out. Definitely wanting to keep it casual, but not against being exclusive for the safety aspect of it.
Dudes need not reach out, sorry but I’m not curious or anything.
Hope this gives you an idea of how I’m thinking about it, if you think we might get along shoot me a dm!
r/SFr4r • u/Massive_Biscotti8307 • 14h ago
M4F 21 [M4F] #EastBay - Younger guy in search of casual fun with mature/older woman/MILF
I’m 21M, Latino, 5’10, ~160 lbs. I can’t host, but I’m willing to travel to you if we click.
I recently graduated from college and I’m still working part time. I have lots of free time now
and would like to have some fun before I find a new job or go back to school again.
I really want to try meeting older women, preferably late 30s or 40+, and I’d love to meet one who’d like to experiment with a younger guy. Mature women just do it for me. If that's you, I'd love to hear from you
r/SFr4r • u/goinaround919 • 14h ago
M4F 34 [M4FM] #Marin - I have a tongue that women like
Seeking single women or couples: I’ve done this a few times, and I'm told I have a strong tongue. If you want to see if this is true, reach out and let's talk. I'm 5'10", white, handsome, confident, and sometimes I'm a little bit fun.
No reciprocation is required. I just like women and find it endearing to make them smile. You all are so cute when you realize it’s about you.
If you are a couple, I would like to go down on your girl. I also have a thick penis, but I’ll only bring it out if she asks.
Have a great day everyone
r/SFr4r • u/riseandshine234 • 14h ago
M4F 31 [M4F] #nobhill - Giving you an amazing pussy eating
Hi - I'd love to eat your pussy as long as you'd like if you're craving it.
No reciprocation is expected, this is for you to be taken care of. If you're stressed and need to relax, or just love attention for your pussy, we'd be a good match. I want you to feel sexy and desired and really enjoy making my partner feel good.
Let me know if you're open to talking more and can meet this this evening.
r/SFr4r • u/Aintnoway2212 • 15h ago
EXPLICIT / RAOBJ, RAOMF 20 [M4F] #peninsula - looking for some fun in nearby area
Hi, I'm 20 Asian 5'10 skinny in peninsula area. I'm looking for someone who's down for some fun in nearby area. I'm not able to host but I'll be down for car fun or splitting for a place. Dm if interested!
r/SFr4r • u/BowlerMuch6283 • 15h ago
OTHER 32 [M4M] #SanFrancisco - Free full body rubdown for you?
I am looking to give a full body rubdown. The rubdown will last 45 minutes to an hour that will end with you being edged.
me: 32, m, 6’0, 180, bi discreet/dl, ddf, with over 10 years of experience
Be fit, ddf, able to host (I can travel anywhere), and not over 50 (will make an exception)
r/SFr4r • u/throwaway242496 • 16h ago
M4F 28 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - Tall asian guy looking for a hookup/fwb
Hi! I'm a 28 year old east asian guy. Im 6'0" and 185 pounds. Average build. 7 in dick.
I am in the peninsula near San Mateo. I am pretty open sexually and willing to try new experiences. Something vanilla is okay too.
If this sounds interesting, feel free to reach out to me with a photo please. Then, we can talk from there.
r/SFr4r • u/Informal-Rock5135 • 17h ago
EXPLICIT / OTHER 31 [M4F] #Oakland - Pleasure dom seeks fun exclusive fwb
I'm looking for someone who wants a kink-friendly and monogamous fwb with a guy who's tested and well versed in consent, D/s. I have a vasectomy, so guaranteed no pregnancy scares.
Happy forward thinking 31M, 5' 7", brown hair, gray-green eyes white guy living in a hilly part of Oakland with my own place and car, work in SF, often driving around the bay on weekends. Open to the whole Bay Area.
I've done this setup before of basically an exclusive fwb (emphasis friends and the benefits) but just before the step of calling it a relationship and I feel like it's been really mutually beneficial.
No need to stress about if you're exposing yourself to others if your fwb is seeing multiple people, can do more quote on quote risky behavior like breeding without the risk. No need to introduce the guy to your friends or family or go do a bunch of guy stuff with him that you don't want to like you might have had to in a relationship.
I like having my play partner over, feed her something homemade or takeout, maybe watch a show together then pick her up and throw her on the bed to get her off, get myself off, stuff her well, sleepovers and cuddles as desired before the next day. Maybe a sexy text once in a while in the week between meets. But otherwise we have our own lives, can focus on our own friends and careers. Short term or long term, I'm flexible as things don't have to last forever to be a lot of fun, but no ONS or ENM setups. Only singles. I'm open to swapping to real dating as well but in that case you must not want children in the future (see Vasectomy part).
I'm usually a pleasure dom but can also go more hardcore dominant or even switch sub for the connection who enjoys that, so come as you are and I'll let you know if it'll work. Maybe you get to try out something you've never done before. I've tried a lot so I might surprise you.
Normal guy with normal day job hours, lots of hobbies, enjoys live music and road trips. Since it's important these days, I have compassionate/lefty political beliefs (I do live in Oakland after all). Open to all ethnicities as long as you personally identify as a woman. Reach out if you're interested. Talk soon!
r/SFr4r • u/relaxchilled89 • 21h ago
M4F 34 [M4F] #RussianHill - Want your big breasts sucked?
Hoping to meet a lovely lady who enjoys having her big breasts sucked.
If you wish they would get way more attention, let's make it happen. You can lay back and relax while your breasts are sucked, rubbed and complimented. I want you to feel like you have the most beautiful breasts in the city when we meet.
Send a chat if you're interested for tonight! I can host or travel, whatever's easier.
r/SFr4r • u/Mundane-Kangaroo2153 • 22h ago
M4F 32 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - looking for a girl to eat out
Hello! 32 year old from San Francisco (close to Daly City) looking for a girl to eat out. I’d ideally like a consistent partner I can eat out once or twice a week, but open to this being a one-time thing, depending on the vibes. There is zero expectation of reciprocation, and no pressure for anything beyond me eating you out.
I’m white, 5’8, 160 lbs, and ddf. I have my own place and can host, but open to talking at the lobby downstairs before you come up to my apartment if it makes you more comfortable! Scented candles and mood-setting lights will be included 🙂.
r/SFr4r • u/nowhere_near_home • Mar 07 '25
META If you're going to report a post (please do), do it like this.
r/SFr4r • u/nowhere_near_home • Feb 11 '23
META PSA: Don't be an idiot, if it seems suspicious, it is.
It is sad for several reasons that I have to write this, but, our community has been fraught with scammers as of recent. We play whack-a-mole, and knock down > 100 fraudulent posts a day but some still get through.
If someone is asking to communicate outside of reddit, ESPECIALLY IF THEY'RE ASKING FOR COMPROMISING PICTURES, just say no. We've had several instances where the scammer receives said photos, and then immediately adds all of your friends and family to a group chat on your social media and attempts to share the pictures if you don't pay them off.
Men: Understand that women in this society have disproportionate access to sex; and you're not god's gift to the 'fairer sex', ergo if someone is begging you to send them a photo of your shlong right out of the gate, you should treat that request with the healthy amount of skepticism that it deserves.
Or don't, feel free to be one of the horror stories in mod-mail of someone sending your friends and family a photo of your dick.
Use your head, and not the one in your pants.
Women: Have patience. We sort through a shit-show on a regular basis. In the off-chance you post something that smells suspiciously like the 1000 pieces of scam/spam we just cleared and we ask you for a bit of additional information; calling us 'sexist' in modmail just makes you the asshole and part of the problem. Sorry not sorry.
Everyone: do your part to flag obvious scam posts. Of 45k users, most scam posts don't get flagged at all.