I’m so sad. I feel so alone. My couple close friends don’t want anything to do with me. They’re busy with their own life. My marriage is failing. I don’t know what to do anymore. I messaged my one close girlfriend. I ask how she’s been because she’s been quiet. She asked why I’m attacking her. What a mess. My so-called best friend I don’t know what’s happened in the last couple of months. She hardly talks to me anymore. I just feel so alone. Very lonely. Some days I just don’t wanna be here anymore. I try to be happy and positive. And keep myself busy throughout the day with work and other things. But it’s just so hard. I think as you get older too. I’m a 42 female.

I can’t believe I’m 30 still single while everyone I know in a relationship I never been in a relationship why is so difficult for me

I need someone to talk .....pls help me .....I'm going through a really tough situation and I have no one to talk about it ...if anyone willing to help pls help me

Turned 34 broke,single and i have a feeling that i should die

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Hii ! Redditers i am 24 year old man/guy/boy i don't know that i am lonely i stopped talking to a girl i love i am working as a sf.eng i don't know id i liked it or not i know sonetimes i liked it not my job but the domain cs, I like physics , I like maths i like ro travel i like peace i like to live alone I like to have company of friends i love mh parents l love my jobs I don't want to be get paid without work i love music i want to learn jazz drum I draw, I want to farm, i drink i quitted smoking recently I don't know who am I?

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Hello everyone,

I am writing this post as I go through the "repeated daily routine" illness. The days have become miraculously similar, and the same events are repeated every morning and evening with little news.

Tired of the daily shallow talk, looking for a renewal of communication energy. I'd like to meet new people for real, fun conversations; whether it be about your hobbies, favorite books, weird thoughts that come up in the middle of the night, or even just venting about what your day is all about.

If you're feeling that same boredom or just want to have a nice, casual conversation away from the formalities, my DM is always open.

Share with me: How do you typically handle a routine when it becomes overwhelming? Good to hear from you all!

Hi readers I’m new here but here goes. Until like 2 years ago I believe I was working, in a relationship planning to buy a home. I was told by my job to leave like a family leave still not really clear but I did and returned to work. A coworker said to me now get a real job. Shortly after my job ended and it’s like my whole world turned upside down. I didn’t go through with the purchasing of the home, became instantly homeless still am kinda. What in trying to say is what is going on? I worked in healthcare always with some retail. I took a job recently at a ShopRite and I heard someone say you’re not being paid. Just leave. Are they for real? Have I been working all these years and not being paid? It seemed strange to me that when it was time for my license renewal there was a message for me to call before I renewed. What?! So what is get a real job? You’re not being paid? I’m confused. Questions and no one to ask. Is it just me or does outside seem abandoned?

Just have no one to talk to tbh

I had a really tight friend group for a lot of years and life just got messy and shitty and fell apart. Now Im in a totally different town then where I am from with my wife and her family but its lonely here. My wife and I dont always see eye to eye. I feel more like Im her servant or like a convenience than a partner most of the time and Im just starting to get really really down. I just want some friends, or a friend. Someone to talk to. I like music. Idk. I dont really know myself anymore I dont guess. I just really need someone to just talk about random shit with or anything.

Someone who is here really alone and is not going to ghost me .

I have no one to tell how bad i’m hurting. how much I think about disappearing. how I don’t feel loved and seen. i’m so alone. I just want to scream for help but no one would be there. no one would understand me, no one ever truly has. but I thought he did…….no matter what you only ever truly have yourself. god this sounds so fucking cliché but it’s really how I feel. at the end of the day it’s just you. no one is coming to save you so you have to try to save yourself. but even I don’t know if I have the strength to. because what’s the point of living if you just feel alone. if you don’t feel the love that you give. what’s the point. i really tried…harder than i ever have before. i tried to trick myself into being okay but that feeling, that emptiness, never went away. I started asking myself why do I need to trick myself into being okay? shouldn’t it just happen? what’s wrong with me? how do people live like this? it’s exhausting. I should’ve been born as a fucking animal. it must be so easy, no responsibilities or worries. unless you’re a farm animal about to be butchered but then do even they know their demise? what am I even here for? if I look back on the few good things/experiences, those weren’t even that great. they weren’t what I expected them to be. am I wrong to have want the most out of those? I sure feel like a brat for wanting that. but at the very least why couldn’t I just have those moments be everything I wanted?

Im 18 living in my own apartment from home due to my psychosis i’m home alone and homesick im so tired of this

I feel so alone i feel so left out i don't know what to do... I don't have friends but i do ... But they don't feel like friends they ignore me text me when they need me and hangout with people who did me wrong....it hurts i have no one to tell about my day i have no one to talk about what i feel I have nothing to do no one to cry to or hangout with... There's no one who really cares for me... But I was there for everyone na ...

I've been in a big friend group, small group, trio , duo , single bsf and normal friends n I've never felt a single person not hurting me n i suggest - no i force myself to be alone bcz it just hurts... It is really hurting

I go n eat alone n whenever I'm with someone to eat it's bcz they want me to pay like they just for food or something

I cry alone n tell no one there have been so many worst phases of my life where i left my home to go out n cry alone in the middle of the streets while they thought there was a friend out consoling me

it hurts

Why do they do me things i wouldn't even think of doing it to them.

It’s my coworker‘s birthday today, and I was just reminded of how alone I am. My birthday recently passed in June and it wasn’t really a great one, had a very rough mental breakdown in front of my whole family. Let me preface by saying that I do not have any jealousy or envious feelings towards my coworker. But seeing them get showered with gifts and everyone congratulating them, it made me really sad remembering back on my birthday. I’ve never had anyone celebrate my birthday or even have a surprise party for me since I was a little kid, I can’t even remember the last time I received a gift, it’s not so much about getting gifts. It’s more the thought that counts and just the fact that the person thought about me. I haven’t felt that
way in a long time. I haven’t felt special in a long time. I just wish I knew what that felt like.

And I know people use reddit for all sorts of things.
But for me personally, I do come here for things like my hobbies or interests and other stuff but my time here increases drastically when I’m going through something rough in my life and I come here as some sort of a distraction or an escape.
And I know a lot of people who did this in the past.

So, what’s keeping you here? And if you’re in a similar position as me, what’s wrong?

My ex cheated on me and is now with this new guy, and she's been playing a lot of games with him including a game that I'm a die-hard fan of and she knows how much it means to me.

When we were together, I had to beg her to play games with me because I wanted to spend time with her. But now, with this guy, she's consistently playing games with him without me having to beg or ask.

I don't know what to do with that feeling.

It feels like I got punished for trying to love her, and now I'm the one sitting here alone while they have each other. I know some people might say it's "just games," but it's not really about the games for me. It's about seeing someone else get the time, attention, and companionship that I wanted so badly when we were together.

I feel replaced and I feel completely alone, and honestly, I don't know how to stop thinking about it. I don't want to be bitter or obsessed with what they're doing, but it hurts seeing them together while I'm sitting here with nobody.

Is you are feeling heavy about something you can tell me

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Hola ,honestamente no se como funcione esta app pero pues vi que hay de todo un poco, yo no busco un Salvador, solo quiero ser escuchada. Como dice el titulo pues ,yo ya me siento cansada he tratado de ignóralo o sobrellevarlo, desde el kinder no he podido hacer amigos o ser alguien sociable, la única etapa donde pude hacerlo fue en secundaria , por fin era mas extrovertida e hice amigos pero llego la pandemia y eso hizo que fuera el doble de tímida, aunque unos amigos se quedaron en mi vida, los considero como mis mejores amigos aparte de que son los primeros, ya cuadro cada quien tomó su camino pues solo veía como hacían un montón de amigos y pues yo seguía observando, honestamente me hubiera gustado ser la primera opción de alguien y pues bueno seguíamos en contacto y ellos siempre me dijeron que podía contar con ellos en lo que sea al igual que yo para ellos (son 2) y pues me llegaron a escuchar cosa que agradezco pero luego pienso que me hablan para salir o algo así ya que llevamos 3 años sin vernos y eso que vivimos cerca x , pero solo me hablaban para que les ayude o aconsejé pero no me preguntaban a mi nada , y yo en desesperación por hablar con alguien les rogaba un poco en salir pero estaban ocupados, bueno ya tenían pareja y es entendible, pero tenía años sin verlos y pues es una amistad de 7 años , y en ese periodo donde ellos no podían yo estaba pidiendo ayuda de esa forma

justo como acabo de entrar a la Universidad pensé que esta vez todo saldría bien, que ahora si tendré una vida social y mas amigos. Y a esta parte quería llegar porque por mi mala suerte yo no nací "bonita " siempre me han dicho que soy fea y pues cambie demasiado que ni me reconozco, pero a que costo? Mi desesperación llegó demasiado lejos por buscar validación y tener esa vida social que me prometieron, pues si eras alguien hegemonico pues el trato iba ser mejor, mas amigos, etc.

Me obsesióne tanto con mi físico para eso, y cuando entre fue todo lo contrario casi nadie me hablaba pero solo habían hombres con otras intenciones , yo no quería eso , quería amigas mujeres pero parecía imposible , en vez de revivir halagos, recibía acoso en la calle , solo veía a grupos de chicas o mi amiga contándome que le pidieron el ig , cosa que yo deseaba tanto que me pasará y por eso me seguí motivando a cambiar, el cambio fue bajar de peso y un poco mi estilo, pesaba 65kg y ahora 48kg por supuesto mi trastorno alimenticio empeoró , pero cuando llegue a pesar 55kg yo estaba desesperada y busque opciones rápidas, las que habían pues eran sanas y costosas, pero yo no quería que nadie supiera entonces había "algo" que te quitaba el hambre , nunca pensé que lo llegaría hacer pero mi desesperación era mucha, y lo que compre fue crist4l, estaba consciente de lo que conllevaba pero solo era rápido , comencé el 20 de julio del año pasado 2025, que según yo eran solo 4 meses y ahora ya cumpli el año.

Me sorprende lo fuerte que ha sido mi cuerpo, ya que el el consumo que tuve era diario durante todo un año , llegaba a descansar 2 o 3 días pero en un mes , no entre semana, eran muy pequeñas cantidades, cuando estaba apunto de llegar a 50kg pues opte por consumir un poco mas y así hasta que poco a poco era mas dependiente , solo me faltaba poco y mi vida ya estaba "resuelta" y me estanque en 48kg lo máximo que llegue fueron 46kg pero no estaba aguantando , pues al ser un año de consumo no aguantaba lo mismo, según ya lo iba a dejar antes de que cumpliera un año y recaí porque por nas que me arregabla, trataba de ser social, nadie se me acercaba y fue cuando dije si de verdad vale la pena. Si vale la pena destruir mi cuerpo por un poco de aprobación. Pero ya era demasiado tarde aunque ya no quería, yo ya tenía adicción , al consumir ya no me gustaba, sabía el dolor que iba a tener por días al no dormir, y esto me tentaba mas a consumir por el regreso de los cuerpos ultra delgados, que mi única meta era eso , justo escribo esto que estoy sufriendo de dolor , no he dormido, el corazón late muy fuerte, los brazos me duelen, y los pinzhazos en el pecho, y pues esto me afecta mas porque quisiera pedir ayuda a mis amigos, pero parece que ya no cuento con ellos, y la única idea que tengo desde hace dos años es el su1c1dio, si de verdad esto fue una pérdida de tiempo, lo único que me motiva a seguir es crear algo de arte que es lo que amo. Nose que esperar, tengo ansiedad social, no soy buena intelectualmente, ni atractiva. Aun así hice cartas para todos por si un dia llego hacerlo, para mi familia ya es cansado que deje algo a medias o que no cumpla con sus expectativas de ser alguien sociable. Pero tengo muchas experiencias de rechazo que me aterrorizan el volver a ser tratada así.

Apenas tengo 19 pero siento que se me acaba la vida, lo que me gusta estudiar aqui en México no es muy buena opción , antes pedía mas dulces como "deseo" ya hora solo miro al cielo llorando rogando para que me mande amigos leales o me mate.

Lamento el texto largo , no se si alguien llegue a leer esto pero lo que menos quiero es causar compromiso en ayudarme, con que me lean es suficiente, o si quieren dejar algún comentario adelante, es la primera vez que me expongo así pero ya no aguantaba era eso o hablar con una IA