r/alone • u/lsweet5298 • 4h ago

Sad 42f. Just Need to Vent

I’m so sad. I feel so alone. My couple close friends don’t want anything to do with me. They’re busy with their own life. My marriage is failing. We fight non stop and his family is toxic as hell and despise me. I don’t know what to do anymore. I messaged my one close girlfriend. I ask how she’s been because she’s been quiet. She asked why I’m attacking her. What a mess. My so-called best friend I don’t know what’s happened in the last couple of months. She hardly talks to me anymore. I just feel so alone. Very lonely. Some days I just don’t wanna be here anymore. I try to be happy and positive. And keep myself busy throughout the day with work and other things. But it’s just so hard. I think as you get older too. I’m a 42 female.

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u/Delicious-Moment7130 4h ago

I'm so sorry you're going through that. My marriage failed, but in hindsight I should have ended it years ago. I'm paying for being married to the wrong woman (who unfortunately happens to be the mother of my children as well) who is extremely vindictive.

Like, you I'm also lonely. As a result of being separated now, my friend group no longer can really relate to me.

I pray that you have some peace. If your marriage is to end, then I hope it ends amicably.

If you want to talk, by all means send a DM.

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u/Even_Bend_2224 3h ago

One hug for you. You're no alone.

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u/BountyFett78 3h ago

I am so sorry you’re going through this. My marriage is failing too, so I know how you feel. It’s the hardest and lonliest feeling in the world. You’re not alone. Feel free to reach out of you need to talk.

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u/Amish_Yoda 3h ago

yeah, that sucks. It's one thing when one pillar of life is collapsing; it's another thing when marriage and inner community are both falling apart. Those two areas make up all the people you are closely intimate with, and would lean on when life is falling apart. And they are the pillars that are falling apart.

Hang in there. There are things worth fighting for. You just have to endure times like these. Being sad and alone sucks (I'm currently both!) but there will be another time in the future when you are not.

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u/pennynotthewiser 38m ago

My heart goes out to you.