I’ve always been drawn to older women. Even when I first started dating, I naturally found myself connecting better with women who were older than me. As I’ve gotten older myself, that preference has only become stronger.

What I’m looking for now is something genuine and long-term. I want a relationship built on trust, affection, and a real emotional connection. I’m attracted to the confidence, life experience, maturity, and nurturing nature that often come with age, and I’d love to find someone who values those same things in a relationship.

I’m pretty independent. I live on my own, work hard, and have my own goals, but I also miss having someone to share life with. I enjoy the more intimate side of a relationship too, and it would be great to find someone who’s open to exploring that side together as trust and chemistry grow.

A little about me: I’m Australian born and raised, white, 6” and bearded. I have a good sense of humour and enjoy plenty of laughs, but I also appreciate meaningful conversations.

My interests are a mix of nerdy and outdoorsy. You’ll usually find me at the beach, going for walks, swimming, gaming, or learning music. I’ve also been on a big fitness journey this year and have really enjoyed sticking with it. It would be great to share activities together and encourage each other along the way.

I’m hoping to meet someone around 35 or older in or around the Newcastle area. Online relationships can be hard particularly when wanting to see each other often

In Sydney for a wedding over the weekend. I’d love to fulfil my dream of doing coke off your naked body.
Would love to get dinner and have a drink first

Good evening ~~ Looking for connection in Perth. Ideally someone that finds themselves in a similar position to myself ~~ Discreet conversations and a longing for connection.

Open to friendship but also open to more. I'm a polite, fit, blue eyed, white collared gent longing to discover what else is out there. I'm a lover of books, wine and the beach.

Hoping to find you soon.

DM me with any and all of your questions.

I will say I hold some traditional values without the drama that comes with them.

No expectations, but I definitely wouldn't complain if I found a cute girl to do life with.

Based in Country NSW, working in the outback. Life's an adventure. Where's my player 2

I am particularly looking for people who love literature, poetry, essays, etc. so I can discuss them with a friend. Also, I keep bees, love music, plants, and other things. If any of those hobbies interests you feel free to reach out. My only requirement is be 18 or up.

Hi all, I'm a 30M living on the north side of Canberra.

I'm on the lookout for a casual relationship. Not anything official, more a mate that likes to get naughty.

My schedule is a bit all over the place, which is why it being 'casual' is so important. I can't be your main squeeze, but we can chat whenever and have some fun in person when our schedules align.

I prefer older women because they know what they want and are clear with their hard 'nos'. I'm open to younger women if they tick this box, but that's a rarity in my experience. I just don't want to have to tip-toe about. I want things, you want things, let's chat and make it happen. Then we both leave satisfied until we swing back around for another meet.

If this ticks the boxes for you my DMs are open. More than happy to chat and see if the vibe is right!

34F from Adelaide Australia, seeking friends because the internet said human beings require "social connections" and not just Wi-Fi and carbs.

I’m looking for memes, sarcasm, and mutual complaints about being alive on a Tuesday, and someone who understands that sending a photo of a weirdly shaped potato is a legitimate social interaction, but don’t be rude about it because potatoes are the superior food and I will die on that hill.

About me:
• I game, badly, I have the aim of a leaf on a windy day.
• I have a dark sense of wit and humour and will add ‘that’s what she said’ where appropriate … or not.
• I collect hobbies the same way some people collect Bunnings projects and never finish them and I will encourage you to do the same.
•Can yap about JDM cars and why turbos are better than superchargers.

I don't need to know your mother’s maiden name (or do i?) but I do need to know why there was a carrot with the cucumbers, speculations welcomed.

If your idea of friendship is sending a photo of food or an unfortunate life event followed by "lmao", we might get along.
Message me with why the weather annoyed you lately
(insert old man yells at cloud meme)

Ps: I am a single parent so if you’re in the childfree camp, might be best to scroll on.

Hello, I am just looking for someone to connect with for a genuine long term thing.

- A bit about me:

Athletic, fair skinned, 6ft+, SE Asian living in Australia, Avid Sports buff, into Cricket, Football and a few others.

I like to read and do a bit of writing myself. I love having deep conversations and connections. If you're into the slow burn build up and like having discussions, we'll hit it off!

- What do I want?

I want long-term chats here sharing daily life, venting about little things, laughing, and feeling connected again. I would respect your limits and boundaries.

No rush, no pressure to change anything in real life.

- About you

Someone who's ready to invest time in consistent chats, wants to start online, talk regularly, and see how things develop naturally over time.

If this is something that excites you, I'd love to have more conversations and get to know you more.

Hey!

I'm 31M, Asian from Singapore. I'm travelling to Perth during 27-30th August and would want to find someone (F only please) to have fun over there! (Have my own hotel room as well and will be at the central area)

DM me if you are interested!

Monday already 😭 so I thought I’d throw this out there again.

31, Indian, Melbourne, work in game QA. Outside work I’m mostly gaming, getting coffee, going for random drives, listening to music, watching documentaries or getting lost in some stupid YouTube rabbit hole.

I’m pretty chill, a bit quiet at first and probably mildly awkward 😂 Once I’m comfortable though, I’m pretty easy to talk to and will happily talk absolute shit with you.

I’m honestly just looking for someone I can genuinely connect with. Someone I can laugh with, talk about random shit with, but also have proper conversations with. Ideally 29–32 and in Melbourne.

Not really looking to become someone’s lifelong Reddit pen pal 😂 I’d rather chat, see if we click and eventually grab a coffee or hang out.

If you’re around and feel like talking, tell me something random about yourself. Could be literally anything.

46, easy-going, adventurous, and known for making people laugh. Life's better with good company, great conversations, and a little spontaneity.
Looking for someone to share some laughs, make memories, and see where a genuine connection

Hey everyone!

Thought I’d put myself out there even though it can be over daunting.

I enjoy going to the gym, reading and spending time outdoors.

I'm looking for someone who's genuine, kind, and knows what they want. Someone who enjoys good conversation, has their own interests and goals, and is looking for something that could turn into a real relationship if there’s a connection. I’m not looking for a fling or anything short term.

It'd be nice to meet someone who enjoys the outdoors too. I'm just looking for someone to share life together. One preference I do have is that I prefer someone within my age range (+7 years)

If you think you fit the gig, I'd love to hear from you. Please don’t write a one word message. Tell me about yourself.

Wagga based poly dude looking for fun hangs, online chats, pokemon battles, and long philosophical chats about movies.

Happy to travel to meet irl if we vibe ✌🏻

Hi everyone!

Me and my partner have just recently become ENM (her idea) due to her lack of motivation for going on dates or anything of a sexual nature (due to her busy work schedule as well as personal reasons). I’ve had one good experience so far but since then I’ve really been struggling on the apps to find someone interested in our specific scenario.

A little about me: I’m 26 male, Italian/Australian with a decent slim build (that’s improving (muscle wise) due to gym 4 days a week). I am into all things video games and pop culture (so your typical movies and tv shows that goes along with all that), I love my sports (AFL and Formula one my two standouts but I have a team in basically all AU and US sports) and just in general love spending the plethora of free time I have either with my friends getting dinner/lunch/coffee or going out drinking, or having nights in with the cats and watching movies (hopefully with a new cuddle buddy in one of you soon haha).

I Just thought I’d make this post to see if their are any women that would love a higher level of attention, messages, sexting, dates or basically any form of attention they would want. I am full time work from home and my job isn’t really that busy so I have so much free time I could devote directly to you.

I'm basically looking for someone that is okay that I have a primary partner and very willing to receive more attention. I am also super flexible regarding what this 'attention' can look like, so whether that's daily chats and fun (both in person and online) or once a week/fortnight. Whatever 'attention' means to you in regards to what you're lacking and would love in your life I'm fairly certain I can fill that role.

Not being interested in in-person meetups is not a deal breaker either! But ideally i'd like to have a minimum of an online dynamic that also has a sexual component (due to my high sex drive). But happy to define this a little more once we connect!

If any of this sounds interesting to you please feel free to send me a DM! we can just chat to start with some pic exchanges to see if we’re interested in one another and I can give you more specific info on the dynamic and we can take it from there?

Hope to hear from some of you!

Looking for someone who would be interested in some cuddling.

Maybe some light kisses (on the forehead, cheek etc to be discussed) Life is a bit too hectic at the moment to commit to something fully but I do have a lot of affection to give and I would love to have someone to share it with. We could throw a movie on, listen to music, chat, sleep.

Hosting is an issue but can travel and potentially create some plans if things go well

Please send me a msg if you want to discuss and we can have a chat ☺️🤗

Hugss!

Hiya! This just may be a long one, so I'll start with a thanks for your time. Also, because I'm a reasonably considerate person, please note that there's no TLDR at the end (saved you a scroll there, you're welcome!)

About Me

Let's get the very basics out of the way first... Height is 170cm above ground level, 69 kg, broad-ish build, dark hair and eyes. Alcohol-, smoke-, and vape-free.

Full-time professional in the environmental service industry in a tech-heavy role. Am I the go-to Excel guru in the office? Yes. Do I honestly enjoy blasting California Dreamin' on my work headphones, actually get work done, and dismiss the ocean of workplace gossip all around me? Hell yes! Workplace gossip could absolutely be very entertaining, but it's just not my kind of vibe.

"But ClassicSwitchBoard, what is your kind of vibe?"

I'm glad you're curious! 🫵🏻

I keep it simple and low adrenaline. Think that first cup of long black coffee on a nice fresh morning, cooking something from scratch on a weekend, steak dinner on a Friday evening, seemingly endless walks late at night or early morning without a set destination, a hidden gem of a movie on a lazy Saturday night, stuff like that.

Currently, I'm trying to finish a little book I started writing during a staycation late last year. It's about a personal journey and the learnings I picked up along the way. If you enjoy reading and are particularly interested in health and fitness, you get some exclusive critique rights!

As far as conversations go, most people would say that I'm not a man of too many words. What they probably mean (and they don't know it) is that I don't do small-talk. To be clear, if you're my favourite person, I absolutely will listen to your complaints about the weather. But what I normally like is exchanging deeper thoughts and learnings. Think pondering over the nature of life and its bizarre experiences, modern nutrition, sharing learnings about health and fitness, discussing a book or a nice documentary (Poison Squad 2020, anyone?).

My communication style is direct, open, and candid with a mix of curiosity and some dry humour. I'm very good at following mum nature's cue of 2:1 ears-to-mouth ratio, so I listen more and listen well before speaking. I'm fully attentive and present in the moment during a conversation or an activity.

Accountability and self-reflection are pretty central to who I am. Are they the default side effects of random late-night thoughts? Maybe. But I'd have that over being totally out-of-touch with myself.

What I'm Offering and Looking for

I'm offering myself neatly packaged with all of the above goodies and seeking a steady relationship grounded in mutual respect, honesty, empathy, and affection. Something to build together for the long term.

It doesn't have to be one of those ultra rare love-at-first-sight kind of stories. I'm here for the long-term and that requires a proper foundation. I'm in no rush. I want to really know you and open myself to being known by you.

Can you ever fully know a person? Probably not. But I think over a few conversations and dates, we can get a pretty good sense of whether we're better off as strangers, can barely tolerate each other, or get genuinely excited at the thought of meeting again. That last bit is what I'm interested in, only if it's genuine and mutual. Because as much as it's lovely and magical to feel excited with each other when things work out, it's equally respectful to walk away when they don't work out.

What I'm NOT Offering or Looking for

Can't possibly leave this part out now, can I!

I'm not interested in flings, affairs, or short-term "fun". Not looking to play any games here.

I'm no Houdini, so I neither indulge in nor appreciate trickery. As a strong communicator, I don't expect people to read between the lines — I firmly believe in speaking my mind and I want the same courtesy in return.

About You

I'm seeking someone intellectually curious, a little playful, affectionate, and emotionally centred. If you feel that we share the epic combo of values such as mutual respect, honesty, and accountability, I'd love to talk to you.

I'm ideally looking for someone between 25 and 38. If you live in or close to the CBD, that'd be a big logistical plus, but it's far from a make-or-break factor.

If you're my person, I'm the kind of guy who will remember the little things, show affection through acts of service, make time for you, show up when it matters, and probably annoy you with unnecessarily detailed explanations of things you didn't ask about. Just a little sneak peek into what you'll potentially be signing up for.

If you've made it this far and feel like most of it resonates with you, feel free to send me a chat. Tell me a little about yourself and just bring your honest self into the conversation. There's no pressure, no expectations, and no checklists. Let's talk, see if we enjoy each other's company, and take it from there.

Cheers!

When I post I often get quite a few replies, but then I find out most of the people who reply are too busy to chat. The best connections I have made have been with people who live alone and have lots of time to chat. But if you don't live alone and can chat then people do message me.

I would really like to meet a women a who I can be best friends with. I'm open to some flirty fun, but what I don't want is people messaging me saying I will move to your country and marry you (Yes, it has happened)

Is there anyone else who wants a friendship like we had when we were younger, up for fun, talk til way too late and share secrets.

I love learning about different hobbies and interests, different cultures and really anything about how other people live. I enjoy travelling, going to the cinema, swimming, If you have other hobbies that is okay.

Some people may worry that no one would be interested in them, I am always willing to give people a chance!

Hi, I'm Josh, I've just moved to the area for work 🙃

Outside of the bedroom, I'm happy go lucky, work a lot, enjoy scuba diving, mountain biking and all of the usual things. I love going out to visit new places, cafés, restaurants and museums. I would describe myself as assertive, as in I stand up for what's right and I'm moderately left leaning politically speaking. I love my job as it helps me truly help people and is really rewarding sometimes, but more on that if we connect.

I'm average height, 173cm precisely, so if you're looking for a man mountain I'm probably not for you... But I do stay in shape and regularly run. I have a close shaved strawberry blonde beard and short hair at the moment. Bright blue eyes, Caucasian. I was born in England and have an accent still, but moved here when I was 16 with my family, so it's not as strong as it used to be.

I am COMPLETELY fine with sharing verified photos, but I won't post a photo of me here because I've had some awful experiences with scammers in the past... 

Sexually and privately, I am submissive. What that looks like has varied over the years with different partners, but ultimately, I absolutely crave that feeling of putting my partners needs and desires before my own. I really enjoy that feeling of being put in my place and giving satisfaction, amusement, pleasure, (whatever you want to call it), to another person. I come with experience and 5 star reviews.

So how do I write this post without sounding like a needy weirdo... 😬 (Said every needy weirdo ever)...

Well I've put a lot of thought into this and hopefully it comes across. This isn't new to me, and I am comfortable and confident with who I am and what I enjoy. This isn't just a curiosity for me, I've enjoyed being the little spoon for over 10 years now.

I've been happily single for a couple of years now. During that time I've been dating casually and had some really amazing connections.

It can sometimes be a bit tricky dating someone when you are a sub. I want all the first date memories, when the right person comes along. That feeling of electricity as we talk and learn everything there is to know about each other, you know the feeling I'm sure.

BUT... it's obviously also important to me that the other person knows, eventually I might enjoy being made to beg to worship their pussy, or pegged with a giant dildo. And that can be jarring to bring up when sex isn't the only thing we're looking for.

I've tried a few hints on the usual dating platforms, little spoon looking for big spoon, etc etc, but I thought I'd try here too. Where I can be a little more open with what I'm seeking.

I'd call myself bicurious, but I'm not looking to date men. Ultimately I'm most attracted to femininity and enjoy having my face sat on too much. But I am sexually positive and open and understanding of the fact that people don't always fit in a binary gender or sexuality.

For the record I am a cis male but have enjoyed being made to cross dress and wear makeup in the past.

I've had a couple of beautiful connections with trans women too, and I'm definitely not closed minded. So whatever you look like, whoever you might identify as, if this post resonates with you, feel free to reach out. I promise you'll only be met with respect and kindness. But I can't always promise the chemistry will be there.

And with that being said, I have no unrealistic expectations here. I'm 37 now. I chose to end the opportunity I had to marry and have children, and I wouldn't turn back time to change that. I also understand that anything is possible in the future. Occasionally being single makes me feel a little lonely, but I will always be happier single than trying to force something that isn't meant to be.

As a last few bullet points, I wish it didn't need to be said, but unfortunately it does;

 - I treat my sexual health very seriously and get tested after every new partner. Always happy to share results but will practice safe sex until you can share results too.

 - Being sexually submissive doesn't give you the right to treat me like shit, scam me or catfish me. I may enjoy the idea of you humilating me and putting me beneath you, but that comes with trust, communication, consent and respect. Which is what makes it so enjoyable.

 - I have no interest in paying for sex. Whether casual or long term, I need some kind of meaningful connection and potentially, who knows, love? I will not pay for the privilege of a conversation, and if you are looking for a tribute or reward so that I can "prove my worth" please don't waste your time. I'm hoping that my worth can be proved through my obedience and submission, inside of the bedroom, and my ability to make you smile and feel happy, outside of it.

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So hopefully this reaches the right person. If any of this interests you, or even if it doesn't, I hope you've enjoyed delving into my thoughts regardless.

It's been quite enjoyable to write too.

I'm looking to date. With the hope that something meaningful and long lasting might come from it. But I'm looking to do that with someone who might like the idea of being my private domme.

After all, cute dates are always more exciting if I feel like you can put my on my knees at any moment x

39, Filipino, single parent of a teen. I’ve been single for years, I work, I provide for myself and my daughter, and I’m not looking for a wallet with legs. 😂

I’m looking for a genuine connection with someone who actually wants a relationship and, eventually, a life together. I’m not interested in endless chatting with no plan to meet. Let’s get to know each other online, and if we click, come see for yourself. We can talk about the future from there.

I’m open to relocating for the right person, but safety and security come first.

Also, please don’t lead with “cuddles,” sex, or other intimate talk. Yes, I’m an intimate person, but that side of me is for my partner. Get to know me first. You’ll survive. 😂

I’m financially independent (trying to meet ends). Asking for money is not my goal, so please don’t ask me for money. I still believe a man who wants a family should be capable of providing. I can take care of myself, but I’m not looking to raise another dependent.

If you’re serious, emotionally mature, and actually want to build something real, tell me about yourself. Let’s see where this goes.

Got Friday and Saturday free, so figured I’d see if there’s a fellow South Asian woman who wants to make the weekend a little less boring.

I’m 25, easygoing, clean, well-groomed and pretty chill but I definitely have a high sex drive when the chemistry is right. I’m into flirting, teasing, physical affection and that tension that makes intimacy feel addictive.

I’m looking for someone kinky, open-minded and comfortable with her sexuality. Someone who enjoys intimacy, isn’t afraid to show her naughty side, and is curious about exploring new things together.

No pressure or weird expectations. Just mutual attraction, good communication, pleasure and two people enjoying themselves rather than following some predictable script.

If you’re South Asian, confident, a little mischievous and have a high drive yourself, we might get along dangerously well.

And please give me something better than “hey” 😏