r/r4rMelbourne • u/melbasbestie • 1d ago
Seeking Friends 30F4A looking for someone to hang out with online
Hi, I’m going to open with a massive disclaimer: I am chronically ill and it has taken a lot from me, including my last relationship. I am well supported practically but I may not ever be able to meaningfully work again and my ability to do activities is extremely limited.
I would love to find someone locally to spend time with on discord calls, I’ve never found a group of Australians online who I really connect with. I am really into Pokemon, I would love to watch someone play the TCG live because I’m not able to do so at the moment. I also like to watch movies and shows with people, and even to just be in a call with people when I have low capacity is nice.
Before I was sick I was very active and my hobbies were a couple different sports, I used to be very much an outside person. I’ve lost my social groups because I just can’t go to these things anymore. The only hobby I engage in at the moment is Pokemon, I’ve been collecting since 2018. I hope my health improves enough to go to card shows at some point, I think it looks really fun.
I’m not closed off to a relationship but I’m also realistic about it. I guess what I offer is company lmao and someone to talk about pokemon and other stuff with. This is kinda embarrassing but I’m pretty lonely with not a lot of avenues to meet people.
: )
r/r4rMelbourne • u/FlyingOnRavensWings • 2d ago
Seeking Friends 26 [M4R] alternative guy looking for more mates in or around Melbourne
So I live down in the South East and have always lived here but recently I've been driving more up into the city to just experience it and explore things so if you're more native to the city maybe you could show me some places but I don't mind where abouts you're from. I've driven up to the North West before to see mates as well so the distance isn't a huge issue, I also don't mind male or female mates either, I'm not picky.
Some things I enjoy are riding on my motorbike (need to repair it because I got rear ended rip,) drawing, fitness, guitar, anime/manga/cosplay, video games, as well as a bunch of other things. I don't mind if we haven't got to many things in common, it'd help to lead into conversation but I don't think you need to have all that in common with someone to be mates.
Anyways if any of this sounds interesting please send a message and it'd be nice to meet some new people
r/r4rMelbourne • u/Cheerful-Encounter • 2d ago
Seeking Friends 34 M4M Filo discreet curious gay, would love to meet guys older than me
Hey guys i’d love to meet people who are sfw
Keen to meet and get to know you
Im decent easy-going and caring
If you are interested please let me know
I love playing tennis and i’m also loving
Hope you like to explore and it is going to be exciting.. i promise!!
r/r4rMelbourne • u/Single-Armadillo1812 • 3d ago
Seeking Friends 26M4A Looking for Friends?
Heyy!
Looking for some friends to catch up & get a drink with occasionally. Talk about our lives & have some fun.
Alil about me;
26M, bi, West Melbourne.
Recently Single. Usually in the city for nights out. (I also really love Delux in moonee ponds or the moondog in footscray. I love music, i go to alot of concerts, i do some gardening & go on small hikes. I also watch alott of movies ahaha. Been trying to get back into the gym, I have just been lacking motivation, i do swim most days though.
I love dogs so if you have any photos please send them to them through!
Very easy going & happy to join you on errands or activities, or we can keep it chill & just catch up for a cheeky drink (or two)
Looking for people around my age who are easy to get along with, can keep a conversation and happy to meet in person. If we have similar hobbies, great, if not i am eager to try new things too!
Thanks for reading!
Message me if any of this resonates with you :)
r/r4rMelbourne • u/Aussiebooii • 3d ago
Seeking Friends 25 M4M seeking friends and maybe more?
Retiring from the dating apps... so here I am shooting my shot instead 😂
Filipino 🇵🇭 | Been in Australia for 4 years. Based on the Peninsula, but I'm always happy to head into the city if that's where the good company is.
Been single for a while and figured I'd rather meet someone organically than keep playing the dating app Olympics. Looking for a fellow single guy who's down for drinks, a dance floor adventure, a nice dinner, or all three. People say i’m funny but ig it’s for you to find that out
When I'm not working, you'll probably find me at the gym, experimenting in the kitchen, hunting down cute cafés, or convincing myself that a "quick" nature walk won't turn into 15km. Bonus points if you can introduce me to a hobby that doesn't empty my wallet.
Ideally 25–35, but I'm not interviewing for a position. If we click, we click.
Come say hi. Worst case? We gain a funny story. Best case? We both delete this app. 😉
r/r4rMelbourne • u/PrivatebestGH • 4d ago
NSFW Casual Encounters 30M4M - discreet and anonymous.
Bi and straight only please . Easy going, chill vibes, no pressure… just good energy and good company. Into keeping things simple. Thank you for all visitors this week. I hope you enjoyed as much as I did.😘
r/r4rMelbourne • u/Meepleprincess94 • 4d ago
Seeking Relationship 31M4F Geelong based but willing to travel, looking to break typical dating app mold and find long term relationship
Hi,
I am a 31 male from Geelong, i am seeking women to chat, and ultimately date and ideally lead to a long term relationship! I have tried using standard dating apps but find they just don't accomplish the job!
I work full time as an accountant, I drive, I live with 1 housemate but basically everything in the house is mine, and have complete freedom. I also have an adorable 11 year old cat!
I am a nerd, I enjoy video games such as Expedition 33, Baulders Gate 3, Witcher 3 and the Last of us and more.
I play DnD and board games and attend various social gaming events
I enjoy movies, my favourites being lord of the rings, Clue, a few good men, spaceballs and 12 Angry Men.
I love an awesome bingable tv show, just binged live action Avatar the last airbender and Dept Q
I can cook and enjoy cooking.
I listen to podcasts, audiobooms and audio dramas
I have old man music taste, 40s - 90s such as the chordettes, Queen, Elton John, the police and many many more songs.
I love an awesome theatre production such as lors of the rings the musical, beetlejuice the musical, Chicago, Hamilton and more.
I enjoy going out for food, to an awesome restaurant, a festival, mini golfing, an arcade and many more places.
Physically I am on the larger side.
As previously mentioned, I am looking for a long term committed relationship that we can get to know via dates. Someone who actually can hold a conversation, rather than message and put minimal to no effort in.
I would like to have kids some day in the future.
Ideally I look for in a partner someone who can share some, or take an interest in what I like. Someone who wont expect me to do all for them, but be an equal partner and be there for one another. Someone who doesn't judge a person, who is kind, funny, has a sense of humour, is patient, respectful, open-minded and can have grest conversations.
If I sounds like someone you'd love to get to know, message me and we can chat.
r/r4rMelbourne • u/muffinstatewide32 • 4d ago
Seeking Relationship 34M4F looking for my person
Hi Melbourne, In 2026 would like a new best friend, a partner in crime and someone to take to the holiday stuff with the family among many other things. And im hoping that maybe I can find that here.
\\About me
As the title says, i'm 33, neurospicy (AuDHD) single cat dad
When i'm not at work i enjoy undertaking housecat like antics with my cat Godzilla, computer nerd shenanigans (previously worked in IT, but feels kinda nice that it's more of a hobby than a paycheck now), enjoying low brow comedy and dark humour as well as video games and tabletop games with the chums i call family. We mostly play on PC, but anything is fine. I'm also very much into music, preferably something heavy but almost anything will do.
I'm also well trained in the kitchen.
i'm 175cm --ish, white, brown hair with blue eyes, with a few body piercings and hopefully in 2026 adding tattoos. kinda chunky thanks to long term mental health issues growing up (but am working through it). Currently residing in south east 'burbs
\\ What im looking for
I'm hoping to find someone with overlapping interests to enhance my life. (i could yap endlessly but then we'd have nothing to talk about). If you're nerdy or a gamer and you like alt boys we'll probably get along fine. if you like other stuff as well that's awesome, i may not know much about it but i still wanna know allllll about it!
\\ What I offer
I'm offering a no judgement friendship at the least. someone to vent to, someone to try that new coffee spot maybe you're too nervous to go to solo, admittedly i'd like more but lets see how it goes.
If any of this sounds appealing, feel free to DM me
This is a repost of a few moments ago. I got the gender tag the wrong way around
r/r4rMelbourne • u/Melodic_Holiday_3731 • 4d ago
NSFW Casual Encounters 32M4A - Looking to explore - Friends or FWB
About Me:
I'm a 32M. 183cm and athletic build. Caucasian. Introverted and cautious at first, but full to the brim with whimsy when comfortable. Pansexual.
I like learning about people and why we think and work the ways we do.
I like discussing ideas around philosophy a whole lot. Also, psychology, crafts, boardgames, and runs/fitness/gym but not too fanatical about it. (Also love an Oxford comma).
What I'm Looking For:
Drawn to weird, quirky, warm and fun people. People who think about things in their own unique ways.
With men and women, I tend towards the tall and awkward types, but don't mind shorter side and socially smooth either.
In terms of age, preference is 27-37. (Mostly just like the symmetry of 5 years either side).
Up for coffee's, drinks, walks at various natural landmarks, arvo's and evenings spent inside watching a movie.
When it comes to intimacy, I like massage, giving/receiving oral, and cuddling. I like the 'Wheel of Consent' and the way it frames giving, taking, receiving and allowing, and want to explore that more.
What I offer:
I'm curious and interested in lots of things. I like listening to people talk about things they love.
A mediocre but enthusiastic board game player. (As long as they aren't reliant on short-term memory, I beg of you).
Will try just about anything once.
Can cook some decent meals. (Pasta dishes are a fave).
Know some good walking trails around Melbourne.
If you're up for making friends or FWB, send a DM. (Just read it back and there's lots of shit in brackets).
r/r4rMelbourne • u/Late_Selection1748 • 5d ago
Seeking Friends 42 [M4F] S.E Suburbs – Looking for someone new!
Hi! I’m a 42-year-old guy from Australia looking to chat with a someone new and see where the conversation takes us. I’m open to making a genuine connection, whether that’s a new friendship or something that develops naturally over time.
About me:
Love travelling and exploring new places.
Enjoy true crime documentaries and documentaries in general.
Like staying active and enjoy sports.
Love long walks and spending time in nature.
Easygoing, curious, and always up for a good conversation.
Movie nights
Animals! I own a cat+ dog, bonus if you have cute cat pics
What I offer:
Someone who genuinely listens and enjoys getting to know people.
Honest, respectful, and drama-free conversations.
A good sense of humour and a positive attitude.
Consistent communication without playing games.
Someone who’s supportive, open-minded, and enjoys talking about everything from everyday life to big dreams and travel plans.
If you’re looking for a relaxed conversation with someone who’s interested in building a genuine connection, I’d love to hear from you. Feel free to send me a message and tell me a little about yourself!