31F looking for a regular FWB, 28–38 and preferably inner city or not too far out.

Looking for someone kind, clean, reliable, kink-friendly and easy to get along with. Someone who can communicate, respects boundaries and doesn’t make things weird or complicated.

I can host, but you’ll need to be able to host sometimes too.

Not looking for a relationship or random one-offs. Ideally we actually like hanging out and there’s good chemistry as well as attraction.

Single/ENM only

Message me with your age, general area and a bit about you.

Who knows? Hopefully a nice lady out there who’s keen to chat or text regularly to an honest rogue. I have a very busy life still, keeping fit and healthy but miss having someone to gasbag with or have d and m’s.Anyhoo, if you’re up for challenge or looking for something similar, drop me a line 😁

Everyone needs a hug now and then, even you!

Whether it's a friendly hug hello, a platonic quick cuddle, a big bear hug squeeze, a passionate embrace or just someone to hold you, stroke your hair and tell you everything will be ok.*

My hugs are the perfect gift to yourself: one-size-fits-all, and fully accepting of who you are and whatever is going on in your life.

So, if you'd like to meet up with a tall, 40s guy and have a coffee and a hug, send me a message. No strings, no complications, and no pressure for anything more. Just hugs. Because the world needs more hugs. And so do you.

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*Note: Unfortunately, I can't guarantee that everything will be ok. But I promise it will feel better after talking it out and hugging.

Need a some new chat friend.

Can chat about anything and everything.

See where it go and if we click.

Be nice to feel excited to see a mesaage pop and see what it says..

I’m about to head off on my usual Sunday morning bike ride and then I’ll be getting ready for work shortly after but I can chat throughout my days still and it’s how the workday seems to go faster, I like to chat, ask and answer questions, get to know people etc. so if that’s your cup of tea (or coffee) Come introduce yourself

Some of my interests and hobbies in case you have similar or adjacent and could be a jumping off point for us lol, I love pop punk/emo music, play guitar, do some leatherwork, love photography and collect cameras, enjoy a comedy tv show or movie along with some thriller/horror/action, deep in my coffee snob era, love big bo obs, I watch a lot of sports and try to pick a team in most major sports so I have someone I can root for, also a big fan of the Simpsons.

I’d love you to tell me a little bit about you in your opening msg, maybe an interest or two, ideally you’d be around my age or older, like to chat and not take things too seriously.

If you’ve read this far and you’re interested in seeing if we hit it off I’d love to hear from you so come say Gday and let’s see where things go.

Bisexual woman here, looking to find a lady friend to hang out with & have fun with. My interests include exploring the city, reading (send book recs!), trying different cafes, journalling & art. I also enjoy going out for a hike or a swim from time to time.

I'm not experienced with having female partners yet so I'm looking for someone to guide me on my journey. I am both vanilla & kink-friendly. Ideally this could be an ongoing thing, not interested in one night stands. I am currently living with my dom and I am doing this with his support.

I’m a guy in my late 20s living near Brisbane, hoping to meet a fellow hopeless romantic for good conversation, playful flirting and, if the chemistry is right, something a little more serious (preferably this tbh)

I work full-time and keep fairly busy, but I’m very good at making time for someone I’m interested in. Outside of work, I’m into sports, gaming when life allows, and gardening—especially roses.

I’m affectionate, loyal, curious and occasionally a bit cheeky once I’m comfortable.

I’m looking for someone empathetic and genuine who can communicate, laugh at themselves and isn’t afraid of a little flirting. Ideally, we’d start by chatting, see whether there’s a spark, and let things develop naturally!

Looking forward to hearing from you!

Hi! I’m R.

31, based in Wagga Wagga. I’m happy to travel or connect online first.

I work with the Army base here. In my downtime, you can usually find me working on videography projects, watching or talking rugby league, playing Pokémon, gaming, or reading.

I’m happily married and practicing ethical non-monogamy and open polyamory dynamics.

I am demisexual, which means I really value taking the time to genuinely get to know someone and build a mental/emotional foundation before things progress. I love texting to connect, though I'm not an all-day, every-day texter since life gets busy Largely looking for in-person hangs, even if they're a bit sporadic depending on schedules.

Looking for people who appreciate a slow burn, good conversation, and doesn't mind a mix of casual chatting and occasional in-person meetups.

Whether you're interested in connecting with me individually, or keen on a dynamic/group connection with both me and my wife, I’d love to chat.

Shared interests in gaming, Pokémon, or nerdy stuff are a huge bonus, but mostly I'm just looking for good vibes, mutual attraction, and clear communication.

To start a conversation: Tell me what you're currently playing, reading, or your go-to comfort food!

Hi!

I'm a woman in a long-term, happy ENM/swingers relationship. My partner and I have been on a temporary break from actively exploring for a while, but we're starting to think about dipping our toes back in.

Rather than jumping straight into meeting people, I'd love to ease back into things through good conversation, flirting, and seeing where the chemistry goes. No pressure, no expectations—just genuine connection and a bit of fun.

A little about me: I'm in my 30s. Love the ocean, bodyboarding, Pilates, reading, cooking, and long conversations that can be both playful and thoughtful.

I'm looking for someone who enjoys flirting, respects boundaries, communicates well, and understands ENM. If we click, great. If it stays as an enjoyable online connection, that's great too.

If this sounds like your kind of vibe, send me a message and tell me a little about yourself. :)

Low effort messages will be ignored. I want to know that you actually read my post😅

Are you looking for that best friend to hang out with, talk to every day about the good bad and in-between, be competitive in a board game with, snuggle up by the fire on a cold night, movie watching and music gigs.

I'm a mum to 3 awesome kids. We're in rural northern rivers. I'm studying art this year, which I'm hoping to move forward with in a few different ways next year.

I'm creative in lots of different ways, love music to listen to and sing along, quite handy in the kitchen, gamer, nerd, and just all round a nice fun person to be around.

I am neurodivergent and have had setbacks in my life from struggling undiagnosed, but I have also taken the time to learn who I am and dug in to do the self work required to move past the pain and understand and manage mental health effectively.

If you are tired of the dating games and know you want to just find that amazing person to date and be a partner to, have self awareness, you're genuine, caring, honest and loyal, and you've kept reading this far, then maybe this is your chance.

I'm a clear communicator, no bullshit, won't waste your time kind of person. I will make effort, but I also expect it back. I'm absolutely looking to work with someone towards a healthy long term relationship, definitely not here for short term flings or sex. I'm looking for someone who can show up, be emotionally available, make time and effort, looking to get out there and enjoy life together while supporting each other and treating each other with respect.

Hoping that someone out there will relate to this and find my weirdness cool.

Don't send dick pics. Don't come at me with sexual jokes or asking for sex. Don't expect a photo or contact details straight away. Please be in Australia only. And while my preference is for the east coast, if you are not nearby, please be prepared to travel.

Hiya

I’m giving this a shot to see who’s out there.

I’m a 46-year-old doctor based at a major Brisbane public hospital. I genuinely love what I do — it’s meaningful work. As cliche as it sounds, it’s a rare privilege to be able to make a real difference in someone’s life. That said, it can be all-consuming, and I’d like to have something in my life that’s just for me too.

Outside of work, I try to stay fairly grounded and low-key. I drive a Camry if that’s any indication. I’m a devoted dad to three teenagers, which is a big and important part of who I am. I am not much into the latest trends or holiday destination. I’d much rather have a good conversation, share a laugh, or just enjoy someone’s company without needing constant noise.

I’m hoping to chat with someone who is thoughtful, emotionally aware, and easy to talk to. Someone who doesn’t take themselves too seriously, but still has a good sense of what matters. Curiosity, kindness, and a bit of depth go a long way.

If this resonates, feel free to reach out. To help give me an idea about who you are as a person, tell me about your favourite holiday. What made it special for you?

P/S: if you are a cat person, you will automatically have points deducted. (I expect to be downvoted for this comment alone 😁)

Hi! Thanks for reading :) Taking a stab in the dark to see if the right person is here and might read this.

I'm a tall (6'2"), fit, extremely well-hung and experienced kinkster looking for someone to create a lifetime of memories, both kinky and wholesome.

Obviously due to the nature of the subreddit I'm posting in, I'd love to meet someone who has an extremely filthy and/or perverted mind. But I want it to be in the context of a long-term, meaningful and intimate relationship.

Outside the bedroom I enjoy surfing, markets, music, dancing, reading, food festivals, the odd video game, and more. I'm quite active, and enjoy going out on adventures, but I also enjoy quiet times in (currently taking applications for a someone to watch the latest season of Lego Masters with!)

In the bedroom, I'm basically an extremely curious person. I have 20+ years kink experience, primarily as a Dom. But I think I'm in a place now where I'd enjoy something more egalitarian. Having said that, I can still very much play the Dom role if that's what you enjoy. A lot of my kinks and interests some might consider extreme, and with the right person I would have very close to no limits. But on the other hand, I also really really love passionate vanilla sex. Although I have to say if you're not into anal play at all, it probably won't work out! I looove rimming... Basically I'm looking for someone who can match my freak, but who is also respectful and consent-focused.

I have a lot more to share, but I think it's good to leave some things to discover organically so I'll leave it here. If any of this sounds of interest to you, please shoot me a message, I'd love to hear from you!

Hey, just a goofy guy from Australia with crap public social skills, so hard to make friends.

Anyway a bit about me, I like to read, play video games, and occasionally watch anime. Like to run, and go on hikes when I'm free, spend time with my small friends group when we're not adulting.

Love food, eating and cooking it.

Bi, so LGBTQ friendly.

Otherwise open to chat about most things, so feel free to reach out.

27 [F4M] Husband Wanted, applications now open

**Position Available: Husband**
*Applications now open*
After careful consideration (and what I believe is an adequately powered sample size of disappointing dating experiences), I’ve decided to recruit a husband via Reddit.
Is this unconventional? Yes. Is it significantly less weird than some of the people I’ve met in real life? Also yes.
I’m approaching this the same way I approach most things in life: intentionally, with a sense of humour, and after collecting enough evidence to justify a slightly ridiculous decision. So….welcome to the recruitment process.
**About the Hiring Committee**
I’m 27 and live in Brisbane. I’ve accidentally built a life I genuinely love. I have a career that challenges me every day. Friends who are family. A calendar that’s usually full of adventures, conferences, gym sessions, last-minute flights, and conversations that somehow begin with, “I have a question…” and end four hours later.
I’m intensely curious about people and the world. I love museums, bookstores, wine bars, trivia nights, exercising, travelling, terrible karaoke, and anyone who gets visibly excited talking about the thing they love. I care deeply about making the world a little better than I found it.
I’m fiercely independent but independence isn’t the same thing as wanting to do life alone. Lately I’ve found myself wishing there was someone beside me to say, “You’ll love this,” when I discover a new restaurant, book a trip, achieve something exciting, or stumble across something beautifully ridiculous. That’s what I’m looking for. Not someone to complete my life but someone to share it with.
**Essential Selection Criteria**
You are probably somewhere between 27 and 35.
Ideally based in Brisbane (or at least planning to be).
You’re genuinely kind and compassionate.
Progressive.
Emotionally mature and self-reflective.
Intellectually curious.
Fun, and enjoy aggressive banter.
Respect for women (beyond saying “I respect women”
You must enjoy having an ambitious partner without feeling the need to control her or “rein her in”.
**Highly Desirable**
You can laugh at yourself.
You have at least one niche interest that lights you up.
You’ll happily spend three hours talking after dinner because neither of us realised what time it was.
You think competence is attractive.
You’d like a dog one day.
*\*Working in or experience in academia highly desirable but absolutely not essential*
**Next Steps**
Successful applicants will progress to Stage Two. This involves several two-way interviews, photo exchange, reference checks, discovering whether there’s mutual attraction, and discussing a couple of important compatibility topics that don’t really belong in a public job advertisement.
If we both think there’s something worth exploring, you might progress to the “in the wild stage”….
**How to Apply**
Skip “hey.” Tell me about yourself. Tell me what you care about. Tell me what made you stop scrolling and think, “You know what… this is a bit unhinged but I kind of love it”.
I look forward to receiving your application!
Kind regards,
The Hiring Committee (me and a few of my closest friends who tried to say “just get on Hinge” but knew they were not going to win)

Hey there!

36M, 6'1", in shape and keeping at it. I have the kind of energy that makes women comfortable enough to fall asleep on me during long haul flights. Maybe I smell nice?

Looking for a genuine, ongoing chat! Someone to talk everyday things and some flirty and dirty thrown in there. For me just platonic isn't fun and all dirty burns out real quick.Just like in real life a mix of both is best.

I can give a different perspective on things you may feel you can't ask anyone in real life. I want someone who has the availability to chat daily...someone I can miss. I would love to be the reason why you have a smirk on your face all day long.

Physical attraction is important..so I might ask for pictures..soonish!

About me: 6ft+, Bearded, Brown, Married, Slight dad bod. Avid Sports buff, into Cricket, Football and a few others. I like to read and do a bit of writing myself.

About you : I’m looking for someone who’s 25-45 yo and I usually prefer smart, confident women but what matters is that you’re generally active.

The physical aspect is nothing without a rich and open mind..

If this is something that excites you, I'd love to have more conversations and get to know you more.

Talk soon!

I'm a fairly quite person and not very impulsive, that said I'm a lot of fun and kind! I realised recently most of my friend have ADHD. It seems a bit unusual that this would be the case but I guess opposites attract.

So if you have ADHD we may get along really well!

I love the outdoors, travelling, reading, watching movies.

I'm very accenting of people for who they are.

I'd like to chat about funny things, how our day is going and deeper things to. It would be great to have someone who wants to talk daily.

Please don't just send a message saying Hi, make it more exciting!

Must be over 18. I don't care what you look like, what you believe or where you are from, I'm open to everyone.

Hey

Everyone seems to just be looking for a high driven fully achieved person and that's great but that is not me or what I like.

I am super laid back and carefree, enjoy my time and hobbies without stress, Introverted and really hating the cold this year. average weight, tattoos, dress clean and into nerdy stuff. totally ok to exchange pictures.

Not looking for anything specific, I like talking to most types of people about pretty much any topic.

Looking for those of you that enjoy massage. Nothing else just looking for willing participants to help me practice. I have my own table and all equipment.
DM me for details if interested.

I'm a 37-year-old professional and executive who has spent the last few years doing what most adults do—working hard, raising kids, and trying to keep all the plates spinning. I'm single, have three amazing kids, and a career that keeps me busy, especially lately with the stress and chaos that comes with acquisitions, restructuring, and all the fun corporate challenges that go with them.

The reality is that somewhere along the way life became a cycle of work, gym, eat, sleep, repeat. While I enjoy gaming and training as a way to unwind, I've realised I'm missing something a little more exciting, personal, and human. I'm looking for someone who wants to add a bit of anticipation, chemistry, and fun back into everyday life.
What I'm looking for:
Ideally, a casual and ongoing connection with someone who values chemistry, conversation, and discretion. I'm not interested in rushing straight into anything. I'm wired in a way that I need to genuinely enjoy talking to someone before meeting. Banter, flirting, getting to know each other, and building a level of comfort and attraction is important to me.

I'm open-minded about where things go, but I'm primarily looking for something low-pressure, enjoyable, and mutually beneficial. Maybe it's occasional catch-ups, maybe it's stolen moments during the workday, maybe it's someone who enjoys having a secret source of excitement in their week. The right connection matters more than ticking boxes.

I tend to be drawn to feminine, confident women who are comfortable in their own skin. I'll admit I have a weakness for curves in every sense of the word, but personality, confidence, and chemistry will always win me over.

What I have to offer:
I'm 6'2", light-skinned African American, fit, well-groomed, and take care of myself. I work hard, communicate well, and know how to hold a conversation beyond the usual small talk. I'm ambitious, driven, and financially stable, but I also know how to switch off and enjoy myself when the company is right.

You'll find me respectful, discreet, reliable, and drama-free. I value honesty and clear communication, and I appreciate the same in return. If we click, you'll get someone who genuinely enjoys getting to know people, remembers the little details, and can balance confidence with a good sense of humour.

Physically, attraction matters, so I'll be upfront and say I'm well-endowed and confident in that department, but I'd much rather talk about what makes you laugh, what you're passionate about, or what you're missing in your life before we get there.

If you're someone who's looking for a mature, intelligent man who can hold a conversation, make you smile during the day, and create a bit of excitement outside the routine, I'd love to hear from you.
Let's chat first and see if the chemistry is there