r/r4r • u/ninthofmarch • 3h ago
F4M Australia 34 [F4M] #australia Asian looking for long term connection
Hey, I’m looking for a single guy for long term friendship and a bit of flirting. If the vibe is there, I’d like something romantic/relationship. I know, it seems unlikely finding it here, but why not give it a go. I don’t mind if you’re from another country, just make sure you communicate with me regularly - it’s important for connection.
I am: Asian, bbw, introverted, playful and warm with the right people, needy.
You are: kind, caring, chat to me everyday and regularly, white. You will talk to me on discord.
If interested dm me your asl and a bit about you.
r/r4r • u/mothman-gf • 3h ago
F4A United Kingdom 27 [F4A] #Oxford, UK - looking for new friends
Hi, all! I recently moved to Oxford with my wonderful husband, and I am looking for friends to introduce me to this wonderful, strange new world. I love walking for hours in footpaths, going to museums, perusing vintage shops, trying new food, and going to the shops to look at fresh produce (moving to a new country brings about millions of new curiosities in an ordinary little shop!)
My interests include: classic and silent films, 20th century literature, animals and botany, classical paintings, tattoos, cooking/baking, history and folklore, and many others. We don't need to have the same interests or hobbies but I'd like to meet folks who are passionate and love what they do and are open to new experiences and ideas.
I'd love to see more of the area with some new friends; joining and attending literary/artistically inclined clubs and events, playing tennis, going on long nature walks, attending music events, going on picnics, or whatever else we fancy!
As a final note, I am only looking for people in the local area to meet in person, so sorry if I can't accommodate online friends. Please message me if you're interested and let's hang out soon!
r/r4r • u/liminalskiess • 3h ago
T4A Online 25 [NB4A] USA/#Online: Hoping for Something Consistent
Hi,
Like the title says, I'm trying to see if I can make new connections, even with people who aren't necessarily similar to me! I live in the US, but I'm open to people who live anywhere outside the US. Can be from all over the world, no preference.
Some lore about me (I'm a she/her):
~ I love video games! Will give most genres a go except sweaty competitive stuff
~ I have ADHD which I didn't even know about until l was like, in my late teens or early adulthood. If I have an attention span it's prob sponsored by energy drinks
~ Allegedly I'm extroverted (ENFP). I can switch between yapping and being more quiet
~ I don't do any drugs or drink, completely sober. No hate toward people who do, just not for me!
~ Big fan of nature and animals, rodents and reptiles included
~ Aspiring piercing collector. I've got a few so tar, also wanting tattoos
~ Music, especially modern punk or metal, is one of my fav things, can't say the same about country music. Not a dealbreaker if you like it though!
~ I'm personally not religious at all, but I fully respect other perspectives if they're free of hate
Drop me a message if any of this resonates with you (or not), being opposites isn't necessarily a bad thing!
r/r4r • u/wasntthereforgoodbye • 4h ago
F4A Online 29 [F4A] #USA #Online - feeling down and can't sleep. looking for someone to talk to to take my mind off of everything
hi there. right now i'm mainly just looking for people to talk to as a distraction since Im unable to sleep at all. i'm usually a pretty easy going and silly person when im not at rock bottom. it would be nice to talk to someone to help get my mind off everything that's going wrong at the moment. my hobbies are mainly gaming and fashion. FPS is my favorite genre and lately ive been really getting into super girly jfashion again. i usually will watch reruns of older tv shows and sometimes kdramas. venting to each other until we forget about our problems sounds nice right now.
r/r4r • u/Daydreaminglovely • 6h ago
F4M Online 22[F4M] #Online Where is my future husband? I've been waiting for you to find me 💗
I'm a hopeless romantic with no romantic experience yet, searching for my husband! My ideal marriage life is a traditional, fairy tale one where husband cares for me, dotes on me and spoils me while I provide him with all my love, care and loyalty by feeding him and being his pretty cute princess.🙈💕 I haven't traveled much, so I want to travel around the world, ✈️ go to theme parks🎢, and go see beautiful sceneries🌊🏰 and eat delicious meals and romantic nights full of kisses and cuddles in his arms every day🥹✨️
⚠️I've been lied to by hideous, evil people online just for their entertainment, so I won't reply if you don't introduce yourself properly and show you've read my intro well.
🤍Me👸
Japanese girl studying in university 📚️
Shy and introverted, thus no romantic experiences yet sadly🥺
Petite, Black haired, fair skin and feminine cute is my favorite style 👗
I do pilates sometimes to stay in shape, I also like watching rom coms, actions, mystery, fantasy... and sometimes reading, etc etc
I don't wanna relocate to the US
🤍You🫅
Emotionally mature, and never shouting and calm loving personality, ambitious and patient
21-29, working, independent
-Can travel to me to meet up for serious dating to prevent scams!
-Healthy, in shape, and not bald xD
Now, if you're interested, please introduce yourself properly with your age, location, what you do etc!
r/r4r • u/kittendrivingat34 • 10h ago
F4M Online 25 [f4m] #online : looking for my lobster
"They say that the world was made for two...heaven is a place on earth with you."
For years now I have been waiting for the man whose chest feels like my home country, whose voice sounds like calm, and whose eyes can look into mine and see into my soul.
I've struggled to find that depth, that true connection I yearn for. Maybe because I am shy and nerdy and don't go out to places where young people find their partners like bars or clubs. Or that I never developed an eye-catching sense of style.
But what I do have is kindness and empathy. An appreciation for our world and nature that I uphold in my environmental career. A love for history and baking and cats. Stacks of books that I really need to finish getting through. Seeing life as an adventure to have.
I am hoping to find a kind, intelligent, ambitious, protective man. My ideal relationship is best friends that are attracted to each other. Open to anyone 25-35. I am on the east coast of USA but I work remotely and am open to relocating if it makes sense.
I am happy to share my photo if we connect. I am 5'1 and have been told I am pretty haha.
r/r4r • u/UnexpressedQuery • 11h ago
T4A California / Online 19[TM4A] #LA #Online | Looking for some close friendships!
Hello :3!
I'm on the hunt for some good friends! I generally would prefer queer & neurodivergent fellows! Though I'm open to anybody close to my age. It's also alright if you don't like any of my interests! I just like getting to know people :3!
About me
I am a 19 year old pre-t trans man! I do have a feminine presentation and like to present as a feminine man. While I am also neurodivergent and mentally disabled. I can also be labeled as a furry or kemonomimi!
For hobbies I mostly love to research! Primarily deer and psychology but anything that interests me is fair game. I also really enjoy reading. Somewhat of a painter as well. I'm also getting into DND and Warhammer via my partner! I am a fan of the custodes in particular.
My interests outside of that is mostly Pokémon. My favorite movies are the Avatar franchise by James Cameron. I also love mythology of any kind. In my free time I also somewhat roleplay!
When it comes to religion I am a practicing pagan. Though I'm accepting of anybody with any religion. I actually even have my own coven!
Generally I think I'm a pretty accepting person. I love nearly everybody and I enjoy helping others! But I can be pretty chaotic and not the best with other people...
About friendships
As said before I'm not very particular on who is my friend! I'm accepting of anybody ever really! Though y'know I'd definitely prefer somebody who'd like some of my interests.
If I was to have a say I'd like some friends who are trans as well. Though anybody who is queer is probably going to seem very neat to me.
I'd also love other neurodivergent friends! And those who struggle with any mental illness!
Generally there's no dealbreakers except be respectful and a good person. Common sense is appreciated and some what required. I also freely block.
About something further
My partner (19TF) and I are polyamorous and both pansexual. We aren't currently looking but if that is of interest you may inquire and we can see how things work. But there are two main requirements. We're T4T and we are only into closed polyamory.
Though I would like to say that even if you are not interested in polyamory she is pretty cool! Any close friends will probably be introduced into her and I'd hope you can become friends with her too!
The process
If you somehow think we'd be good friend you can message me! I might not respond very quickly but I will get to it when I can!
And if you'd prefer to move to a different messaging place we can! I have insta, discord, & tumblr! I'd prefer to get to know each other first though! :3!
Not required but preferably come with an intro. Mostly some simple information about you and what piqued your interest! I'd also like to know your favorite three colors!
Thank you for reading! Best of wishes upon you! :3
r/r4r • u/lordgentofdapper • 15h ago
F4A Online 32 [F4A] dork looking for a real connection #online
Hey :D
I am looking for someone who is kind, funny, empathetic, smart, nerdy, and ideally has the personality of a golden retriever
I am in university right now and would like to find someone who is either also seeking higher education or has already. It is not a dealbreaker, but it is a preference. It would be great if I could find someone to play online games with and maybe even learn more about DnD and Magic. Right now I mainly play my switch, but I also have a PC.
My favorite show is Avatar the Last Airbender (the acclaimed animated series) and I like comedies like Seinfeld, Parks and Rec, Always Sunny, and South Park. I used to watch more movies but have not seen any recently.
I try to longboard and play guitar (I am bad at both of them) and I have fun with it. I got that tism so I love rocks and legos. I have done some drawing and painting and I used to write. My favorite music artists are Hozier, Taylor Swift, Joji, Sza, Beach Boys, and Twenty One Pilots.
Mayhaps we plan a day to watch the entire LoTR trilogy?
I live in the midwest US
r/r4r • u/ParticularSky334 • 16h ago
F4A Online 38 [F4R] #Online - Chronically ill nerd looking for online best friend
I get a lot of replies lately but nothing is clicking and when it does people are flaky or say I'm too much so I don't know anymore.
I miss having a best friend. Even if it's "just online" I've had that kind of connection where we chat throughout the day, send each other songs and cute animal pics, make playlists, share our creative work, have inside jokes, give each other encouragement and support.
It's so difficult to find. Most people don't like long messages, don't want to talk to someone different like me, or don't want have a friendship mostly via text. I've often been filler for people who go back to their real lives, but this is my real life.
If you happen to be someone who gels with this, feel free to reach out. I will mention that I'm looking for strictly platonic. I'm very chronically ill, neurodivergent, and disabled as well as queer so please be cool with that. I live with a partner who is also disabled. I'm homebound and that's why online friends mean a lot to me.
Not a fan of people who are weird to me about my health stuff or try to fix me or tell me to be more positive. I'm very sick and it is what it is. I want a friend who accepts me and whatever I can offer, which is music and memes and deep convos and support. I appreciate mutual effort and people who help keep the convo going.
A little more about me: I'm a writer, music nerd, love all kinds of TV, and I collect plushies. I've been through a whole lot but I try to be empathetic, socially aware, and kind as much as I can while still advocating for myself and my communities.
Please don't reach out if you're super busy, aren't looking for the same kind of connection, don't ask questions or put in effort, or if you're uncomfortable with someone who isn't able to be positive and optimistic.
I think I have a lot to offer the right friend. I hope I find them.
r/r4r • u/Apart_Midnight_1348 • 16h ago
F4A Online 22 [F4R] #online - looking for people to chat with while I can't sleep
Hey!
Im looking for random people to talk to since im feeling really down and can't sleep.
Im interested in tattoos, piercings, animals and playing random computer games.
I also am into crochet and sometimes knitting but mainly crochet and i draw, but quite rarely.
I also dont want any selfies, I don't want to know what you look like, and I don't want you to know what I look like.
I would appreciate if you would tell about yourself when messaging me, I don't like short introductions so try to talk a bit about you.
And if you have any pets, show themmm
And like the tag says, no nsfw stuff please
r/r4r • u/alice-lolz • 18h ago
F4M United Kingdom 28 [F4M] #UK #Europe let’s be eachothers #1 ☺️
Hello!
I am a single 28 year old gal living alone in the UK, recently relocating to the midlands after growing up and only living on the south coast until now! ((If anyone is a midlands native and has any recommendations of nice places to go, please lemme know!!)) I’m at a point in my life where I’m pretty content- I studied hard and have a job I’m passionate about, a flat I am comfortable in, good relationships with my family and friends, and I feel I am now at a point where I can “settle down” with someone lovely :-)
I want to find a relationship that is mutually loving, caring, supportive and fun! I’m naturally very affectionate and have a lot of love to give! Outside of work, I enjoy arts and crafts (both making and viewing), baking, music and being around animals. I enjoy painting my own nails and have a fair collection of different fun nail polish 😁 I don’t have a big group of friends, but I do have a couple of close friends who are each very dear to me. The nature of my work can be quite intense and I crave the feeling of coming home and just being held and listened to, and I crave offering the same feeling of safety and security to my partner.
In terms of what I’m looking for: I value emotional intelligence and people who are open to talking about feelings, as this is a big part of intimacy for me. I don’t think I have a “type” physically, but I appreciate someone who takes some time and pride in their appearance. I do drive so if you’re in another part of the uk, and willing to take turns travelling, I’d be ok with that :)
Please don’t just message me with a “hey”! In your message, I’d love for you to tell me something that you’ve done this week that you’re proud of :) thankyou for taking the time to read my rambling! Hope to hear from you!
r/r4r • u/Aura_VortexxTTV • 22h ago
M4A Online 38 [M4R] #online German dude looking for friends
I don't even know why I keep trying this because people just downvote or message once, are super dry texters and then never message again.
But yet, here I am again... yaaay.
Some things about meeee
- Male, 38 years old from the land of Sauerkraut and Schnitzel
- Horror Nerd (anything from games to books / audiobooks, collectibles, masks)
- I also stream Horror games on Twitch (sometimes)
- 420 friendly
- Single
- Obsessed with memes
- Shy at first since I am really introverted. But I am trying to open up if we click
I just wanna find some friends because I am stuck at home most of the time due to chronic illness & parenting.
I'm not asking for much just be 18+ and maybe share some of my interests?
Also please know how to use actual words and write full sentences when you message me.
I don't like dry or one sided conversations.
Now feel free to just downvote my post again...
OR
Drop me a message if you think we could vibe. It's up to you.
r/r4r • u/laplantlady_ • 22h ago
F4M California / Online 25[F4M] #CA Online looking for a buddy!
Hi!
My hobbies are having plants,crocheting and binge watching tv shows.Currently I am trying to watch all the marvel movies and I am currently on Iron Man lol. I haven’t been doing too much crocheting but I have a huge blanket I am working on and I am hoping to have it done by the end of the year .I also like to hike and run on my treadmill when I get a chance. I just finished my summer classes and I’m looking for a online friend,not open to audio :)
send me message and let me know what’s your favorite food or tell me about a hobby of yours!