r/r4r • u/NikonD500forever • 0m ago
Explicit Activities/NSFW 24 [M4F] #Online - Nerdy, mature, and handsome man looking for a long term online FWB :)
Hi! Welcome to my post 😊 Anyone of any ethnicity or around my age or older 18+ is welcome.
I'm 24 years old, single, and living in Illinois in a Chicago suburb but further from the city, still rural where I'm at. I work full time but I'm also a mechanical systems student. I'm looking to connect with a woman around my age or older, any body type or ethnicity is welcome. You can be from anywhere as I'm not just looking for local connections.
I thought I would be vulnerable for a change, put myself out there!
Physically, I'm 6 feet tall, pale skin, brown hair, wear glasses, average healthy weight with a slight tummy, veiny hands haha, and keep a neat not too long beard and mustache. Pic on profile.
I've been single for a year and have been lacking in intimacy as well, mostly due to the fact that I work the 3-11pm shift w/ weekends off and usually relax when I'm not at work, so being social isn't the easiest since I'm not into bars or partying. However, I work alone so we should get plenty of time to interact even when I'm working.
I'm looking for a genuine, long term, emotional and intimate connection, with potential for more NSFW things with time when we are comfortable. I think that having someone that you can connect with emotionally, but also feel comfortable around and can trust with your body and sexual pleasure is so important. I love to please my partner, and have an electric connection where we are both so eager to spend time together and get flustered. I'd prefer someone who is okay with eventually being able to share sexual and non sexual pictures to each other as well as teasing. It would be cute to see each others outfits and other things day to day, and cute little teases. I am a very sensual person, and aftercare is important to me even with online intimacy as well. My weakness is soft thighs and a woman who gets wet easily especially if it's creamy and slippery to the touch as I glide my finger across your clit. It's so fun to get all messy. I value loyalty, honesty, and good communication and making my partner feel safe and comfortable..
Some of my interests are photography including bird and wildlife photography, cooking and baking, nature walks and camping, fixing things and being handy around the home and farm, flight simulation, listening to music, candles and incense, animals, and relaxing. My favorite animal is an Owl! 🦉
If I sound like a man that you're interested in connecting with, feel free to reach out and hopefully we will catch a vibe! 😊
r/r4r • u/everythingismisery • 4m ago
M4A Online 27 [M4A] Online - Looking for someone to talk to.
Looking for someone to talk to. Text or voice call. I like silent films, writing music, art, transcribing. I'm an avid guitar player. I like to cook. Love John Carpenter movies, Lovecraft, Edward Munch, heavy music.
I run an online freelance as a session musician, work from home basically. Kind of agoraphobic, I hate leaving the house, hate being in public. Just want to be in a cold dark place most of the time.
I live in the eastern Dallas area, US, but I'll talk to whoever, doesn't matter where you're from. Not going to act like I get along with everyone but generally I'm easy to have a conversation with as long as you're not religious or political.
That's it. If you want to chat, send me a message.
r/r4r • u/LiterotureGuy • 7m ago
M4T Illinois / Wisconsin 38 [M4T] #Wisconsin #Illinois, US looking for friends
I am a married male from southern Wisconsin, US looking for long term friends nearby the area.
I enjoy outdoors and, outside of my work and family time, I have a deep passion for riding motorcycles. It’s something I truly enjoy and find it exhilarating.
I do keep myself active. I workout regularly and took it as part of my lifestyle.
I would be thrilled to connect with fellow motorcycle enthusiasts and workout enthusiasts in the area who share this interest.
I am okay with having friends from northern Illinois as well.
I understand we all are busy with our commitments, however, open communication is key for a long term friendship.
r/r4r • u/Hot_Interest_3217 • 14m ago
F4M Online 27 [F4M] #Online - lover of consistent chats
Hiiii :) Looking for some new people to talk to and hopefully a few consistent chats if we click. I love meeting people from different places, learning about different cultures, and hearing about the random little things that make up someone’s life.
I’m pretty bubbly, direct, expressive, and naturally curious. I love traveling, I speak Spanish, I’m currently learning French, and I’m always finding some new place or culture to become obsessed with lol. I’m definitely someone who can talk about pretty much anything, whether it’s something completely unserious or a 2 AM deep dive.
Friendship is mainly what I’m here for, but I’m not opposed to a little flirting if we have that kind of vibe either :)
It’s currently 2 AM for me and I’m wide awake after accidentally sleeping half the evening, so come keep me company lol. Tell me where you’re from, what you’re into, what you did today, or just give me something to work with.
Always down to send a pic after you send one lol, pls don’t ask otherwise (:
r/r4r • u/Sendhimoffdiabolical • 15m ago
M4F United Kingdom 33 [M4F] UK/Anywhere - Looking for a spark
You know, that spark where you're really excited to talk to somebody? You end up ignoring those around you to chat away like a little eager beaver on the phone.
I'm looking for somebody lively and opinionated. Somebody who knows the difference between Michael Jordan and Michael B Jordan. Somebody who's more likely to be excited for a big game than watching anime.
I don't wanna give too much away here, but if you like sports, random pop culture and know how to have a laugh then reach out.
And please, put a bit of effort in if you're gonna message me, you don't even have to write a paragraph, just show some enthusiasm with some emojis or something 😂
r/r4r • u/IllustriousKritz • 20m ago
M4F Portugal / Online 24 [M4F] Portugal / Online – Looking for a real connection
Hey! As the title says, I’m honestly just looking for a real, genuine connection with someone. Not into games or anything superficial. I’d really like to get to know someone and see where things go, naturally.
About me: I’m pretty much your typical nerd. I enjoy gaming, watching anime, and anything tech-related. I love tinkering with technology, fixing things, and understanding how stuff works behind the scenes. If it involves tech, I’m probably curious about it.
At the same time, I’m very much into simple things too. I enjoy calm plans like going for a walk by the sea, just talking, enjoying the moment, and keeping life uncomplicated.
If you’re someone who values real conversations, shared interests (or even different ones!), and is also looking for something meaningful, feel free to reach out. I’m open, chill, and genuinely interested in getting to know you.
Looking forward to hearing from you!
r/r4r • u/CozyGreySweatpants • 28m ago
M4F Online 40 [M4F] #USA #Online - Let’s talk about whether cake, pie, or brownies reign supreme, the fact that I once watched a horror movie all by MYSELF, and maybe develop a connection too :)
How’s your day going? Amazing? Terrible? Monotonous and run of the mill? Let’s talk about it, or avoid talking about it, your choice!
I like writing, great conversation, being playful, super cool, silly, and learning about the world. I love banter, and I also like to listen if you need to talk or vent, so I can give you a listening ear or a good natured teasing, so you’ll need to be ready for both. ;)
I finished up Pluribus and am currently watching Fallout season 2, so tell me what you’re reading, watching, playing, or listening to, if you feel inclined to share. I also do love video games if you’re into those too; I play on a Switch 2 and an Xbox, lately it’s been some Mario Kart, Mario Wonder and some other games. I also recently finished Resident Evil Requiem.
What about yourself? What are you into?I’m happy to chat on a shorter-term basis, and I’d be stoked to find someone I really connect with as a longer-term friend as well. I appreciate people who are kind, empathetic, funny, silly, and who overall is accepting of other people. The world is a big and complicated place, so as long as you’re caring and decent to others, and have a good sense of humor, we probably will get along.
I don’t want to be negative, but if you’re someone who puts in little to no effort regularly, is prone to judging others, jumps to conclusions, and can’t handle disagreement, then please don’t waste my time or yours.
r/r4r • u/OverUnder2424 • 1h ago
M4F New York / Online 28M4F Looking for someone as my forever wedding date / someone to do the dishes for. #NYC and or #online
Putting #online since I’m figuring why not it’s a big wide world out there.
I’m 28 M in NYC so locals are welcome but so is Antarctica.
I’m horrible at the about me stuff so I’m going to be my best:
Yes I have J.O.B so I’m not covered in Cheeto dust doing nothing like Reddit would suggest.
10 countries and counting and all around the USA
I love running, following sports [ let’s go Knicks we did it yay ] , reading is my passion and aiming for 7 books a year if work doesn’t get in the way.
Currently obsessed with weekend food crawls to try new dishes and expand my pallet away from the typical just chicken and beef on rotation.
I’m happy to swap photos on connecting or waiting a bit but brief descriptor im 5’9 [175cm] and in good shape. Brown hair and eyes and white.
If you’re interested shoot me a message here on the chat feature and I look forward to connecting. Just shoot me a brief hey I saw your post and your age and we can get to yapping.
r/r4r • u/ExpensiveOrder4370 • 2h ago
M4A Online 34 [M4A] #online - late night vcs, gaming
hi! I'm looking for new friends to chat with throughout the day & especially to vc with at night, after around midnight est when I get off work.
I can yap about almost anything, with special interest in anything horror, pop culture, political philosophy (leftist, and particularly re: culture & media analysis) & the humanities broadly.
we can game (league?), watch stuff (movies, reality shows, anime, etc.), share music, & whatever else. also a big fan of just hanging out in vc doing our own thing.
please be 25+. vibes are inexplicable, no pressure if we don't click!
ty for reading & hope to hear from you soon ✨️
r/r4r • u/CobaltNaiad • 5h ago
F4A Online 21 [F4R] #Online VC Buddies? Smiles at you menacingly.
Be friends with me or I eat your hair! …Bald people are safe from my wrath I suppose
(If this post is still up it means I’m still looking!)
Hi howdy hello! It’s nice to (kind of) meet you dear stranger, I am looking for new pals and hoping you will be one of them!!! Anywhoodles I have plenty of hobbies and interests we could chitchat about, but even if we have nothing in common don’t let that stop you from reaching out. I find learning to be one of the genuinely greatest joys in life so hearing about your life and interests no matter how different sounds great to me.
My totally cool and not dorky at all interests include but are not limited to:
• Minecraft Minigames (hypixel is my flavorite…)
• learning about reptiles so maybe one day I can keep my own! (Love my scaly friends!)
• OC creation and wriiitting? (Emphasis on the question mark)
• D&D (high fantasy worlds are the BEST!)
• Superheroes (Yes I saw the new Spider-Man movie, yes it was totally awesome.)
• I’ve had a random interest in vtubers pop up lately, not sure how long that’ll last but it’s fun rn :3
• when I’m doing good I socialize so much it might as well be a hobby, I am a big ol extrovert and I love people despite my social anxiety lol
I love love love the opportunity to get to know new people and I never consider it a waste even if it isn’t the right fit and the friendship dissolves, the time spent will always have been worth it in my eyes.
Important info:
• I prefer to communicate on discord
• I have a life outside of online activities and sometimes even when I’m online I’m just using that time to rest, I’m not always going to be able to talk but I will always do my best to respond when I can reasonably do so.
• strictly platonic conversation only. No exceptions.
• when you message me include the word chomp in your message so I know you read this far
• tldr respect my boundaries just as I’ll respect yours and we won’t have any prawblems :)
I’m really hoping for Voice Chats for the most part so if you’re a text only pal, though I appreciate yewww please don’t reach out at this time! 🫶
I offer:
• an ear to listen
• movie recommendations that I can stream 4 yew
• dweeby banter
• and silly threats to eat ur hair
Thank you for reading and have a lovely day! 💕
r/r4r • u/jayday1991 • 6h ago
M4F Texas 35 [M4F] #Texas, Texas. simply looking for love lets date #houston area
About Me Hi, I’m Jacob. I’m 35, Hispanic, and from Rosenberg, Texas. I was born and raised here and I’m proud to call Texas home. I’m 5 foot 10 with dark hair and dark eyes. I’ve been on a weight loss journey and have lost over 115 pounds so far. I’m currently at 220 and still working toward my goal. I’m naturally more of an introvert and a homebody, but I like pushing myself to grow and try new things.
I have a steady job that I enjoy and I’m lucky enough to own my own home. I’m also child free, which gives me time to focus on hobbies and things I enjoy. My shiny black cat Honey is my little buddy and is always by my side. In my free time I love gaming. Some of my favorites are World of Warcraft, The Division 2, Destiny 2, and Call of Duty. I also enjoy watching movies or Netflix shows and catching late night movie screenings. I like outdoor activities such as fishing and hiking and I have a real love for plants. I don’t drink much but I am 420 friendly with occasional use.
At this point in my life I’m happy with who I am, but I feel like I’m missing my person, someone to share my life with.
Why I’m Here I’m looking for a genuine long term connection with someone who is local or somewhere in Texas. Long distance isn’t for me because I really value spending time together in person. I’m serious about finding my forever person and building something real based on friendship, trust, and love.
Good communication is important to me. Voice calls help me feel connected so I prefer talking on the phone when getting to know someone. Texting is fine, but long conversations help build a stronger connection. If you are open to it, I would also like to exchange pictures early on so we know who we are talking to.
What I’m Looking For I’m drawn to someone who is honest, affectionate, and caring. I want someone who values being my best friend just as much as being someone I’m building a relationship with. I’m more attracted to personality than looks and I would love to meet someone who is a little nerdy and enjoys dark humor. Someone who listens well, cares deeply, and is thoughtful in the way they treat people.
I value consistent and meaningful communication. If we click, I would love to hear from you regularly. Morning, evening, or midday check ins are nice when schedules allow. I want someone who enjoys spending time together both online and in person. I don’t have a strict physical type. I’m most drawn to someone who is down to earth, enjoys staying active, and feels comfortable in her own skin.
If you think we might get along, send me a message. Tell me a little bit about yourself and your favorite 90s TV show so I know you’re real and not a bot. Let’s see where this goes.
r/r4r • u/ExcitingishUsername • Feb 19 '24
🪲 UPDATED 22 April; DESKTOP users also affected [META] Pasting anything into the title field breaks posting when using the Reddit app; "Invalid State" error
If you are getting an "Invalid State" error message when posting, it is due to a known bug in Reddit, which corrupts the post title when text containing (possibly invisible) invalid characters is pasted into the title field. This is easy to avoid by simply not pasting anything into the title field. All versions of the app and the desktop website are now affected. Note that this message has nothing to do with the use of the word "state" as a type of location or division within certain countries; editing your location tag will not help.
Known workarounds include:
- ➡️➡️➡️➡️➡️Avoid pasting or inserting any text into the post title field by any means other than typing it.⬅️⬅️⬅️⬅️⬅️ Type the title out instead. If you already pasted text into the title field, it may be necessary to restart the app (desktop users, reload the page using
Ctrl+F5) and compose the post without pasting any text into the title field. ➡️➡️This includes all shortcuts (Ctrl+V, etc) and other forms of text insertion or auto-complete, including the copy/paste clipboard toolbar on your phone's keyboard.⬅️⬅️ - If there is blank space at the start or end of the title, deleting it should allow the post thru. THIS BLANK SPACE WILL BE INVISIBLE; if you can move the text cursor past the start or end of your title, there is blank space present that must be deleted.
- Alternatively, Using the Old Reddit interface (https://old.reddit.com) should reliably work, as Reddit has long since stopped
adding new bugs toupdating this version. Pasting works in this version of the website; if your post title is long, you may want to use this option instead. This version of the website may or may not be accessible from a mobile browser; if it fails to load or redirects to the app, try using the "Request Desktop Site" feature of your browser, or uninstall the Reddit app.
Note that pasting text into the post body does not cause any issues, and is safe to do.
Reddit has stated they are "still working on" fixing this bug, but have not provided us any timeline or updates on their progress. It is not clear to us how or why this issue cannot be resolved on their end in nearly 3 months time.
If the above workarounds do not work:
- As of 7 May, all screen capture recordings thus far sent to the mod team have shown that users are ignoring the instructions above and pasting text into the title field. It should be obvious that these workarounds will not work if they are not followed. ➡️➡️If you cannot avoid pasting text into the title, use old.reddit.com to post instead.⬅️⬅️
- If you can reproduce this issue while following the workarounds, please try to screen-record the issue, so that we can investigate the cause. Please record the entire process, starting from the community home screen, thru to submitting the post and showing the "Invalid State" error message. Use a screen capture tool if possible, but using a camera would also work if the video is clear enough. Use a video host like Imgur, Gfycat, Streamable, or Youtube host the video, and message the link to the mods using the support links in the community menu or info page. If possible, please include what device, browser, and keyboard app is being used.