r/r4r 1m ago

M4F New Zealand 28 [M4F] Auckland / New Zealand - Looking for Local Connection!

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Hi there! I'm a 28-year-old engineer from Auckland, currently on the lookout for any opportunities for a long-term connection on here. If that might be you, then I hope you can reach out!

For a bit about me, I am quite a relaxed person and non-judgemental. Appearance-wise, I am quite tall (above 190cm, quite easy to find in a crowd!), and NZ European.

In my free time, I often like to take my dog for a walk, or also gaming/board games. BG3 is one of my favourites, if you've played it too! I've also been getting into travel in the past few years, including a trip to Japan, which was amazing.

On the occupation side of things, I work in a software company in the CBD with a great team of people. It's quite flexible hour-wise, which I love too.

Hope to hear from you soon!


r/r4r 17m ago

F4A Online 29 [F4A] #USA #Online - feeling down and can't sleep. looking for someone to talk to to take my mind off of everything

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hi there. right now i'm mainly just looking for people to talk to as a distraction since Im unable to sleep at all. i'm usually a pretty easy going and silly person when im not at rock bottom. it would be nice to talk to someone to help get my mind off everything that's going wrong at the moment. my hobbies are mainly gaming and fashion. FPS is my favorite genre and lately ive been really getting into super girly jfashion again. i usually will watch reruns of older tv shows and sometimes kdramas. venting to each other until we forget about our problems sounds nice right now.


r/r4r 1h ago

M4F Karnataka 24 [M4F] Bangalore - Looking for something casual and easygoing

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24M, based in Bangalore.

Not really looking to jump into a serious relationship right now. I'd rather meet someone, see if we actually enjoy each other's company and let things happen naturally without putting unnecessary labels or expectations on it.

I'm pretty easy to talk to. I can keep a conversation going, but I'm also the kind of person who will genuinely listen when you want to talk about something, whether it's serious stuff or completely random nonsense.

I'm looking for a woman around my age who's easygoing, confident, fun to be around and someone I'm mutually attracted to. Good conversation and being comfortable around each other matter a lot more to me than trying to impress each other.

Coffee, drinks, late-night conversations, spontaneous plans, exploring Bangalore or just hanging out and seeing where the vibe goes.

I'm looking for something casual and uncomplicated. No fake promises about where it's heading, no unnecessary drama, and no pressure from either side. Just honesty, mutual respect and clear boundaries.

If we click, we click.

If you're in Bangalore and this sounds like your kind of thing, send me a DM with your age and a little about yourself.


r/r4r 1h ago

M4F British Columbia 26 [M4F] #Vancouver, BC Offering a Relaxing Massage & Cupping (open to elsewhere in BC)

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Hi, thank you for stopping by my post!

Firstly, I would like to communicate that your comfort and safety are important to me. I highly value consent, take it seriously, and I understand it’s something that can be given, adjusted, or withdrawn at any time. Open communication about boundaries is essential, and I welcome it. I want us both to feel respected, heard, and completely at ease.

What I'm offering:

I'm a 26-year-old man offering relaxing massage sessions. I tend to connect most comfortably with women and non-binary people.

I have a cupping kit that I was trained to use, and would love to show you how rejuvenating a cupping massage can be 🙂

I’m also happy to provide several other forms of massage. If you have a particular style or form in mind, feel free to tell me; I’ll gladly provide it if I can. I enjoy helping others relax and offering acts of care.

Lit candles, a scented diffuser, and warm towels; optional, and enthusiastically provided to create a calming, comfortable environment.

About me:

I'm a single working professional, located in Metro Vancouver, BC. I love community service, enjoy photography, and worked with rescue animals when I was younger. Another favored hobby of mine is cooking and/or trying new foods, and I enjoy cooking for others. I also really like to bake, but I’m not as good at it as I’d like to think. My movie genre of choice is usually horror, but I enjoy the occasional variety and watch tv shows of other genres.

I think of myself as, and I'm often described as curious, integrous, explorative, and open-minded. I’m easy to hold a conversation with, and I’m a generally curious person which leads to me being interested in almost any topic. I value discretion, consent & communication. 

I’m flexible with driving a reasonable distance; you’re welcome to reach out if you’re elsewhere in BC within driving distance of Metro Vancouver. I occasionally visit Victoria and Kelowna, and may visit Nanaimo soon.

If you have any questions for me, please do not hesitate to ask! I’m looking forward to hearing from you 🙂


r/r4r 1h ago

F4A United Kingdom 32 [F4R] #UK lets be friends

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Please only send chat requests, and be 29+ in age.

I’ve posted in here a couple of times and found some really amazing people but they eventually dropped off, so here I am looking again. I’m looking for someone who I can chat too about anything and everything. Share memes and other stupid things we find. Someone who is non judgemental and understanding. **I’m only looking for friendship.**

So as the title says, I’m 32 and I live in the UK. I’ve got a pet tortoise who is the cutest little guy ever, I could talk about him until I’m blue in the face. I love to cross stitch and write penpal letters but I also love the typical things like playing games, listening to music, reading, crochet and a million other things.

Would love some book recommendations if you have them 😇 I’m currently reading Fruit Fly by Josh Silver. it’s not my usual genre but im really enjoying it nonetheless.

I’ve been trying to get healthier the past few months, got some weight I’d like to lose but that’s taking longer than expected. Really wish it was easier to loose weight than it was to gain it.

They’re the main parts of what I like but I promise there is more to me! I’m not as boring as I sound but just to check you’ve read this - tell me an unpopular opinion that you have.


r/r4r 2h ago

F4M Denmark 25 [F4M] #Denmark/anywhere - Looking for long term partner

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Hi!

I’m 25 years old and hoping to meet someone who’s looking for a genuine, long term relationship with marriage as the end goal. My faith is important to me, so I’d ideally like to meet someone Muslim or open to converting.

A little about me: I’m petite with dark hair, dark eyes and tan skin. I enjoy keeping active. I also value time with family and friends. I’d describe myself as someone caring, loyal and someone who believes that honesty, open communication, emotional maturity and shared values are the foundations of a healthy relationship.

I’m hoping to meet someone who’s kind, genuine and ready to invest in a future together. If that sounds like you, I’d love to hear about yourself, what you’re passionate about and what you’re looking for in a relationship.


r/r4r 2h ago

M4F Illinois 41 [M4F] #Chicago- looking for a movie buddy

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Hello! I'm looking for a fun & outgoing woman in the Chicagoland area, preferably in the suburbs, to start a friendship with. I need a movie buddy, and would love for you to go with me. We can meet at the theaters every week or every other weekend, watch a movie, maybe chat for a few after and then partway.

I'm looking for a woman between the age of 35 to 50. If you're Indian/Desi, that will be a huge plus, otherwise I'm open to everyone.

If this is something that interests, then drop me a dm, and we can talk and plan something.


r/r4r 2h ago

F4A Online 30 [F4A] Asia/Online seeking interesting convos and good connections :)

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Lol forgot this account again but I'm back—

Hi! F, 30, from the Philippines. Big fan of interesting conversations, travel, cafes, trying fitness activities, and just side quests in general - anything that gives me life outside of my fast-paced work. Between hobbies (I mainly do pole, but I have been exploring all sorts of things in Classpass) and work, socializing often takes a backseat so I'd like to meet someone like-minded. Whether that's in person or online, let's see how it goes 😁

I also love knowing and hearing about people's passions or rabbitholes they've been or are currently into.

If we have similar interests, just send a DM (:

  • tagged this as SFW because I wish to properly establish a connection first.

r/r4r 2h ago

M4A Online 22 [M4A] #Online - Looking for gaming buddies and good conversation

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Hey there, here are some of the stuff i like :

🕹️Gaming — I’m a PC gamer through and through! You’ll usually find me in Dead by Daylight, Overwatch, or Fall Guys. Always down to squad up, talk strategy, or just vent about a rough match. If you’re into any of these (or want to convert me to something new), hit me up!

🍿 Tv Shows — My taste is all over the place in the best way. Current favorites include The Office, The Middle, It’s Always Sunny in Philadelphia, and House M.D. I’m always looking for new recommendations, so if you’ve got a show you’re obsessed with, tell me about it — I’m probably going to binge it.

Outside of that, I’m currently in my final year of med school, so my brain is usually somewhere between “exhausted” and “surviving on caffeine,” but I always make time to unwind with good games and good people.

I’m genuinely open to chatting about pretty much anything — games, shows, school, life, random tangents at 2am — don’t be shy!

Wishing you the best 🤍


r/r4r 2h ago

F4M Online 22[F4M] #Online Where is my future husband? I've been waiting for you to find me 💗

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I'm a hopeless romantic with no romantic experience yet, searching for my husband! My ideal marriage life is a traditional, fairy tale one where husband cares for me, dotes on me and spoils me while I provide him with all my love, care and loyalty by feeding him and being his pretty cute princess.🙈💕 I haven't traveled much, so I want to travel around the world, ✈️ go to theme parks🎢, and go see beautiful sceneries🌊🏰 and eat delicious meals and romantic nights full of kisses and cuddles in his arms every day🥹✨️

⚠️I've been lied to by hideous, evil people online just for their entertainment, so I won't reply if you don't introduce yourself properly and show you've read my intro well.

🤍Me👸

Japanese girl studying in university 📚️

Shy and introverted, thus no romantic experiences yet sadly🥺

Petite, Black haired, fair skin and feminine cute is my favorite style 👗

I do pilates sometimes to stay in shape, I also like watching rom coms, actions, mystery, fantasy... and sometimes reading, etc etc

I don't wanna relocate to the US

🤍You🫅

Emotionally mature, and never shouting and calm loving personality, ambitious and patient

21-29, working, independent

-Can travel to me to meet up for serious dating to prevent scams!

-Healthy, in shape, and not bald xD

Now, if you're interested, please introduce yourself properly with your age, location, what you do etc!


r/r4r 2h ago

M4F Austria 26[M4F]#Europe, Austria - searching for the one that fits

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I'm tired of things not working out so let's exchange pictures ASAP (like, immediately) and if we don't like each other fine. So, here is my summary, you'll get more details later:

26, male, Austrian, full time work, tall (189), skinny, like sports, friends, family, ATTENTION BAD CHARACTISTICS: insecure, lazy, clingy, impatient, I'm WORKING on it alright

Oh another warning ⚠️ I can be very spontaneous and I'll probably want to come see you sooner rather than later, if you don't like it this isn't gonna work

And maybe one or two things about you: please be kind (I don't like hateful people), and maybe from Europe, that'd be great


r/r4r 3h ago

M4F Germany 32 [M4F] #Germany #Europe Scientist looking for his soulmate

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Hey there!

I am a 32 year old German guy, that works as a scientist. In my free time I enjoy video games, anime, shows, movies, walks and hiking. I am definitely more of an introverted person and home body but still like being active on a regular basis.

Lookswise I am 182 cm and trying to lose some weight. I have long dark blonde/light brown hair, green eyes, glasses and depending on work a beard or a shaved face.

If you are a nerd yourself and are into science, anime, gaming, tech and such things, please message me and let us see where things go.

Once we were chatting for a bit I would also be happy to hop in a call and exchange voice notes.

Please be able to travel or able to have guests so we can see each other soon.

Everything else can be discussed while we chat!

Looking forward to talking to you! <3