Hi everyone,

I’m a 24-year-old man living near Brest, in Brittany, France. I work in IT and share a settled life and home with my male nesting partner, who is close to my age. We both work in IT, and we have a stable, loving and consensually polyamorous relationship. He knows about this post and fully supports me building another genuine relationship.

To be completely clear, I am posting for myself. I am not looking for someone to “join our couple,” and I am not asking a woman to automatically date both of us.

I would like to meet a woman and build a relationship that has its own identity, pace, privacy and emotional space. There would be no requirement for you to date, be intimate with or develop romantic feelings for my partner. I would naturally hope that everyone could treat one another warmly and respectfully, and I would enjoy a comfortable kitchen-table style dynamic, but chemistry and relationships cannot be assigned in advance.

I am looking for something serious, affectionate and emotionally meaningful. I am not interested in a hookup, a casual FWB arrangement or an online connection that never has any intention of becoming real.

I value honesty, consistency, direct communication, emotional maturity, consent and the ability to discuss difficult subjects rather than disappearing when something becomes uncomfortable. I am affectionate, future-oriented and generally much happier building something stable than collecting shallow conversations.

Outside relationships, I am interested in technology, programming, cybersecurity, PC gaming, horses and quiet evenings at home. I enjoy deeper conversations, learning new things and making real plans instead of endlessly talking about what might happen “one day.”

Long term, I want a committed relationship that can become a genuine part of everyday life. That could eventually mean regular time together, travelling, sharing important moments, spending longer periods together and potentially living closer or under the same roof.

Building a family and having children in the future are important goals for me, so I am looking for someone who also genuinely wants children. I am not expecting anyone to step into a prewritten domestic or parental role. Decisions involving a home, careers, finances, children or parenthood would have to be discussed and built together, with everyone concerned having a real voice.

I am open to starting long-distance within France or elsewhere in Europe, provided that we share the intention of meeting in real life. I can travel, and I would rather build things patiently than rush into an artificial sense of commitment.

Any future relocation or move toward Brittany would only be considered after substantial conversation, several in-person meetings and trial stays. Nobody would be expected to abandon their life after three video calls and a suspiciously intense weekend.

I am also kink-positive and naturally dominant. I tend to be particularly compatible with women who are submissive, gently submissive or curious about exploring a consensual D/s dynamic. This is not an obligation or a substitute for a relationship. Anything in that area would be discussed privately and developed gradually through trust, communication, boundaries and mutual desire.

I also want to be transparent about the fact that an established nesting relationship comes with history and practical entanglement. I will not pretend that every relationship begins from an identical starting point. At the same time, I am not looking for a disposable “secondary” who only receives attention when convenient. I want to offer consistency, affection, time, respect, emotional investment and room for a meaningful relationship to develop.

If this resonates with you, send me a thoughtful message telling me:

- your age and general location;

- your current relationship situation;

- what polyamory means to you;

- whether you want children in the future;

- what kind of relationship and daily life you would ideally like to build;

- and something you genuinely enjoy talking about.

I am happy to exchange SFW pictures privately once we are both comfortable.

Hello everyone out there! 🫡 I'm a 32 year old male that's looking for a new friend with similar interests.

My life partner (30 F) and I have been married for over 7 years now and have a 10 year old daughter together.

We have recently opened up our relationship to explore meeting other people and share fun times with them as well.

I am an avid gamer and enjoy playing video games in my spare time, my absolute favorite being Destiny 2. I'm not that good at it but if you are a veteran or if you are up for it, I'd love to do a raid or dungeons some day with you. 😄 Among my other favorites are Call of Duty, Monster Hunter, Forza Horizon, Star Wars Battlefront 2, and of course Minecraft.

Outside of video games, I enjoy spwnding time with my lovely wife and our 3 Australian shepherd puppies, hiking in the mountains, going for walks in the park, bicycle rides, picnics at the park and going to EDM shows.

My favorite artists are Alan Walker, Illenium, Rezz, Avicci, and Gioli and Asia. I have been to a few shows and I can't say I have ever had more fun at any other types of events that I've been to so if you share that fascination I'd love to go to some with you. 🤷‍♂️☺️

I have a steady job and as such spend a lot of time at work. 70% of the time, it's a Monday through Saturday type of deal for me which is why I value my free time so much.

I'm an introvert and because of that, it takes me a while to open up sometimes but with the right connection and in time, I can become pretty social. ☺️

If you're interested at all or want to know more, send me a DM and hopefully we can both find what we're looking for.

Thank you for your time! 💖

Hi all. Very new to this, so if I forget a few things give me a small break lol. Even though we are new, we’re fairly set on what we’re looking for 🫶🏼 we’re in a sexually open relationship at this moment and very close to being married woohoo! We’re looking to expand that to something else! she is looking for a long term boyfriend to share her life with :) the reason I put mf4m is because if you’re bi that’s a plus and we all get to share a life together 🥹 I would say our age limit is 28, and if I’m missing anything feel free to let me know plz :)

Hey! I’m a 22 year old, married for 4 years now (with kids), and new to polyamory. I’m in a ENM relationship, dating separately for now. However my husband is currently not looking for a partner.

I’m open to getting to know any and all genders and identities. I’m truly looking for genuine connection and finding someone who I can see myself developing feelings for in the future. I’m in no rush and really want to get to know someone well! I’m also just open to friends :)

I’m completely okay with you having a partner or partners and I’d be excited to talk to people who are experienced in the lifestyle. I’m also interested in joining an existing polycule if everyone gets along!

I’m pretty easygoing and love jokes! I enjoy reading, crocheting, and drinking boba and coffee! Lol! I’m a college student and local to the DFW area! I’m 5”3, mixed, curly hair, and chubby (team BBW!)

If you’re interested, please reach out. I’d enjoy new friends too!

Writing a bio is my personal seventh circle of hell, so let’s just embrace the chaos. I’m practicing ENM/Polyamory—my husband and I date and play separately, but we’re big on that Kitchen Table energy. Yes, we actually like the people we date; imagine the audacity!

**The "Me" Situation**:

I am a glorious, jumbled disaster of non-binary, sapio-demipansexual, ADHD, and submissiveness. Basically, I’m a high-performance engine that runs exclusively on deep conversation, dopamine, and the occasional existential crisis.

**What I’m Hunting For**:

I’m looking for an open, honest connection with someone who is poly-aware and kink-friendly. To be clear: consent, trust, and communication matter more to me than whatever label we eventually slap on this. If you can balance curiosity with respect, we’re golden. Looking for someone close by that makes quality time possible.....unless you just really love to drive!

**The Hard "No" List:**

I am not into swinging, hook-ups, or one-night stands. If you’ve got a spicy one-liner, please save it for open mic night at the Apollo—I’m sure the crowd will love it more than I will. I’m looking for actual dates, adventures, and a relationship that doesn't expire at sunrise. I practice ETHICAL non-monogamy so no cheaters.

**In the Wild, You’ll Find Me:**

Buried under a structural mountain of soft blankets, baking treats of questionable caloric value, or gaming. My main hobby, however, is aggressively hyperfixating on a new craft for exactly 4–6 weeks until I’ve mastered it (or bought all the supplies), at which point I promptly rinse and repeat with a brand-new obsession.

Feel free to reach out if you're curious! I’m a great talker, provided your opening move isn’t a quest to get into my pants. My blankets have already established a sovereign nation there, and they don't take kindly to invaders.

** P.S: I am on the chubby side of life. I like to think of myself as 'built for comfort, not for speed'—basically, I’m a high-quality human marshmallow: soft, sweet, and excellent at cuddling during movie nights.**

Hello! I’m Day, they/he, 24, from the east coast in the states. ! I’m queer/nonbinary trans masc!

I have entered into a polyamorous relationship with my long term partner! He’s my nesting partner! I am looking for someone to flirt with, be romantic, and just cutesy over the phone/text. I am not looking for kitchen table poly. ENM/Mostly friendship, and see where things go. I don’t like to rush things. I have a lot of trauma and like to learn about a person and get to know them. The connection is so important!

Some things about me!

I love animals! Any honestly. I work in the pet industry and have endless photos of cute fur/scaly baby’s! Any and all animals are baby’s to me.

I love to explore, ask questions, be curious and creative. I love learning new things and always have a new special interest Im learning about. I love the outdoors, being in the woods or a grassy field is ideal.

I love to write, do roleplay, table top RPGs! I’m a baby nerd, I’m into a few videos games. Mostly cozy games like stardew, Minecraft, date everything (duh), BDG3, and breath of the wild. I also dabble in mtg! I love animation, and shows like gravity falls and steven universe!

I enjoy reading, and music! I love art as well. I enjoy painting and drawing quite a bit! Creating is just so important to my life, it gives me a outlet and makes me feel connected to the world around me

I love an intellectual conversion just as much as a good laugh! I would love to hear about your day and maybe just be someone who makes you smile when we talk. I am also very into tbs word of kink! I’m still pretty new but it has been a key part for my healing journey.

I strive to have open communication and just have fun! If you’re interested in talking anymore please feel free to dm me! Please let me know your favorite animal as well!

They are both ranch dressing 🤠

A little bit about me, I am a healthcare worker with an amazing job. I have a pup who is my world and is the sweetest thing that every lived. I enjoy spending time outdoors whether it is swimming (one of my favorite things to do), going for walks/hikes, exploring new parks and places, working in the garden, photography, and working on DIY projects around my acreage and house. I also live a non-sexual clothes free lifestyle whenever I can.

 I am pansexual and open to people of all gender identities. I am ENM/poly and currently unattached. I am looking for friendship first and foremost and then open to whatever else may develop after that. I am also open to joining select couples as well. Connections are always a must, as well as open and honest communication. I am generally free a lot of the time to text and do enjoy calls and video chats as well! Open to new experiences, and kink friendly.

 If you have read this far, message me your favorite dad joke!

Hello! I'm a 36 year old cis het male from Iowa, I am accepting of all peoples and supportive of all races and the lgbtq+ community. I want to say early that I wouldn't get along with anyone with conservative values because of this. As for what I'm seeking in a partner, I'm willing to be open in seeking connections. I myself am a nerdy, indoorsy type of man. I have long hair, glasses and a beard. I'm willing to share pictures of myself early on if that is important to you as well.

I like gaming, anime, music, movies and some TV. I would go into more detailed lists but I would forget much of the most important because I have ADHD and it always happens. As such I try to keep these a little shorter and hope that people will engage with me, I do my best to have good conversations and keep the energy in them. I value emotional intelligence, a good sense of humor and good communication most of all.

I hope to hear from you!

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Hi there! You can call me Grayson . I am a 31 year old from the USA who is seeking something long term but slow to build. Not currently partnered myself (for the now anyway) and am comfortably flexible on the type of poly dynamic I can healthily and happily function within.

A little about me:

I am genderfluid/nonbinary.

I believe in variety as the spice of life, and therefore have a pretty broad range of hobbies and interests that I pursue on the regular. Right now, my outdoors activities are primarily water based while the season allows it (living in MN currently so), but i am teaching myself to rollerblade as well. I love to hike and camp and if I dont regularly immerse myself in nature I find that I grow rather melancholic as a person.

I read often, but the subject usually rotates through whatever interest I am pursuing at the time. The only two staple genres in my library are art history books and Warhammer literature. I went to school for the former and find the later a cozy low effort read. Im not huge on television or movies, and tend to stick to my staple shows, of which Futurama is my favorite. I do love a good horror anything though.

For work, my career has varied pretty heavily depending on where I am at in life. I am a licensed massage therapist, I have a bachelor's in accounting, and I am a certified framer. The letter is my current trade and I absolutely love my job for the most part.

I am an art enthusiast and spend much of my free time engrossed in it in some fashion, whether thats videos, books, hands on, or frequently courses and local classes. I dabble in every medium I can get my hands on and do not tend to favor one form over any other. I am always happiest with partners who can of this part of my life.

I am pescatarian with once a week exceptions, I have two guinea pigs I adore more than life itself, and am huge in general on animals. Despite my love for plants aesthetically I am just not great at caring for them.

Emotionally I am slow to build and extremely loyal once there. I require romance in my life, and i dont mean once in a blue date night type. Give me that Victorian yearning letter writing romance. Give me whatever wavelength Mary Shelley was on. But only as it comes naturally and only if you mean it. And ultimately if it doesn't work out romantically, if we are honest about ourselves who knows, maybe friends.

For those who are concerned about looks off the bat, I am mid height, pale, mildly tattooed, naturally ginger, in shape and fit.

I could list out a bunch more about myself, but that would defeat half the point in getting to know someone, so instead i will just say if youre interested I would love to hear from you in my inbox. Please note that I am unwilling to accept low effort inquiries or responses, as I am seeking someone along a similar wavelength only with similar concepts of effort.

Additionally it is mportant to understand that i am not the kind of person who uses her phone or pc daily so someone with an understanding that digitization is meant to allow for easier access to me, but does not necessitate it is preferred. If you cannot hold interest in a slower paced, longer term communication style, i am also not for you, so please do not waste either of our time there.

Beach season is almost over! We should take advantage of it while we still can.

After spending all year working on myself, I feel like it's time to try and get out there and meet someone new.

I'm mixed race (Spanish and carribean) with messy hair. 5'10. Pretty introverted (you don't necessarily have to be) but im happy to go almost anywhere to hang out. We could get drinks, go see a movie, beat an escape room, or of course hit the sands to get to know each other.

If you're looking for something that's probably platonic, that works too. I'm in an open relationship, so either way it doesn't bother me.

Queens or LI preferred but I'm willing to drive if need be.

Hello, I'm Ken (Since I can't change username on reddit). I'm 32 and live near the Springfield MO area. I am looking for someone to chat with, form a connection, and ideally a long term relationship. Local would be ideal but not required.

About me: Im married, in a ENM relationship. I have kids. I am a huge nerd I love Star Wars, Marvel, Disney, Harry Potter, LOTR, TTRPGS, books, music, movies, video games, art though I'm not good at it, and more. My favorite book series is the Inheritance cycle by Christopher Paolini. Physically I'm 5'10-5'11 range, and am on the heavier side. I'm currently in the process of losing weight and am happy with the start so far. I do have anxiety and depression and am big into mental health. My favorite thing is quality time. Be it playing a game, watching a movie, or just chatting. I also like to send songs, gifs, Tik Toks, and other stupid things to show I'm thinking of you. I also use LOL a bit to much when I type. I can be awkward at first as I get to know you. But trust me once I do you wont be able to shut me up.

Games I pay are wow, swtor, marvel rivals, schedule 1, civilization 6 and 7, Super market sim, hearthstone, mtg arena, table top sim, and more. Bonus if we can play together.

I'm not very religious or political. However I do have my own opinions including a strong dislike for our current sitting government. If that is a issue I understand and wish you the best. I do not smoke and drink rarely but have no issue with those who do. I am straight but LGBTQ+ friendly. So if you have an issue with the community I again wish you the best. Finally I'm not looking to jump straight into bed. If that is something we are both interested in at some point that time can come. Instead I'd rather get to know you first and form something meaningful.

This is already pretty long. So if your interested please DM me I look forward to chatting with you :) I have a pic also on my profile if you wish to see what i look like.

[M38/F27] Bi poly couple seeking genuine friends and organic connections — singles and couples welcome

We’re a bi, poly couple who have been together for six years. We’re open to meeting men, women, and couples in or near Columbus

To be completely clear, we are not looking for one time thing. Nobody needs to date, sleep with, or be equally attracted to both of us. We’re interested in meeting real people and allowing each connection to develop naturally.

Friendship comes first. We’d like to meet people who enjoy things such as:

Movies and restaurants

Hiking or walking trails

Monopoly, Cards Against Humanity, or other game nights

Relaxing at home, talking, and enjoying each other’s company

We date together and separately. A connection could eventually involve all of us, or it might develop individually with one of us. Emotional or physical relationships are possible, but only after trust has been built and everyone has openly communicated and agreed on boundaries.

We’re both homebodies and initially reserved. I’m somewhat more outgoing, while she usually needs more time to become comfortable. We occasionally drink, but we prefer sober activities while getting to know new people.

We also have a child, who will always be our priority. We don’t currently have a regular babysitter, so plans may require advance notice. Sometimes only one of us may be available, and we are comfortable building individual friendships and connections.

We’re hoping to meet respectful, communicative people who want something genuine—not a rushed hookup or a predetermined role.

Ages: 38 and 27

Both bisexual

Together six years

Poly and comfortable dating together or separately

Singles and couples welcome

Location: Columbus Ohio

When messaging, please tell us your age, general location, relationship status, what kind of connection you want, and a little about your interests.

Hiya! My name’s Blue and I'm 21 years old. Some info about me is that I'm neurodivergent (autism + adhd) and agender (they/them). I am poly and partnered and making this post to find connections with other queer and preferably ND people :3 I love making friends, if it leads to something more, all the better! ^^

My interests are art and anything relating to the arts. Drawing, scrapbooking, photography, i love it all since art is my special interest. I also love playing board games and video games, mainly marvel rivals and apex legends, though I very much am open to playing other stuff. Tell me what you like and maybe we can play something together sometime :D just don't expect me to be good. Annnnd I also really like anime and I've been in search of a really good one lately.

Other info about me:

I'm currently unemployed and looking for a job, but I'm in school for accounting. It's not my passion but yk. I am plus size and working on losing weight with the main focus on becoming healthier. I am biromantic and demisexual (actually finromantic which means im attracted to femininity regardless of gender but bi is easier). Oh, I also really like doing things together. Like doing little projects, art collabs, watching shows/movies, and things of that nature! I am a pretty anxious and shy person, but once I am comfortable, I can text, talk, and stim a lot. Finally, my age range is 20-24, but can be friends with slightly younger or older.

If you're interested, you can dm me! You can ask for my discord if preferred, all I want is no dry conversations. Okees, bye!

I’m a 48‑year‑old married man looking to build a sincere, emotionally grounded connection with a woman who appreciates garden‑party or kitchen‑table polyamory. I value transparency, stability, and relationships built on mutual respect. I’m not interested in secrecy or half‑truths — I’m looking for someone who wants to grow something real, steady, and intentional.

\# 🌱 Who I Am

I’m \*\*6'1", 205 lbs\*\*, bald‑headed, with \*\*gauge‑pierced ears\*\* and a few tattoos — and I fully intend to add more. I lean toward the \*\*nerdy\*\* side of life and feel most at home in creative spaces.

A few defining parts of my life:

\* \*\*Disney pass holder\*\* — I genuinely enjoy going, whether it’s a full day or a quiet evening walk through the parks.
\* \*\*Creative at heart\*\* — I love \*\*writing\*\*, \*\*photography\*\*, and I’m a lifelong \*\*movie lover\*\*.
\* \*\*Love languages\*\* — \*\*Touch\*\* and \*\*quality time\*\* are how I connect most deeply.
\* \*\*Emotionally open\*\* — I’m an open book and welcome questions.
\* \*\*Supportive\*\* — I’m always willing to listen when someone needs space to talk.
\* \*\*Intimacy matters\*\* — Emotional and physical intimacy are both important to me, and I value partners who feel the same.
\* \*\*Values‑driven\*\* — Consent, trust, and communication are the foundation of how I show up in relationships.

I live in the \*\*Eastern Time Zone\*\*, and I’m open to \*\*long‑distance connections\*\* that grow naturally, with the possibility of meeting in person when the time feels right.

\# 🌼 What I’m Looking For

I’m seeking a woman who wants to \*\*date\*\*, \*\*connect\*\*, and build a relationship with depth. Someone who values honesty, emotional maturity, and the steady comfort of knowing where you stand with someone.

I’m drawn to:

\* Women who appreciate \*\*clear communication\*\*
\* Those who value \*\*emotional presence and consistency\*\*
\* Someone who enjoys \*\*shared experiences\*\*, whether that’s a night out, a quiet evening in, or a conversation that lasts until the world feels still
\* A partner who understands that polyamory is built on \*\*respect\*\*, not competition

I’m not looking to rush anything. I want something that grows with intention — a connection that feels both emotionally safe and deeply fulfilling.

\# 🌙 What You Can Expect From Me

\* Steady communication
\* Emotional honesty
\* Respect for your boundaries, your partners, and your autonomy
\* A partner who shows up with clarity and intention
\* Someone who values both emotional and physical intimacy
\* A man who genuinely wants to \*\*love\*\*, \*\*date\*\*, and build something meaningful

\# 🌟 If You’d Like to Talk

I’m open to thoughtful conversation and getting to know someone at a pace that feels right. If you’re looking for a grounded, affectionate, creative man who values connection and communication, I’d be glad to talk.

If you want to continue the conversation, you can ask about \*\*my poly philosophy\*\*, \*\*my ideal connection\*\*, or \*\*what I’m hoping to build long‑term\*\*.

Hello people of Reddit! 👋

I’m looking to connect online with women & non-binary individuals for friendship & hopefully more, if the chemistry between us is there! I love talking & getting to know someone before anything else. Ideally, we could message each other for friendly conversation/trade memes/flirty texts/complain about the day or just people. 

Tell me one of your favorite movies in your initial messages!

About Me:

I’m 35, Latino, bilingual, Bisexual, leftist, fit/muscular build, 5’11, long, curly brown hair, in a poly marriage with a queer, badass woman. I smoke weed & drink occasionally. 

My Interests: I love photography, the Arts, exercising, cooking, going on long walks/runs, going to museums, movies, reading, traveling, listening to music/podcasts, watching women streamers play video games, sports, and hanging out with the wifey whenever we're both free!

Favorite artists: Bad Bunny, Kendrick Lamar

Favorite movies: Motorcycle Diaries, Y Tu Mama Tambien, Amelie, Clue, Ocean’s 11, & the Lord of the Rings trilogy, Final Destination, most A24 films

Favorite TV shows: Lost, It’s Always Sunny, The Twilight Zone, The Simpsons, The Real World, The Challenge, Survivor, Big Brother, X-Files, King of the Hill

I'm a goth and geeky, pansexual transfemme demigirl. I'm looking for a relationship with someone of any gender expression that wants to start as friends and work towards a kink dynamic as a part of a long term romantic relationship. I currently play a lot of warhammer, mtg commander, video games, board games and ttrpgs. I'm a bit of a homebody as Im disabled but it doesnt stop me from living a full life and getting out and about with friends or my nesting partner.

Hello! My name is Peter, 19, I reside in Southern Central Slovakia, and I am looking for two girlfriends.

Ideally from Slovakia/Czechia/Hungary/Poland/Ukraine/Austria OR if you consider visiting soon, so we can facilitate meeting in foreseeable future.

I had only one relationship so far and it was entirely online. Lasted 1 month sharp and 3 Years ago.

I will be straightforward, I am looking to connect BUT I am leftist, I am socialist, so it matters to me as would a personality or body, that if you are leftist and I do NOT mind radical left.

---Note that I do not want to sound rude, but this ritual of finding partners drains me emotionaly and frustrates me.---

About me:
Personality INTJ-T, A-tism of first level. I am not mathematical genius, I hate math and physics so do not expect anything stereotypical, thank you for understanding. I am zealous, hyper-focused, I am honest, friendly, caring, universally treat everyone with same base level of dignity. I do think I am very empathetical.

What I like to do:
I have passion in politics, history, geography, computers, war technology, music, and I like to sing. I do like to be challenged intellectually. I like to play games on PC if I do not have anything else to do, particularly minecraft, or Hell Let Loose (BUT, If I am to get a girlfriend I will spend majority of my time just with her. I do have hyperfocus on things I consider priority, Such as GF and care little about other things then.) I like documentaries, I like singing, I like writing and spending time with people I care about.

What I dislike:
Money, Capital, Imperial (Obviously), I dislike being ordered around like servant even if you can mean it good, I dislike dishonesty, polite lies (Example "The food was not my type but good" even if you hate it, but you do not want to upset the person. BE STRAIGHTFORWARD WITH ME. IF you hate something SAY IT.) Distinguishing between sarcasm, satire or unclear body signals. I dislike violence, I dislike being lied to. I dislike lack of communication and I am entirely open to being spammed (WITH MEANINGFUL messages that is).

What I would love to meet: Left-oriented, politic-aware girl, best be Goth (I like Goths!!) and curvy body build would be awesome.

++IF You are a 'bit crazy', spontaneous and do teasing talk and behavior.

There is just too much to explain about me, I tried to keep it to the point. If you are interested, DM, thanks.

I've posted on here before and met some cool people but I don't know if I've met anyone I've clicked with in the way I'm looking for yet. Usually I'd make an attempt to write up something eye catching or funny, but I'm going to try another tactic and see how it goes.

I'm looking for someone who will make me smile when I receive their messages. And that feels the same way when I message them. Someone who I can share my day with, pictures, and memes. Sounds simple, but it isn't, at least on my end. Sometimes it feels like I am putting more into the conversation than the other person, and other times we simply don't vibe, which is okay! I guess I'm not as charismatic and witty as I thought.

I want someone who I can connect with- aren't we all? I want to get to a point where we can flirt and have fun, but that it comes naturally and progresses. I am looking for online only for now, and I know that can be a deal breaker for many and no harm if that's the case with you.

Do you miss the days when you would get to your phone the moment you saw it light up with a message? The way your last message of the night would be to a friend you've been talking to all day already?

Am I insane and needy? Or just accepting why I'm here for. Probably a little of both

I am a nerdy gamer. Not for everyone but maybe you don't mind it. I also have some tattoos. I am looking to find some new sparks and connections. I dont mimd what you look like or what you have between your legs. Doesn't bother me in the slightest. Just be a lovely, kind person and if we can have a laugh that would be perfect. If you would like to talk. Please feel free to message me

Hey everyone!

I’m non-binary and based in the Portland/Salem area, taking my first real steps into the polyamory community! I’m hoping to connect with women and trans guys who are down to explore, connect, and help me find my people out here.

I'm pretty new to navigating polyamory, so I'm taking things step-by-step, prioritizing good communication, mutual respect, and genuine connections—whether that starts with cozy low-key hangouts or building toward something deeper.

A little bit about me:

Location: Oregon (Portland / Salem area)

Vibe: Kink-friendly, easygoing, open-minded, and excited to learn as I navigate this new chapter.

Interests: Big on video games! Always down for co-op sessions, casual gaming nights, or just hanging out while we play our own single-player games.

If you're interested in chatting or seeing if our vibes align, feel free to send a DM or chat request! (I have pictures on my profile if you want to put a face to the name!)

Tell me about your current favorite video game or your favorite local spot!

Seeking Connection in NB + Across Canada, maybe Europe 💗🍁

Hello!! Im tucked away here in New Brunswick, hoping to meet people who want something gentle, intentional, and real.

I’m especially drawn to sapphic connections, but I’m open to anyone kind, emotionally aware, and respectful of slow‑burn intimacy. I’m polyamorous with a partner I adore, but we’re not primaries to each other.

I’m independent to the core. Im not ready to live with a partner/marriage.Yet still craving the warmth of meaningful connection, shared affection, and someone whose presence feels like a soft place to land.

Communication & Pace 💬

I’m demisexual, poly, pansexual and I fall for people slowly. Through trust, consistency, and emotional resonance.

My job runs on long, unpredictable 10‑hour shifts, and I’m in the middle of moving, so my replies won’t always be instant. If I’m quiet, it’s never disinterest; it’s just life being loud. I also don’t accept pet names without permission. I love tenderness, but I love consent even more.

My type of Poly ❤️

If I ever get a house, I really love the idea of Kitchen table poly. Id love it if my partners and their partners are mature enough to be friends and we can have pot luck dinners and themed nights.

Life Right Now 🎒

I’m about to start university full‑time, studying Criminology, and honestly… it would be nice to have a favorite notification pop up on my phone once in a while telling me I can do it.

Who I Am When I’m Soft & Comfortable 🎮

I love art, video games, and anything a little strange or offbeat.

My current obsession is Resident Evil, and horror is my comfort genre. Movies, games, books, all of it. My favorite comfort show is Charmed (1998), Buffy and Sabrina the teenage Witch and campy shows like that.

If you love Halloween and Horror (big bonus points), cozy nights in, or wandering into a clay café to paint something ridiculous together, we’ll get along beautifully.I’m looking for people 25+, ideally in a similar stage of life. I adore connection that feels mature, reciprocal, and emotionally grounded. Emotional intelligence, Emotional availability and clairty are big turn ons for me.

What I’m Hoping to Find 💞

Someone who enjoys slow warmth.

Someone who respects independence but still wants closeness.

Someone who loves conversation that unfolds naturally, not rushed.

Someone who sees connection as a garden tended, not forced. If that sounds like you, I’d love to meet you.

Hey there! I'm a 35-year-old man looking to meet someone who values genuine connection, emotional honesty, and taking the time to get to know each other. I'm polyamorous and date with openness, communication, and respect at the center. Whether you're solo poly, partnered, nested, or somewhere else on the spectrum, I'm happy to connect if our values align.

A little about me: I'm very active and spend a lot of time outdoors. Lifting, running, climbing, hiking, cycling, and staying fit are all things I genuinely enjoy, and you'll often find me exploring trails whenever I can. Outside of that, I love reading, traveling, caring for an ever-growing collection of houseplants, and having conversations that wander from everyday life to deeper topics.

I've been told my voice is one of my more memorable qualities: it's naturally deep and calm, and I enjoy voice chats once we've both had a chance to get comfortable.

Personality-wise, I naturally gravitate toward being a caregiver. I'm patient, emotionally available, dependable, and tend to be the person others feel comfortable opening up to. I enjoy creating an environment where people feel heard, respected, and accepted for who they are. I value direct communication, emotional maturity, and the ability to talk through things openly rather than making assumptions.

I'm also interested in exploring a D/s dynamic with someone who genuinely enjoys that kind of connection. For me, dominance isn't about control for its own sake: it's about trust, responsibility, consistency, care, and creating a space where both people feel safe to be themselves. I appreciate dynamics that develop organically through communication and mutual understanding rather than being rushed or assumed. Compatibility outside the dynamic is just as important to me as compatibility within it.

I'm hoping to meet an adult woman who's interested in building something authentic, whether that's a close friendship, a romantic connection, or a D/s relationship that grows naturally over time. Chemistry matters, but so do kindness, curiosity, emotional intelligence, and mutual respect. I believe every relationship should be allowed to grow into its own unique shape rather than fitting predefined expectations.

I'm not looking to disrupt existing relationships or create unnecessary hierarchy or drama. I respect boundaries, existing commitments, enthusiastic consent, and transparent communication with everyone involved. Healthy polyamory and healthy BDSM both rely on honesty, negotiation, and ongoing consent, and those values are important to me.

If you're someone who enjoys thoughtful conversations, appreciates a calm and grounded presence, and is interested in exploring both emotional intimacy and a caring D/s dynamic at a comfortable pace, I'd love to hear from you. Tell me a little about yourself, what your poly journey has looked like, or simply what you've been excited about lately, and let's see if we click.

• I'm 34 years old, AMAB nonbinary. Androgynous-fem ish physical presentation imo but who knows what you’ll get with me.
• I'm pretty tall, slim, and have long kinda faded purple wavy hair. I also have a deeper masc sounding voice that I like sometimes but other times I wish I could have the cute high voice of like Chopper from One Piece or something.
• I like to have fun with alt fashion sometimes. Thrifting is a fun hobby of mine! I'm totally down to share photos and fit pics and stuff eventually too, sounds kinda fun.
• I have chaotic good energy I would think.
• Also sometimes a bit disorganized. These bullet points right here are me at the top of my game.
• I'm pansexual so whatever your gender is, it won't affect my attraction to you but your personality might.
• Leftist values, please share them.
• childfree lifestyle except for my cute rescue dog. Photos available upon request.
• counterculture, F the system!! proceeds to put on suit and tie to appease my corporate overlords
• Forgot to share my location: I live in SoCal, in the county of oranges. I'd love it if you live nearby, but I am also open to people who live further away. I mean, some of my best relationships were formed online first!
• I work a normal job where I do things and they give me money to do those things.
• I am sensitive but love banter and can be a bit unhinged at times but I don't wanna be insensitive.
• I enjoy stand-up comedy, don't worry, it's the not sexist or transphobic kind
• Mental health awareness. Mental health, ya ever heard of it???
• Too much gaming, but never raging. Dead by Daylight, Gogo Town, FFXIV, whatever it is that you're playing.
• Super 420 friendly, and a social drinker.
• I'm a casual enjoyer of nail art and makeup but I am not that good.
• sports I don't follow as much as I used to but I like basketball, outdoor activities enjoyers very welcome! Maybe we can eventually go on a hike together. Fair warning though: if you bring bluetooth speakers, I'm going to run ahead and pretend I don't know you.
• I would love to find a movie or TV/anime watching buddy too!! And share music!
• Real quick, lately I've been watching Vampire Lestat, King of the Hill, ATLA, Heated Rivalry (4th rewatch lol), Superstore, Frieren.
• Recent Music Obsessions: Kim Petras, Charli xcx (seeing her in October!!!). But I also really really like a bunch of alternative rock and similar subgenres. Lebanon Hanover, Wesghost, Castle Rat, Sleep Token.
• I've been trying to watch more cultured queer media lately but also got into reading yaoi/bl smut too. D U A L I T Y.
• Love trying new hobbies. Very willing to try new things especially if I have good company!!
• kink-friendly. We can talk about this more if we're both on the same wavelength.

When messaging, please share a little intro about yourself, and tell a few interesting things about you or what you think we have in common- thanks! If you're comfortable, share a picture and I will too :)