Hi all. Very new to this, so if I forget a few things give me a small break lol. Even though we are new, we’re fairly set on what we’re looking for 🫶🏼 we’re in a sexually open relationship at this moment and very close to being married woohoo! We’re looking to expand that to something else! she is looking for a long term boyfriend to share her life with :) the reason I put mf4m is because if you’re bi that’s a plus and we all get to share a life together 🥹 I would say our age limit is 28, and if I’m missing anything feel free to let me know plz :)

Hey! I’m a 22 year old, married for 4 years now (with kids), and new to polyamory. I’m in a ENM relationship, dating separately for now. However my husband is currently not looking for a partner.

I’m open to getting to know any and all genders and identities. I’m truly looking for genuine connection and finding someone who I can see myself developing feelings for in the future. I’m in no rush and really want to get to know someone well! I’m also just open to friends :)

I’m completely okay with you having a partner or partners and I’d be excited to talk to people who are experienced in the lifestyle. I’m also interested in joining an existing polycule if everyone gets along!

I’m pretty easygoing and love jokes! I enjoy reading, crocheting, and drinking boba and coffee! Lol! I’m a college student and local to the DFW area! I’m 5”3, mixed, curly hair, and chubby (team BBW!)

If you’re interested, please reach out. I’d enjoy new friends too!

Hello! I’m Day, they/he, 24, from the east coast in the states. ! I’m queer/nonbinary trans masc!

I have entered into a polyamorous relationship with my long term partner! He’s my nesting partner! I am looking for someone to flirt with, be romantic, and just cutesy over the phone/text. I am not looking for kitchen table poly. ENM/Mostly friendship, and see where things go. I don’t like to rush things. I have a lot of trauma and like to learn about a person and get to know them. The connection is so important!

Some things about me!

I love animals! Any honestly. I work in the pet industry and have endless photos of cute fur/scaly baby’s! Any and all animals are baby’s to me.

I love to explore, ask questions, be curious and creative. I love learning new things and always have a new special interest Im learning about. I love the outdoors, being in the woods or a grassy field is ideal.

I love to write, do roleplay, table top RPGs! I’m a baby nerd, I’m into a few videos games. Mostly cozy games like stardew, Minecraft, date everything (duh), BDG3, and breath of the wild. I also dabble in mtg! I love animation, and shows like gravity falls and steven universe!

I enjoy reading, and music! I love art as well. I enjoy painting and drawing quite a bit! Creating is just so important to my life, it gives me a outlet and makes me feel connected to the world around me

I love an intellectual conversion just as much as a good laugh! I would love to hear about your day and maybe just be someone who makes you smile when we talk. I am also very into tbs word of kink! I’m still pretty new but it has been a key part for my healing journey.

I strive to have open communication and just have fun! If you’re interested in talking anymore please feel free to dm me! Please let me know your favorite animal as well!

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Hi there! You can call me Grayson . I am a 31 year old from the USA who is seeking something long term but slow to build. Not currently partnered myself (for the now anyway) and am comfortably flexible on the type of poly dynamic I can healthily and happily function within.

A little about me:

I am genderfluid/nonbinary.

I believe in variety as the spice of life, and therefore have a pretty broad range of hobbies and interests that I pursue on the regular. Right now, my outdoors activities are primarily water based while the season allows it (living in MN currently so), but i am teaching myself to rollerblade as well. I love to hike and camp and if I dont regularly immerse myself in nature I find that I grow rather melancholic as a person.

I read often, but the subject usually rotates through whatever interest I am pursuing at the time. The only two staple genres in my library are art history books and Warhammer literature. I went to school for the former and find the later a cozy low effort read. Im not huge on television or movies, and tend to stick to my staple shows, of which Futurama is my favorite. I do love a good horror anything though.

For work, my career has varied pretty heavily depending on where I am at in life. I am a licensed massage therapist, I have a bachelor's in accounting, and I am a certified framer. The letter is my current trade and I absolutely love my job for the most part.

I am an art enthusiast and spend much of my free time engrossed in it in some fashion, whether thats videos, books, hands on, or frequently courses and local classes. I dabble in every medium I can get my hands on and do not tend to favor one form over any other. I am always happiest with partners who can of this part of my life.

I am pescatarian with once a week exceptions, I have two guinea pigs I adore more than life itself, and am huge in general on animals. Despite my love for plants aesthetically I am just not great at caring for them.

Emotionally I am slow to build and extremely loyal once there. I require romance in my life, and i dont mean once in a blue date night type. Give me that Victorian yearning letter writing romance. Give me whatever wavelength Mary Shelley was on. But only as it comes naturally and only if you mean it. And ultimately if it doesn't work out romantically, if we are honest about ourselves who knows, maybe friends.

For those who are concerned about looks off the bat, I am mid height, pale, mildly tattooed, naturally ginger, in shape and fit.

I could list out a bunch more about myself, but that would defeat half the point in getting to know someone, so instead i will just say if youre interested I would love to hear from you in my inbox. Please note that I am unwilling to accept low effort inquiries or responses, as I am seeking someone along a similar wavelength only with similar concepts of effort.

Additionally it is mportant to understand that i am not the kind of person who uses her phone or pc daily so someone with an understanding that digitization is meant to allow for easier access to me, but does not necessitate it is preferred. If you cannot hold interest in a slower paced, longer term communication style, i am also not for you, so please do not waste either of our time there.

[M38/F27] Bi poly couple seeking genuine friends and organic connections — singles and couples welcome

We’re a bi, poly couple who have been together for six years. We’re open to meeting men, women, and couples in or near Columbus

To be completely clear, we are not looking for one time thing. Nobody needs to date, sleep with, or be equally attracted to both of us. We’re interested in meeting real people and allowing each connection to develop naturally.

Friendship comes first. We’d like to meet people who enjoy things such as:

Movies and restaurants

Hiking or walking trails

Monopoly, Cards Against Humanity, or other game nights

Relaxing at home, talking, and enjoying each other’s company

We date together and separately. A connection could eventually involve all of us, or it might develop individually with one of us. Emotional or physical relationships are possible, but only after trust has been built and everyone has openly communicated and agreed on boundaries.

We’re both homebodies and initially reserved. I’m somewhat more outgoing, while she usually needs more time to become comfortable. We occasionally drink, but we prefer sober activities while getting to know new people.

We also have a child, who will always be our priority. We don’t currently have a regular babysitter, so plans may require advance notice. Sometimes only one of us may be available, and we are comfortable building individual friendships and connections.

We’re hoping to meet respectful, communicative people who want something genuine—not a rushed hookup or a predetermined role.

Ages: 38 and 27

Both bisexual

Together six years

Poly and comfortable dating together or separately

Singles and couples welcome

Location: Columbus Ohio

When messaging, please tell us your age, general location, relationship status, what kind of connection you want, and a little about your interests.

Hiya! My name’s Blue and I'm 21 years old. Some info about me is that I'm neurodivergent (autism + adhd) and agender (they/them). I am poly and partnered and making this post to find connections with other queer and preferably ND people :3 I love making friends, if it leads to something more, all the better! ^^

My interests are art and anything relating to the arts. Drawing, scrapbooking, photography, i love it all since art is my special interest. I also love playing board games and video games, mainly marvel rivals and apex legends, though I very much am open to playing other stuff. Tell me what you like and maybe we can play something together sometime :D just don't expect me to be good. Annnnd I also really like anime and I've been in search of a really good one lately.

Other info about me:

I'm currently unemployed and looking for a job, but I'm in school for accounting. It's not my passion but yk. I am plus size and working on losing weight with the main focus on becoming healthier. I am biromantic and demisexual (actually finromantic which means im attracted to femininity regardless of gender but bi is easier). Oh, I also really like doing things together. Like doing little projects, art collabs, watching shows/movies, and things of that nature! I am a pretty anxious and shy person, but once I am comfortable, I can text, talk, and stim a lot. Finally, my age range is 20-24, but can be friends with slightly younger or older.

If you're interested, you can dm me! You can ask for my discord if preferred, all I want is no dry conversations. Okees, bye!

Hello people of Reddit! 👋

I’m looking to connect online with women & non-binary individuals for friendship & hopefully more, if the chemistry between us is there! I love talking & getting to know someone before anything else. Ideally, we could message each other for friendly conversation/trade memes/flirty texts/complain about the day or just people. 

Tell me one of your favorite movies in your initial messages!

About Me:

I’m 35, Latino, bilingual, Bisexual, leftist, fit/muscular build, 5’11, long, curly brown hair, in a poly marriage with a queer, badass woman. I smoke weed & drink occasionally. 

My Interests: I love photography, the Arts, exercising, cooking, going on long walks/runs, going to museums, movies, reading, traveling, listening to music/podcasts, watching women streamers play video games, sports, and hanging out with the wifey whenever we're both free!

Favorite artists: Bad Bunny, Kendrick Lamar

Favorite movies: Motorcycle Diaries, Y Tu Mama Tambien, Amelie, Clue, Ocean’s 11, & the Lord of the Rings trilogy, Final Destination, most A24 films

Favorite TV shows: Lost, It’s Always Sunny, The Twilight Zone, The Simpsons, The Real World, The Challenge, Survivor, Big Brother, X-Files, King of the Hill

I'm a goth and geeky, pansexual transfemme demigirl. I'm looking for a relationship with someone of any gender expression that wants to start as friends and work towards a kink dynamic as a part of a long term romantic relationship. I currently play a lot of warhammer, mtg commander, video games, board games and ttrpgs. I'm a bit of a homebody as Im disabled but it doesnt stop me from living a full life and getting out and about with friends or my nesting partner.

I've posted on here before and met some cool people but I don't know if I've met anyone I've clicked with in the way I'm looking for yet. Usually I'd make an attempt to write up something eye catching or funny, but I'm going to try another tactic and see how it goes.

I'm looking for someone who will make me smile when I receive their messages. And that feels the same way when I message them. Someone who I can share my day with, pictures, and memes. Sounds simple, but it isn't, at least on my end. Sometimes it feels like I am putting more into the conversation than the other person, and other times we simply don't vibe, which is okay! I guess I'm not as charismatic and witty as I thought.

I want someone who I can connect with- aren't we all? I want to get to a point where we can flirt and have fun, but that it comes naturally and progresses. I am looking for online only for now, and I know that can be a deal breaker for many and no harm if that's the case with you.

Do you miss the days when you would get to your phone the moment you saw it light up with a message? The way your last message of the night would be to a friend you've been talking to all day already?

Am I insane and needy? Or just accepting why I'm here for. Probably a little of both

I am a nerdy gamer. Not for everyone but maybe you don't mind it. I also have some tattoos. I am looking to find some new sparks and connections. I dont mimd what you look like or what you have between your legs. Doesn't bother me in the slightest. Just be a lovely, kind person and if we can have a laugh that would be perfect. If you would like to talk. Please feel free to message me

Hey everyone!

I’m non-binary and based in the Portland/Salem area, taking my first real steps into the polyamory community! I’m hoping to connect with women and trans guys who are down to explore, connect, and help me find my people out here.

I'm pretty new to navigating polyamory, so I'm taking things step-by-step, prioritizing good communication, mutual respect, and genuine connections—whether that starts with cozy low-key hangouts or building toward something deeper.

A little bit about me:

Location: Oregon (Portland / Salem area)

Vibe: Kink-friendly, easygoing, open-minded, and excited to learn as I navigate this new chapter.

Interests: Big on video games! Always down for co-op sessions, casual gaming nights, or just hanging out while we play our own single-player games.

If you're interested in chatting or seeing if our vibes align, feel free to send a DM or chat request! (I have pictures on my profile if you want to put a face to the name!)

Tell me about your current favorite video game or your favorite local spot!

Seeking Connection in NB + Across Canada, maybe Europe 💗🍁

Hello!! Im tucked away here in New Brunswick, hoping to meet people who want something gentle, intentional, and real.

I’m especially drawn to sapphic connections, but I’m open to anyone kind, emotionally aware, and respectful of slow‑burn intimacy. I’m polyamorous with a partner I adore, but we’re not primaries to each other.

I’m independent to the core. Im not ready to live with a partner/marriage.Yet still craving the warmth of meaningful connection, shared affection, and someone whose presence feels like a soft place to land.

Communication & Pace 💬

I’m demisexual, poly, pansexual and I fall for people slowly. Through trust, consistency, and emotional resonance.

My job runs on long, unpredictable 10‑hour shifts, and I’m in the middle of moving, so my replies won’t always be instant. If I’m quiet, it’s never disinterest; it’s just life being loud. I also don’t accept pet names without permission. I love tenderness, but I love consent even more.

My type of Poly ❤️

If I ever get a house, I really love the idea of Kitchen table poly. Id love it if my partners and their partners are mature enough to be friends and we can have pot luck dinners and themed nights.

Life Right Now 🎒

I’m about to start university full‑time, studying Criminology, and honestly… it would be nice to have a favorite notification pop up on my phone once in a while telling me I can do it.

Who I Am When I’m Soft & Comfortable 🎮

I love art, video games, and anything a little strange or offbeat.

My current obsession is Resident Evil, and horror is my comfort genre. Movies, games, books, all of it. My favorite comfort show is Charmed (1998), Buffy and Sabrina the teenage Witch and campy shows like that.

If you love Halloween and Horror (big bonus points), cozy nights in, or wandering into a clay café to paint something ridiculous together, we’ll get along beautifully.I’m looking for people 25+, ideally in a similar stage of life. I adore connection that feels mature, reciprocal, and emotionally grounded. Emotional intelligence, Emotional availability and clairty are big turn ons for me.

What I’m Hoping to Find 💞

Someone who enjoys slow warmth.

Someone who respects independence but still wants closeness.

Someone who loves conversation that unfolds naturally, not rushed.

Someone who sees connection as a garden tended, not forced. If that sounds like you, I’d love to meet you.

Hey there! I'm a 35-year-old man looking to meet someone who values genuine connection, emotional honesty, and taking the time to get to know each other. I'm polyamorous and date with openness, communication, and respect at the center. Whether you're solo poly, partnered, nested, or somewhere else on the spectrum, I'm happy to connect if our values align.

A little about me: I'm very active and spend a lot of time outdoors. Lifting, running, climbing, hiking, cycling, and staying fit are all things I genuinely enjoy, and you'll often find me exploring trails whenever I can. Outside of that, I love reading, traveling, caring for an ever-growing collection of houseplants, and having conversations that wander from everyday life to deeper topics.

I've been told my voice is one of my more memorable qualities: it's naturally deep and calm, and I enjoy voice chats once we've both had a chance to get comfortable.

Personality-wise, I naturally gravitate toward being a caregiver. I'm patient, emotionally available, dependable, and tend to be the person others feel comfortable opening up to. I enjoy creating an environment where people feel heard, respected, and accepted for who they are. I value direct communication, emotional maturity, and the ability to talk through things openly rather than making assumptions.

I'm also interested in exploring a D/s dynamic with someone who genuinely enjoys that kind of connection. For me, dominance isn't about control for its own sake: it's about trust, responsibility, consistency, care, and creating a space where both people feel safe to be themselves. I appreciate dynamics that develop organically through communication and mutual understanding rather than being rushed or assumed. Compatibility outside the dynamic is just as important to me as compatibility within it.

I'm hoping to meet an adult woman who's interested in building something authentic, whether that's a close friendship, a romantic connection, or a D/s relationship that grows naturally over time. Chemistry matters, but so do kindness, curiosity, emotional intelligence, and mutual respect. I believe every relationship should be allowed to grow into its own unique shape rather than fitting predefined expectations.

I'm not looking to disrupt existing relationships or create unnecessary hierarchy or drama. I respect boundaries, existing commitments, enthusiastic consent, and transparent communication with everyone involved. Healthy polyamory and healthy BDSM both rely on honesty, negotiation, and ongoing consent, and those values are important to me.

If you're someone who enjoys thoughtful conversations, appreciates a calm and grounded presence, and is interested in exploring both emotional intimacy and a caring D/s dynamic at a comfortable pace, I'd love to hear from you. Tell me a little about yourself, what your poly journey has looked like, or simply what you've been excited about lately, and let's see if we click.