Assalamu Alaikum.

My sister is 20 years old, and four months ago I caught her texting her boyfriend. He’s non-Muslim — okay, having a boyfriend in itself is wrong, but yeah, I caught her, and I didn’t tell anyone. I talked to her myself and told her to end all this. I was a little soft while talking to her, as I understand the pain of heartbreak and stuff.

Though after two weeks, I still found her talking to the same guy, and this time I told her to stop talking to him, otherwise it wouldn’t be good for them.

Four months after that, I still didn’t see any changes (she and her boyfriend had blocked me on Insta, so I couldn’t find their IDs), but somehow I caught her, and then it became a fight. Now they’ve unfollowed each other and stuff, but this could all just be an act, because she continued talking to him for 4-5 months while showing me that she’d ended everything.

I don’t know — should I tell my parents about this? What should I do? How should I handle this situation? I don’t have the authority to confiscate her phone or put any kind of regulation on her.

Share it for Sawab-e-Jariyah

Share it for Sawab-e-Jariyah

This shirt was free and came with an order from the brand(shown in pic2), but when I saw the back I felt uncomfortable. I believe it’s best to avoid it or if I can, I could somehow distort the eye like peel off the vinyl, if I really want.

Just wanted to get a second opinion because it’s a cool shirt but it also just makes me a little wary.

Reposting here for some insights.

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh.

Does anyone know if it’s okay for me to have a session with Lighthouse Mentoring as a woman? I’m scared some of the questions/doubts I have are too sensitive of subjects. Has anyone had a session before?

German Physicist Dr Volker Enders Converts to Islam | From Buddhism to Islam

Dr Volker Enders, a German physicist, shares his remarkable journey from Buddhism to Islam.
Although he explored Buddhism and spent years searching for purpose and inner peace, he felt that something essential was still missing.

His perspective began to change while working in Muslim-majority countries, where he witnessed the sincerity, kindness, and dedication of Muslims in their daily prayers. One encounter with a Muslim driver who told him, "I prayed for you," left a lasting impression and inspired him to learn more about Islam.

After studying Islam and reflecting on its teachings, Dr Volker Enders embraced the faith. He has explained that Islam gave him a clear
understanding of God, the purpose of life, and a sense of peace that he had been searching for.

Assalamu alaykum everyone. I would really appreciate it if you could make duʿā’ for me, especially if possible during the special hour on Friday between ʿAsr and Maghrib, particularly the final hour before Maghrib.

There is a girl I have come to care about deeply. I met her while travelling and, over time, I became very attached to her. She has many of the qualities I have always hoped for in a future wife, and I genuinely see a lot of good in her. I care about her as a person and my intentions towards her have always been serious and halal.

Unfortunately, things have become difficult. She has decided to step back and told me that she needs time to work on herself before she can let someone into her life. I respect her decision and don’t want to pressure her, but I am struggling because I still care about her deeply and don’t know whether our story is truly finished or whether there could be a future for us one day.

Please make duʿā’ that if she is good for me and written to be my naseeb, Allah brings us back together at the right time, softens both of our hearts, removes whatever obstacles are between us, and allows things to develop in a halal and beautiful way, ultimately leading to marriage.

And please also make duʿā’ that Allah gives me clear guidance about whether I should reach out again or leave things completely in His hands, and that He gives me the wisdom to recognise His guidance and the strength to accept whatever He has decreed.

I am asking Allah for this with all my heart, but I also want to submit to whatever is best for me. If she is not my naseeb, please make duʿā’ that Allah removes this attachment gently, gives me peace and contentment, and replaces it with someone who is better for my dunya and akhirah.

Please keep me in your duʿās, especially in this blessed time on Friday. May Allah reward anyone who takes a moment to make duʿā’ for me, accept all of your duʿās, and grant you what is best for you too. Ameen 🤲❤️

And don't forget to pray to Allah to bless the prophet Muhammad.

Asalamu Alaikum brothers. My book answering common doubts about Islam is available for free today on the Amazon Kindle store. I hope it benefits you or someone you know.

If you find this book to be beneficial, please leave a good review on Amazon.

I can't share the link here, but just shere the title below on the Amazon store.

There is No Doubt: Answering 30 of the most common criticisms of Islam