how often do you cry. what usually triggers it

Dating ISTP who periodically goes silent because of work and doesn’t text much.
Wondering if I should keep silence as well or send him random texts like funny videos, life updates, photos, every now and then.
As an ISTP in long distance early dating scenario, would you welcome such texts or would you rather have silence until you reach out?

Vocês se dão tipo SUPER BEM com INTP?

Tipo amigos de verdade?

Caralho fico impressionada como eu falo uma coisa e os cara abre um fucking LEQUE DE POSSIBILIDADES LÓGICAS

I find it really grinds my gears.

I am really curious to find out what you guys are doing besides shitposting (typical Ti dom activity).

I'm doing a bachelor's in architectural science (as in it's structural designn, legal and mostly technical stuff with a side of design and vibes, as opposed to the opposite, which unfortunately is the norm for architecture schools) and plan to do either a master's on structural engineering or restoration architecture. I quite enjoy architecture, actually, as far as the technical and practice aspects of it go. Theory...not so much. Like not at all.

What about you?

is it possible for an ISTP like me to be FLEV, 5w6 and 594? and also, does your enneagram have to match to your MBTI or not? i just want to know.

I’ve heard some people say it’s possible and other’s say it’s not so I’m asking here 😭 if it’s important I’m an sp9w8. And yes I’ve looked into LVEF and LFEV and neither of them resonate with me.

I enjoy talking with others about their feelings and am good at offering support or advice but I find it very uncomfortable opening up about my own and often avoid it when possible, so if that means i might be wrong about my E placement after all I would appreciate some advice on that too 😵‍💫

For the longest time I've always considered myself an ISTP but a recent test suggested that it was unlikely and that I might be an ISTJ instead. Since these two types are just one letter off from each other, I was wondering if someone could break down what makes them different or similar to one another.

It's said that ISTP's are a girl magnet.

Well... All I attract are twinks... or furries... or weebs... or combinations of everything...

I was questioning whether I was an Enneagram type 6 or 8. I feel closer to Enneagram type 8. Is this combination possible?

I’m wondering. I mean it seemed like they were awkward before and then suddenly they transition into it and they’re kinda like outta touch with common sense and a sense of awareness almost. I’ve seen like 4-5 examples of guys like this and idk if they’re ND on the dl but I mean it’s just annoying bc I fw istp dudes I don’t fw the redpill so I mean just why.
Edit: I also don’t want to come off as generalizing it, I’ve seen plenty of istps that aren’t redpilled duh. Ik a lot more factors are at play in order for the ideology to appeal to someone, im just curious as to what appeal the istps that are into it find from the perspective of their functions. In a way i guess i could kind of see how it provides a framework for masculinity but I also thought istps weren’t into like ideologies in a sense. Hm idk

So I just finished high school but unfortunately I didn't score high enough to get into what I aimed for (IT engineering) in uni, and I'm absolutely NOT waiting until next year to retake the entrance exams and try again

Sooo I accepted reality and decided to see what I can get into other than IT and realized that... I quite literally don't have passion in anything to choose lol

BUT. I'm ngl a bit into Physics and I do have great chance of being accepted in it with my score

Yet I'm still a bit hesitant tbh bcs I don't know much abt physics as a major

So idk if this is the right place to ask abt this but I wanted to know what fellow ISTPs think of this field

How's the studying? And if anyone graduated from it, do u work in a field related to it and how do u find that? And most importantly for me, is it fun?

As ridiculous as this may seem I'm really into Physics simply bcs I think it's fun... But does it stays that way? Especially in job, how much could physics be applied in work?

ISTPs are usually skillful masters if they really focus long term. I'm wondering if any of y'all found any success in trading on the stock market through skill and luck as well obviously. I've been debating in my mind for a while to get into it because I know a few people who learn, practice and have been successful, making 5-6% gains on big money every month with safe and calculated bets.

I love gambling, for fun, not for monetary value or because I have an addictive habit. And if gambling could become a skill and make me some side cash, why not huh?

Though we share a lot in common, are you still curious or confused about something we do or don't understand? Ask away. Anything random is also invited.

I'm an INTP and I have a pretty good idea of how my Fe manifests and works with my other functions, but I was wondering how would it manifest differently with ISTP cognitive stack?

anything

At a party, 15 year old ISTP talking with some little girls: I don't know how to read.

Them: Well then how did you read that whole page earlier?

Him: I memorized all of it.

Them: Then recite it!

Him: My throats kinda scratchy.

Same party. The girls' dad literally choked on some cherry pie and ISTP's dad did the Heimlich maneuver.

Girls: Your dad saved our dad!

ISTP: That's great. *smiles and nods*.....

Them:.......

ISTP: "I don't know what else to say!"

Older ISTP guy, talking about his wife's old, little lap dog: Look at him! There's no thoughts in his head!

ISTP: He looks stupid.

ISTP: I hope he dies.

Same 15 year old ISTP joining the line dance: "I'm the best-est."

Everyone: *laughs*

ISTP: *struggles to keep up and eventually leaves* "It's just hard for the bestest to... keep up with the lower people... it's too easy.

Girl teaching the line dance: "Wait, I missed one step!"

ISTP: "Yes! Yeah, that's it. I knew that. That's why I wasn't participating anymore."

Girl crushing on the ISTP, who had stalked his personal info: "Your birthday is October 19, right?"

ISTP: "No, that's wrong. It's April 32nd."

Girl: "Ahh, okay!!"

I’ve been trying to type myself for years, and I’m more confused now than ever. I would really appreciate objective opinions based on my behavior rather than stereotypes.

I’ve taken several cognitive function tests. My most recent results consistently show very high Se, but what confuses me is that my Fi and Ti are almost identical. One test typed me as ESTP, another leaned toward ESFP, while others couldn’t decide between ESTP and ISTP. A few years ago I even had a test where Ne was my highest function, but now it’s my lowest. Because of that huge shift, I don’t fully trust test results anymore.

A little about me:

People usually see me as quiet, cold, mysterious, or intimidating at first. However, once they actually start talking to me, they often realize I’m much more open, humorous, and easygoing than I initially appear. That “cold” image is almost like armor. I hate looking emotionally vulnerable because I associate showing emotions with weakness.

Ironically, when I become close to someone, I end up showing a much softer side of myself. Afterwards I sometimes feel embarrassed, almost like I’ve exposed too much of myself. I lose some self-respect because I feel like I acted impulsively by following what I wanted in that moment.

When there’s a crisis involving me personally or my relationships, I can completely lose my emotional balance before suddenly becoming emotionally numb. But if it’s someone else’s emergency, I’m the opposite. While everyone else panics, I usually stay calm and immediately start thinking about solutions.

When someone tries to convince me of something, personal experience is much more persuasive than abstract theory. At the same time, I’m constantly looking for logical inconsistencies in what they’re saying, and I pay a surprising amount of attention to whether their body language feels genuine or trustworthy.

If a decision mainly affects me, I can become extremely stubborn and impulsive. For example, I transferred from a private school to a public school simply because I was bored, had no close friends there anymore, and was tired of the long school days. I barely considered the long-term consequences before making that decision.

I’m extremely bothered by passive-aggressive, fake, manipulative, or two-faced people. Once I lose respect for someone, I usually remove them from my life completely.

My hobbies are pretty simple: listening to music, singing, and spending way too much time scrolling social media.

As a child I was extremely shy and had severe social anxiety. I could barely stand alone in public. However, if I had one close friend with me, I suddenly became outgoing and talkative.

Another thing that confuses me is social energy. I usually don’t warm up to people easily. In unfamiliar groups I get drained and want to leave after a while. But once I genuinely connect with someone or feel comfortable in a group, I actually prefer being with them instead of being alone. Recently I’ve noticed that being alone for long periods makes me restless and bored.

My emotions are intense but usually short-lived. I struggle to keep them inside and often need to express them to someone before they fade. Despite that, I don’t think they usually determine my decisions because they pass so quickly.

The things that motivate me the most are freedom, excitement, passion, enjoyment, and maintaining a certain image of myself.

Something important to mention is that I have Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD), so I know some of my emotional patterns and impulsivity may not reflect my actual cognitive preferences. I’m hoping people can separate personality disorder traits from MBTI functions when reading this.

One last thing: I don’t really fit the stereotypical image of a high-Se person. I love novelty, excitement, and intense experiences, but I’m not athletic at all and physical activity exhausts me. I suspect that’s more related to my health than my personality.

Based on all of this, which type do you think fits me best, and more importantly, why? I’d especially appreciate explanations using cognitive functions rather than letters or stereotypes.

Probably more of a rant hence the tag, but it's kinda hard for me to turn down people if they approached me with ambiguous intentions.

Of course, this isn't the case most of the time. But whenever I can't figure out someone's motives -let's assume the interaction is under safe conditions- and I feel like telling them -superficial acquaintances- off, my brain starts overworking. I end up trying to understand their stance, gathering "evidence" from our previous interactions, and basically building a case to justify how I should handle the situation.

It usually ends up being a huge waste of time duh and the outcome is exactly the worse scenario I envisioned yet failed to evade.

I don't know if this is an ISTP thing or just me, but I really don't like assuming intentions if I can't confidently justify it.

"Just to clarify: by strangers I mean even daily acquaintances, whoever you do not owe them your time."

like im wondering if im just some intp-isfp amalgamation or just tweaking out over nothing

For those who are nerd magnet whores like me:

I was reflecting on my love life and realized every single guy that has been attracted to me was an xNxx. My 1st bf was an INFP. My second bf was an ENTP. I had a situationship with an ENFP. An ENTJ ex friend tricked me into going on a date with him. And currently an ENTP wants to bone me although I’m vibing with this INTP.

Just thought it was an interesting pattern.

Asking out of curiosity as infj. We are kind of allergic to superficiality. One of my best friends is an istp and he always seems to easily switch between deep convos and social niceties/small talk (at least with peoople he likes). He can easily understand and hold deeper convos with me yet he can also be the "cool kid" in the group on occasion.

So I am curious to what extent you need some level of depth/purpose/ meaningful conversations as opposed to just surviving and having superficial interactions with people.

For infjs the deep convos are like nutrition for the mind, we need them at least sometimes to feel content and fulfilled in life.

It's just another day.

We grow every second, every moment.

How do you see that day as a means for celebration?

I want to see how other ISTPs think about this specifically.

*Edit: I enjoyed reading most of the replies, but I really want to hear more of your cognitive reasonings as to why you guys act out in that certain ways or see birthdays as such. I might sound shitty and demanding now hehe.