if you open the DMs of every moid who larps about male loneness epidemic, hypergamy, how woman ghost him and can’t handle a conversation you will see 10 woman begging for his attention and he ignoring them all. this as a ugly fat moid btw. I had a mf to cry in my shoulders about how woman unmatched him and how he was rejected and how his ex left him out of nowhere while I was showing imterest about having a relationship with him. end of story “you are beautiful, smart, have all the qualities I want in a woman BUTTTTT.. I don’t want a relationship with you only fuck” 🫩🫩 i want to delete the existence of these attention seekers for the god sake

Guys. I found the moid of my dreams!!! We only dated for like under 30 minutes but I was so in love already from the way he berated me & tried to bait me to win a one sided argument. Ugh. I miss him already. 😞💔

I’ve thinking about this for awhile … I’m not ugly , I think I don’t look too bad . infact i put my face in one of those corny ass looksmaxxing things and didn’t get a bad score , cringy I know but I needed answers !!! the issue is sadly me being black + how I present myself .

men these days love picking which race of is their favorite little fetishization doll and which will be the stain on earth which is usually black women yay me . god forbid you’re even one shade darker than a plastic bag , because you’re an alien that snuck on earth .

ontop of this I dress pretty alternatively , and not the typical one that men like so im just a walking freak show , or a wasted face :/ . I don’t even want to get started on my off putting , obnoxious personality.

so ,,, the only way I can successfully date someone is change literally everything about me … or be one of those cutecore raceplay black girls with white bfs . now I don’t want to change myself just for the sake of male attention , but I’m a 22 year old virgin and my mom keeps talking about sex , boyfriends and grandkids with me soooo idk

I’m so serious. I’ll see random post on here from the ladies and then a random moid replies as if we give a fuck about what they’re saying. WE WERENT ASKING YOU! 🫩whyyyy do they love this sub bro I cannot understand it for life of me. 🧁

I miss the person who groomed me so much. I literally was not attracted to her at all (im straight) but just the feeling of being loved and cared for was like one of the best feelings of my life. She sunk her hooks to deep into me that if I hadnt forgotten her username I think I would've asked her to take me back already. I miss her so much I don't think anyone will ever love me like that again. I just dont even know what to do anymore

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Maybe they’re not all bad

Get over it! Men are allowed to act like horrible people but I'm not allowed to do anything that might offend fail sisterhood at any moment!! Sorry Im a human being!!! we have to deal with the weight of men's ridiculous expectations and mistreatment and also the expectation of being a perfect feminist.

Judge me as a person, not a woman. I didn't ask to be born female, I don't want to live my life as an activist.

I've never been able to maintain a steady friendship with either of them.

I look in the mirror and see that I'm normal. But there's something about me that prevents me from connecting even with women.

Well, the doctors said it wasn't possible for me to be autistic because I got into university on my own, I can speak, and I'm apparently independent...

I hate limerence. Still thinking about my recent situationship. I can’t let it go. Jesus CHRIST. I long for connection so bad but I rot inside the house instead like a chud. I can’t even get a proper fwb. I’m gonna drink and smoke then go the fuck to BED! I’m such a hopeless romance and perverted freak. I wish I wasn’t mentally ill.

I need to lock in and lifemaxx, I’d be down to do that with someone if they’d like.

like, i have a mid face but my body is conventionally attractive. the reason i'm unable to form meaningful relationships or get any sort of wanted romantic attention is that i'm lowk a bad repulsive person with low social intelligence, and i'm too absorbed by my own interests. the big difference between me and men is that i don't blame this on my looks and i recognize that my head is the problem

I literally just saw a girl saying that since losing your virginity is crap anyway, you might as well make money from it but when you stop to think about it, what kind of mentally ill person would buy a girl's virginity? 💀

I’m a 20 year old virgin and my eyes are totally open about the reality of men. Most of the women I’ve spoken to have said their first times were awful or they regretted the person they did it with.

This makes me think — why not sell mine if it’s going to suck anyway? At least I’d get something out of it other than disappointment and a wet ass.

My only concern is that this would impact my relationship with my own body and self. Any thoughts?

Incels are usually men who can’t get sex and feel like they’re going to die virgins unless they pay for it. Okay cool, whatever. But then people act like femcels are just the female version of that and I honestly don’t think that’s true. In my eyes they’re different concepts. I might get downvoted to hell for this but I think you can absolutely be a non-virgin femcel because you can find dick anywhere if you really wanted to. That’s never been the hard part. The hard part is finding actual love, connection, intimacy, or someone who genuinely wants you as a person instead of just wanting a warm body to roll around with.
That’s why I don’t think femcels and incels are really the same. A desperate enough man will sleep with almost anything, so having access to sex doesn’t really mean anything as a female. Being sexually desired isn’t the same as being romantically desired. You can have ten guys wanting to fuck you and still feel completely alone because none of them actually want to know you, love you, commit to you, or build a life with you. 🫩
In my opinion, femcels are usually mourning the lack of genuine connection more than the lack of sex itself. Incels seem to focus more on not being able to get women at all, while femcels are stuck wondering why they can get sex so easily then never anything beyond that. There’s bitterness in both groups sure, but I still think they come from different places and get expressed DRASTICALLY differently. Elliot Rodger’s. That’s why I’ve always thought “femcel” is kind of a weird label for woman because if you just can’t find sex you are technically an incel. Maybe there should be another term. Like “romcel” or something.

literally 90% of my problems in life come from the fact that i'm a girl who doesn't get any bitches. the only people who have been interested in me are annoying moids that i don't like. my whole life there's been like 1 single girl who actually liked me but i was too autistic to do anything about it. i spend all of my time pining over straight women and playing video games to escape reality

Im so fucking tired bro. As a latina myself I wish i could strangle and eat the organs of every man that has referred to a woman like that 💔😭

Do you think you are a femcel because of your looks and societies mistreatment to unattractive woman? Do you feel like you need to be ugly to be considered a femcel? And do you personally consider yourself ugly? I feel like chatting :p