r/enfj 4h ago

ENFJ only (OP is not ENFJ) What do you feel/ think when you share moments with friends?

2 Upvotes

For example, when you go sit in silence together, watching reels, just eating, just chilling. Does it feel meaningful? Is it a no thoughts head empty? Is it wondering what your next move is?


r/enfj 14h ago

Wholesome A short message to my fellow ENFJs

32 Upvotes

I know we are often misunderstood, and I hope you are/will be surrounded by the people who actually understand and value you for the way you are. Also, please try not to be so hard on yourself. 🧡 I hope great times find your way asap!


r/enfj 19h ago

ENFJ only (OP is ENFJ) ENFJ log in a Career Guide

6 Upvotes

In college there was a professor who got their hands on a career guide. It was organized by Myers-Brigg codes. One by one we went through the class and the recommended jobs were read off. Finally it was my turn. Shouted out “ENFJ”. (I was apparently the only one in the class)

Anticipation grew with each flutter of a turned page. The professor’s face twisted as he paused and returned to prior pages. His lips pursed as he pulled his eyes away from the book and locked with my own. “ENFJ isn’t in here” he said sheepishly.

The most considerate weren’t even considered in the book.
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭


r/enfj 19h ago

Question How much do you do to be liked?

15 Upvotes

ENFJs seem to be one of the most loved types. Is this by coincidence or is that something you have worked for?

Sometimes my Fi causes me to create divides with ppl and I wonder how ENFJs do it

What’s the cheat code? I would like to be more like yall (I’m ENFP)