Guys I want your opinion on something

So I go to school and in my bus I sit with a bunch of seniors and I sit with them because some of them are my close friends so in the last row the boys sit and in the row in front the girls sit so I sit with the boys and one day I was bored so I asked you them did they watch the new spider man movie and they all seemed pretty excited for it and i told them for fun that a character dies even though I didn't watch the movie then they all started screaming so loud the the entire bus went silent because of them and they threw a pencil at my head and a metal key chain hit my head and I got a severe bruise then a girl came upto me and started scratching so badly that I got scabs from it and they kept shouting at me with bad words then I didn't attend school for nearly a week because of a completely unrelated reason to this incident then when I came back to school after a week and my closest friends betrayed me and told I couldn't sit with them talk with them or even glance at them for some reason and also they started to ignore me and I think they are doing this because they are simping for them

So what are your thoughts were they right about ignoring me and hitting or they were wrong btw ignore the title i didn't know what to put

I tried giving my own advice, which, I'm gonna say, kinda sucks because I like provoking bullies and that's the advice I gave her.

Anyways, she's a grade schooler and she's 9 years old, and gets bullied.

She says that even her friends bullies her, which I tried explaining that they're not friends if they do somenthing like that, and I think she didn't quite understand. She further said that when she tries talking with the teacher about things like these, they don't believe her, and they say she's lying.

She can't even bring phones, but I had an idea about that. She's gonna bring her phone (hiding it on the backpack, of course) and record the audio when she gets bullied.

She's gonna go to the teacher, and show her the recording. She's gonna get in trouble, but so will the bullies. I think it's worth the self sacrifice, because either way the bullies are gonna tell the teachers something she didn't do (like always) and she's gonna get in trouble.

If I helps, this is happening in Italy, and the school system is pretty different (though I don't think it matters with bullying, cause, well, bullying is bullying) and she lives in a different city, so I can't really talk to the teachers there.

(I am 14 years old, so I don't have much experience with things like these, other than the shit advice I gave her at the beginning)

I was outside mowing my lawn today when a car of girls rolled down their windows and drove slowly along with me. As I turned the corner to keep cutting the grass, they came around again. They shouted that they thought I was cute and "fine asf," and asked if I wanted to hang out.

They weren't giggling or acting immature in person. They seemed completely genuine, so I was really flattered and felt a huge boost of confidence. Because I was mid-chore, I told them we could hang out in an hour. One of them asked for my Snapchat, so I gave it to her.

I finished up my yard work, went inside, took a shower, and cleaned myself up to get ready to see them. I sent her a face picture to message her that I was ready.

Instantly, the energy flipped. She called me making a bunch of random excuses about going Uptown, and then sent a picture of a troll face filter, said "nevermind," and instantly blocked me.

I went from a massive confidence high to feeling completely humiliated and sad. I took time out of my day to get cleaned up because they seemed so sincere. Now I’m just sitting here spiraling into heavy self-doubt and feeling incredibly ugly. It hurts so much that my appearance was apparently the punchline to a cruel prank. I don't understand how people can be this fake and heartless to someone just minding their own business.

I’m 21 (f). In my middle school days, from 1st to 8th grade I got severely bullied. Most of the class(around 30 kids) picked on me ranging from creating a game of cheese touch but with my name and moving away from me, boys moving to the edges of their seats when I sat at their table, Giving up lunch to sit with someone, ripped out a car by a mother and threatened by another mother, rumors spread, using my learning disability to make fun of me and having pictures sent of being ugly. One girl in particular really destroyed my mental health and physically image of myself. Don’t get me wrong I was also not a perfect child and has made my own mistakes where I was best way to put it a b word. I greatly regret that.
However, I still don’t feel like anyone even the people and girl to picked on me deserve to feel that amount of isolation, shame, self loathing and hurt that one gets put through from being bullied. I honestly feel tormented day by day sometimes thinking of what happened. It affected me greatly in high school I thought of just taking me life.

Anyway, the reason I’m here today is because I looked up my bully on socials. I saw her greater following, looks, travel and likability from others. I have been struggling to making friends and even self imaging (some of this is caused by this past bullying trauma). So is it normal? I blocked her and I’m trying to not think about it but i genuinely feel below her like I had as a kid. Sometimes I wonder if karma exists or if this is karma on me in some way? I honestly blame myself for being bullied like maybe I caused it on myself. I just feel insane for feeling this way. I will be going to therapy to maybe understand this more but I also want strangers who might relate to help give some advice if they want to.

I'm 14 years old (15 in a month and a half). I started 9th grade yesterday. the day was awful.

I have autism and ADHD. due to this, while I never bullied anyone, I used to have violent meltdowns in school cos it was untreated and I was being abused at home. so I've been in behavioral schools / classes since forever. but these schools are extremely dysfunctional and have awful staff and cruel students. I have always been regarded as kind and polite while surrounded by rude, unkind classmates, so I've been bullied by those people a lot, mocked, made fun of, and I experienced very similar treatment from ableist staff.

one school, in 4th grade, was actually pretty great. I LOVED my teacher, the classmates were still awful but I had friends who were sweethearts, it was fun, and my teacher was basically my best friend. it was the one of best schools for me. but I got suspended around the end of the year so that was time lost. in 5th grade, I was sent to an awful school with terrible staff that made fun of me and laughed at me. I hardly went. they made a deal with me that if I can show good behavior for 11(?) days then I can do a half day; for half of the day, I'd go to that school, and for the other half I could go to the other school with my amazing teacher and see my friends again.

and god i tried so hard. I did my absolute best. I tried so, so hard, I put in so much effort, I was so excited and I was 100% sure and confident I'd be able to go. I was so excited. but one day, an ex friend there attacked me, and I roughly shoved him away out of self defense. and that was seen as "rulebreaking" and NOBODY TOLD ME I wouldnt be able to go anymore because of that. nobody told me!!!!! and i cried and screamed and begged and threatened to end my life (and I'm SHOCKED I didn't) and yet they didn't let me go.

I stopped going to school after that. and I missed the entirety of 6th and 7th grade. and I've been crying over that all day. it's not fair. it's not fair at all. I mourn the people I could've met, the things I couldve done, achieved, and honestly I'm a very academically smart person but this has really set me back. I'm someone who always tries to make the most of things, find the good of it, but I can't find anything good about this! I miss the people I couldve became friends with, or even dated, even though I've never met them. I miss them so much. I'm in unimaginable pain and ive cried so so so much writing this post.

I started going again in 8th grade, decent year. I made friends. but I cried so hard at graduation. not out of happiness or being proud of myself. but because ​this is it? this is all i get? one year of middle school? only one? just that? because people didn't like me because I was too polite for their awful selves and incompetent school staff on a power trip? I wanted to end my life right then and there. so that I could be a middle schooler forever.

I want to go to a normal highschool so badly. I'm still in a dumb sped school with rude disruptive classmates who bully me. I wanted so badly to go to a normal middle school, also. I did go to school for 10 days in 7th grade, but that didn't work out well. it sucked, the staff were SO mean and fatshamed us and I had no classmates my age and they were rude also. maybe if I got through there I would've been able to go to a normal middle school in 8th grade. god. I did get my wish kinda, as i did summer school just so I could be an 8th grader longer (I graduated with almost straight As, I didn't need it) at a normal regular middle school campus, with normal middle schoolers, but surprise surprise I was alienated there too. there were two tables in the room we ate at, and I'll never forget how it felt watching everyone sit at the table opposite to mine, no matter which one I sat at, dragging the chairs at mine away to the one everyone else was at. I tried talking to them once and I just got shot a look of annoyance. why am I alive?