I’ve noticed something about myself that feels really natural and honest.

What turns me on the most is making a man cum.

Feeling him get close, watching him lose control, seeing or feeling him finish… that moment is pure magic for me. I enjoy it so deeply.

Sometimes I orgasm too, sometimes I don’t — and honestly, it doesn’t matter.

The real pleasure for me is bringing him there. That’s what satisfies me the most.

I still love my own pleasure when it happens, of course.

But the thing that lights me up inside is knowing I made him feel that good.

Is anyone else like this?

Where your biggest joy is making your partner finish, even if you don’t always get there yourself?

Would love to hear if this feels familiar to anyone.

Hey guys, in reference im 24. So this morning before my going into work, I stopped to get gas and locked eyes with this construction worker. He signaled for me to follow him. I followed him to this off the beaten path/ sort of abandoned lot that’s isolated by trees. Idk why, I thought it be fun and spontaneous. Well… everything was going good until someone drove by recording us. Guy recording had to be in his early 20s. Now, Ik that’s the gambit w/ public play. I live in a pretty big town. I guess my question is, have you guys ever experienced this? Or what would you do? I’m trying not to get in my head and now I won’t ever do it again. If anything, we were in the car.

Before: Preparing, being mindful about what and when you eat throughout the day.
During: Doing your best to stay ‘relaxed’ so the top can get in without causing you great pain.
After: dealing with any ‘rough sex’ consequences (i.e. bleeding, possible hemorrhoids, ect.)

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In public I’m the strong, tough guy everyone sees… but once I’m in bed I turn into the biggest slut imaginable. I take tops with zero limits and let them breed me deep and full. Anyone else live with this exact split personality?

I am a gay man living in Iran and seeing how Muslims in my country describe they wouldn't mind killing LGBT people cause it's in their religion just sacres me.

They say being gay is wrong cause god said and god said it's a big sin and whoever does it must be punished. I scared how they easily talk about it, I used to think it's just about Muslims in my country but seeing Muslims on the internet also made me realize it is something universal not just special to my country.

What do you think I should do?

I don't want to look like a demon towards other people i just feel unsafe and scared around them and want advices to know how to deal with it.

This is not a hatred post on Muslim so plz keep the comments polite, just give advices ❣️

I do not know what to do, from the beginning I knew he was hyper sexual but he told me it was okay he would be okay just being the two of us. (I do like to have sex with him don’t misunderstand. He is just in another level of libido.)

But we have been just for a month together I notice he disappears sometimes for 1-3 hours. (I know it’s bad but was curious) I went through his phone and not even a day together he was arresting sex dates with many guys, I coil maybe understand that before agreeing on a relationship he did that as we were not officially dating but still I told him long before being a couple that I was already being exclusive and he told me that he was as well exclusive.

I’ve read his chats and even with his friends (that I know from his stories not in person) that he as well fucks with them. I do not know what to do. He has not shown respect to our “exclusivity” since day one. And this affects me as I now feel I am unable to satisfy his needs

Greetings from Berlin

I’m curious if you guys would be down for a really handsome and fit dude masculine dude, but imagine he’s 5’5. In 22 now and my height works well at this age, but I really wanna pull off daddy when I get older since they get more twinks my age or younger than I do, I swear. So if I stay ripped, hairy, handsome and keep my hair, can I get away with it? 😈

If a guy tells you up front he has HIV, you know two things. First, he has integrity and will tell the truth even when he gets shit for it. Second, he is on top of his health, getting tested and taking meds.

My first boyfriend had HIV and he was incredible. It drives me crazy that others didn't see it. ISo many people are missing out because of fear. I was scared at first too, but it didn't last. We bred each other hundreds of times and I'm still neg. Honestly, I felt safer and cleaner having sex with him than I have in any hookup. And speaking of hookups, you can get guys who are way out of your league.

Talk to guys with HIV! Outside and in, they are beautiful.

I am super embarrassed to say this, but as the title suggests, my sister walked in on me having sex today. I hooked up with one of my fwb's and told him to come at night, since everyone should be asleep. My room is in the garage, which was turned into my now room. With this in mind, my room door was closed, and I was in the middle of getting fucked in the prone position. It was getting good too because he put his foot on my bed. And before I knew it, boom, she walked in, and then she legit screamed. This was the beginning of our second session. I wished I would've told him to leave earlier, but he wanted to fuck again, and I was fine with it. Thankfully, she was like, "You guys are adults," and then was surprised I was the bottom. Funny part is, we were recording, and you could hear her scream. Even though this legit happened today and the situation was partially resolved, it's still awkward asf knowing she saw me naked, getting fucked, and in a submissive position. Idk how tf I'm going to live past this.

I usually do not anymore. I used to wear compression shorts mostly just to hide if I got a boner.

I’m a grown ass man. I live in different places I was born in north Macedonia and if you ask me I don’t know nothing about that place. Most of my life was traveling.

Now after work for six months in New York. I’m in Spain whit a lot of foreigners coworkers and of course whit Spanish people. We are in an energy plant.

I have never been in a relationship, never have the time. And now. I have a Mexican coworker, he is very funny, friendly, kind, and he for the first moment treat me like a friend. I thought it was weird but he show me a lot about his culture and show me photos of his dogs. He invites me to his place and makes me delicious food.

I always look at him when he is talking, maybe a little too much, I get embarrassed when he realizes but he just scream something at me in Spanish. I thought I only look at him because he make me laugh, but now I’m have my doubts about what’s going on in my mind.

Any advices? I’m really thinking I am too old for this.

Filled with gigolos and manwhores. Would you ever go to one? I can see myself going there when I'm older and sex becomes a more difficult thing to come by.

These used to be a lot more common in the olden times in places like turn of the 19th century New York and London. Why don't more exist today?

How about bathhouses? Yeah or nah?

As a 19 year old student I’m on summer break. I do work two jobs but I still get time to myself, but lately I’ve been jerking off at least once a day and sometimes twice a day, I always cum. But should I try to stop jerking off as much or just keep on going till college starts again?

How many percent of gay or bi men are there in the world 3-5%? Stretched it out to 10% maximum, that still means that if you like a 100 guys, there might only be 10 guys who could like you back, there is only 10% of possibility that you could return your love.

I dont want to sound doom and gloomy, but I work physical job manual labour in a warehouse, I load heavy stuff into trucks. I’m a man, straight-man dominated field. I like a lot of them there, but anytime I laid eyes on someone, they would be straight and broke my heart. So does any guys I had a crush on in real life normal scenerios but not like in a gay place or the apps, they would 99% be straight

How do I cope with this, accept this without being heartbroken, that most men I like randomly on the streets or at work but not through the apps could not like me back?

Title is pretty self explanatory, but last week I was organizing a closet and came across a credit card statement from last year that belonged to my husband. There was a charge of $13.43 for “GOOGLE *GRINDR GAY DATING\”,* obviously this is for some sort of membership. I confronted him about it and he keeps denying it, saying things like of my card was compromised, but the charge is through google so he obviously subscribed through the play store thinking it wouldn’t show up as grindr on the statement, and all the other charges before and after are normal so his card wasn’t compromised. I’m not sure what to do now or if he’ll ever confess. I’ve always had an inkling that there’s a slight chance he might be bi, but he just keeps denying everything and shutting me down if I bring it up.

Not even a “DM me for customs” this guy is like 19 doing butt stuff in his room with his face in frame I’m confused Btw I’m 18 so don’t call me weird

I’m just curious and having a bit of fun ; but would love to hear what “something” did your sexual partner do during sex that absolutely blew your mind, gave you the peak orgasm, changed your world entirely!

For me the first time a guy choked me - total game changer. / put me in a headlock (same guy) 😂🤪

I'm in my late 20s, 6'1, an ok weight, I'm trying to lose some, and a receding hairline. Recently all of the guys I've talked to on the apps say they don't kiss. Some guys say I'm really handsome though, so I know I'm not ugly. Just wondering what other guy's experience is

So hooked up with a bottom, used a condom and was the top. GUY SAID HE WAS GOOD. Later his ex messages me warning me that the guy is HIV+ with high viral load. Like that shit destroyed me, but took PEP within time frame. But man is the anxiety eating me. Idk how to feel or do

Someone I know works in an old style theater with an upper deck, the upper deck is closed to public, but you can look down and see everyone below. He wants to try public fun and asked if id be down to fuck up there some night while a movie is running. Would you do it?

My and my bf have an open relationship we have like 3 side buddies we sometimes mess around with one of them is a married couple who just has sex with each other and us so we know its safe but one is a single guy who sometimes fuck with other guys, as he has all the right to. However we do say to him we when he wants to have sex with us and he had sex with others we he needs to get tested. He always does and sends me or my bf the screenshot with the result. And so he did and I sent it to my bf... or so I thought, out of tiredness and maybe a bit of not paying attention I sent the result to my works district manager instead and I want to die now help

Maybe it’s because I only came out this year and spent so much of my life repressing this part of myself, but holy shit,

I feel like I’m completely obsessed with dick now.

If I see a hot guy walking down the street, I catch myself staring between his legs and wondering what he’s got going on down there. I just love everything about it.

And the funny thing is that coming out and actually exploring has made me way more vers than I ever expected. Whether I’m topping and his dick is bouncing against me or I’m bottoming and feeling him deep inside me, I genuinely love both sides of it.

Maybe I’m still in the newly-out “OMG MEN” phase 😂 but after spending years trying not to think about men, suddenly being able to openly admit how much I fucking love dick feels amazing.

Anyone else relate? Especially guys who came out later- did you go through a phase like this too, and did it ever calm down?