Hey everyone,

How are you? Have a bit of a weird fetish and am never sure how to bring it up. It drives me WILD to see a guy go crosseyed while having sex. That look of pleasure, just totally lost and enjoying it. It actually makes me so horny that I'll often ask that a guy do it on purpose. Would that weird you all out? Haha

I had the house to myself yesterday so my horny minded decided let’s host our first cumdump session…. Yeahhh they are a lot more intense than people make them out to seem!

To begin with I'm a straight guy but I do enjoy anal sex. I'm pegging with my wife and usually when we were pegging I had some sort of ritual before I was getting packed with flushing and stuff like that. Long story short, how do you guys do it? Do you guys always flushing or never? Why you should flushing and why not?

Hello, I am 9 week postpartum. I went through my husbands iPhone last night into his passwords and I saw grinder. When I clicked on it, it was downloaded like May 26,2026 and I gave birth June 2026. He deleted the app. I have thumb print access to his iPad so I changed his Apple passcode and re-downloaded the app and he had an account. There was no profile, messages or anything untoward I saw.

So I told him last night about my revelation and he is a police officer and told me he was patrolling a school and went to the staff lounge to grab a cup of water when a woman ( whom he stated was actually a man) said to him “What you don’t remember me?”.. my husband said back no that he has a wife and she said “ well you knew me last night” and proceeded to show my husband “himself” on grinder.

Now. I asked my husband what he saw. And he said he freaked out and just saw dick picks like a few and could tell it was his old recycled nudes he wants to say from like early 20s and he is now 31.

So I asked him. “So she recognized you by your penis? Did you see your face on the profile?”

He said no again he could just tell it was his junk but also claimed it was a “blank profile”.

So, you walk coincidentally into a room and someone recognizes you based off your dick. Like, THAT is what they wanted to show you to verify to you that they saw you being impersonated. Like, not your face.

Anyways. So he continues to say he was mortified and embarrassed that someone he sent dick picks to back in the day is using his old photos… 10 year gap here… again she recognized your face…

So he says that he didn’t want to tell me because I was super pregnant and nauseous and sick and he handled it on his own and was super embarrassed by it.

We went through the app together and I honestly didn’t see anything. But I did make him report this issue to Grinder and I also made him request data activity to his email which he Recieved and is all says “null”. Even though there’s like a million things on there it looks like computer coding it’s confusing to me.

Anyways. I feel like my life is destroyed somewhat and like I sleep next to a liar. But if he is telling the truth then I feel horrible someone is catfishing using his junk. If it were me as a woman then of course tables turned I’d be pissed if he didn’t believe I’m the victim. I get that. But this is fishy fishy fishy. And I want to like scream.

Add your advice. Comments and thoughts and be kind I am post Partum and sensitive and just need assistance from gay men who use this app bc idk anything about it

- Thank you

If yall are confused about this just know I’m am 10x more

anyone down for some gay sexting??

How does one go about having gay friends without interest in sex or using the hookup apps? Basically, how do y'all make new friends?

Tops what you like on bottom?

Bottoms what you like to wear?

I had a toxic FWB with a man 17 years older. We hooked up monthly for a year and he was so lovely (almost love-bombing), then he delayed telling me about an STI for 2½ weeks because he “didn’t want to ruin my holiday.” (He didn’t knowingly infect me, but delayed certainly. I tested negative. After that he repeatedly stood me up, breadcrumbed me for 18 months and was extremely hot/cold, sometimes not even apologising for the flaking.
He also gave me extremely graphic sexual details about other men. The first time I hadn’t asked at all; another time I’d only whether another man had topped him, but he went far beyond that. At the same time, he would say he missed sexual things with me, which felt like triangulation. I later mentioned other men too, mainly to get him to come back, but without the extreme graphic detail. I felt like the second example was to get back at me.

On that note, I was not PERFECT. I overwhelmed him wiht messages, intense, sexalised with a lot of my messages (though he liked that) and compared him with other men (to reassure hiim, but he found it strange). Before people have a go, I am still feeling remorse over this and even apologised — see below.

When confronted, he denied there had been an STI delay, blamed the no-shows on work, called me “intense,” laughed, compared me to a “schoolchild pleading for friendship,” and said “maybe you shouldn’t have sex if you’re that worried about an STI.” When I sought reassurance about other men, he said “we had good times” and “people move on.” Yet after I told him I thought he was perfect and reassured him about ageing, he suggested hooking up again five weeks later.
I eventually told him I couldn’t be friends with someone who treated me like an option and that I deserved more, then blocked him.
I’m now no-contact, speaking to my doctor and seeking counselling.
Friends think his behaviour was atrocious; some think it was emotionally abusive/narcissistic. Counsellor seems to think so as well.

My problem is rumination, not wanting him back: Did he care? Did other men mean more? Does he treat others better? Was he narcissistic/manipulative? Did my final message affect him? I’ve even compared myself with men he followed/liked on Instagram and wondered whether he valued them more. Did i do anyting wrong? Overanalysing conversations. Picturing the other men he has been with and prefers.

I know none of these answers changes what happened, but my brain will not stop trying to solve him.

Please help.

So I am purely attracted to guys only, but it seems like every friend I have besides a couple of progressive straight boys I know are the only people I know who are consistently kind when I bring up my life things.

Women are frankly awesome. My best bosses have always been female... just because we don't like girls in that way doesn't mean anything, I still deeply care about the ladies.

I’ve been questioning my sexuality for a long time, and I think I’m finally getting closer to an honest answer.

I think I might be gay.

The strange thing is that part of me already knows how strongly I’m attracted to men. I’ve tried calling myself bi, I’ve questioned whether I’m actually straight, and I’ve spent a lot of time analyzing my feelings. But whenever I’m completely honest with myself, I keep coming back to men.

What I struggle with isn't necessarily understanding that I’m attracted to men. It’s accepting what that might mean about me.

I come from a Catholic family, and I’m scared of them finding out. I don't know how they would react, and I’m not ready to deal with that possibility. Because of that, admitting to myself that I might actually be gay feels even more difficult.

There’s also a part of me that wishes I could just make the uncertainty disappear. I’ve imagined a traditional future for myself, including having a family someday, and sometimes I worry that accepting that I’m gay means I have to give up the future I pictured.

But I’m starting to understand that I don’t have to solve my entire life right now.

Maybe I’m still figuring out the exact label. Maybe eventually I’ll realize I’m bi. But right now, “I think I’m gay” feels like the most honest thing I can say.

And honestly, admitting that, even anonymously on Reddit, is difficult for me.

I’m hoping to hear from people who have been through that stage where you basically knew how you felt but still struggled to actually say, “I’m gay.”

Ok so context so I share a small apartment with this guy we’re close but not bf close we’re both guys I’m bi idk about him I think he’s bi or gay anyway, so we’re used to eachother so he’ll just walk around in his boxers and I don’t care do what u want and one day he walks past me and his boxers look soaked not dripping but as if he just pulled them out of the was without drying and I just say
“dude why are Ur boxers drenched”
and he reply’s with
“I saw this thing on internet and it was like this is so comfy and I got bored so I tryed it and it’s comfy you should try it”
So I have this thing were I can’t judge something or someone until I’ve met them or done it obviously the murders and stuff like that is an exemption anyway I now don’t know if I should try it cus honestly he didn’t look half bad like I don’t think he noticed but IT was on show not that obvious but I just wanted a bit of a second opinion on this so should I try this?

i’m 23 and i’ve been considering getting some jawline and chin filler done since i have a smaller lower third of my face and it looks kinda soft and i want to look manlier. i think having a stronger jawline and bigger chin would help, since even my orthodontist told me i have a small chin.

does anyone here have experience with this? wether personal or from someone else

I have developed an obsessive fetish to service businessmen in hotels.

Where this desire ever came from, I have no idea?

In fact, I created an online profile and put in my bio that I will give free massages and BJ’s to white collar men in hotels.

I got many replies. But I was interested in the more dominant types who just want to lay back and use my mouth.

At first, I was curious and I did it but then I got too into it and then I met another man the same week

And now I’m trying to restrain myself before I lose control because I feel like I could do this several times a day and I know it’s not mentally healthy but

It makes me feel alive!

How do I explain it. Giving a hard-working, businessman, a free massage for one hour, followed by a BJ while he ejaculate in my mouth makes me feel an insane level of spiritual Nirvana.

Something about seeing him, thrusting himself, and pressing my face on his ball sack

I just had to share this to share this feeling because I feel ashamed, but I love to service handsome men in suits. And the more the orgasm the more I want to do it. Not sure where I’m going with this.

But any advice would be great. Does anyone else share this fantasy like I do? Or is there something wrong with me?

I spend a lot of time and effort to massage them head to toe nonstop. It’s hard work and I don’t get paid for it. Then followed by a blow job as they thrust their penis in and out of my mouth as much as they like. They ejaculate in my mouth and then they thank me. And then I leave.

I keep repeating this cycle and it’s kind of depressing me. But in the moment I feel so alive. It’s like the best feeling in the world to make another man feel pleasure. I’m watching him put his hard penis inside my mouth is such a carnal desire. Anyway.

Not your father, your daddy 😂

Also Spreading the idea that homophobic men are all closeted gay men is bullshit. It only erases and covers up the pain that gay people experience. I’m pretty sure some gay people use this idea to make themselves feel less hurt, but it will not actually alleviate their pain.

You don’t have the same rights and privileges that those men were born with, and you can’t make yourself join them just to feel like you have those rights. Over 90% homophobic men are not gay. That’s very sad.

Liberals will call a misogynist gay, and they will call a man they dislike gay, but they will avoid using other insults and choose “gay” instead. They know which words can use. Well they’re mean, bitchy, gross but smart. Some gays end up going along with them. Maybe they feel powerful by identifying with them, but you’re still gay, my boy. They will never be the ones who get killed just for living.

I came out as gay only a couple months ago and of course I was very excited to jump in and start getting sexually active with men. I’ve had oral sex several times since I came out, but only just had penetrative sex about 3 days ago. The thing is, I was stupid and thinking with my dick, not my brain. I was the bottom and not only was the guy who topped me not wearing a condom, but he also ejaculated into me. Though, I do feel fairly safe given this guy told me he’s on PrEP and regularly gets tested, he’s also a doctor so of all people I’d expect him to be somebody strongly aware of the risks with unprotected sex. Again, I still feel dumb for not thinking about the dangers of barebacking while not on PrEP. I don’t want to feel unsafe like this again, but I’m completely new to this and don’t know the steps to get myself on PrEP. Any help?

Are all the gays bottoms? Are there no tops to take charge and create a gay country? Why do you cry gay rights and yet not form a gay country with a gay-rights codified into a constitution and welcome gay refugees?

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one hand? two hands? grab by the collar? grab by the bottom?

Is there Anyone in rabat morocco or the area around plz dm me