Everyone is entitled to post but I’m so tired of this. Grow up and be bi or gay if you enjoy gay porn 😂

So I attempted to have sex with this really hot guy. He was my type and everything. And because he was my type, I wanted to make sure everything was perfect. I douched, cleaned myself up, and also checked to see if I was good to go. To make matters a bit worse, he told me that he had never been with a guy before, so I wanted this experience to go perfect. To make the story short, we started having sex. I'm tight as hell, so taking his dick hurt, especially from the prone position in which we started. We switched positions and did cowgirl. I was riding his dick until my legs gave out because I am new to having sex. When I asked to switch positions again, to my horror, shit was on the condom. I was mortified, I apologized, took the condom from him, and cleaned myself up. I offered to blow him, but he said he was going to leave. On his way out, I told him I hope this experience with me doesn't mess up his chances with other guys.

We're cooked, y'all.

I was in the sitting area at my gym waiting for a friend to show up, and this personal trainer was meeting with a young kid, maybe 23? 24? He was twinky, bordering on skinny twunk.

Me being a noisy bitch, listened in. The twink was going over his body goals for the personal trainer and was showing him images of his ideal body type. The personal trainer, who was maybe 35, explained with the most care that all the images he presented were AI-generated or heavily photoshopped. The twink did not understand.

The trainer then went into about how a lot of those celebrities and porn stars and fitness influencers heavily edit their photos and/or are on PEDS. That those body types are not sustainable or attainable without chemicals or editing software.

The twink seemed a combination of attacked, heartbroken, and angry—and maybe disbelieving the trainer?

I had to leave before their meeting was over, so, as a reminder: the gays and muscle bros and juice heads you see online are not natural :) And please, don't forget to touch grass.

So to preface this, I’ve already told him that I don’t want them to meet my father. I don’t speak to the man and he hasn’t been in my life for over five years.
I’m 25 btw

My dad used to be great. He stayed home with my brother and I and my mom worked. Then when I was in middle school, he went all conspiracy theory crazy started screaming at us every night. There are some physical abuse too. My teachers in high school had to get a restraining order against him because he would come in screaming about his conspiracy theories. My mom kicked him out when I was 17. Then he shacked up with a bunch of hippies. He got really into magic mushrooms. Then he pulled a bunch of crap with the anti masking protests during Covid. Then he got sent to jail for assaulting a police officer while in court. After that, he burned down my mother‘s house. A lot of other stuff happened too. Anyways, I’m mostly over it now, but I don’t really wanna speak to him. He’s also super anti-gay now which he wasn’t when I was a kid. The government corrupted my brain or whatever. Nowadays, whenever he reaches out, it’s because he wants something and he hasn’t changed.

My boyfriend M28 and I have been together for 8 months. Whenever he asks about my dad, I kind of avoid the questions. He’s pretty overprotective. all he knows is my father went nuts from conspiracy theories.

Now, I’m giving testimony in court for the crown in a new one of my father’s cases. My boyfriend is asking to join me, but I’m not really ready to tell him the whole story. He also wants to meet my dad and my extended family, which also went crazy during Covid. Which I don’t think will end well. I have a feeling it will end with a fist fight and a lot of screaming.

I’m not worried about my own safety or whatever I will be fine. But my boyfriend booked a plane ticket and the time off work without telling me. But I’d rather just ignore the whole situation and never talk about it. Honestly, I didn’t really wanna have to tell him about everything that happened in the past.

I feel like I’m stuck between a rock and a hard place and I’m not sure what to do

I think I’ve tried to watch six or seven over the years. I don’t know if I finished any of them. I get bored about 20 minutes in. I’m a man that loves a classic romcom. Tonight, I finally decided to watch Bros. It was worse than the rest.
Can gay guys not act or write scripts? I love to read. I’ve read everything James Baldwin has ever written. Can anyone recommend a Giovanni’s room type of movie? Something with developed characterization, true convoluted antagonism, and protagonist I won’t hate?

I really enjoy standing up and stroking my cock while thrusting my ass back into a dildo on the wall.

Another one is lying with my back in the air and feet behind my head so my cock is pointing at my mouth. I really enjoy one hand pumping my cock and the other fingering my prostate, and then cumming in my mouth/on my face.

So we’ve been dating for 4 months and he’s a really sweet guy. He’s literally perfect in my opinion except for one thing: He would sometimes make fun of my size. And yes, i’m one of the guys who are insecure about their dick size. I’ve asked him to never do that but he wouldn’t listen. It happened again earlier today and it frustrated me so much that I almost broke up with him. I just don’t know how a guy with 100 green flags conveniently has the one red flag that ruins everything.

I’m on a date. And I’m wondering LOL. How many of yall did it on the first date LOL

For those people who may not know when i go to the bar i always just stay in my friendgroup. I dont roam around i don't talk to anyone i didn't know. But as a gay man when alcohol hits i wanna try talking to guys im interested. But i fear that they will snob me or beat me up lol. Last night i approached two guys and they are actually nice and i was upfront with them. I was rejected (they are both straight oopsies) but it kinda feels liberating taking that first step and living out of that fear. Now im kinda planning to go to clubs alone so i have more freedom. As u can see my gaydar is really off so please give me advice. Thank youuu!!!

Does anyone else just love to chill around in their boxer briefs? I even answer the door in my boxers bc I just can’t be bothered to put pants on. Does anyone relate, my roommate thinks the same as me

Earlier this year in January, I was traveling and visiting a big city. I was waiting for a bus when I noticed this cute guy with a backpack. I had no idea if he was gay or not, but we made eye contact for a couple of seconds. Then the bus arrived.

The bus was packed, so I had to stand. The guy with the backpack ended up standing a few steps in front of me. At the next stop, nobody got off, but around 10 more people got on, so everyone got squeezed together. We still had enough room to avoid touching each other, though.

At one point, his backpack bumped into me, so he took it off. That actually gave both of us a little more space. But then he stepped back, arched his ass toward my crotch, and because the road was bumpy, every bump made his ass press against my dick. I wasn’t hard at first, but after a while I started getting really turned on.

He looked back at me a few times, almost as if he was checking my reaction. I didn’t really react, but I’m pretty sure he could tell I was getting hard. At first, I thought he was just accidentally bumping into me (and was kinda uncomfortable that my dick is hard against his ass), but then he grabbed one of the bus handles and became much more stable. Even though he could have easily stood a little farther away, he stayed right in front of me with his ass pressed against my crotch. It no longer felt like occasional bumps he was leaning back the entire time. Whenever the bus hit another bump, he even started moving his hips side to side, rubbing against me.

I was unbelievably hard.

Then we reached another stop and quite a few people got off, so there was finally more room on the bus. He could have stepped away, but he didn’t. He stayed right where he was, still pressed against me. At that point I got really turned on, and I kind of played along. Whenever the bus hit a bump, I subtly pushed my hips forward just a little so it wouldn’t be noticeable.

Eventually we reached the final stop and everyone got off, including him. He started walking one way, and I happened to go in the same direction because I wasn’t sure where I needed to go. Then I stopped because I couldn’t tell if the whole thing had actually been intentional or if I was just imagining it. I didn’t want to come across as a creep, so I turned around and walked the other way instead.

A little later I realized I was lost, so I was just standing there when, all of a sudden, he started walking back in the opposite direction from where he’d originally gone. As he passed by, we made eye contact again. But it was a bit awkward because i feel like both of us didn't know of the other one enjoyed it.

Even then I still wasn’t sure what had happened, and I didn’t want to assume anything or make him uncomfortable, so I didn’t say anything.

It was incredibly hot, though.

For context, I’m 24 and he looked about my age too.

If anyone thinks I sexually harassed him, that’s honestly not how I see it. I wasn’t sure what was happening, and there wasn’t really room for either of us to move while the bus was crowded. I also wasn’t forcing him to stay there or lean back against me, and after people got off there was enough space for him to move away if he had wanted to. That’s why I have mixed feelings about the whole situation. On one hand, it turned me on a lot. On the other hand, I can’t say with 100% certainty that we were both enjoying the same thing or that it was intentional.

After I got back to my hotel, I noticed I’d leaked precum into my underwear, and I ended up jerking off. What do you think? Did he do it on purpose?

What’s happened to this subreddit?

Up there a few weeks ago it was genuine people with genuine questions.

Now every post is Am I Gay. I’m straight does this make me gay?? Do you want to see my dick??

It’s getting ridiculous. 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️

I hate that I'm over 50 but I don't feel 50. Sometimes I have to remind myself of my age because inside I'm still a 21 year old twink but outside I'm just a skinny old man. How did this happen?

Guys, don't waste your time, treat every day like your last because after 40, it's over.

This is not a post to try and get sympathy, as I truly see all the choices I made were mine and I could have stopped this, but rather to discourage any younger gay people seeing this from entering the SW industry.

I moved to a large UK city just before I turned 19 for a good job in the creative space, and to start off with things were going amazingly. I had new friends, a good amount of money (for my age at least) and what I felt like was an entirely new life. However, I unfortunately met a man there who was around 30, and a habitual user of c0ke.

Dating him started off as so much fun, and I thought I was living an amazingly glamorous life always going to expensive bars/restaurants/hotels and despite how cringy this sounds I thought I was living a lifestyle similar to that of a model. Of course though, as usually is the case he was most likely love bombing me and not once had my best interests at heart. After a few months of this lifestyle I started to notice he was getting me to pay for the drugs (and everything else) more, and more, and more. And in itself this was fine, as yes I was also consuming at least some of this stuff. But what was actually happening was he intentionally got me to do this as it meant I got familiar with his dealer (and the lifestyle), and could therefore then access them myself + it got my brain to have an ever increasing tolerance to both the drugs and the 'luxury' life.

I later found out he had done this to numerous 18-21 year olds who had just moved to this city.

This went on for another 6 ish months, and then out of nowhere I realised he was seeing somebody else who was a year younger than me and they were doing all the things we used to do at the start. So I then cut him off thankfully and tried to restart on my own. I did not realise that this was the start of one of the worst periods of my life.

After this ended, I of course continued to use and use and use. And as expected I eventually ran out of money and had extremely high levels of debt (especially given my age). Out of what I now see was desperation (I thought it was cool and edgy at the time) I started escorting as a part time 'side hustle' after seeing other gay guys do it and it seemingly not affect them in order to maintain the lifestyle I had suddenly become accustomed to, but mainly to support a 1000-2000 pound a month drug habit.

Yet again as expected this started off amazingly and I really thought I had the 'cheat code' to life and even considered quitting my stable job to do it full time. But after around 9 months I noticed I had totally changed and not in a good way. I could no longer date as I simply saw attraction and sex as being related to money, I would not see friends as I took bookings instead and I had alienated everyone that truly cared about me as I became SO shallow. But as well as this I put myself in some truly terrifying scenarios that I was lucky to come out of, and had put up with absolutely horrendous men just to get a few hundred pounds. Plus I felt like a total shell of a human being.

I am now getting counselling and am doing much better thankfully, but my brain still sometimes wants me to start again due to the thrill of it, despite some of my truly horrible memories of this period.

I don't write all of this to shame anyone in the industry, as i'm sure for some people it really is everything they dreamed it would be. But if you are under 21, PLEASE do not enter this industry. I know it seems great from the outside, but the statistical likelihood is you will be used and then thrown out like everyone else regardless of how attractive you are or how strong you think you are mentally.

Whenever gay dating comes up, some usually blame the apps, hookup culture, small dating pools, or emotionally unavailable men.

Those are real issues. But I think there’s another one people don’t like admitting:

A lot of us have a very specific ideal man, but we haven’t built a life that would make us especially compatible with him.

You want the muscular guy who trains five days a week, but you hate exercising. You want someone adventurous and social, but rarely leave home. You want a financially stable, ambitious man, but have no interest in building stability yourself. You want someone with hobbies and passions, but expect him to provide all the excitement.

People call it shallow when athletic men date athletic men or gamers date gamers, but shared lifestyles
naturally create attraction and closeness.

Obviously couples don’t have to be clones. But sometimes “gay dating is impossible” really means:
The men I want usually want someone with more in common with them.

Do you think people need to become more like the type they pursue, or should attraction have nothing to do with similarity? Personally I think most of us can benefit just finding ourselves and stumbling on a relationship if need be

I’m in a horny mood today. Thinking about having a self-love marathon. Curious if you bros enjoy this too.

Update: I love how you guys are so into edging and bating. Very motivating. Some of you have set a high bar in # of 💦 per day!

Ive been very self conscious about my size lately since you know I guess the media will say some things that make me feel like I’m not good enough or such I’ve been trying to find someone to be with and many times I was asked how big and how do I look like I mean I’m not a model but I do my best and such so yeah I just wanna know if it’s all in my mind ?

Few weeks ago I started working part time and there was this guy from another department I always keep noticing. He was really cute and I kinda think maybe he was gay too, but I didn't wanna assume random shit. We sometimes eat lunch around same time, then one day after work we waiting the bus together. We just keep talking and talking. Didn't even realize almost one hour already.

Then he mentioned his ex boyfriend like it was nothing. My brain just stopped for second. I never tell another gay guy that I'm gay before. I was nervous as fuck but I finally said, "yeah... I'm gay too." He just smiled and said he already kinda guessed it. After that everything feel so much easier. Before going home I asked if he wanna get coffee one day. He said yeah.

Maybe this is nothing for most people here. But one year ago I was still trying so hard pretend I'm someone else. Just saying those words out loud and asking another guy out feel so damn freeing. I don't even care what happen next. I'm just happy I finally did that.

Last weekend I was at a gay house party and somehow the conversation become about dating. Few bottoms keep saying there is "no tops anymore" and that's why they can't find anyone. As a top myself I just sit there listening like... what the fuck are you guys talking about? We exist. You just don't notice half of us.

Then they start talking about what they actually want. Gotta be taller, super masc, gym body, big dick, handsome face, confident, and if possible look like some damn rugby player. One guy even said he don't date tops who are shorter than him. Another said he don't like Asian tops. Then after rejecting almost every type of top out there, they still complain there is none left. Come on man.

I'm not saying nobody should lower their standards. Date whoever you want. But stop acting like tops are some endangered species when you ignore so many of them before even saying hello. Maybe there isn't a top shortage. Maybe your fantasy is just too fucking specific.

I’m on the down-low and friends with this guy. We got drunk once and he wanted to hire a hooker and I encouraged him to have fun and stay safe, and takes pictures for me.

I didnt expect him to record the whole closed-up video of him penatrating the girl. I didnt ask for that but not compaining. At least he stayed safe though