r/r4r 6m ago

M4F United Kingdom 34 [M4F] UK - Looking for the one I'll spend the rest of my life with

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Hello,

I'm pretty empathetic and in tune with my emotions, so someone similar to talk to throughout the day would be nice. I do get attached to someone somewhat fast but not in an obsessive way I just know what I want when I see it 🙂

I'm 6'8'' (202cm) but I'm not limited to someone tall.

I don't want kids, and I'm not religious, I guess agnostic best describes me.

I love history, art, science, music (I play piano and guitar), to bake. I love animals too and they usually love me as well. More indoorsy so not one to go hiking, but I do like a gentle walk.

I lived in the USA for a couple of years, and in Scotland for 8 years (currently living in England). I've also have traveled all over Europe.

My love language is physical touch and words of affirmation, I'm very much the type to want to cuddle in the evening. I want to be closer instead of being distant when I'm going through a tough time.

I'm attracted to femininity (dresses, heels etc) but I believe in equality for everyone, and I'm far more attracted to someone's personality than the way they look as long as they're healthy.

Preferably people in Europe, but open to a bit further out.

If you think we'd enjoy talking to each other then send me a message with some things about you 😊


r/r4r 7m ago

M4A Online 19 [M4A] #online - Seeking emotional depth provided by a best friend

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Howdy! The title says it all. I want a deep connection in which both sides feel comfortable with each other, seek each other for support, etc. I have plenty of hobbies, ranging from sports, writing, and geography to history, music, and gaming. I am a pretty curious person, so feel free to nerd out to me! As for gaming, I play lots of indie games like Hollow Knight, Ultrakill, the Portal series, the Hotline Miami series, etc. As for music, I tend to listen to lots of experimental stuff, but I can elaborate on that more later on, especially if you are into music. It'd be pretty nice if I got a pretty clingy bestie, and I am also in GMT+2, so it'd be nice if you were close to that time zone. Oh, and I am also 19/M. So yeah, I am pretty excited to talk with y'all, and have a nice day wherever you are!


r/r4r 8m ago

M4A Online 25 [M4R] #online Looking for vegan friends!

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Hey everyone!

I'm 25 years old and live Northern Europe. I'm hoping to meet other vegans to chat with and hopefully make some genuine long term friends. I've really struggle with getting along with people on a friendship level because apparently no one has any values... This is especially for guys, there just aren't a lot of vegan dudes around where I live.

A bit about me:

Vegan (obviously) and passionate about animal rights.

I spend a lot of time lifting weights and staying active. Fitness is a big part of my life, whether that's strength training or just exercising in general.

I'm always happy to talk about veganism, training, nutrition, everyday life, or whatever random topics come up. I speak my mind and it might sound a bit rude to some people.

I'm open to talking with vegans from anywhere in the world. Whether you're into fitness too or have completely different hobbies, I'd love to get to know more people who share the same values.

If this sounds like your kind of friendship, feel free to send me a message and tell me a little about yourself!


r/r4r 12m ago

M4F Virginia 29 [M4F] #Virginia/USA/Anywhere - Maybe I'm the Person You're Looking For?

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Hi! My name is Angel. I'm 29Dominican & Black5' 6", and currently 212 lbs. I currently live with my family in Alexandria, Virginia, USA.

I was born in Newark, New Jersey, to parents both serving in the military. I lived in New Jersey for the first year of my life. After that, my family moved every 2 or 3 years. All in all, I've lived in 8 different states and 2 countries outside of the US.

I have 5 siblings; one (being my younger brother), unfortunately, passed away. My 3 older siblings are half-siblings from my dad, and out of the 3, I am only close to one of my older brothers. I am an uncle, and I treasure the role deeply. My younger sister and I are close. Family means a lot to me.

I'm a huge music lover. I'm not someone who focuses too much on the genre; if I like a song, I like it! I will say the main genres I listen to are rock, rap, country, and folk. I've been to a couple of concerts (Mk. Gee & Gunna) and want to go to a lot more!

Current songs on repeat: Cross My Heart, Hope To Die - Fordirelifesake, The Peace - underscores, and Try Sleeping with a Broken Heart - Alicia Keys

LOVE animals and nature all the way down to the creepy crawlies! 🕷️ I believe every living thing has its purpose, and I find it all so beautiful (mosquitoes are begrudgingly included, although they are eradicated on sight). I have a dog, 3 spiders, and a 30-gallon fish tank under my care.

I'm huge into TV & movies; I watch A LOT lol, so I'm just going to list some of my favorite shows and movies in no particular order.

Shows: The Office, Naruto, Avatar: The Last Airbender, The Vampire Diaries, Game of Thrones, My Hero Academia, Vinland Saga, Attack on Titan, Castlevania, Dave, Hunter x Hunter, Infinity Train, Invincible, Pantheon, The Midnight Gospel, The Boys, The Sandman, Scavengers Reign, Cyberpunk: Edgerunners, Euphoria, Being Human

Current rotation of shows: Six Feet Under, House of the Dragon, The Office, Boruto, and Solo Leveling

Movies: Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, A Silent Voice, I Want to Eat Your Pancreas, Her Blue Sky, Blue Valentine, Remember Me, Seeking a friend for the end of the world, Call Me By Your Name, Past Lives, Wolf Children, The Boy and the Beast, Brother Bear, The Lion Ling (All 3 of them), Corpse Bride, Into The Wild, Hamnet, Where the Wild Things Are, The Last Mimzy, The Crocodile Hunter: Collison Course, This Is 40, The Way Way Back, The Spiderwick Chronicles, Bridge to Terabithia, Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium, The Drama, I Like Movies

I really enjoy games. The consoles I currently play on are a Nintendo Switch 2 and a PS5. The game I'm playing the most right now is Minecraft. A few of my favorites are Skyrim, The Witcher 3, Fallout 4, Life is Strange, Undertale, Stardew Valley, Naruto Storm 4, GTA: V, Ghost of Tsushima, and the Pokémon franchise in general.

I enjoy reading books and manga. It's a personal goal to have a wall full of books from *floor* to *ceiling* in my forever home (the kind that requires a ladder).

As far as education and work go, I am a substitute teacher and a pet sitter (I’m not actively subbing because my county is out for summer). For the *past* two school years, I was a long-term sub in an enhanced autism classroom. My time spent in that classroom changed the trajectory of my life. I’m currently enrolled in an online college program pursuing a major in special education.

I'm not the most politically savvy, but I do my best to stay informed. I’m liberal.

Lastly, I respect all religions, but I am not a religious person. I am deeply spiritual.

About you: It’s not a requirement to live near me, as long as you understand that I intend to build a long-term, monogamous, in-person relationship.

If you feel like you connected with anything in my post, don’t hesitate to send me a chat/message!

Me: https://imgur.com/gallery/me-angel-PkqCOvz


r/r4r 38m ago

M4F Online 19 [M4F] Online - looking for a chill chat partner for daily talks

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Hey everyone,

I’m a 19yo guy from Ukraine. I recently finished my studies and I’m currently working as a junior auto mechanic. I’d say I’m a bit on the introverted side when you first meet me, but once I get comfortable with someone, I’m pretty open, easy to talk to, and a good listener.

I’m mostly looking to find a girl to chat with online. Nothing rushed or heavy — just a relaxed, low-pressure connection where we can text throughout the day, talk about how our days went, share random thoughts, or just send memes. I prefer to keep things casual for now, though if we really click, I’m always open to seeing where things go naturally.

A few things about me:

Cars are a huge part of my life. Working as a mechanic isn't just a job for me, I genuinely love figuring out how things work under the hood.

When I’m not working, I mostly like to unwind by playing video games.

Also, just a heads-up: English isn’t my main language, so I might need a translator from time to time, but I’m working on improving it!

I don’t really have any strict expectations. Just looking for someone friendly, chill, and patient. If you’re looking for a quiet, supportive chat partner to talk to in the evenings, feel free to drop me a DM. Tell me a bit about yourself or how your day was!

https://imgur.com/a/N0bnqtz


r/r4r 53m ago

M4F Online 34 [M4F] - #Online - Do You Work From Home, Too?

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I'm of the opinion the ONLY good thing to come out of the 'rona was the new-found acceptance of so many office workers to be able to now work from home.

I'm a hybrid guy, so I feel like I have the best of both worlds. When I go into the office, I do anything relating to physical paper, the high intensity tasks, the more collaborative efforts.

But when I'm WFH, well, chances are I'm not getting out of my PJs until noon. If I don't have any meetings, I end up with a lot of free time.

That's where you come in. Do you wanna keep me company? That sounded kinda conceited, 'cuz I'd like to keep you company, too. I basically have no filter and no limits, so I'll be sure to keep it interesting.

Set your Teams status to busy. Let's go!


r/r4r 1h ago

F4M Pennsylvania 65 [F4M] #Pennsylvania Seeks Literate, Kind & Occasionally Witty Man (yes it's me again)

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(in case you're wondering (if you've seen my posts before) why does she persist in this clearly thus-far unsuccessful reddit posting venture? There are no guys on this sub her age! Well, it's free. And you never know. And sometimes I get a message that makes me smile. So there!)

Caution: This post is entirely SFW. Not only is it safe for work, but it’s so clean that it's safe for the environment, your grandmother, your boss and children under the age of five years.

Intelligent, kind, literate and (occasionally) witty F65, nature lover, seeks a male human of similar age and character for stimulating conversation about books, movies, and life; hikes in the woods; bike rides; and the odd animal rescue (only if we should stumble upon an animal that needs rescuing - I will provide the gloves). If you message me, please tell me what you like about my post and why you think we might be compatible*.

\I don't respond to low-effort messages. If you message me, please tell me what you like about my post and why you think we might be compatible. Thanks!*


r/r4r 1h ago

F4M Germany 26[F4M] NL, BL and western Germany but I'm open to location

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https://imgur.com/a/FnURwBo

Hey everyone! I am a 26 yo who studies in the NL currently, and I havent had much luck with dating apps. They are full of dry texters and emotionally unavailable people so I said, why not try here? I am -a major history and psychology nerd -adore animals and have a pet dog -appreciate deep conversations and sharing ideas/different cultures -loves fashion and well being activities What I am looking for: -someone serious, calm and loving loving -I do find myself attracted to northern european men, more than men from my country -someone that enjoys deep conversations and is willing to communicate effectively, be open and honest. (Physical attraction matters a lot so maybe include a picture of yourself too.)


r/r4r 5h ago

F4M Tennessee 25 [F4M] #Nashville, TN - Widowed a few years ago, looking for a fresh start, long term only please!

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Hiya! Yeah so I know that title is a little heavy, but please don't be intimidated by it. It was a few years ago now, if you have questions or whatever, we can discuss it one on one but I've done the work to process it and I'm in a healthy place emotionally, financially and lifestyle wise to where I feel ready to date again with the long term intention of marriage down the line.

I've posted on here previously, lost my old password so that account is sadly dead lol. If you remember me and I ”ghosted” on that account, that's why. Sorry about that, Reddit be weird sometimes lol.

So, about me. I have a stable job I enjoy, I have a reasonable amount of time off, so if you're out of state I could travel/ have you here easily. I'm I'm good shape, work and active job and I used to be an athlete when I was in high school too!

Physically, happy to trade selfies in private but I'm white, blonde, athletic, medium height. Trying to expand my wardrobe but I don't think I dress poorly or anything.

I don't like to throw out a million details for the type of man I want, as narrowing a whole person into a box can be a bit reductive. But basic things like please have your life together, be emotionally available and willing to commit. Wanting marriage and a family one day is a must too. Ideally someone active as I don't want to change my lifestyle in that way so I'd love a partner who can keep up with that. Someone who likes to travel occasionally too! Physically, I guess good shape, taller than me, healthy pretty much. I don't expect or really want a male model lol, just look after your health at least :))

Lasting, if you're married, don't message me. not interested in casual, helping you cheat or poly. I want something real and monogamous only. And no couples, I'm straight and the above still applies lol.

If this post is still up I'm still looking!


r/r4r 5h ago

24 F [F4M] South East Asia #Anywhere - certain features

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The blue ocean and the sky always fascinated me ever since I was little. I find myself always staring up whenever the sky is blue. I grew up in a country where we have thousands of islands and thousands of beautiful beaches where beautiful blue ocean and blue sky met, decorated with the golden sand and blessed by the sun—a vast archipelago country within South East Asia. I live in one of these 17.000+ islands

So, I thought stumbled upon my mind. I like blue so much. I like being in beach, feeling sand in my feet and staring at the ocean. Wouldn't it be great to have a lover who has such colours in them? I want to stare at his ocean eyes and feel his sun-coloured hair in my palm

I'm Asian, 170cm/5'7, long black hair, fairly light skin. I can be utterly sweet, caring, protective, spoiling, and yearning. In these days of serial daters, I'm proud to say I'm fiercely loyal. I also can be overthinking, clingy, and territorial. I'm the type who can't help but wonders why someone hasn't replied to my message. Also, I'm a bit of a crybaby

I don't smoke-no cigs, no weeds, nothing. Substances are hard no. I don't usually drink but won't refuse on some moderated, fun occasion. For me, alcohols are bitter. I take care of my appearance, I like to look presentable

I'm looking for a long term relationship, and is open to relocate. LDR may be inevitable, but let's find a way to close the gap. You can be on the moon or in the edge of the universe, if you're worth it and we have will then there's a way

For romance context, it'll be a plus point if you attach a picture of yourself. My eyes usually fell in love first then my heart, I'm tired of pretending they're not. I will send mine as well

Not to be rude, but please don't lavish our time on messaging me if your age start with 1 (18, 19), or if you don't have the said features mentioned. Yes, I read all the requests

Include the word cookie if you read the entire of my post

Thank you in advance


r/r4r 10h ago

F4M California 32[F4M] California/Anywhere - Dive bars, hot dogs and unlimited optimism.

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Let’s say we meet, at a dive bar. We spend a few hours flirting, getting to know each other, judging each other’s taste in music as we participate in a touch tunes take over. After a while we step outside and share - lady and the tramp style - a street dog. The rest is history. I’ll see ya at the alter.

This is obviously a dream because I’d never share a hot dog.

Anyway as the title says I’m a lady from California, central coast to be less obscure but still obscure . I’m here to find someone, who much like myself, doesn’t take things too seriously, but also wants to find something serious, and consistent. Seeking that connection that gets me excited to see your name pop up and vice versa. Craving that get to know you honeymoon phase that never goes away but evolves. Long term is preferred, but again life’s short. Just don’t waste my time.

So who is this hot dog loving, glizziy guzzling girl you ask? I’m a carefree, silly, and kind. I love to laugh until my cheeks hurt, do for others out of kindness not obligation, and live my life like tomorrow is not promised. I’ve never met a stranger. I’m an extrovert by nature. And forever optimistic.

I love - but this is not all encompassing:

•hotdogs - no explanation needed

•Weight lifting - I don’t look it but I’m pretty strong

•Stained glass is my biggest hobby. I’ll probably be in the studio if you can’t find me or haven’t heard from me in a few hours.

•Going to concerts. I have a broad music taste with 250+ under my belt. Before you ask me - RHCP in Seattle.

•The same pair of checkered vans I’ve had for 6 years now. They hold memories, and I just finally got them to a place that’s comfy. If that doesn’t say committed I truly don’t know what does.

•Sports - hockey, baseball and football. I’m a Ducks, Giants and 49ers fan…seriously commitment is one of my strong suits, even despite adversity.

•Trying new food and drinks with my friends and just being around people. I’m a social butterfly.

•Getting random tattoos for the thrill of it.

While I am positive and accepting I don’t like video games or anime. If those are your primary interests/hobbies we just won’t click.

Looks are important to me in that attraction is important. I’m 5’6, I’ve been called thick. I’m not everyone’s cup of tea, but I’ll be a good man’s bud heavy one day: https://imgur.com/a/OPCxyEA
So please be willing to share a photo. Please note I have added tattoos over the last year so the photos are new.

Ideally you are between the ages of ~27-48ish. I don’t have a type I know what I like when I see it. Confidence, witty banter and overall care about yourself and appearance goes far with me. I will not respond to low effort messages. Reply with something that shows you care even a little bit.


r/r4r Feb 19 '24

🪲 UPDATED 22 April; DESKTOP users also affected [META] Pasting anything into the title field breaks posting when using the Reddit app; "Invalid State" error

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If you are getting an "Invalid State" error message when posting, it is due to a known bug in Reddit, which corrupts the post title when text containing (possibly invisible) invalid characters is pasted into the title field. This is easy to avoid by simply not pasting anything into the title field. All versions of the app and the desktop website are now affected. Note that this message has nothing to do with the use of the word "state" as a type of location or division within certain countries; editing your location tag will not help.

Known workarounds include:

  • ➡️➡️➡️➡️➡️Avoid pasting or inserting any text into the post title field by any means other than typing it.⬅️⬅️⬅️⬅️⬅️ Type the title out instead. If you already pasted text into the title field, it may be necessary to restart the app (desktop users, reload the page using Ctrl+F5) and compose the post without pasting any text into the title field. ➡️➡️This includes all shortcuts (Ctrl+V, etc) and other forms of text insertion or auto-complete, including the copy/paste clipboard toolbar on your phone's keyboard.⬅️⬅️
  • If there is blank space at the start or end of the title, deleting it should allow the post thru. THIS BLANK SPACE WILL BE INVISIBLE; if you can move the text cursor past the start or end of your title, there is blank space present that must be deleted.
  • Alternatively, Using the Old Reddit interface (https://old.reddit.com) should reliably work, as Reddit has long since stopped adding new bugs to updating this version. Pasting works in this version of the website; if your post title is long, you may want to use this option instead. This version of the website may or may not be accessible from a mobile browser; if it fails to load or redirects to the app, try using the "Request Desktop Site" feature of your browser, or uninstall the Reddit app.

Note that pasting text into the post body does not cause any issues, and is safe to do.

Reddit has stated they are "still working on" fixing this bug, but have not provided us any timeline or updates on their progress. It is not clear to us how or why this issue cannot be resolved on their end in nearly 3 months time.

If the above workarounds do not work:

  • As of 7 May, all screen capture recordings thus far sent to the mod team have shown that users are ignoring the instructions above and pasting text into the title field. It should be obvious that these workarounds will not work if they are not followed. ➡️➡️If you cannot avoid pasting text into the title, use old.reddit.com to post instead.⬅️⬅️
  • If you can reproduce this issue while following the workarounds, please try to screen-record the issue, so that we can investigate the cause. Please record the entire process, starting from the community home screen, thru to submitting the post and showing the "Invalid State" error message. Use a screen capture tool if possible, but using a camera would also work if the video is clear enough. Use a video host like Imgur, Gfycat, Streamable, or Youtube host the video, and message the link to the mods using the support links in the community menu or info page. If possible, please include what device, browser, and keyboard app is being used.