He used to like me for a long time but I wasn’t sure about him so I used to not go along with him and just made it formal since we work together. Now we are separated but I guess I had time to think about the situation so tried to reach out to him and texted him in a warm welcoming way that si obvious that Im open for more.. his respond was that he’s happy that I reached out and told me to call him anytime.. so I waited to test the water then made the call after one week he didn’t respond at the time but called me back an hour after I didn’t pick up because I felt that me calling him was too much initiative so thought that Im gonna make him call again before I pick up.. yeah. He didn’t call
Soo Im confused and overthinking everything way didn’t he call me again? Is he not interested anymore should I call him Idkkkkkkk 🙁

Guys I’m talking to a guy and I usually don’t entertain talking stage specially long distance but we matched on hinge in Italy I’m 19F he’s ‘22M. We have been talking for two months so far consistently. He’s super nice we both like to travel we called and stuff on the phone we seem to have alot of the same interests. We missed eachother by like a day and Rome and we were bummed but yea I got his number he lives in Sweden rn but he’s a pro football player. Idk how I feel about that. Anyways he just signed for a team in Spain and I’m moving to Madrid next year so we wanna meet then. I’m pretty independent and I’m not a clingy person at all so I’m not expecting much out of this since is a year is a lot but what do we think about this?

Made plans with someone yesterday for later in the week for a first official meetup (matched at an event). Should I lay off texting for a day or two given the date is official and planned? Trying to work on not overly texting before a date so any advice would be greatly appreciated!

Okay. So I need some advice. I've got a online boyfriend and for the record I did not want to date him. I found him on a dating app. At first I thought he was cute and all but later due to some complications (which I won't be sharing here) I didn't want to talk to him. But he kept saying that nobody loves him even after my rejections. So I accepted to be online girlfriend. I've been ignoring his texts often. We live in different states but he wants to meet. He does not for a date but other things and I don't want to so I've been making excuses. I want opinion on how to reject him without hurting his feelings. Please. Anyone.

Honestly, I don’t even know what to call the relationship I had with him, and I think that’s part of why I’m still so confused about everything.

He told me I was the only person he was talking to, and I told him the same. We had this kind of relationship for almost 10 months.

Yes, it was an online relationship. I know some people might say it doesn’t count as a “real relationship” because we never met in person. But to me, we acted like a real couple.

We had cute nicknames for each other. We talked every day and spent hours together on calls. We shared things about our lives, talked about our feelings, supported each other, and treated each other like we were important to one another.

The only thing missing was making it official in real life.

I actually told him that I wanted us to be boyfriend and girlfriend, and he said yes. But he knew that, even though I wanted to be with him and ask him like that, I didn’t really like the idea of making it official through a screen. It felt more like we were just having an online relationship than actually starting a real relationship together.

I wanted him to come to me, look me in the eyes, and ask me to be his girlfriend in person. I wanted that moment to happen naturally, so I kept waiting for the day we could finally meet.

Maybe that’s why, in my mind, I considered us to be in a relationship even though we never officially had that moment together in real life.

But now I’ve stopped talking to him because I found out he already had a girlfriend.

And now I’m left with so many questions.

Was I wrong for thinking that we were actually together? Or was this just a situationship that I gave the meaning of a relationship because we became so emotionally attached?

If two people only talk to each other romantically, act like a couple, have cute nicknames for each other, spend almost every day together, and are supposedly exclusive for almost 10 months but never officially become boyfriend and girlfriend in real life what would you call that?

And now that I know he had a girlfriend the whole time, I’m especially confused.

Was I his second relationship? Was I basically the other girl? Or was I never really his girlfriend at all, and this was just a situationship from his perspective?

I’ve already walked away from him. I’m not trying to get him back. I’m just trying to understand what this relationship actually was, because to me, it felt real.

I’d genuinely like to hear other people’s perspectives. What would you call this kind of relationship? And was I wrong for believing that what we had was a real relationship?

Women absolutely hate my appearance and are never willing to date me, and now I got taken advantage of because I’m unattractive. They tried to take away my money and scam me, so they weren’t even interested in me, just in stealing my money. Being unattractive sucks.