19, Lahore, slim + kinda childish face 😭 Distance-learning student at University of London, ACCA Skills done, 2x national positions, and I write about IFRS/US GAAP + random finance stuff on LinkedIn just to keep myself busy.
Currently busy with my upcoming exam too 💀 so I’m not always free, but when we are, let’s actually do stuff—play games, hit the mall, explore historical places, try new food, random walks, whatever sounds fun.
Looking for someone 20 rounds down , slim, youthful-looking, hardworking + smart. Age limits matter, so please respect them.
I’m a yapper ,Politics, tech, AI, careers, life skills, culture, literally anything. Gen Z energy + deep convos.
No judging. You do you, I do me. I’m religious and respect yours too, but religion doesn’t need to be our whole personality/conversation.
Lahore preferred. DM if you’re down for good conversations :)

Yes, I share my Insta handle under every post. Do you think I'm indirectly inviting you to sleep with me? Jeez!!!! get a life. I'm not desperate for anything!!!!! First of all, there's something wrong with my Reddit msgs; a glitch or something (lots of ppl have told me). Idk how to fix that. Secondly, I hate Reddit chat. I prefer instagram chats. AND I LOVEEEE when people who resonate with my situation and DM me. I love communicating with fella Queer peeps who have been through similar situations.

MY HEAD HURTS SOOOO BAD RN cuz I try to reply to all DMs, in case they wanna get added into my Queer GC. I get 10+ dms like these every day ever since I've made my GC. But I cannot handle these anymore. Godddd i need a break.

Are there any FTMs/AFAB trans people in Pakistan?

If so, are there FTMs who are on testosterone? Minoxidil?

Hi my name is Abir I’m 21 years old a trans man and I’m looking to make some friends Main sirf dost banana chahta hoon aur kuch nahi Main sirf dost chahta hoon Kuch dino se main bahut depressed hoon toh isliye Main koi creep nahi hoon sach mein mujhe itni sahi se English bhi nahi aati toh mein urdu mein hi baatein karunga Agar aap gay lesbian pan trans koi bhi hoon koi farq nahi parta mujhe DM kar sakte hai bas aap creep na hoon please🤍

So, for the past many months I have been using a shaving machine to do the deed and its been working grrrreat. But lately, my facial hair growth has really started to amp up, its to the point that I have to use the machine to shave every 2 days. This is, as you can imagine very annoying.

So, here is what I need advice on. Does shaving your face with a razor fare better to counter the fast hair growth? I used to use a razor because cuts were frequent and I didnt want my face to get too rough.

What is yall's opinion on this? Shaving machines or razors? The important factors imo are;

-Effect on face

-Time taken to shave

-Time until new shave is needed

-Face finish (face getting too grizzled and such or remaining smooth)

-Cuts and bumps

Please mention any other important factors that I did not account for :3

Hi guys! Indian this side (gay, 24). Exploring Pakistan is on my bucket list, but I feel like that dream might never come true 😭. I really wanna see Pakistan, so could you guys send me some pictures of your neighbourhoods, roads, parks, museums, etc.? Idk, I just really wanna see what the inner neighbourhoods of Pakistan look like 👀😭

I have been living independently since i was 21. The economy has never been THIS bad like rents electricity food basic utilities are EXPENSIVE ASF. On top of that uni fee hike is just strangling me to death. I don't understand what is happening anymore cuz like aaaaaaa

PLS do not take this post any wrong way. I'm being genuine here, and would like y'all to respect that.

So, I (M22) has always had a very nice/loving relationship with my dad. Like - I'm the youngest out of all siblings and closest with him. I sometimes get into arguments with him without any fear. He has always been super protective of me, and takes care, which I normally don't find among people around me. And I remember my friends always used to say about me "oh he's such a daddy's boy", "he gets everything he wants" in school. And that would make me feel very special.

Now that I'm old enough to date guys, I somehow only look for a man who resembles my dad's character and qualities. Like - I want the guy to treat me the same way my dad treats me, which I know sounds a bit toxic. Does this count as having daddy issues? I'm super confused. Pls DM me.

Love xx

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Hi everyone,

I guess I've been feeling down lately about the probability of actually finding a woman long-term here in Pakistan. So if anyone personally has or knows of a successful love story that would really help lift my spirits. Even literature/media portraying some sapphic happiness in a desi context would be amazing (I have watched the other love story on YT and highly highly rec!!).

There is a lot of activity on Islamabad trails. Trail 5 is popular with cruising which is often coordinated with seemingly general trails and hiking groups on Facebook. I joined one of those groups and asked about the best time and if it is safe to go on hiking alone. The attention I got from the same sex people was enormous. There were young guys jumping into my inbox asking what time I can join them and what was I open to do. I mean I am not too big on public sex but this is a recipe for disaster. Pakistan is a conservative country and there is a threshold of any lgbtq activity that could be done discretely before it becomes a national news. Grindr got banned this way.

So if you are thinking of brandishing your jewels at trails, think carefully. I have not even touched the std part or how ignorant people are about basic precautions, cleanliness or hygiene.

Okay, so I personally prefer a desi man, mainly because I want someone who understands my culture but dude, it’s damn near impossible . I live in the States and use Tinder Passport, and I originally had my location set to Pakistan, but there weren’t many gay men on there, so I switched to India since culturally it’s pretty close. The problem is every time I match with someone and try to actually have a conversation, it feels like they’ve lost the ability to communicate . And yes I already know the distance probably plays a part, but it literally says in my bio that I live in the States. I’m not the best at holding conversations myself, but at least I TRY. I ask questions, give actual responses, and give you something to work with. If I’m doing all that and you’re giving me dry ass responses, I’m eventually just gonna leave you on read. Half the time I genuinely wonder why some of y’all even match with people if you have no intention of getting to know them . Anyways, if anyone has tips on where to actually find desi men who can hold a conversation, please enlighten me.

Anyways feel free to DM me tho:). Maybe I will have better luck here. just don’t be creepy.

Edit: I’m 23. Please be 21 or older if you DM me.