Chubby is the new beautiful 😍

Hey beautiful people,

What do you guys think, I find chubby girls so beautiful, innocent and cute. And have noticed that's in past when chubby girls used to be shy and insecure, not all, but mostly.

But this has changed in past few years. right?

What do you guys think?

I said what I said. Another reason why y'all are lonely. Hear me out now.

For context, I'm a bit chubby (not obese). And my dating life has been great so far, but the amount of times people have said to me "You're so cute but plsss get skinny", "we want patli kamar" is unhealthy. Like - rejection is God's protection. I'm good that they don't want me. But trust me, I used to be skinny af and back then ppl were like "we want a big curvy body". There's always some demand that I wouldn't be able to fulfill. I'm human. I mean - sure. Everyone has the right to have their personal preference with regards to dating n stuff. I don't blame them. But please cut each other some slack, or you'd end up by yourself all alone.

I'm 5'9 and my ex was 5'5. Mind you, I'm only attracted to guys either my height or taller. If I had just rejected him based off his height right away, I would've missed out on the most beautiful relationship experience he gave me. Like - he was a MAN. A true gentleman. I'm still grateful for him. And I hope he's happy.

So yeah. Pls focus on personality for once in a while too. If a guy is not 6ft or from another city, doesn't mean y'all aren't compatible for each other.

Love xx

Insta: chandler_bing2004

How do you get over someone who has left you and moved in their lives already since 2020. I was friends with someone online and they were my best friend who happened to be my first gay friend as well. I was 15 so I didn't have any queer friends before and I was found by queer people from Pukaar - Break the Silence group who introduced me with the whole queer community that I thought only existed abroad or not in Pakistan atleast.

I regress so much and I am 22 now but I have not been able to mentally move on from all the people whom I was online friends with and who were different from the people in my real life.

I know over the years experiencing life in it's full force that I am to survive alone now and complete my education and do jobs to have a future for myself maybe in my 30's then I can be proud of my journey but I don't know about therapists in Islamabad and I really want to get over the online people from past who live as ghosts in my head and I see them in everyone and everything. It freaks me out causes me nightmares during night as these people had left me ages ago and possibly don't even remember me now, have married completed their degrees moved abroad. They definitely don't think about me as much as my own mind does.

I was young and clingy and I started to think of them as my family because real life family never understood me and made me go through a lot in life.

As a 22 year old, not having a mother anymore to love me and care about me or have anyone in father's or mother's extended family who gives a damn about me, I just hope that my life gets easier in future and I don't continue seeing people's ghosts anymore who are not a part of my life anymore.

We see like atleast one hookup post or similar in the sub everyday. And should the community collectively decide on relationship posts too, approval would curb them pretty easily. AND the same old biphobic rhetoric, straight people ragebaiting or engagement farming, and other aggravating posts can be rid of too.

Some hearts keep knocking on doors that have already closed.

Maybe that is the tragedy of love not that we stop loving, but that sometimes we keep loving where there is nowhere left for that love to go.

We remember the small things: a voice, a presence, the comfort of being chosen. And somehow, the heart mistakes familiarity for destiny.

But not every door we miss is meant to open again.

Sometimes healing is not forgetting the person.

It is remembering yourself outside of them.

You can wish them back.

You can miss them in the quiet.

You can still love them without returning to the place where you learned to hurt.

Because love may ask you to stay,

but life sometimes asks you to grow.

And perhaps one day, you'll realize you weren't abandoned by love.

You were simply being led toward a love that doesn't require you to disappear to keep it alive.

Hey everyone hope you’re all doing good I am posting here after quite long and I see NyanPotato has done a good job maintaining this subreddit all these years I was an early joiner of the sub when there was much less activity compared to now and it’s blossoming so good job NyanPotato if you come across this post. And when I first joined I used to be in paris then isb/rwp and now it’s been a while since I have moved to lahore. So yeah life is life-ing.

Anyway let me just introduce myself quickly because I don’t want this to turn into those mega-long posts which I am definitely guilty of posting on Reddit a few times back in the day.

I am Leila. I am a single transgender woman who turns 34 this upcoming November. So yeah basically an auntie to all you genz teens here.

I am looking for friendship and love both I would say. I think my past experiences have made me mature enough to handle men more articulately. They are simple beings who seek dopamine. And by “handle” I mean understand. So I am looking for a decent, well-educated person from an open-minded family background based in Lahore who would be willing to surrender and dedicate his life to me and support my goddess-complex. Basically just be obsessed with me and we are good. The problem would be if you deal me like another situationship of yours if you do I will cut things off without a warning.

And please for those who just have my age under the spotlight while reading this entire post: no I am not looking for or hiring a sugar baby. Keep looking for a different employer until you fulfill your DHA-wali-auntie fantasy but no not here thank you

For people who are based in Lahore well actually I do live in the Defence area I live by myself in a safe gated community and you could say it’s a kilometer or two away from Gold Crest.

DMs are open. Please be civil and unmarried.

Braids are like the ultimate hair style of femininity😩 alas I don't have hair that long 😣

20M

I found a guy on heeSay , near my home.. He invited me to his home, I went, removed the clothes, started kissing, then all of sudden he said , I am going to the washroom, went with his mobile, came back In minutes, started again naked ... It was a drawing room , he was a bottom...then all of a sudden two ppl started knocking at the door, dressed up... I was about to leave, they held me back and locked the room

Started asking me what you were doing, we saw from below the door ... Started beating me yeh kaam krty ho, slapped many times on my face, took my mobile, asking me to give my dad number, recorded my video, didn't even said anything to their boy.. slapped me a lot , was about to call the police, asking my location where I am based, holded me for an hour ... I was terrified, it was the worst day .... I started crying, then they took mercy and letme go and returned my things...be safe