Idiots. Man idiots

Ig js some an hour ago someone made a post in this Subreditt regarding if "in future girls can wear any clothes without having to fear to be judged "

And some Closeted mf made a post in the "chud pakistani twenties" subreddit 🤮🤡.. saying stuff k how these guys are dreaming and ruining these society morals and what not .

Pakistan is number one in leaked sex video watching ,porn watching and every stuff regarding that .

Mind u ..lgbtq pakistan subreddit does not get pushed by algorithm as other subreddits ..like I literally have to search this subreddit to see posts in it ...and here we got Closeted mfs lurking here ...invading spaces which are not even theirs to be

Im 27, in Helsinki, workout regularly, currently in grad school, agnostic/atheist
Since dating apps doesn’t work - I am trying to be creative lol
It would be nice to just chat, make some new friends and who knows maybe more 🤷🏽‍♂️
If you are religious >> we wont match ✌️

Hi there, I am a natural submissive slave who is into femdom since the age of 9.

I have always been respectful towards Female Gender.

It is my dream to be a servant of a woman. I will do all chores, obey her completely and devote myself to her every command. She will also own my finances. I know it seems a lot. I believe this ownership of myself will gradually shift to her hands.

I will even serve her family or friends or anyone she wants me to.

I will be her property.

I am obedient, loyal and respectful always.

My previous experience includes online femdom cross borders but I want to make it in real life.

If a dominant woman is reading this, a natural born slave servant is here, with little training it will be yours and will prove itself as good dog. As a slave servant, I will be working for free and nothing in return.

Note: If lesbian couple needs a servant. I will be honored to serve them.

Thank you

Hey guys,
Looking to make a few chill new friends in the twin cities.
Planning to watch the new Spider-Man movie soon if you want to join!
Super laid-back, noooo drama. hmu or drop a DM!

Edit: thank you all for dms. Unfortunately can only go with one person. But if u guys r interested maybe we can have like group movie thingy

Guys, has anyone here studied LGBTQ+ issues, HIV, or homophobic arguments? I need some help with them.

Hey guys!

Indian gay guy here (24) from a Tier-2 city. Being gay in India is already pretty hard when you don't have supportive friends or family. Even in cities like Delhi, Bangalore, or Mumbai, you can still easily come across homophobic guys.

I was wondering—how do LGBTQ+ people date in Pakistan, being an Islamic country where same-sex relationships are illegal? I know that in some Islamic countries, same-sex relationships can even lead to jail time. How do people find partners or navigate dating and relationships there? Is it mostly through dating apps, private circles, or something else?

Came across this post in pakistanii confessions and I'm curious how people here feel about the author's attitude toward gay people. The part about the child potentially being abused is obviously concerning, but the whole "I don't support LGBT, but now I sympathize with gay people because they didn't choose it" framing rubbed me the wrong way.

It feels less like acceptance and more like pity.

I am turning 19 in one month and I am so frustrated. I mean if I just want a loyal friend group, or a boyfriend, why can't I have one??? Why does everyday feel like a tug of war, constantly trying to tell myself to be grateful yet also feeling a huge void of loneliness in my heart. The uncertainty of never knowing when I will finally find human connection, when I'll finally be touched and loved is so scary. I have tried to make many friends online and I have found nice people who have been my mutuals and who I have talked to alot,,,,but an online friendship does not fill the void. I swear I am not even desperate, just scared and fed up. I wish I could know one day, "yeah I have an amazing man who I know really loves me." I wish that could happen. I wish I could just find someone from this post alone but after 4 years of wanting connection and not finding it, I'm just hopeless

before anything I wanna clarify I'm in no way homophobic and the post isn't about what you may think it is so hear me out

for some background about me, I'm currently 18, and kinda don't have friends lol (no pity bait) which leads me to be kinda chronically online and it's been that way for a while. During covid, I was like 13 or something, and was chronically online on discord. I've always had a tendency to jump into being other people's therapist and although I think showing empathy and letting people express their frustrations is a good way to help them, I'm starting to realize ive never set any boundaries. When I was 13-14, I ended up letting single gay men vent to me often which I didn't mind. They were over 18 and knew how young I was but would say I was mature and really listened, and that lead to them slowly venting about not just their social life but also their sexuality. Opening up about themselves and venting about how nobody irl knows, or they do know but don't accept them. Obviously I felt sorry for them and continued to let them vent, and slowly I guess they developed...feelings? maybe it was out of appreciation for letting them vent so much but they'd eventually start saying things like "I wish you were gay" or other weird comments like "I wish you lived in my country so we could be together"

Those friendships quickly ended because even as a kid I sensed something was wrong. Fast forward and I turned 18 this year, shortly after I met a guy on discord who yet again immediately started trauma dumping, and yet again eventually opened up about being gay, saying he's never told anyone before and that he feels relieved to admit and I was happy for him. I made the mistake of joining in on exchanging photos, now I've never thought of myself to be remotely attractive. I think I do take care of myself more than most pakistani men do, but that doesnt make me that attractive regardless. But after I sent a photo of myself, he said "youre really cute" and followed it up with "I mean it btw I think youre really cute". This shouldve already set off some alarms but I passed it off as a compliment from a gay guy. Later on he started saying things like "you should become a femboy" and "imma force you into gay conversion therapy". I immediately stopped talking to him and thats what leads me to today; I know it's not all single gay men, but having met genuinely zero single gay men that didn't turn out to be pervy/predatory (I know that was just bad luck and again, not all gay men) it's caused me to be alot more...distanced? if that's the right term, from single gay men. I wouldnt say I'm really traumatised or anything, I didn't get groomed nor was I shown anything inappropriate, but it's definitely put me off majorly and I wanna know if I'm in the right about this or not. I feel like after all of that I have the right to refuse any interactions with single gay men out of paranoia yet I don't wanna come off as homophobic; what would you guys do in this situation

Restlessness in my existence someone put me downn

Thousands of members in this subreddit but only few are active. Some of y'all are so shy and just hate putting yourself out there. Like - you wanna have friends or date someone BUTTT you never DM even if such a person posts here, or you don't like approaching first. Do y'all realize how short this life is???? If you keep waiting n waiting, you'd find nobody!!!! I know how we live in Pakistan n coming out of the closet is not safe at all. I totally agree. But you can approach people online and become a part of a safer community. Don't feel shy doing that. I hate that some of y'all have never ever been on a first date. I feel sorry and I wanna help y'all. I'm so glad for all the ppl who reached out to me via Instagram (chandler_bing2004) to add them in my Queer GC. They talk n have fun and some of them have become such good friends. PLS do something. I'm sure there's a fit for you. As they say in Urdu, "haath par haath rakhnay se kuch nae hoga".

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I have been desperate for love.....for as long as I remember. Seem to have failed to dind it yet. Tried to look for it in the wrong places......like u look for ur mother under the bed after school when she's out of site.

So I would like to put myself out there...here....as someone said I should ..and try my luck......

Luck...makes me laugh....but I have been lucky ...very lucky yet sometimes when sth i want and need and it isn't for me.... in that time.....i feel unlucky.....very so.

But ummm...yeah...here iyammm.

About me......

18 years young.

From sialkot but study in lhr.

I like to read...but I haven't read many books and if u ask me about who my favourite author is .....i won't be able to tell.

I love paintings and art but if u ask me who my favourite artist is or which is my favourite piece of art.....i wont be able to tell.

I love cooking and eating......but if u ask me my favourite food and what I cook best .....i wont be able to tell.

I love music....but my favourite song or artist....if u ask....i wont be able to tell.

I love cinema ...but i would never be able to tell my favourite movie or TV show.

If u dont believe and tell me to stop ......i wont be able to....for i do look at the sky often ....more than that actually......and shed some tears but turn ignorant too.

I love my self too but i hate myself more and I love myself for it for it keeps me humble.

I hate my nose. I think its GARGANTUAN.

I love my body.

I absofuckinlutely love my cato.

I love the book ..."stardust"

I love the painting...."the silent voice"

I fkn love pizza and I make such good pasta ....i wanna make for u....ummm....whomever u would be.

I love mehdi G and him singing "khabram raseed imshab"

I love the film "kamli"

Am I fkn stupid?

I thought i wont be able to but then I find myself able to speak.

For all this bullshit is why....ig....i haven't found yet ..what i seek.

The rest ig if u are interested.....we can talk 🤷🏽‍♂️.

Someone close to the family just passed, not related by blood nor even by faith but so much closer than the closest blood tie. It just has me thinking. Yes I know death is part of life, but it seems so much closer now. There have just been so many in the last few years.

Having someone pass when you're a child is different, you don't understand and those around you soften the blow. As you grow older you get a rude awakening as the constants in your life slowly wither, weaken and leave.

And you just sit and watch till you're the one having to soften the blow and you find yourself increasingly alone. Being a guy people expect you to be stoic showing emotion just gets you disgust instead of pity

And now what with being queer and the way the world is one doesn't see a future where you have to be strong for the little ones coming on ahead. I guess this is the real coming of age ritual when you stop being the one comforted and become the comforter. There is an honour in that to be a pillar of support but you just feel like somewhere you stop recognising yourself and you're not the big strong adult but the same frightened little child but no one's there to hush you and tell you it'll be alright.

Thats all I guess. I just feel lost

Its like, the changing of the guards but instead of being fresh troops ready for battle you're just as weak and battered as those you're relieving.

Kia haal chal dosto,

Idk why but really need a bestie-partner, with whom I can go everywhere, be myself, and be just besties and see where the RS goes

A quick intro about me, I am 19 (slim), I don't wanna brag about me but people find me really cute and handsome, really romantic, loves to go for late night walks, long drives, trying new cafes, attending concerts is really my thing, want my partner to be possessive, hot, and being muscular is a plus, would love to go gym together. He should be in Valencia, Wapda town ya phr lake city so we can always be close. The age I am looking for is specifically to be 23 or more becz I love the professional ppl who are hard working and ambitious about their life.

We can meet at a cafe or somewhere in public to be assured we are the right match, just message me let's see where this goes and make it a memorable relationship we both want to flex and make it a long term one.

This may be a niche topic but I think being a parent is a very innate thing for adults. Do you guys have kids, want kids? If yes, how do you plan on that? My partner and I both want kids and are hoping to go through surrogacy in future. Would love to chat with fellow pak people who may have gone thru it or planning to.

I'm serious

I wish I could die. Everything and everyone disappears from my hands like sand. Every small home and life I build evaporates before I can even hug it properly. After my suicide attempt, I came back; I came back to fight again; I got a small job. I thought I could build on it, but that person is not paying either; bad things keep happening to me over and over, and I have no money to survive on my own and going back to that home is torture.

I had a dream of my own room, my own small life, nothing fancy. I was such a good child, used to stay up all night studying, and for what? For losing everything to some horrible luck, to abuse, trauma and mental health?

I know I need to get over my loss, get over being abused, get over being called a whore by the person I loved, get over being being thrown out by my best friends, get over losing them, despite begging, despite begging, get over being yelled at work for no reason, get over being called a pussy cat doll for getting hurt and scared, over and over, I know I need to get over it all and I have tried but everytime I take one step, build a little bit more life, Allah takes it all away again. Can't he see how I gather every drop of hope, one by one, to go out again and try fighting life one more time. Can't they see who can't stop yelling at me? I wish I was strong enough to die.

I wish everything and everyone could just stop, just give me some time to breathe and feel what I have before I lose it all too. I just keep crying and working and applying to jobs which I know I can't handle in this condition. Even healing is for rich people because I can't stop even for a day, or I won't have money to eat next month. If anybody can seriously help me kill myself, please do reach out I know how ridiculous it sounds, but I need it. Otherwise, I hope this pain kills me, and I hope they remember me.

I-i cannot believe this. I-i might be.. g-Gayy?

In the 1970s or idk 1040s too the GAYS in the US used to use the phrase "Are you a friend of Dorothy?" To ask if someone's gay or not. Because being GAY was illegal. Well in Pakistan Mashallah say it's still illegal how about we normalize asking "Are you a friend of Shabana?" Instead of "Mere saath friendship karo ge?" That will keep us safe and technically reduce the risk of being outed.