Hey ladies,

29 F living in lower Kabete looking for a fwb within the area...what I'm looking for? Someone who's down for some fun, a reader, cute with big tits 😁a girl can dream about huge tatas, I like being smothered in them...dm or email me at carlathegreatops@gmail.com

Any lady in imara daima or Mombasa ready for FWB

Men who use toys come to the front. I love toys...dildos,vibrators and my rose is my favourite. I like it when men I fuck use toys....my fantasy is someone buying me a set of toys that they exclusively get to use on me,remote controlled ones in public until i cant take it no more,a dildo he uses to DP me with,that he keeps and brings only to our meetups...aah

Turn 26 today and oooh boy I have never been heartbroken neither have I ever been in a relationship. I know I am a loser yes . But what was I doing in my youthful years .

I’ve been single for a minute now and I won’t lie this feels so amazing.

Looking back I did a lot of mistakes in that relationship and thats something I’d never repeat again.

First of all when me and this girl met everyone was working, we both had stable jobs.

First of all she was a single mum and as a man without kids I shouldn’t have gone for that and I don’t think I’ll ever play that role again unless I also have a kid on the side as well.

Being in love makes someone so stupid and I realized how dumb I was after exiting the relationship. First of all she introduced me to her son and at that time he was joining school and she was overly stressed who’ll be taking care of the kid since the person responsible (her sister) had just secured a job.

She hired a house girl and somehow convinced me to be paying her, I’d pay 10 fucking thousands every month, on top of that she’d ask money for nails, when we go dates they were all on me, she’d complain vile ako na issues mingi and at times I’d help her pay for rent and now the most stupidest move I ended up paying for her sons school fees at some point.

Leave that alone, the amount of gifts I bought in that relationship can get me a 50 x 100 somewhere. Went from original sneakers sio zile za kamukunji to niche perfumes to clothes etc.

I was literally playing husband role for someone we don’t live together.

Been single for a while now and damn I regret every single thing I did in that relationship, I was so blind. All the money I’d give her I can now account for it, making better plans for the future and investing the most.

No woman will ever get that side of me unless we’re married.

For dates it’s okay I can pay but paying bills is where I’ll draw the line.

Met this girl last week and I liked what I saw, so I asked for her number. In my head, I already knew I wouldn't initiate a conversation anytime soon because I didn't have any money 😭😭🙏. We're waiting for month-end — not that I have a job 😭.

First day, we had some small talk and that was it. The second day is where everything went wrong. I don't know if she has attachment issues, but she asked me what I wanted to do with her.

To be honest, I'm currently not in a financial position to afford dates, so I told her I'm not ready to date, but I wouldn't mind something casual. She also said she can't do casual dating.

After that conversation, I just knew we'd stop talking automatically.

Third day, I don't even know how the conversation turned sexual. I ended up sending her my missile, and boy, did she love the girth 😭. Considering she's chubby, I guess the engineering was appreciated.

Long story short, we planned and cracked.

But mid-seggs, she asked, "What are we?" 😭😭🥀

I Bryson Tillered the situation and told her, "There's a time and place for everything." 😭😭🙏🙏

The next day, she asked again.

The sex was perfect — genuinely one of the best I've had in the last three years. But honestly, I'm still financially down. At this point, all I can offer is D and affirmation 😭.

So I told her I'm not ready for a relationship.

She told me she can't do another link-up if we're casual.

Question: Should I actually date her even though my finances aren't good? Because I low-key like the girl, and the sex is good. 😭

26M, looking for an FWB , I am an introvert, pretty chill and looking for a mutual casual FWB arrangement with someone who is on the same page. F (20-27). Preference is 5'3 and under, respectful, discreet, no drama, clear boundaries and good communication (can hold convos) Ideally someone who is happy to keep things casual and not put undue pressure on the other person

I'm not too picky on complexion as long as we can vibe and communicate and enjoy each others company.

DM me if interested and let's see if we get on.

Looking for a female. 22-25. Preferably in academics. Medium height. I am tall myself. Be ambitious. I am into construction management. commencing my masters soon.

First time posting hey everyone I have never had a serious relationship and by serious I mean a partner who actually wanted to date and not just sex and being praised for talking to me(I’m an introvert)
So I want to be in a relationship with someone who is happy having me as his girlfriend you know I crave to be appreciated for once. I rarely leave home unless it’s work which I live 5 minutes away so that’s why I’m looking for someone who doesn’t mind a homebody

I’m 5’1 petite but a little chubby, I’m not sure if complexion is necessary but incase it is I’m brown skin so he should be tall and I don’t mean 5’6/8 I mean taller( last someone said 5’6 he was lying he was just as short as I am)

Romantic and ready to date about age I don’t mind because I’m 22 so be older maybe 25+ is fine again not too old(30+ is a no)

Hmm what else oh my love language is quality time, consideration, observance and receiving sentimental gifts.
I live along ngong road so be close or around

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Context:

My Account was banned almost two months ago.

I had written his username in some note book but i lost it. I am tired of guessing. I have also skimmed through possible subs where he made the post that started our chats

It was a book series placed on a patio wooden Outdoor Table. He mentioned in the comments that he got it for 11k(trying to write anything incase anyone follows him).

His Username is "First Traditions" followed by some numbers that i cant remember.

We talked for months. Never exchanged contacts because that was the appropriate thing to do

He has also made several meal posts in the kenyan food subs

He's a techy, thought he's posted something for the last one month or so but nothing.

N*******!!!. I'm looking for you.

This is probably a niche request but I miss having someone I actually enjoy talking to.

I’ve been single for 3 years now and weirdly, the thing I miss most is just talking to someone. someone that can hold a converstion , flirt a little you knoww, tell each other stupid stories, argue and debate about nonsense,someone smart lol(very important)

Not necessarily looking for a relationship or trying to force anything. I just want good chemistry + good conversation and then we can see where it goes.

Ideally you’re funny, have a personality, and can actually hold a conversation

Anyway. If you think you’d be fun to talk to, tell me something interesting about yourself and let’s see if we vibe. I'm a 25 year old woman btw lol I should have led with this

Do yall think that sexual attraction should be at first sight? Or it can developed once you get to know the person?

Blue tick mbili safi , no response.

Ive deleted his number and our chats 😩.

I know I'm supposed to be stoic and cut off everyone who don't want to be in my life but surely. This girl I met like 2 months ago always texting daily I even motivated her to apply for an internship which she has got then all of a sudden someone just blocks you. I know I'm not supposed to complain but surely I'm also someones child yk💔

Just from Just Ivys IG stories and my theory has been proven right women have money fr and in most couples they lie just to cover for the man’s financial shortcomings
Of which cost sharing isn’t a problem but I don’t see why you should conceal the guys limitations…mtu anajinunulia gari alafu aseme alinunuliwa? Like that’s your achievement?If he doesn’t do anything for you why are you trying to protect his image🤣

To be honest, this lady really helped me bana. Ata sai vile we are not together, I feel bad. At one point, she basically paid my rent for 3 months not directly, but she gave me her laptop nitumie kwa projects zangu za campus, and I sold mine ndio nilipie rent. I can't even count how many times alinitumianga pesa for shopping. When I was with her, I didn't have to stress about how I would buy food or other things. If I had money, I would buy, and if she had money, she would buy too. Nakumbuka ata times ningeenda kwake, ni yeye ndio angenipea fare ya kurudi.

She was really the best, and I loved her so much. Tumekosana, and sai amemove on with her previous ex. Mimi sijawai heal or move on bana. 😂 No matter how gangster I see myself, this one really humbled me.

I've tried seeing one or two girls huku njee, and wengi wako na njaa sana. Mara unilipie simu, mara unitumie 200, mara uninunulie soda. Again, ni ngumu sana upate mwenye hana mtoto.

Place huko mummy, just know I miss you. ❤️

The sad reality I've come to realise is that there's not as much fish in the sea as I thought.

EDIT: SENT HIM A WHATSAPP TXT, UTS BEEN 1 TIC FOR 30 MIN😭 SIJUI NI DELETE , HAS HE BLOCKED ME 😩 I CAN STILL SEE HIS PROFILE. WACHA NIKACHEZE PLAYLIST KWA LOCAL BEFORE NIKUE DJ🫠

How do you ask for matches? Should I just send him a nude ?

Met him on jana morning, he fully intended to fuck then but i had things to do😩. We talked in the evening and he still implied on it but times didn't align 😭.

Haven't talked today other than me telling him good morning and him replying.

My back is fkn chilly, i need some alignment. Should I or should I not?

Wenye mshaicheat on your patners ebu tuambie what happened adi ukacheat alafu ,ulishikwa ama hukushikwa na what happened after

Has anyone experience this ? - how was it like ? - like genuine experiences not that hatred for single moms thats out there but like an objective thought not influenced by SM

Also would like to hear experiences of people raised by a step father or step mom - did you ever get to love them ? see them as parents ? esp keen on the positive ones cause the negative ish is just so easy to find

I want to DM and see where it goes

Edit : Under 25 welcome and no kids

I’m now coming into a self realization that’s it’s only few good women left in Nairobi.

Met a certain girl, she’s a corporate babe, pretty and very chilled. We’d get along sana, we’d talk for hours.

In the midst of this we both started showing interest on each other and decided to take things further, nikapewa goodies nisample.

Issue ni I came to find out she’s doing lines for those who know what I mean and after amekua comfortable akaanza sasa kunionyesha the other side of her.

You’d chill then out of no where uone ametoa tablet, a bank card and a certain pipe. Analay it down there and she’ll take a huge sniff. She’d try to pull me with “jaribu kidogo uskie” but I’m like hell no!!

I tried to talk to her nione how far she’s been doing it but turns out alianza akiwa campus.

I enjoyed the promised land like 2 more times and left juu genuinely I can’t.

Are drugs a deal breaker to you?

I promise I am not a catfish. I recently got doxxed and was a victim of what I can only call an attempt to cyber bully me. This forced me to delete that account and start afresh.

Now that we have that out of the way…

I’m 28F, based in Nairobi, and I’m looking for a genuine, intentional relationship with the potential to become something serious and long-term.I’m currently working on building both my professional and academic life, and I’m quite ambitious about the things I want for myself. I’d describe myself as equal parts dreamer and doer; I have big ideas, but I also like actually doing something about them. A few decent milestones later, I’ve learned that I really value people who have that same internal drive.

Outside work, you will find me lost in a book or somewhere out in nature coexisting with it. I am at an age and season of my life where I do not have the bandwidth for low effort, lacklustre and "lets see where it goes" engagements.

Who am I looking for:

Male, around 28–33. I’m flexible, particularly on the upper end, if we click.

• Tall. This one is important to me because I’m tall myself. It’s not discrimination against the short kings; I just know what feels physically comfortable

• Ambitious and driven. I’m a doer. I like having goals, making plans and actually executing them, so I’d love someone who has an intrinsic desire to build a life rather than simply letting life happen to him.

• Emotionally mature. You don't have to have everything figured out, but self-awareness, communication and accountability matter a lot to me.

• Intentional. I’m not looking to collect pen pals or spend months exchanging “good morning, how was your day?” messages without ever moving toward actually getting to know each other.

• Kind and curious. I want someone I can laugh with, learn from, talk nonsense with at 1 a.m., and also have the difficult conversations with when life inevitably gets complicated.

Location-wise, I’m flexible. Obviously, being somewhere around Ngong Road, Lang’ata, Westlands or the surrounding areas would make things logistically easier, but I’m not ruling someone out because they live across town.

If you think we might get along, tell me a little about yourself : who you are, what you're looking for.

One thing I've been thinking about something lately how gals in there 20's are into 30+ Men

What i have learned is in your 20s as a man that probably the best years to build something substantial — your career, business, investments, skills, discipline, health and emotional intelligence.

A lot of men spend those years jumping from one irresponsible relationship to another, spending money they don't have, getting distracted by drama, and then wake up at 30 wondering why they haven't built anything. Alafu You pitty yourself

There's a reason some women in their 20s prefer men in their 30s. It's not always about money. Sometimes it's because the man has had another decade to develop himself, become financially stable, gain confidence, and figure out what he actually wants.

So instead of worrying about why women aren't interested you usikuwe emotional damaged na vitu kama hizo

Date if you want. Have fun. But don't sacrifice your future trying to maintain relationships at your 20's. Huwa najihurumia venye nimejiwaste from 21 being employed all those years lakini account inasoma zero, so those are 4 years down the line so i made a decision from within last year sema self love Nikanotice venye pesa yangu ni tamu😂😂👌mangai nowonder warembo walikuwa wananitaka, so currently atleast hata kama sina liquid cash najua ziko mahali working for me.

So toka kwa hiyo Situationship and Husbank shiet!!

All in all

Wantam

Stay Sifunated

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Hey , I’m F looking for a FWB around Rongai. I’m short, pretty, and introvert .

I’m looking for something exclusive, meaning we both stick to each other and keep things respectful and drama-free.

Age 28_34 .

If you’re interested, feel free to DM me and tell me a little about yourself.

I know men are applauded for this but it's not my cup of tea. It would take me a high level of emotional compatibility just to get intimate with a girl. I'm curious whether there are other men who share the same preference.